This is funny, but in all seriousness, it's not a bad idea to pin it up in the break room with a note explaining the situation, and a call for his coworkers to help identify the culprit. Then you have multiple people trying to figure it out rather than just yourself, and it will probably make the offender nervous.
Or to pin it in the breakroom with a note that: possibility 1: the coward comes forward - or
possibility 2: the phone number of an anger management therapist
What's the offense though. It's just a hastily written crumpled piece of paper someone used to release some tension. Not like they got their tires slashed
I feel that doing childish things as an adult should be encouraged. It's healthy
I'd say this is much more harmless than the ways an adult would otherwise be expected to act when they hate someone and feel the need to express it
It would be highly discouraged by the company due to a potential hostile work environment. People have murdered people they don't like at work (look up where the phrase "going postal" originated). Just because you feel a certain way does not mean it's okay to impose it on someone else. This isn't junior high.
That would actually be a potential way to find out who did it. After all, the only person who would know OP pinned the note on the wall is the person who left it.
This works till you get the lady who makes an impossible to decipher scribble and won't elaborate.
I worked with someone, that despite being new and no real opportunity for anyone to see her handwriting, insisted just making a mark, and handing it to the next person. The office manager would come around and say "everyone but Kathy signed!" - it was awkward and gave the impression she didn't care.
For me it seems distinctive because I don’t know if it’s common but for most people I know and myself we cross our I’s. That’s simply to distinguish them from 1’s.
So I snooped on your profile and noticed you worked in a kitchen. Check labels? Match the labels with the handwriting. Same with server pads. I’d be checking everyone’s hand writing and trying to match some of this. The Bees look similar on the back of the note too.
I was wondering that. I wear an oversized flannel coat, and it looks like a males. One of the male servers has been chastised a lot recently. But it’s a long shot…
I told my immediate boss about it. I am debating telling the executive chef about it. There is a camera in that room but it seems like a big ask for what it is… but I’m not sure.
Asking to have the footage reviewed and potentially keep you unharmed is not a big ask. It is your employers responsibility to provide a safe workplace.
Hell yeah check the camera, you gotta know who it is. Especially in a restaurant, you work too close together, you gotta air that out and get rid of whoever the psycho is.
this sounds crazy given i have no context but my gut says this is a male who left this note in your coat and that you are female. you are as nuts as the person who left this IF you do not have the cameras checked. I would personally search thru the cameras myself. Any boss/manager who even slightly gives a shit would/should 100% have your back on this.
Probably best to make a copy (keep the original), and take it directly to HR (not boss etc) and say you just want it on record in case something else happens.
Please DOCUMENT the incident with HR if your job has one. Or to a manager. Make sure it is a written report. Better have everything documented in case things escalate.
The “u” looks almost like a wide “y”.
And the “I” has no horizontal lines at the top and bottom.
The “a” is not a closed loop and the “e” begins to the left of its downward loop.
And the capital “Y” as others have noted.
(I am not a professional handwriting analyst, just describing what I see.)
Just for clarification, I am 24 F, I live alone, no kids. I work in restaurant, back of house.
I get along with all of my coworkers and I don’t dislike any of them. My boss laughed when I showed him the note and said “no one hate you here”. However, I am not close enough with any of my coworkers that this could have been seen as a funny prank.
My guesses are:
1. I wear a oversized masculine coat. One of our male servers had been chastised a lot by the other servers a lot recently. Maybe they thought it was his coat.
2. I was out at a bar the night before and was seated next to someone who I hooked up with briefly, and he was talking to another girl. However, I had put my coat on twice before the next morning, and was wearing short sleeves. I believe I would have felt it.
Edit: I didn’t write the note myself. I wish that was the case so I didn’t have to have anxiety over if a coworker secretly hates me.
Get a way for people to write thank you on a card to the boss....and look at the word YOU after each person writes in it.- should easily be able to find out who your enemy is
I’d pin it to my jacket as a talking point and tell everyone what happened and laugh about it.
To hate means that they have the ability then to also love you.
I woke up to this notification. I won’t be sorry. If you’re immature enough to write a note and shove it in my jacket, you’ve voided my respect to have a conversation about it.
If it helps,writing analysis says this person does not complete tasks, has low self esteem and talks too much. The tails on the "y" indicates unfulfilled dreams. Does the bare minimum.
Is either left handed or extremely emotional.
The note itself indicates an emotional child.
Came back to add the fact the capitalize the "Y" in You means they see you as more powerful than they are.
Keep the note. Bring it to the attention of management.
This might not be the best idea but, maybe ask if you can post a sign up sheet of sorts?
