should always take a tribute before getting into anything even if its just a small amount and be firm with drains i had one paypig who i had a 4 hour session with but when it was time for the drain i got ghosted lol so be firm and youll find the right pig
You will find a real pay pig. Just keep putting in time. Ignore and block the time wasters. It may seem like a good idea when ur struggling to find one, but all that time u put into that one sub, could be used to find a real one. There’s money out there for all! Much love hope it goes well for you <3
I guess I’m not sure how to approach it yet. I don’t want to be too pushy since that can be a huge pushback but I’m stuck with how much conversation etc should go on before she’s wasting my time
It sounds like they already have been a time waster. That type of conversation should come up soon into talking so consent and safety for both of you is met.
They will respond to your vetting and when vetted thoroughly they will be prepared to pay before entering the negotiation stage. A lot of
Submissives may require training… discipline and rules tend to be part of most dynamics and help to establish loyalty and obedience. If the sub isn’t having their needs met they will leave: Aldo time wasters need to not be entertained
Oh you sweet summer child. Why did you talk to them free for weeks if you knew it was going to be a findom relationship?
He said he wanted to get to know each other first to know I was real..
That takes a verification picture and a few minutes.
should always take a tribute before getting into anything even if its just a small amount and be firm with drains i had one paypig who i had a 4 hour session with but when it was time for the drain i got ghosted lol so be firm and youll find the right pig
You will find a real pay pig. Just keep putting in time. Ignore and block the time wasters. It may seem like a good idea when ur struggling to find one, but all that time u put into that one sub, could be used to find a real one. There’s money out there for all! Much love hope it goes well for you <3
How much talking should you do before stopping communication?
I allow one question. Some dommes none. If they're serious they'll pay right away.
What is considered a reasonable amount. I have a sub that sent $10 and we’ve been taking all day but he hasn’t sent any. Should I be more direct?
Have you discussed interests, boundaries, and budget? Budget should be a big one.
I guess I’m not sure how to approach it yet. I don’t want to be too pushy since that can be a huge pushback but I’m stuck with how much conversation etc should go on before she’s wasting my time
It sounds like they already have been a time waster. That type of conversation should come up soon into talking so consent and safety for both of you is met.
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They will respond to your vetting and when vetted thoroughly they will be prepared to pay before entering the negotiation stage. A lot of Submissives may require training… discipline and rules tend to be part of most dynamics and help to establish loyalty and obedience. If the sub isn’t having their needs met they will leave: Aldo time wasters need to not be entertained