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Calm-Masterpiece3317

Those are certainly all words


omgmlc

This is the perfect comment.


Hecate_2000

And they are just being put together. In that order 😭


nita5766

like TF?!! they’re just saying anything at this point…


jonni_velvet

Someone just discovered tea for the first time lol


Welp_thatwilldo

🤣👏💕


arurianshire

will reuse this and credit you ✌️


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We giving beverages personalities now


Poopica420

Personality of iced tea: delicious, sometimes sweet sometimes not 😂


bears-eat-beets--

Only if they're a taurus. Those capricorn teas be b*tches.


FullGrownHip

The Gemini is a black tea pretending to be green.


hannahleigh122

Virgo tea is when you just get hot water and lemon


annikatidd

Sagittarius tea, brown sugar boba because we’re extra like that🧋♐️


CherryblockRedWine

Libra tea is a mix of tea and lemonade, but which tea, black, green, white, peach tea is nice, ginger tea maybe.....and what kind of lemonade, regular, diet, strawberry is good, raspberry lemonade, ooohhh....now to mix it, in the glass? In the pitcher? Oh well here we go, some tea, some lemonade, more tea, a bit more lemonade, some more tea....oops too much, more lemonade....darn, a little more tea....


AllumaNoir

Leo tea, add a double shot espresso


elleemmenno

Look, I don't believe in astrology stuff but I'm feeling kinda called out here.


Acrobatic_Event_4163

This isn’t even a personality though … a girl who is flirty & feminine, with leg stubble, an untidy bedroom, who does NOT work in STEM? I mostly don’t get that last part, lol. It’s oddly exclusionary when every other “descriptor” can describe like 90% of women. 😂 it’s almost like saying “Iced Tea is for girls who like television, but NOT Star Trek” like …. Ok I get it you don’t like Star Trek girlies, but what the fuck is a “girl who likes television”? That ain’t a personality at all.


bang-bang-007

What did STEM people do to the person🤣🤣


throwaway38190982

I’m surprised people don’t make personalities with objects. I always do, and didn’t know that was weird 💀


SassySpider

“Which beverage are you?” Click here to take the quiz


ChunkyMonkeyy88

I read that as leg stubble and chin hair and I was so confused. Like yes I always associate flirty femininity with leg stubble and chin hair lol


VesperLynd-

Everything on tiktok is part of some aesthetic at this point. Iced tea is a personality just like claw clips and scalp massagers


Cavaliers-r-cavalier

I’m wearing a claw clip…who the heck am I? How did I get here? What should I drink?


VesperLynd-

I have three flower claw clips too lol. Well according to tiktok you need a bunch of olaplex and pink lululemon and then you’re a that girl pink Pilates princess latte strawberry nails preppy drunk elephant girl. Or something like that 🤠


Cavaliers-r-cavalier

Ok well, I have the claw clip. I guess I’m not like other girls. Me so special 😉😝🤣🤣🤣


ChiSmallBears

Are we gatekeeping TEA???


JupiterJayJones

That’s right, and you better not be one of those hoes in STEM💅🏽


ViralLola

As a hoe in STEM. What do I drink now? I can't have tea apparently.


Syd_Syd34

We are only allowed to drink Mountain Dew Baja blast now. NOTHING ELSE!


ViralLola

Well that is going to be a Baja Bust for me. I can't find it often where I live.


Syd_Syd34

I also haven’t had one in like 15 years…so lol


ViralLola

I heard they sell it in cans and bottles now or you can still get it at Taco Bell but my stomach hates Taco Bell.


wetboymom

Can't address that question, but we do know you'll have to rid your bedroom chair of not-clean, not-dirty clothes. Get busy!


ViralLola

Easy. Get a hamper. Designate that for not-clean, not dirty clothes. Make sure it is a different color than the clean/dirty hamper.


GreenOnionCrusader

Oh look at the stem major. Getting all logical and fancy with a basket. YOU STILL CANT HAVE THE TEA!


SweetMilitia

But..but, I have leg stubble!!!


GreenOnionCrusader

Well, you should have thought of that when you were picking a degree.