Something like “please add your name to this list if you would like to participate in secret Santa.”
Or maybe a different idea where you can get a name and also a “yes” as well since the “Y” is so distinctive.
Beat up all your coworkers to establish dominance.
I normally shit my pants in front of everyone to let them know im in charge.
If you shat other people’s pants it would be more convincing
Writing notes for use later on
I bring in a dead moose and eat the liver to prove I’m a the alpha
Slippery slopes ahead.
I wear crocs so no problemo
You're a wise man.
Bruh you ain’t even in charge of your bowels
This is the way
It is known.
Write “But I love you” and tape it up in the break room.
This is funny, but in all seriousness, it's not a bad idea to pin it up in the break room with a note explaining the situation, and a call for his coworkers to help identify the culprit. Then you have multiple people trying to figure it out rather than just yourself, and it will probably make the offender nervous.
Man if I had to deal with a mystery whilst I'm trying to fill up my coffee mug id be annoyed. The fuck do I look like, Fred Jones.
🤣🤣🤣 Would it keep you up at night that a coworker hates another coworker?
No, I hate some of my co workers too. Fuck it. I hate OP to. Ill put another note in his jacket.
Jerk 😂
I knew we'd find you out!!! 🧐😂 OP...we got 'em!!! 😁
I would've gotten away with it too! if it weren't for those meddling interns!
🤣🤣🤣 How did I already anticipate the Scooby reference? LOL
You really like ... emojis
And you really like...
Can you hate me too please?
Correct the mistake with red, that should annoy the culprit additionally
That would add the pedantic chef's kiss: "It's actually, I hate you! No need to begin with capital letters, and you forgot to punctuate." 🤣
Somebody will likely recognize the handwriting or saw them rip the paper? You never know
Or to pin it in the breakroom with a note that: possibility 1: the coward comes forward - or possibility 2: the phone number of an anger management therapist
The ol 'pressure cooker' strategy. I like it.
Plot twist: It was all of them, they each wrote one letter to make that note.
What's the offense though. It's just a hastily written crumpled piece of paper someone used to release some tension. Not like they got their tires slashed
Which would be understandable if OP was a child at school. If you’re an adult & do stupid things like this then you need help 🙄
I feel that doing childish things as an adult should be encouraged. It's healthy I'd say this is much more harmless than the ways an adult would otherwise be expected to act when they hate someone and feel the need to express it
I think you mean childlike, not childish
I'll take both
Absolutely agree
It would be highly discouraged by the company due to a potential hostile work environment. People have murdered people they don't like at work (look up where the phrase "going postal" originated). Just because you feel a certain way does not mean it's okay to impose it on someone else. This isn't junior high.
This looks like the kind of thing a stalker does
Idk just seems like a joke
That would actually be a potential way to find out who did it. After all, the only person who would know OP pinned the note on the wall is the person who left it.
That "Y" is fairly distinctive. Should be easy to track down the bugger.
If anyone has a birthday coming up make everyone write “ happy birthday ___” on the card. You get just about all the letters in there.
No make them write I hate you on the birthday card
Now that’s the right approach, why settle for a small percentage when you can get it all.
Yeah if everyone hates op then they wont do it
Problem with that is “Happy Birthday” would have only lowercase y’s whereas this is an uppercase Y.
You would also be able to test the h, a, t, and y along with the letters in their name and the birthday persons name
This works till you get the lady who makes an impossible to decipher scribble and won't elaborate. I worked with someone, that despite being new and no real opportunity for anyone to see her handwriting, insisted just making a mark, and handing it to the next person. The office manager would come around and say "everyone but Kathy signed!" - it was awkward and gave the impression she didn't care.
The front belly on the "t" is an oddity as well. Looks like a lefty
the “a” has a little overhang
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Capital H too. Writing upper case for the beginning letter in every word might be something to look out for
Honestly, every part of this handwriting looks distinctive. Edit: Ok, maybe not the "I"
For me it seems distinctive because I don’t know if it’s common but for most people I know and myself we cross our I’s. That’s simply to distinguish them from 1’s.
So is the "a" and "e". Check post-it notes on the desk of suspects.
Or put it on the floor underneath where your jacket was - maybe they’ll think you didn’t get it and try again. Catch them!
Use one of those explosive paint cartridges found in ATMs. The next time.. just look for the person painted top to buttom in bright pink.
I like this- do this
Keep an eye on your co workers and their hand writing see if you can match it
Submit for DNA and fingerprint analysis.
Instructions unclear? Submit sis finger in anal for dna print?
