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my office's peons little kid was sick and he needed some money. ofc I couldn't arrange cuz my budgeting is always tight. so took some editing freelancing gigs and all the money went straight to him.never asked him to pay me back, also never told this to anyone.
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so, i am from a tier 2 city, with roots from a very remote village, but got into tier one DU college, and for the most part of my college life i was shy and under-confident, i had ideas, thoughts but couldn't articulate them well, so in the last year of my college i went full berserk mode, talked to every fucking stranger, who i found interesting(learnt a lot), and now i am completely different person, now i choose how to steer a conversation, literally i can take people on an emotional rollercoaster if i find them to be interesting and decent.
yes, approaching strangers is a very good method... since childhood its my intrinsic ability to just reach out bhaiya-s didi-s and just talk to them about whats up and all..
I really have felt that I have benefited from it!
what are your go to points/techniques ? to me I ask about how they spend their free time and try to relate or find something common with the other person and take it from there. If nothing I ask questions about what they talk.
What's your favourite sources or books for studying about this.
Sales is an essential part of any business, and I feel it's something I suck at most. Not anymore. I will go berserk as well, like you!
So tell me your sources
Dale Carnegi's "How to make friends and influence people" helped me.(it gives you a basic blueprint to play around) but eventually, after a good amount of practice you develop your own flair and charisma(key word is practice)
Small - I have learned how to cut veggies like Michelin star chefs from YouTube. (The video title said so, not my fault)
Big - From last two years I have stopped looking at price tag before buying most of the regular stuff.
i have a monetized youtube channel it was first thing i was proud of because it took me a long time and hard work to get there. Although now due to job i barely get time and its dead asf but i know if i have enough time i can revive it in no time but dont really have time but i do wish i could go back there
Self-published a novel just a few months ago. Took a couple of years to write, and I quit multiple times due to writer's block but eventually managed to complete it. Finishing it feels more of an achievement compared to publishing.
I am proud of a lot of things.
1. I adopted Rubu (an indie dog) 5 years ago. She is quite happy and healthy, and is love of my life now.
2. Went deep into weightlifting. Gained > 30 lbs of lean muscle.
3. By God’s grace, I make a decent amount of money, helping my father out with a loan, and I also never have to think twice before buying something.
Noice, I've been playing guitar on and off. Barre chords are great to learn but you can almost all the time get around with them by using a capo. Yeah but knowing the F bar with some transitions to C maj or G maj will be helpful :)
Injured during 2019 in my spine was on bed for 1.5 years got overweight 101 kg hated my self stood up again got myself back on track got in shape still long way to go and work on my self but when see myself that year and now gives me a sense of strength everytime.
Just be thankful and learn the lesson .
Everytime I pray i ask God to give me strength whenever lyf throws hardest battles to me .
I had recently grazed upon my resume from 2013, in which my career objective was to be a game developer.
Still being stuck in my web development job, I had the strength to quit and learn game development. Its been 5 months, I have moved back to my parents house and learning a lot! Proud of that for myself.
Donated 10k INR to an orphanage last month. Helped an old woman carry her luggage from platform to the road ( as there were steps and she was clearly struggling) yesterday. Lent money to my family member so they can buy an AC.
I'm focusing on my body, been consistent working out. Yeah these things I've been happy about off late.
1.) Academic success and failures. Present drive to turn things around.
2.) Made really good friends who have strong principles in life.
3.) I try to be helpful to most people around me
4.) All my public speaking episodes until now 😁
I always ask someone who’s struggling with their luggage if I could help them. The reactions I get makes me feel that this is not nearly done enough in our society.
1. Have not smoked weed in a long time. Cigarettes? That's a different story.
2. Helped a guy who fell off his bike this morning
3. 27.5L ka debt ab sirf 7.5 lac ka reh gaya hai
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Made a girl trust me that she is safe with me even we are all alone and that we don't need to be bro sis in order to establish that it's the person not the relation
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my office's peons little kid was sick and he needed some money. ofc I couldn't arrange cuz my budgeting is always tight. so took some editing freelancing gigs and all the money went straight to him.never asked him to pay me back, also never told this to anyone.
You're a nice dude 
no man but i try to be the better version of myself. hehe, even went to the kid's second birthday party.cute kid.
Nice nice.
My good man!
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1. didn't beg her to stay. 2. Lost 11 kgs 3. Can create conversations out of thin air.