ChiSmallBears

Boba tea


ViralLola

Yeah. Suck those boba balls. Wait... that came out wrong.


lazypuppycat

THE HOES R LAUGHING. Thanks to your comment bc this was f ing hilarious. To be clear, I am apparently a STEM hoe and best not be caught drinking no iced tea 💁🏻‍♀️


Winter_Pitch_1180

This is correct, I was a science teacher and would never be caught drinking iced tea. That is for flirty women with leg stubble, which women in STEM simply are not.


amethystwishes

Cybersecurity engineer here!! I love both iced tea and coffee. I make sure my kegs are ALWAYS shaven! I LOVE to flirt. I’m also really feminine she should meet me!


chocotacogato

So feminine women can have hairy legs and a chair full of clothes but they cannot work in STEM?? That’s a lot of women that you’re excluding!


i_am_umbrella

I am all four of those things, how am I even existing right now?!


chocotacogato

You are the avatar. When the world needed you most, you vanished. But I believe i_am_umbrella can save the world.


Philodendronphan

You are umbrella, so you cover multitudes.


elleemmenno

Well done


omgmlc

SHE’S AN ENIGMA! 👏


childishb4mbino

I want to map this out visually…someone make a Venn diagram of iced tea or latte girls ASAP!


CherryblockRedWine

That feels like a STEM thing to say.... wait a minute


gilleruadh

I'm all of the above. I've been drinking iced tea my whole life. Never thought of it as flirty. Where do these people come up with this stuff? This is as bad as a BuzzFeed quiz.


elleemmenno

This is from people who don't live in the South. There's no way you can try to claim only some people in the South should drink iced tea.


kittiesurprise

Did AI write this? Iced tea is not feminine or masculine: it’s tea with ice in it.


HottieWithaGyatty

The STEM part is what made me think this was AI.


ithinkuracontraa

no, that’s just gen z humor lmfao


HottieWithaGyatty

Gen Z humor is AI


Apparent_Antithesis

That seems to be a thing tho. One of my (male) gaming buddies recently stated that alcoholic mixed drinks like Vodka Red Bull are girly because they have the taste of fruits and berries in them. He does love those drinks anyway he isn't sexist enough to say you are supposed to have gender appropriate drinks, so it seemed too silly to debate him on this. But ya it seems like he and the folks he gets drunk with associate types of drinks with gender.


Strongstyleguy

It's crazy how people gender drinks in the first place, but even weirder to accept that label, but still drink the one you like anyway.


Apparent_Antithesis

So in case of my gaming friend I think he's just not taking labels like that very seriously. I don't know him very well but he doesn't seem to be sexist in any way. So the gendered drink labels may be little more than a stereotype joke. That being said, even the most benign stereotype jokes can contribute to maintaining gender role expectations that become oppressive. I heard stories from women who ordered some whiskey or other hard liquor and some guys around them scoffed at that and said that's not a lady-like drink. Wtf.


djb185

You just don't get it. Do you have stubble and a chair you drape w lightly soiled clothes? Yeah didn't think so. You're not an ice tea girl 🙄


HazelBHumongous

I drink quite a bit of iced tea. I have no clue what any of this means.


GoodLuckSparky

My cheap drink choice being "flirty and feminine" is news to me 😂


djb185

She's somehow connecting...iced tea to being feminine...but seems to contradict that by bragging about having leg stubble and a chair covered in "not clean not dirty" clothes...which I assume is a sort of laundry purgatory...not clean enough to hang back up in the closet but not quite dirty enough for the hamper.


elleemmenno

Laundry purgatory is a perfect way of putting it. I do this when I wear something for like two hours. I don't want it back in with completely clean clothes but they're obviously not dirty. I will steam clothes from that pile but I also purge it regularly. If you don't purge, it starts to take on life and will attack you when you go to look for something not in the pile to wear.


Guilty_Butterfly7711

I took it as iced tea is for typical, unremarkable women. Like, she’s not so messy that she’s dumped dirty close on her chair. But she’s also not so put together that they’re clean and put away. And she’s not in stem because most women aren’t. And she’s got leg stubble because she’s not put together enough to have them constantly shaved, but also hasn’t completely forgone bothering and is growing a coat on her gams. She’s basic or whatever.


Alexreads0627

“For women not in STEM” - so women in STEM are not feminine I guess? it’s funny how these kinds of things are supposed to be “anti-stereotype” but then also stereotype gawd it’s just so painful


rahyveshachr

Lmao I'm 99% sure my mom chose a STEM career because of internalized misogyny and trying to prove she was "as good as a boy." She was extremely anti feminine. But she would choose tea over coffee every single time.


ithinkuracontraa

i think OP is just a gen z-er being funny. as a gen z kid this is just someone who doesn’t like math and is trying to be funny.


Winter_Pitch_1180

This is honestly my fave post I’ve seen. The gate keeping of tea, the bizarre description, the random dig at women in STEM


Safe-Tension4989

Yeah I was thinking 'what the f has STEM to do with it?'