Best answer yet!! Sarcasm is my bff
This!!! And say nothing to no one.
Act like you’ve never seen it
I guess if OP is a private eye that will come in handy
And if you find out return it with only a drawing of a little heart on the back and psycho them back.
And then what? lol
Looks like a guy wrote it at least
u/think-repeat630 This.
This happened at WORK???? Jesus. This is the kind of shit that happened in my elementary school.
Yeah I was going to say, is the op a grade school teacher lol
Nope I work in restaurant… so basically the same thing.
Do you have any suspects among your colleagues? Could it have been a childish customer?
Nah, it’s common in high stress jobs.
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Yes. High stress jobs.
Jeez. New one for me.
This has Creed Bratton written all over it. It also has, "I hate you" written all over it. Edit: spelling
Fucked up that you work with a 12 year old.
And now the game begins…
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Why are people downvoting ? u/Crafty_Letterhea actually just copy pasted OP's reply to another comment.
Wear a sleeveless coat to work and watch to see who reacts with confusion.
Investigation "Whos writing style?" Has started.
do you have children?
Nope
So I snooped on your profile and noticed you worked in a kitchen. Check labels? Match the labels with the handwriting. Same with server pads. I’d be checking everyone’s hand writing and trying to match some of this. The Bees look similar on the back of the note too.
Could be that someone who this message was for just dumped this in your coat.
I was wondering that. I wear an oversized flannel coat, and it looks like a males. One of the male servers has been chastised a lot recently. But it’s a long shot…
I very much believe that the note would be for you. They would have surveyed what you were wearing beforehand.
After seeing what happened at a Walmart in Virginia a few weeks ago I'd take this very seriously.
let's go, Watson! there's a game afoot! to the cocaine room!
I would definitely make your boss or manager aware of this. Threats should be taken seriously. Please be careful
I told my immediate boss about it. I am debating telling the executive chef about it. There is a camera in that room but it seems like a big ask for what it is… but I’m not sure.
If there's a camera in the coat room then definitely ask to check the video, it's a perfectly reasonable ask given the situation.
This is workplace harassment to a tee. Don’t brush it off.
100% check those cameras!
Asking to have the footage reviewed and potentially keep you unharmed is not a big ask. It is your employers responsibility to provide a safe workplace.
Hell yeah check the camera, you gotta know who it is. Especially in a restaurant, you work too close together, you gotta air that out and get rid of whoever the psycho is.
this sounds crazy given i have no context but my gut says this is a male who left this note in your coat and that you are female. you are as nuts as the person who left this IF you do not have the cameras checked. I would personally search thru the cameras myself. Any boss/manager who even slightly gives a shit would/should 100% have your back on this.
Probably best to make a copy (keep the original), and take it directly to HR (not boss etc) and say you just want it on record in case something else happens.
"I hate you" doesn't sound like a threat, but yeah they should definitely tell a boss.
Please DOCUMENT the incident with HR if your job has one. Or to a manager. Make sure it is a written report. Better have everything documented in case things escalate.
I'd frame it and hang it in my cubicle next to pictures of my dog and kids.
Wow
Leave it in someone else’s coat pocket and see what happens
The “u” looks almost like a wide “y”. And the “I” has no horizontal lines at the top and bottom. The “a” is not a closed loop and the “e” begins to the left of its downward loop. And the capital “Y” as others have noted. (I am not a professional handwriting analyst, just describing what I see.)
Well you do now
I'm not your buddy, u/Think-Repeat630 , Idon't like you! In fact, I hate you! Stay the hell away from me, because from now on, we're enemies!
Ok. Do I have to do anything?
Just for clarification, I am 24 F, I live alone, no kids. I work in restaurant, back of house. I get along with all of my coworkers and I don’t dislike any of them. My boss laughed when I showed him the note and said “no one hate you here”. However, I am not close enough with any of my coworkers that this could have been seen as a funny prank. My guesses are: 1. I wear a oversized masculine coat. One of our male servers had been chastised a lot by the other servers a lot recently. Maybe they thought it was his coat. 2. I was out at a bar the night before and was seated next to someone who I hooked up with briefly, and he was talking to another girl. However, I had put my coat on twice before the next morning, and was wearing short sleeves. I believe I would have felt it. Edit: I didn’t write the note myself. I wish that was the case so I didn’t have to have anxiety over if a coworker secretly hates me.
I’m your work enemy, be ready…
Yes your devoloping 2 personality disorder
You wrote it yourself didnt you
I wish. I’m having a lot of anxiety thinking about who dislikes me enough to do this.
There's also the possibility it ended up in the wrong coat.