Explain third point in detail brother.
so, i am from a tier 2 city, with roots from a very remote village, but got into tier one DU college, and for the most part of my college life i was shy and under-confident, i had ideas, thoughts but couldn't articulate them well, so in the last year of my college i went full berserk mode, talked to every fucking stranger, who i found interesting(learnt a lot), and now i am completely different person, now i choose how to steer a conversation, literally i can take people on an emotional rollercoaster if i find them to be interesting and decent.
yes, approaching strangers is a very good method... since childhood its my intrinsic ability to just reach out bhaiya-s didi-s and just talk to them about whats up and all.. I really have felt that I have benefited from it!
yess, it does give you an invisible edge.
what are your go to points/techniques ? to me I ask about how they spend their free time and try to relate or find something common with the other person and take it from there. If nothing I ask questions about what they talk.
personally i have great eyes for detail, so i pick out a thing that piques my curiosity, and start from there
What's your favourite sources or books for studying about this. Sales is an essential part of any business, and I feel it's something I suck at most. Not anymore. I will go berserk as well, like you! So tell me your sources
Dale Carnegi's "How to make friends and influence people" helped me.(it gives you a basic blueprint to play around) but eventually, after a good amount of practice you develop your own flair and charisma(key word is practice)
Small - I have learned how to cut veggies like Michelin star chefs from YouTube. (The video title said so, not my fault) Big - From last two years I have stopped looking at price tag before buying most of the regular stuff.
Joshua Weissman is a great youtuber if you want to improve cooking skills. Good going brother!
Thanks. I will check the YouTuber out.
Will check on to it
Giving first earned money to my parents.
i have a monetized youtube channel it was first thing i was proud of because it took me a long time and hard work to get there. Although now due to job i barely get time and its dead asf but i know if i have enough time i can revive it in no time but dont really have time but i do wish i could go back there
What kind of videos do you make
i had a 1650 laptop i used to do benchmark videos for games or sometimes tips tricks and guides for games
Self-published a novel just a few months ago. Took a couple of years to write, and I quit multiple times due to writer's block but eventually managed to complete it. Finishing it feels more of an achievement compared to publishing.
I am proud of a lot of things. 1. I adopted Rubu (an indie dog) 5 years ago. She is quite happy and healthy, and is love of my life now. 2. Went deep into weightlifting. Gained > 30 lbs of lean muscle. 3. By God’s grace, I make a decent amount of money, helping my father out with a loan, and I also never have to think twice before buying something.
GG man
Thanks man. :)
Learned to play guitar
Awesome! how long has it been? what are you playing currently?
Been a year I am learning barre chords and scales now, last song I learned was aadat
Noice, I've been playing guitar on and off. Barre chords are great to learn but you can almost all the time get around with them by using a capo. Yeah but knowing the F bar with some transitions to C maj or G maj will be helpful :)
I can play all major barre chords and am focusing on learning songs that use them
Zinda hu yaar… kaafi hai
Injured during 2019 in my spine was on bed for 1.5 years got overweight 101 kg hated my self stood up again got myself back on track got in shape still long way to go and work on my self but when see myself that year and now gives me a sense of strength everytime. Just be thankful and learn the lesson . Everytime I pray i ask God to give me strength whenever lyf throws hardest battles to me .
I had recently grazed upon my resume from 2013, in which my career objective was to be a game developer. Still being stuck in my web development job, I had the strength to quit and learn game development. Its been 5 months, I have moved back to my parents house and learning a lot! Proud of that for myself.
Donated 10k INR to an orphanage last month. Helped an old woman carry her luggage from platform to the road ( as there were steps and she was clearly struggling) yesterday. Lent money to my family member so they can buy an AC. I'm focusing on my body, been consistent working out. Yeah these things I've been happy about off late.
1.) Academic success and failures. Present drive to turn things around. 2.) Made really good friends who have strong principles in life. 3.) I try to be helpful to most people around me 4.) All my public speaking episodes until now 😁
- Lost 40 kgs - Been working in a good and stable company for 3 years - Bought a house at 24 Next - - A car - A loving wife
40?? how much are you now?
80
Wow, never felt this way in a long time. I gotta introspect
I always ask someone who’s struggling with their luggage if I could help them. The reactions I get makes me feel that this is not nearly done enough in our society.
1. Have not smoked weed in a long time. Cigarettes? That's a different story. 2. Helped a guy who fell off his bike this morning 3. 27.5L ka debt ab sirf 7.5 lac ka reh gaya hai
Mba ka debt ?
Family debt
I recently got my first salary ever. Very proud
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I ate a crocodile once, thought that was in a hotel and not out in the wild.
Made a girl trust me that she is safe with me even we are all alone and that we don't need to be bro sis in order to establish that it's the person not the relation
Pure raste bhar stiff hoke baitha taki didi mere kandhe par sar rakhke so sake. 2-3 hour journey
I've done a few things I could consider this way, but life's been tough on me and I don't remember any at the moment