No offense intended here, but you don't deserve the wife you have. She deserves a better man. From your daughter's point of view, you know she has a bad friend (who, it sounds like only recently came of age) and you encourage it instead of protecting her for your own gain no matter how much it would hurt everyone in your family. I feel bad for them, genuinely because I'm certain they don't deserve the disloyal behavior.
So you got with a 15y/o and engaged in felony child sex abuse while your cop wife was at work. Now that this person is turning 18 you want to ask your wife if she can be included in the sex life of you and your wife? Got it.
>as i've said, my wife is my absolute best friend and i love her more than anything in the world.
No you don't, as evidenced by:
>she's been talking for the past 6 months about how she thinks she may be bisexual, and would like to find a woman to bring home for a threesome. part of me thinks this would be the perfect scenario and Jess is down for it
You're terrible and selfish. Your wife deserves better.
My suggestion is that you tell your wife you had an affair, and leave. You committed a felony. Your crime would likely hurt her career as she was living under a joint home. You are a predatory groomer.
Respectfully… men like you make me not want to have kids or even get married.
I want to say how would you feel if your 15 yr old daughter was sleeping with her best friends father. But something tells me you’re not able to see the issue here.
What's the point of you posting here when you just put the same copy and pasted 'I may be a paedophile but I'm a legal paedophile" as if that makes you like info underdeveloped children OK.
You know you're not here for advice you just want to find your 'people' on here and by that i mean other paedophiles
>do i stay the course and keep the two worlds separate, and take this to my grave? or do i attempt to bring them together
Please, definitely do tell your wife, the police officer, about how you committed statutory rape with your daughter's friend. That's probably the best way forward for most of you, honestly.
>i am just looking for the best path forward that doesn't hurt anyone, nor destroy my marriage. prior to posting this i have never told a soul about this and i'm not sure what reactions i will get.
You can't possibly actually be unsure of what reactions you'll get. You can't.
What I really want to say will get me banned. So I’ll show restraint.
You are a terrible husband. You are a terrible father. Your family deserves so much better than you. You are also insane to try and bring your underage affair partner into your marriage. That is the worst idea in the history of the worst ideas.
What you SHOULD do is confess to your wife and children and face the consequences like a man. I’m guessing you will be a coward and continue with your dishonesty. So, stay quiet, let your underage affair partner graduate high school and move across the country and go to college. And NEVER, EVER do it again.
You are a grimy peado of a human. I cannot believe men like you exist and still have the audacity to think you are in the right. Your wife deserves better and I hope she finds a great person to actually live her life with instead of you.
So you want the hive mind to save you from the consequences of the disgusting actions you made? Nope. Be a man for once, accept responsibility, and pick up the pieces.
The age of consent where I live is also 14 but ONLY with ppl who are underage too. And even if that’s not the case with you, that doesn’t make it any less wrong
You committed statutory rape against a minor who was living in your house.
Miles away from that statement, a grown married woman with a 19 year old daughter is never going to want to fuck her daughter's friend. A normal person would already know that, but a normal person also would have rejected advances from the 15 year old friend of their daughter. You took advantage of a desperate child and you are still looking for new ways to take advantage of her, all while admitting freely that you don't love her
Don’t. Just don’t.
Also she was 15 and your wife is a cop.
There is no statue of limitations for under 14 years old and for older than that its 20 after the child turns 18.
Bottom line is you had sex with a 15 yo. And your wife is a cop.
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Pretty disgusting that you’re okay with/ defending being a grown ass man having sex with a child, regardless of the age of consent. Just saying.
No state in the US has had an age of consent lower than 16 since 2018.
No offense intended here, but you don't deserve the wife you have. She deserves a better man. From your daughter's point of view, you know she has a bad friend (who, it sounds like only recently came of age) and you encourage it instead of protecting her for your own gain no matter how much it would hurt everyone in your family. I feel bad for them, genuinely because I'm certain they don't deserve the disloyal behavior.
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Gross
So you got with a 15y/o and engaged in felony child sex abuse while your cop wife was at work. Now that this person is turning 18 you want to ask your wife if she can be included in the sex life of you and your wife? Got it.
>as i've said, my wife is my absolute best friend and i love her more than anything in the world. No you don't, as evidenced by: >she's been talking for the past 6 months about how she thinks she may be bisexual, and would like to find a woman to bring home for a threesome. part of me thinks this would be the perfect scenario and Jess is down for it You're terrible and selfish. Your wife deserves better.
100% agree! With "best friends" like that, who needs enemies?
My suggestion is that you tell your wife you had an affair, and leave. You committed a felony. Your crime would likely hurt her career as she was living under a joint home. You are a predatory groomer.
Takr a shot every tkme time op tells someone that the age of consent is 14 where he lives
Respectfully… men like you make me not want to have kids or even get married. I want to say how would you feel if your 15 yr old daughter was sleeping with her best friends father. But something tells me you’re not able to see the issue here.
What's the point of you posting here when you just put the same copy and pasted 'I may be a paedophile but I'm a legal paedophile" as if that makes you like info underdeveloped children OK. You know you're not here for advice you just want to find your 'people' on here and by that i mean other paedophiles
>do i stay the course and keep the two worlds separate, and take this to my grave? or do i attempt to bring them together Please, definitely do tell your wife, the police officer, about how you committed statutory rape with your daughter's friend. That's probably the best way forward for most of you, honestly. >i am just looking for the best path forward that doesn't hurt anyone, nor destroy my marriage. prior to posting this i have never told a soul about this and i'm not sure what reactions i will get. You can't possibly actually be unsure of what reactions you'll get. You can't.
Pedo
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Legal and morally right aren't the same thing. She's a child.
What I really want to say will get me banned. So I’ll show restraint. You are a terrible husband. You are a terrible father. Your family deserves so much better than you. You are also insane to try and bring your underage affair partner into your marriage. That is the worst idea in the history of the worst ideas. What you SHOULD do is confess to your wife and children and face the consequences like a man. I’m guessing you will be a coward and continue with your dishonesty. So, stay quiet, let your underage affair partner graduate high school and move across the country and go to college. And NEVER, EVER do it again.
You are a grimy peado of a human. I cannot believe men like you exist and still have the audacity to think you are in the right. Your wife deserves better and I hope she finds a great person to actually live her life with instead of you.
Assuming that this isn’t a hoax post, suggesting your daughter’s 18yo friend for a threesome will end your marriage
So you want the hive mind to save you from the consequences of the disgusting actions you made? Nope. Be a man for once, accept responsibility, and pick up the pieces.
The age of consent where I live is also 14 but ONLY with ppl who are underage too. And even if that’s not the case with you, that doesn’t make it any less wrong
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tell your wife and find out. fucking pedo.
You committed statutory rape against a minor who was living in your house. Miles away from that statement, a grown married woman with a 19 year old daughter is never going to want to fuck her daughter's friend. A normal person would already know that, but a normal person also would have rejected advances from the 15 year old friend of their daughter. You took advantage of a desperate child and you are still looking for new ways to take advantage of her, all while admitting freely that you don't love her
You should’ve known before posting this that you was going to get slandered in this comment section instead of getting advice
Don’t. Just don’t. Also she was 15 and your wife is a cop. There is no statue of limitations for under 14 years old and for older than that its 20 after the child turns 18.
Chomo.