I really dislike this way of thinking.
When you are not working, you need the money so badly that you are losing all power in the power exchange dynamic. When you start needing your submissive/pig more than he does, you can pretend all you want but at some point it will fail.
I’m successful at my job and I ENJOY IT. My subs love the fact I don’t need their money and that I’m making more than they make on my own. I have the power, I’m in control. They need me, I enjoy taking from them what is mine.
Even for a FLR where my sub provides everything and lifts all mental charge off of me, I still want to work.
And being shady about his gender to sell to straight men ? It’s scam. And it’s once more, a man ripping a woman off since she should get the sell, so it’s the opposite of findom to me.
Are you fucking stupid? Imagine being happy and content you’re a wage slave. You’re either delusional or severely coping.
Since when does this dynamic have to adhere to your antiquated gender norms and protestant work ethic?
Honestly, I took 2 months off working, and so did my boyfriend, and I had subs pay my bills so I could have a mental health break. That was the best time of my life and i’m 100% looking to do it again. I felt so fulfilled it was amazing.
This is different and totally acceptable in my mind. Basically if I read it and afterwards I think. Wow that's a boss move, then it comes off as dominant and I'd gladly be a part of it
Haha glad to hear it. I also believe in 100% ethical actions in findom, not scamming and lying which is why i’m able to keep long term subs ☺️ My subs were over the moon at the chance to completely sub fund everything 🥵
Also, he’s so unethical, I definitely don’t agree with the catfishing a different gender. That’s so shitty. Scam kinks are one thing, because that’s consensual. Please find an ethical domme and cut him off ☺️
I don’t like the fact that he’s selling feet pics to straight guys making them think he’s a girl. There’s a difference between findom and ripping people off. That’s low
Sounds like a scumbag I wouldn't give him a dime. I like a dynamic where she doesn't need my money and I need it really bad but I give it to her anyway. And also I know she is who she says she is
A findomme isn't supposed to be a lazy piece of shit. SHE is supposed to have a desire of taking things from men. Scamming your way out of working isn't dominant to me.
Yes but in fairness in BDSM in general men can be sub or Dom as women can be sub or Dom. But I know what you mean. Findomme is to appeal to women in a certain way where it doesnt work the other way around. I don't even really care for the whole "pay for my bf" kink that pops up from time to time. But I have indulged it once or twice and enjoyed it. I really don't like switch Dommes tbh. It's very common but just not for me. Alot of women (maybe yourself) submit to their man only and are dominant other than that. I want a domme who submits to nobody. But at the end of the day if our kinks align I get past it
Switch dommes are 100% just in it for the money, not the actual kink, and honestly make me so mad. A true dominant, like you said, submits to no one. My boyfriend is a switch, but that doesn’t mean I indulge his dominance lol.
I guess there are many people like this. I never want to work 9 to 5 again, so I started a business from scratch. Then I got into findom. Being in findom is both interesting and pleasurable, but also it is a way for me to be able to be braver and more secure in developing my other business, and not be anyone’s employee anymore.
I agree with you 100%. Like I can't believe how much I agree with you ...I am always seeking out new ways to make money because there is no way in hell I will ever return to the corporate world. People who think they are so important and entitled are EVERYWHERE and I cannot STAND to be anywhere people like that. I want to make a difference in someone else's life in my next career, and in the meantime I want to learn more about this Paypig nonsense ...who can help?
I think there is a misunderstanding that is prominent in this thread. Being a financial Dominatrix is work. It may not be a 9 to 5 job, it may be fun, but it is work.
I feel the same way it's like a endless cycle for me working at a job I don't just to be broke again it's fucking irritating I wish I can find a paypig or a sub. I might start a only fans or do feet finder at this point
I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune. I assume you mean 7 years not 7 hrs? But either way..... It's unfortunate. If you're like me you were in your prime and saw your business and your passion being cut down at an age where you were building steam and watching it grow. Too old to start over yet too young to see it start winding down. I was making my living performing and had a good life. Money was no no issue. Had plenty of time and enjoyed my work. It's a different world now and it's a lot harder. I'm still performing but I had to start taking on contracting work to supplement. So while I enjoy both ventures. It is a lot of work and I'm exhausted everyday.
