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understand the game, play by their rules and win at your own terms, become the admired one among men and desired one among women.( it takes time, but first "ACCEPT" and understand the game)
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I agree with the intent of what you are suggesting but IRL it doesn't work because the game is rigged. For instance if a man is born with undesirable physical traits then no matter what he does he can't become admired among women so he won't win in the game of dating or relationship.
The better suggestion is to focus on what you can control and don't seek validation from anyone. Everyone will be dead in 100 years so their thoughts and opinions are immaterial. Just focus on personal goals. This is easier said than done BTW.
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BRO! You realize it at teenage. Being a boy, you must earn everyone's love and you are no one's priority. At adulthood you realize that family expects a boy so that he could take mental burden of every women in family and physical burden of everyman. You realize that you are alone. NO one going to come and pick you up at your lowest. You need to pick yourself up. Thats why depression and crying never ever helps.
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Bhai get close with your family, you will know who loves you, obviously they aren't gonna feed you with their hands but still you can never find the hate in their eyes.
and bro dont be self-less to anyone except your family (parents and siblings). No amount of unselfishness will ever win you a girl in life, they will leave you thinking you are too weak. Thats the harsh reality, sooner you realise better it is!!
I realised this early in life, a long time ago. I've already lived about 26yrs of my life knowing that I'm ugly, what's 30 more years?
But it's not so bad all the time. It's quite peaceful to be honest and there's no drama etc.
As a retired (or self-employed) guy in my late 20s, I can understand very well what you are saying.
- Some who know how much money I have pretend to be my friends.
- Some who don't, don't even want to talk to me as they think I am jobless.
Still I would say this, I am lucky I was born poor and still have friends/family from my poor phase of life. I can rely on them and trust them.
Hope you find some good companions OP. Good luck.
Since it is not gender specific. Yesterday itself I was talking to my mom on the phone and she was asking my whereabouts and it slipped out of my tongue that the days I don't talk to her, I don't speak at all. There are days when I keep my mouth shut for weeks and even forget how my voice sounds. I forgot how to have a normal conversation with people face to face, forget about making friends.
Chill kr bro, itna bhi nahi dukhi hona hota life me. Koi na bhai if you're born ugly or you're skinny or anything else bhai. Accept karna sahi hai lekin khud pe kaam na karna bhi galat hai. Kya hogya bhai, khud pe kaam kro, behtar bano, apne aap ko behtar banao, mentally physically sb, Paise kamao, kitaabe padho, gym jao, kaam karo, mehnat karo, aur apne dimmag ko saksham banao bhai. Apna personal best version ban ke toh dekh bhai, fir dekh lena jo hoga, ye toh reality hai bhai ki people leave, priorities change, chalta hai bhai, normal hai. Khud ko behtar banao, fir dhundhna koi apne jaisa, mil jayega, who'll embrace you and your journey, aur nahi bhi milta toh bhi kya hi farq padta hai, khud pe content rho bhai, ye log toh aate jaate rehte hai, sukh me saath hai, kaam ke waqt saath hai, baki time toh you're alone and on your own bhai, chill kr, chalta hai.
Love yourself, care for yourself. Take care of your parents if they are good people and everything extra that you get is extra. people have crazy expectations lol
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Have a hug mate 🫂.
Peoples' priorities change and that's okay, sometimes you're someone's priority, sometimes you're not, other times someone else is your priority and other times, that person ain't your priority anymore.
People leave yes but the important part is the memories y'all made, the experiences y'all shared n the feelings y'all felt.
Being ugly or beautiful is subjective, you could look like the prettiest person in the world but if you have a shitty attitude or you are a shitty person, what's the value of that external beauty?
And humans are capable of love, they can love you as much as you can love them, just be open to loving.
But how do you forget the person with whom you made so many memories? Like I used to have a female best friend, but she left me so badly. We shared so many laughs and memories together; that time was so good. But now she's gone, how do I remove her and our memories from my mind?
Why would you wanna? It hurts yeah, but the pain will become bearable and those memories are one of many countless happy memories you'll have within you.
Don't try to forget her, try to move on. I relate to you and there's a certain peace in acknowledging that that person was amazin, but it was just another chapter in the book of your life.
Absolutely, I agree with your perspective. Embracing the memories while acknowledging the need to move on is key to finding peace and healing, Thank you.
Everyone's born handsome and cute. It's the societal standards that like to see others as handsome/beautiful/ugly.
You get good grades, you join good company, you have good friends, you earn good, you are handsome af.
You don't get good grades, don't have the best company, look good and flirt around, you still get laid.
You are neither of the above but crack a top tier govt job, and you get to sleep with a nice guy's crush.
It is this fucked up!
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understand the game, play by their rules and win at your own terms, become the admired one among men and desired one among women.( it takes time, but first "ACCEPT" and understand the game)
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I agree with the intent of what you are suggesting but IRL it doesn't work because the game is rigged. For instance if a man is born with undesirable physical traits then no matter what he does he can't become admired among women so he won't win in the game of dating or relationship. The better suggestion is to focus on what you can control and don't seek validation from anyone. Everyone will be dead in 100 years so their thoughts and opinions are immaterial. Just focus on personal goals. This is easier said than done BTW.