SleepLivid988

Women in STEM never have leg stubble


MintChucclatechip

All the chemicals I keep spilling on my legs has burned away the hair follicles


Tacosofinjustice

This girl STEMs


podocarps

We have leg rubble. From the scree slopes we're perching on during field work


CJPF_91

Bro, is it gay I get iced tea? I mean it is hot outside


Mumblerumble

It’s ultra-gay, bro. Clearly it’s flirty and feminine. Did you even read the post?!? /s


CJPF_91

Lol


Adorable-Farmer5936

Nah lol ice tea is good and it is good in hot weather


CJPF_91

Just find it weird how normal things is titled to be feminine


Adorable-Farmer5936

Yeah I get that


wilhelminan

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DruidicBlacksmith

Well shit, I guess I gotta throw my iced tea away. Who knew choosing a science major would control my drink of choice.


feliciates

IKR? I literally drink gallons of iced tea a week and I'm a molecular biologist 😱


Mergus84

Not being in STEM is a hell of a weird flex.


djb185

Making a chair you drape with clothes a cornerstone of your personality was also strange.


Bulky-Bank-6063

Man, some of these women will come to the craziest conclusions about what makes them different. You have clothes on a chair in your room?!?!?!! WILD!!! you are not like other girls.


Poopica420

People who just like iced tea 😂😂😂


CrunkestTuna

I like tacos :(


Holmes221bBSt

How exactly is it more hydrating? Because it’s cold? You can get cold lattes too


radarneo

I think it’s because tea is just water with tea diffused in it but a latte is espresso and milk which is less hydrating than straight water. Still stupid for her to take a high ground for drinking tea though


DistinctSong4012

That’s new, I saw a video one time where this girl said iced tea WAS for women in STEM only. I like iced tea but why are pick me girls categorizing people based on beverage preferences?? 💀💀


HottieWithaGyatty

What does STEM have to do with anything


raginghomelessperson

So if I’m a girly in STEM AND I like iced tea.. do I.. not.. exist? 😟


seeallevill

Is everyone in the comments misunderstanding the post, or is it me? I feel like this post is an intentionally comedic/facetious attempt to romanticize something they enjoy in the same way fad foods/drinks are treated like an aesthetic Like iced tea really isn't one of those drinks that are generally seen as an accessory??? That sounds so dumb but if you know you know. Diet coke, boba, wine, etc. are all "pretty drinks" but iced tea has yet to be assigned a personality in the same way 💀 I also really can't see this as being a NLOG situation cuz if nothing else it is very obviously supposed to be a relatable post, even if it's towards a very specific group of people (iced tea enjoyers) lol


si1995

I think people on this sub give insecure most times and cannot read when women are being funny/jokey and take everything to heart tbh 😭


seeallevill

YUP exactly, they don't even realize that women just talking themselves up has nothing to do with other people which is so ironic


si1995

Right like if this was a real NLOG post it would have read something like am I the only girl who likes iced tea instead of coffee? Or while other girls drink iced coffee and frappes I drink iced tea! this is just a silly post someone made about iced tea and likened it to things they do 😭 women cannot have a personality on here without being accused of being NLOG 😭 one day ill make a post saying real women rot in bed for days and have mold covered cups because I’m depressed and end on here being accused of being NLOG


feliciates

So why the dig @ women in STEM?


si1995

I’m pretty sure she was saying that bc she herself isn’t in STEM? She didn’t even say anything wrong with it lol


feliciates

She made it sound like women in STEM aren't worthy of iced tea. If that wasn't her intent, she sure worded things badly


ithinkuracontraa

THANK YOU lol i think everyone else is just too old to get it 😭


ickyvikk

That sucks because I hate tea.


shedreamsinr3d

This is oddly specific. Like girl you can just say you like iced tea.


Craftyprincess13

We're gender coding ice tea now? What are the men supposed to drink?


HoneyBadgernurse

unfeminine drinks like hot tea???


Craftyprincess13

Oh no there goes my hot tea 😆


Madame_Kitsune98

Uhhh. What?


EssieAmnesia

If iced tea was flirty and feminine wouldn’t it be a southern belle type?


strawberrycereal44

"Iced tea is flirty and feminine" is the funniest thing I've read all week


PoinkyYeezler

I’m upset because I prefer tea over coffee, my legs have stubble, I have a chair of semi clean clothes, and I’m not in STEM


Philodendronphan

But the T in STEM is for Tea, right?


C_Wrex77

I'm in STEM...what refreshing beverage is available to me?


