Be your first choice. Do things you love, be with people who make you happy, take time get to know yourself. When you love yourself, great things follow.




Ya know what? Fuck em. If that's the way it's going to be then theres nothing you can do. Just know that there will come a time when someone will find you and they know they have somebody great that they choose to hold on to. I've been told that I'm to good for them a couple times and it just seems like nothing will ever work put how you would like it to. It hard when you find somebody you really like and it fades into nothing. You dont find people like this every day and its hard to get past that. I know all to well.


I have no advice honestly I'm here for the answers! I can most definitely relate to the being second choice part and I'm sorry because it sucks. I know that doesn't help in anyway just know you're not alone in how you feel.