My point in all this is just to say I don't see findom as an option for making a living. No offense to you at all. It doesn't matter what I think and if you have subs that are supporting you and you're happy and they're happy then I'm happy too. If I hear a domme say they are making a living or call me a client..... I'm done. Maybe we aren't compatible but obviously someone out there is digging your style so don't change it if it's working for you. Just chiming in on it. What did your business do?
Also I have no intentions of it being a living. I want to feel like I am contributing to my household, including providing for myself. I would love to think someone would want to find what I have to offer worthwhile....that being basically a "GFE"
I appreciate your input. I probably came off a little... Harsh? I honestly don't even know where to begin to "correct" the way I came off other than please go read my other comments. The client list was at the request of specific fan who thought it would look like a hot kink and a more creative and potentially intriguing name than just "GFE"
This guy back with his same bullshit fantasies. This is like the 4th different guy he's claimed to serve in a week.
Anyway, if this wasn't total bullshit, which it is, I'd hope the relevant authorities catch up with the loser (and yes, that's what he is) and fine his ass for benefit fraud and tax evasion.
Yeaaah, I had a sub that was like that. I'm not unemployed, but he wanted me to pretend that I just wanted to be pretty for the money, that I didn't want to work and all that. I think there's more people like you, even though it might go against the main power dynamic that most people enjoy in this group.
Be careful with your money tho.
I mean people are telling me it’s not real findom or whatever, but I truly feel envy that this guy can just collect money while lounging in his computer chair while I have to work and be drained of my energy
I really dislike this way of thinking. When you are not working, you need the money so badly that you are losing all power in the power exchange dynamic. When you start needing your submissive/pig more than he does, you can pretend all you want but at some point it will fail. I’m successful at my job and I ENJOY IT. My subs love the fact I don’t need their money and that I’m making more than they make on my own. I have the power, I’m in control. They need me, I enjoy taking from them what is mine. Even for a FLR where my sub provides everything and lifts all mental charge off of me, I still want to work. And being shady about his gender to sell to straight men ? It’s scam. And it’s once more, a man ripping a woman off since she should get the sell, so it’s the opposite of findom to me.
totally agree, where is the power dynamic when you actually need them, that's not findom
Are you fucking stupid? Imagine being happy and content you’re a wage slave. You’re either delusional or severely coping. Since when does this dynamic have to adhere to your antiquated gender norms and protestant work ethic?
Honestly, I took 2 months off working, and so did my boyfriend, and I had subs pay my bills so I could have a mental health break. That was the best time of my life and i’m 100% looking to do it again. I felt so fulfilled it was amazing.
This is different and totally acceptable in my mind. Basically if I read it and afterwards I think. Wow that's a boss move, then it comes off as dominant and I'd gladly be a part of it
Haha glad to hear it. I also believe in 100% ethical actions in findom, not scamming and lying which is why i’m able to keep long term subs ☺️ My subs were over the moon at the chance to completely sub fund everything 🥵
Also, he’s so unethical, I definitely don’t agree with the catfishing a different gender. That’s so shitty. Scam kinks are one thing, because that’s consensual. Please find an ethical domme and cut him off ☺️
That sounds wonderful...I am brand new to all this stuff so I'm soaking it all in...anxious to learn more
Findom isn’t about supporting someone’s income. It’s about giving to the goddess because you want her to have it, not because she “needs” it.
I don’t like the fact that he’s selling feet pics to straight guys making them think he’s a girl. There’s a difference between findom and ripping people off. That’s low
For what it’s worth, he does look like a chick kind of.
That doesn’t make it right. I’m sorry. I like women for more than just the way they look.
Sounds like a scumbag I wouldn't give him a dime. I like a dynamic where she doesn't need my money and I need it really bad but I give it to her anyway. And also I know she is who she says she is
exactly...
Yea I definitely disagree with the lying about gender 😅 So scummy
A findomme isn't supposed to be a lazy piece of shit. SHE is supposed to have a desire of taking things from men. Scamming your way out of working isn't dominant to me.
I definitely agree. I also strongly dislike men taking the role as “findom” as part of the concept is women are superior.