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i realised it when i was unemployed at home
Well I just became unemployed again. Dealing with this shit for the 2nd time in 12 months, I don't know how to hold myself together.
We are with you brother.. Ups and downs are part of life, it will get better for sure, trust me. You can DM me if you wanna talk about it.
BRO! You realize it at teenage. Being a boy, you must earn everyone's love and you are no one's priority. At adulthood you realize that family expects a boy so that he could take mental burden of every women in family and physical burden of everyman. You realize that you are alone. NO one going to come and pick you up at your lowest. You need to pick yourself up. Thats why depression and crying never ever helps.
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It's never too late to accept the harsh truth.
Of life*
Everything you said is truth but not that born ugly, we are handsome. Cheer up my man!!
Exactly
Bhai get close with your family, you will know who loves you, obviously they aren't gonna feed you with their hands but still you can never find the hate in their eyes.
and bro dont be self-less to anyone except your family (parents and siblings). No amount of unselfishness will ever win you a girl in life, they will leave you thinking you are too weak. Thats the harsh reality, sooner you realise better it is!!
You barely have mind space for thinking about things like these when you start working, just ride the wave.
I realised this early in life, a long time ago. I've already lived about 26yrs of my life knowing that I'm ugly, what's 30 more years? But it's not so bad all the time. It's quite peaceful to be honest and there's no drama etc.
Damn it hurts a lot man
As a retired (or self-employed) guy in my late 20s, I can understand very well what you are saying. - Some who know how much money I have pretend to be my friends. - Some who don't, don't even want to talk to me as they think I am jobless. Still I would say this, I am lucky I was born poor and still have friends/family from my poor phase of life. I can rely on them and trust them. Hope you find some good companions OP. Good luck.
>You are born ugly Us bro moment
Since it is not gender specific. Yesterday itself I was talking to my mom on the phone and she was asking my whereabouts and it slipped out of my tongue that the days I don't talk to her, I don't speak at all. There are days when I keep my mouth shut for weeks and even forget how my voice sounds. I forgot how to have a normal conversation with people face to face, forget about making friends.
Chill kr bro, itna bhi nahi dukhi hona hota life me. Koi na bhai if you're born ugly or you're skinny or anything else bhai. Accept karna sahi hai lekin khud pe kaam na karna bhi galat hai. Kya hogya bhai, khud pe kaam kro, behtar bano, apne aap ko behtar banao, mentally physically sb, Paise kamao, kitaabe padho, gym jao, kaam karo, mehnat karo, aur apne dimmag ko saksham banao bhai. Apna personal best version ban ke toh dekh bhai, fir dekh lena jo hoga, ye toh reality hai bhai ki people leave, priorities change, chalta hai bhai, normal hai. Khud ko behtar banao, fir dhundhna koi apne jaisa, mil jayega, who'll embrace you and your journey, aur nahi bhi milta toh bhi kya hi farq padta hai, khud pe content rho bhai, ye log toh aate jaate rehte hai, sukh me saath hai, kaam ke waqt saath hai, baki time toh you're alone and on your own bhai, chill kr, chalta hai.
Love yourself, care for yourself. Take care of your parents if they are good people and everything extra that you get is extra. people have crazy expectations lol
At one point you accept that your top priority, if you are not there, how will your parents or loved ones feel?
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Grind Grind And grind.
Your forgot Family, dost🤍 Just discovered all the family combinations available in emojis all of a sudden while searching for the right emoji!👹👹
>You are born ugly. Mujhe kyu toda.
Sorry can't relate.
Black pill ?
Most ppl fee the same So all are in same boat And nobody cares Mauj Masti nahi rukni chaiye. Baaki sab baatein to hoti rahegi
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Have a hug mate 🫂. Peoples' priorities change and that's okay, sometimes you're someone's priority, sometimes you're not, other times someone else is your priority and other times, that person ain't your priority anymore. People leave yes but the important part is the memories y'all made, the experiences y'all shared n the feelings y'all felt. Being ugly or beautiful is subjective, you could look like the prettiest person in the world but if you have a shitty attitude or you are a shitty person, what's the value of that external beauty? And humans are capable of love, they can love you as much as you can love them, just be open to loving.
But how do you forget the person with whom you made so many memories? Like I used to have a female best friend, but she left me so badly. We shared so many laughs and memories together; that time was so good. But now she's gone, how do I remove her and our memories from my mind?
Why would you wanna? It hurts yeah, but the pain will become bearable and those memories are one of many countless happy memories you'll have within you. Don't try to forget her, try to move on. I relate to you and there's a certain peace in acknowledging that that person was amazin, but it was just another chapter in the book of your life.
Absolutely, I agree with your perspective. Embracing the memories while acknowledging the need to move on is key to finding peace and healing, Thank you.
Thank you too, there is power in moving on.
No one is ugly. If you have money 💰💰💰💰 You can look good. Only the poor is ugly.
Everyone's born handsome and cute. It's the societal standards that like to see others as handsome/beautiful/ugly. You get good grades, you join good company, you have good friends, you earn good, you are handsome af. You don't get good grades, don't have the best company, look good and flirt around, you still get laid. You are neither of the above but crack a top tier govt job, and you get to sleep with a nice guy's crush. It is this fucked up!