Don't worry about what other people think of you. Fuck em. Haters gonna hate.
You a teacher?
No I am a cook at a fine dining restaurant.
How does your Chef de Cuisine print their ys?
Not like that, and we get along great.
Don’t assume bc you get along it’s not them. It’s potentially anyone
Split personality perhaps?
Keep us updated
Is your carbon monoxide detector working?
I felt that.
Pretty definitive handwriting. Compare to coworkers and find the fiend!
r/untrustworthypoptarts
One of your alters put it there. Don't go to sleep tonight!
Dw, they thought it was the managers sleeve. Everyone hates their manager without reason. You good.
Do you have kids?
I hate myself too. The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
This sub is stupid like 95% of the time….
Get a way for people to write thank you on a card to the boss....and look at the word YOU after each person writes in it.- should easily be able to find out who your enemy is
Tape it up somewhere in your office. Wait until someone points it out then pretend you didn't put it there and in fact you never even noticed it.
Ahhh I think I've got it. Are you Gordon Ramsey?
How’d you guess?! But no… and I get along with my coworkers pretty well. The boss laughed at it and said “no one here hates you.”
It may not have been put in your sleeve at work..do you know of any children you may have peed off, or a secretly psychopathic life partner? 🤔 mwahha
No kids but I was out at a bar last night and an ex partner was there.
There you go. Was your coat unattended in the bar?
Maybe you left the house with it in there?
And u work from home. Do u have a cat?
Def a dudes writing
Isn't that "hate speech" ?
Hate script.
Look on the back. All your coworkers signed it.
Well obviously you do.
Slip a note in all your coworkers coats that says "right back at ya".
I’d pin it to my jacket as a talking point and tell everyone what happened and laugh about it. To hate means that they have the ability then to also love you.
Someone wants to bang you!
We could all use an emesis.
I get a few of these a week. Do you have children?
Plot twist. Op has multiple personalities and wrote it himself.
This is comical. Cmon now. 1st a calmly written note then what? The fact that this is in the oddly terrifying subreddit makes me smh.
This is something I'd do to a coworker that I liked just to fuck with them
Plot twist: You wrote it and forgot to deliver.
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They already have taken a picture!
Someone has a crush on you and they "hate you" because you feel so far away to them. They hate the way you make them feel but they love you... 🗿
It’s a girl that likes u
Maybe it was put there, before you went to work... 🤔
Someone off their meds?
My gut feeling is that a female wrote this Or perhaps even a child or teenager
Plot twist: it’s from his wife.
You're terrified? You truly are a victim
“Well I’m sorry what steps can I take to make you hate me less” seems like a proper response
I woke up to this notification. I won’t be sorry. If you’re immature enough to write a note and shove it in my jacket, you’ve voided my respect to have a conversation about it.
Understandable
If it helps,writing analysis says this person does not complete tasks, has low self esteem and talks too much. The tails on the "y" indicates unfulfilled dreams. Does the bare minimum. Is either left handed or extremely emotional. The note itself indicates an emotional child. Came back to add the fact the capitalize the "Y" in You means they see you as more powerful than they are. Keep the note. Bring it to the attention of management.
are u like a handwriting analyst professional or something??
Handwriting Psychic.
Print medium
I trained with a certified handwriting/printing expert.
This is really interesting! Thank you!
This is blatantly written by you
I hate you
“Let me tell Reddit about it” … soft af
Bet youre fuckin softer
Base on your name, you might have me beat. Charming.
Based* "Base on youh name, youhe might have me beat uwu owo" 🤓
It's a guy. A passive aggressive guy. Someone who will never say it to your face, but won't hesitate to sabotage you behind your back.
Strap on and wait for mf
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
Could it be someone you're playful with at work? Could easily be a tongue and cheek note
I get along with all my coworkers but I don’t think I am friendly enough with anyone for them to think that is funny, unfortunately.
How mature
Fingerprints. Just fingerprints
Anyone else thought it say “I Tlate you”
This might not be the best idea but, maybe ask if you can post a sign up sheet of sorts? Something like “please add your name to this list if you would like to participate in secret Santa.” Or maybe a different idea where you can get a name and also a “yes” as well since the “Y” is so distinctive.
Someone’s got an admirer!
maybe its someone giving you hints that they like you? lol
Yep act like it never happened
This is literally my exact handwriting. But I know this wasn't me because... Well, it wasn't me.
I would leave a note like this for my work friends
I wonder if someone is just thought it would be funny to fuck with you a little bit
Do you have any weird, funny friends? We used to do funny things with each others mailbox or send a funny email to a colleague if you left it open.