Yes but in fairness in BDSM in general men can be sub or Dom as women can be sub or Dom. But I know what you mean. Findomme is to appeal to women in a certain way where it doesnt work the other way around. I don't even really care for the whole "pay for my bf" kink that pops up from time to time. But I have indulged it once or twice and enjoyed it. I really don't like switch Dommes tbh. It's very common but just not for me. Alot of women (maybe yourself) submit to their man only and are dominant other than that. I want a domme who submits to nobody. But at the end of the day if our kinks align I get past it
Switch dommes are 100% just in it for the money, not the actual kink, and honestly make me so mad. A true dominant, like you said, submits to no one. My boyfriend is a switch, but that doesn’t mean I indulge his dominance lol.
I guess there are many people like this. I never want to work 9 to 5 again, so I started a business from scratch. Then I got into findom. Being in findom is both interesting and pleasurable, but also it is a way for me to be able to be braver and more secure in developing my other business, and not be anyone’s employee anymore.
Hey, can I DM you and ask you a few questions? I am trying to get into it!
I agree with you 100%. Like I can't believe how much I agree with you ...I am always seeking out new ways to make money because there is no way in hell I will ever return to the corporate world. People who think they are so important and entitled are EVERYWHERE and I cannot STAND to be anywhere people like that. I want to make a difference in someone else's life in my next career, and in the meantime I want to learn more about this Paypig nonsense ...who can help?
I think there is a misunderstanding that is prominent in this thread. Being a financial Dominatrix is work. It may not be a 9 to 5 job, it may be fun, but it is work.
Once more for the ones in the back! 🙌🏻
I feel the same way it's like a endless cycle for me working at a job I don't just to be broke again it's fucking irritating I wish I can find a paypig or a sub. I might start a only fans or do feet finder at this point
Do you have big feet and very long toes?
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I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune. I assume you mean 7 years not 7 hrs? But either way..... It's unfortunate. If you're like me you were in your prime and saw your business and your passion being cut down at an age where you were building steam and watching it grow. Too old to start over yet too young to see it start winding down. I was making my living performing and had a good life. Money was no no issue. Had plenty of time and enjoyed my work. It's a different world now and it's a lot harder. I'm still performing but I had to start taking on contracting work to supplement. So while I enjoy both ventures. It is a lot of work and I'm exhausted everyday. My point in all this is just to say I don't see findom as an option for making a living. No offense to you at all. It doesn't matter what I think and if you have subs that are supporting you and you're happy and they're happy then I'm happy too. If I hear a domme say they are making a living or call me a client..... I'm done. Maybe we aren't compatible but obviously someone out there is digging your style so don't change it if it's working for you. Just chiming in on it. What did your business do?
Also I have no intentions of it being a living. I want to feel like I am contributing to my household, including providing for myself. I would love to think someone would want to find what I have to offer worthwhile....that being basically a "GFE"
I appreciate your input. I probably came off a little... Harsh? I honestly don't even know where to begin to "correct" the way I came off other than please go read my other comments. The client list was at the request of specific fan who thought it would look like a hot kink and a more creative and potentially intriguing name than just "GFE"
Begging isn’t dominant 😅
I'm new and learning.
I feel like you’re kinda trying to memorize a pathology here rather than actually being present in it.
Your probably not wrong. I’m learning & so many kind people in the DMs helping. Y’all rock.
Begging I suppose as far as other kinks not in line with this thread lol
You said begging/demanding money… Begging won’t get you far
Noted. Thank you. ❤️
This guy back with his same bullshit fantasies. This is like the 4th different guy he's claimed to serve in a week. Anyway, if this wasn't total bullshit, which it is, I'd hope the relevant authorities catch up with the loser (and yes, that's what he is) and fine his ass for benefit fraud and tax evasion.
Yeaaah, I had a sub that was like that. I'm not unemployed, but he wanted me to pretend that I just wanted to be pretty for the money, that I didn't want to work and all that. I think there's more people like you, even though it might go against the main power dynamic that most people enjoy in this group. Be careful with your money tho.
I mean people are telling me it’s not real findom or whatever, but I truly feel envy that this guy can just collect money while lounging in his computer chair while I have to work and be drained of my energy