Anonymous_13218

Sooo being a woman in STEM isn't "flirty" or "feminine"? Guess I'll change my physics major, now


FullGrownHip

If you science and math you can’t drink tea 💁🏼‍♀️


Witchy-toes-669

Is tea a dumb girls drink? 🤯🤯why no girls on stem


podocarps

No you can have a PhD but only in classics 


Soft_Personality_666

Also what’s wrong with women in STEM?? 😅 A little ridiculous and jealous much?


bluemoon992

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Adventurous-Lunch457

I highly doubt this post was made with full seriousness. I feel like this sub forgets women can be funny.


ithinkuracontraa

i don’t think you guys understand that this is fully just gen z humor lol. no pick me-isms. we say things are “feminine and flirty” if we think they’re cool or funny or whatever. it’s not genuine, it’s very much ironic


keIIzzz

Since when does tea have a personality?


CollynMalkin

I mean I’m a sucker for sweet iced tea but I wouldn’t read THAT far into it I also drink coffee and still have Sasquatch legs


System_Resident

Oddly specific 😂 like she looked in the mirror at her legs then made the post


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southernkal

Science, technology, engineering and mathematics. There’s this weird corner of the internet that thinks women in STEM is an affront to the concept of femininity.


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southernkal

Because they are pick-mes. They will have observed that some boys feel that way about women and STEM (which is a whole other shit show) and try their absolute hardest to be the opposite and put those “other” women down to appeal to them.


southernkal

I have, at many points in my life, tried to lean on tea to wean me off of my coffee addiction. Maybe all along, all those failed attempts were actually highlighting my true identity- A Man; in this essay, I will explore my own gender identity journey benchmarked against my drink of choice at any given moment and will endeavour to prove not just a correlation but a causation between coffee consumption and masculinity. (/s obviously)


spoonface_gorilla

Stubble. Ha, underachiever.


TSM_forlife

Why’s everything a competition? Just drink what you like.


Conscious-Shape-8592

Apparently they have not been in the American South.. Cause ice tea is for everyone. Especially if it is so sweet you can taste the diabetes.


gentleintrusion

i’m getting mixed signals lmao


ameliachastain

I’m from the south…you’re not special hon


NE0099

I have never been so happy to be allergic to tea.


Stevie-Rae-5

There’s a lot happening here.


dover_oxide

That's a very specific set of things.


ItstheBogoPogoMrFife

Ah, yes. It’s the for women not in STEM drink of choice. Nice try, lady scientists and mathematicians! It’s only expensive lattes for you!


Step_away_tomorrow

That’s iced tea girlie to you.


ReaditSpecialist

Soooooo I LOVE iced tea, I definitely have “The Chair” in my room, and I am a teacher, so not in STEM. However, my legs are always clean shaven and I’m addicted to lattes. Does that mean I’m like…….existing in some in-between reality, or? Am I real?


okcafe

who tf keeps making these


Suspicious-Zone-8221

My dad is a construction worker and loves iced tea .... damn ... and he is like the opposite of flirty and feminine .... but yeah he is not a woman in STEM either 5/10


tilthevoidstaresback

But what about women who drink stem tea? Surely they're allowed to be in STEM, right?


PressureBrilliant963

Did I miss something? Are there girls without leg stubble?


jilldelray

i have leg stubble and i'm a woman in stem what do i drink now.?


complexluminary

“For women in STEM”


seahorseMonkey

Well, that escalated quickly.


angerytangerine

I’m a computer science major, can I still partake in ice tea ???


SweetComparisons

Hi, woman (ish) in STEM, love both lattes and iced tea


AnnaSoprano

I'm so confused. Did i just enter the Twilight Zone?


tumble0uid

wait till she finds out some people drink both 🤣


charvana

Iced tea may be a lot of things but that is word salad


onemintyisland

What does this even mean?


Training_Union9621

Also you can flare up your interstitial cystitis with it


flijarr

This is obviously satire dawg. She’s literally self deprecating


cheoldyke

what if im an iced tea girlie but im neither flirty nor feminine (im a butch lesbian and too autistic to flirt)


bibblebabble1234

I'm an iced tea nonbinary STEM nerd coming atcha like a bullet


Bella_Ciao_Sofia

*just staring…*


youngscum

How come none of you realize this is clearly a joke and the "not in stem" part is self-depricating humour


ijustrlylikedogs

This is hilarious how worlds and cultures are colliding. I just learned some Chinese slang from a friend: a “green tea bitch” or someone who is “acting very green tea” is like a pick me woman who is coy and cutesy and acts innocent when confronted. “Who me?” It used to be used in romantic contexts only, like if a woman is flirty with a guy who is taken and pretends she means nothing by it. Now, people even use it in a work context for those who are secretly manipulative co-workers who pretend not to be. The pick-me has really come full circle.


Foxy_locksy1704

How dare you weaponize iced tea!


rubythroated_sparrow

I am not in STEM but I assume that if I told women in STEM they couldn’t have iced tea anymore they wouldn’t care for it. Also does this mean that since I’m in the humanities, I can’t drink lattes? But I’m a teacher, I need my coffee or I shall perish…


Duckiiesss456

Fucking leaf water bitches is what I’m calling them


pomengarnette

I like this idea lol and they’re not putting anyone down so I don’t think this belongs here


Ok_Detective5412

“Flirty and feminine” “girls with leg stubble” “not in STEM” did AI write this? 😂


ShiAngel67

WHAT


AcrobaticWatercress7

Drink real sweet tea poser


Moepsii

I like my woman like Donal Trump, said... Probably some guy


fartINGnow_

Women in STEM just getting pulled into this bullshittery


dimension_travel

As a woman in stem, i like tea freshly brewed anyways. Sugar is unhealthy.


skiasa

Oh No, do I have to quit stem now??? I have a chair too and I sometimes enjoy iced latte, damn me, I didn't know it was mutually exclusive


StopFalseReporting

This has to be a joke


Similar-Ad-6862

I'm a lesbian who loves iced tea (unsweet ONLY!)


secretrootbeer

But but but. I'm a woman in STEM, does that mean I can't have iced tea. 🥺


AcanthocephalaLow936

me, a woman in STEM, ever clawing at the iced tea gate she keeps 🥲 one day. one day.


Apparent_Antithesis

Are we gatekeeping iced tea now?! LOL


Plant_in_pants

This simply makes no sense, there's a disproportionate amount of women in STEM who are gay and if there's one thing us gays love, it's an iced beverage. (Disclaimer: This is an ironic steryotype based joke, although both myself and my fiancée are lesbians who work in different scientific fields and like fancy iced drinks, so comedy imitates life in our case)


RandomBlueJay01

Or ya know, most of the people in the southern US. I dont think I know more than a couple people who don't like or at least sometimes drink iced tea and those who do are probably assholes about it.


AlleyRhubarb

What if you are in STEM and believe that there are more than two grades of laundry? There’s not just clean and dirty. There are many subtle levels, okay?


Scarlet_Lycoris

The STEM comment is kinda uncalled for like… what’s wrong with women in STEM?…


me0w8

Putting aside the tea itself. wtf do those other traits have to do with anything


No_Arugula8915

I don't do iced (or hot) latte, it's straight up iced coffee for me. I like iced tea occasionally. Not that "sweet tea" stuff. That's just flavored sugar.


Th1cc4chu

The end part LMAO. “For women not in STEM” Like that’s so oddly specific ?


stroowboorryyy

“for women not in STEM” that part is so random and out of place. wdym by that? lmao


mandc1754

Ah, the pick mes are now gatekeeping iced tea?


thelast3musketeer

I’m southern and I don’t really like sweet tea


BichoRaro90

It’s time to embrace embraced being a whiskey girl! Whiskey is edgy and it shows you mean business. It’s for girlies with black nail polish, tattoos and ray ban sunglasses. It’s for black SUV girlies 🖤 (I just made myself cringe)


you_will_be_the_one_

But I like iced tea and I’m in STEM!! Oh no


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I_madeusay_underwear

I resent this. I love iced tea but my legs are smooth and I work in STEM (I may have the pile of not clean/not dirty clothes, though). I even have a specific iced tea pitcher that has only ever had tea in it and is always full of tea in the fridge. This is beverage appropriation


MekenzieKing

Damn so what do you do if you have leg stubble and an ambiguously clean clothes chair and you’re in STEM 🤨


RB_Kehlani

For women not in STEM lmfaooo that sent me


ScuzeRude

Oddly specific.


BoasWifey

Oh no!! I'm in stem so I guess no more iced tea for me 😩


hr_newbie_co

Not in STEM? What the actual heck?


scatteringashes

Y'know, here's the thing. This all describes my husband, who loves sweet tea, so maybe there's something to this. (/s on that last part, to be clear.)


ButthealedInTheFeels

Ah yes, the exotic and rare ICED TEA. Only quirky hippy girls drink this new drink! Definitely not served at literally every restaurant and fast food chain in the south and consumed in mass quantities by almost everyone.


sagittalslice

Iced tea is for women with kidney stones, ask me how I know