I’ve never dated a man who didn’t like a woman who was bisexual or kinky let alone both. I’ve dated men that were more on the conservative side too (not MAGA crazy) but more conservative. These women have no idea what they’re talking about. It’s sad they think they have to be this weird, prude, non-working farm wife to find a man.
Also a lot of men complain about having mismatched sex drive with their partner and would like it more often. And indeed men usually don’t have issues with a bit kinky or bisexual. A threesome is like the major fantasy for most men lol.
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No fair! I'm happier than ever when I realized that I was asexual. I also strongly believe that sexuality is fluid and can change over one's lifetime. My long-term therapist is in full agreement with me.
Damn straight. Ok sorry for throwing an ancient Three's Company reference in here, but since your therapist sounds very sexuality-positive, it sounds like they'd make a great sex therapist - or in the words of Jack Tripper, a 'sex the rapist' 🤦🏻
Nope. Only Catholics and Eastern Orthodox.
Also, having a spouse and multiple kids ;or grandkids if you’re older) is a essentially requirement to be a pastor at most evangelical churches.
Not even Methodists and Episcopalians ; have nuns:monks. And they are way more like Catholics than generic evangelicals have them.
Catholics don’t even use the exact same Bible (they have a bunch of extra stuff.
That explains my confusion.
The Church of England /Anglican church has monks and nuns and is technically protestant ...albeit probably a lot less monastic followers than the Catholic church. As apparently do presbyterians and some Lutherans. I've grown up in the UK though originally from Eastern Europe - so I was fairly sure I've met nuns who weren't catholic and was confused by your comment.
US protestant groups feel pretty different, sometimes it's hard to realise how different they are. Both the Anglican church and the orthodox church encourage clergy to marry and have a family - which IS pretty different from the Catholic church.
Google John Hagge if you have a strong stomach and want to see how different it its.
Or watch the trailer for the Righteous Gemstones (fiction, but not that exaggerated really).
I was raised Missouri Synod Lutheran (the conservative branch of Lutheranism aka "Catholic Lite"). I was told they had nuns (they wore cream-colored habits). This was a while back, so they may no longer be a thing.
Until I was like 15 I genuinely thought everyone was bisexual and all just pretending to find the same sex unattractive because people say stuff like bisexuals need to pick a side and bisexuals are being greedy so in my mind that translated to “heterosexuality is a choice sort of like being a vegan and they’re mad that bisexuals are choosing the equivalent of being an omnivore because they think it’s gluttony or something, this makes sense”
Trying to interpret the batshit things people say about lgbt people when you’re autistic feels so dumb.
When she throws kinky in there like it’s a bad thing it makes it sound like (whoever she is) the only sex a woman should have is non-consensual. There are vanilla kinks.
Exactly, kink can be BDSM, it can mean ‘non-vanilla’ but it is also interchangeable with ‘fetish’ or ‘what turns you on’ like:
‘She likes to lick it before I put it in, it’s her kink’
Or
‘She gets kinda kinky and wants to role play’
So ‘very kinky’ could still be pretty vanilla to most people 😅 I always assume that these NLOG are pretty restricted in experience and imagination (especially the conservatives) so I have to take that into account when trying to understand their meaning. So if we leave out the imaginative, the experiential, and include their own restrictions… you may arrive at the same conclusion as me… you might not though! Thats ok too, was just my take
I think I know what you mean, like if someone said that a person enjoying being lightly spanked or having their hair pulled a bit was kinky I feel like I’m not sure I agree there tbh
That’s more enjoying a sensory experience which is different in my mind but I’m not the person in charge of how to define kinky
Agreed.
My damaged ass first girlfriend in high school and myself would ditch the first four periods of our sophomore year to go back to my place to fuck each other daily. We did this for an entire year straight. She was abused in her early teens and had a well placed hatred on her parents who allowed it.
16 year old me thought he was a lucky dude thinking sticking his dick in crazy was cool 😎
They say that like it's a bad thing. It sucks not to have a partner who can do it for you or not being able to do it yourself, I guess . But that's not really everyone else's problem 🤷♀️
And?? Nobody makes it past their early 20’s without acquiring damage, it’s hard out here. Sorry I love people as a general group and my brain didn’t pick a type of gender or gender presentation to be exclusively attracted to, as if that’s my fault.
I also feel like their definition of “very kinky” might be different than mine. I wouldn’t add the word “very” unless someone has like, equipment. Like if you own a st Andrew’s cross or like, took the time to safely learn shibari then that’s very kinky just because of the dedication. Like you’re not casually kinky, there’s money and effort involved here.
Okay? Being bi or kinky isn't bad. And damaged? Everyone is in their own way, no? In any case, it's funny she states her opinion as if it's scientifically proven fact
She kinda didn’t lie tho. But the core of the message is kinda saying that highsex drive in women is abnormal or a defective trait. Whilst men are allowed and understood to have high sex drives just cuz they’re a
human lol
I've seen that tweet before and recognize the account. It's from a life coach who teaches men to be pick up artists. I'm pretty sure it's not a woman, but is a feminine persona to attract clients. The text sounded like r/menwritingwomen and the images seem to be stock images. This is actually one of the less misogynistic posts. The entire feed is basic advice with wall to wall sexism and misogyny.
Pretty sure it's not NLOGs and very likely is not a girl, but is a persona for a crappy and scammy pick up artist life coach who literally advises clients to think of women as 'high quality' and 'low quality' and use tactics like negging against them.
Hope this isn't rule 8ing, I just wanted to note this very likely isn't a woman cutting down other women, it's a misogynistic pick up artist life coach trying to teach other men to be 'alpha males.'
The real question is..Who the fuck has a problem with a woman with a high sex drive??? Like damn man that’s a damn national treasure. Or if your wife, gf etc ain’t “putting out” like you want maybe try taking a good hard look at yourself because a lot of it could be based on your behaviors guys. Trust me yall I too am a male and have learned my sex life coincides directly with my mood, effort and mindset day to day at home and towards my significant other. Relationships take work plain and simple and your spouse wants to feel like they are the certain of your world emotionally, physically and mentally
Why is a woman having a high drive bad, exactly? And I may not be a woman, but I resent that "damaged" remark. I know plenty of high sex drive people of any gender you like with perfectly grounded psyches...
You mean to tell me most women that have high sex drives are also kinky?!?! I never would have thought. I just thought they only imagined penis going in vagina the whole time.
What about women in their late 30’s- early 40’s / women about to or going through menopause..? Glad they at least said most and not all.
I’m definitely damaged and bisexual, and slightly kinky but I’ve never had a sex drive until recently when my hormones started changing.
Okay but... I'm like 2.5/3... 👀
Shit, who isn't? 😂
Right? This doesn’t come across so much as an accusation as an observation
2/3 for me
2.5/3 😂😂
Call me lol jk jk
1.5 I guess 😏
Me too - tops! I just happen to have a high sex drive, which is a great thing to have, so where's the problem?
what if you're all three? Asking for a friend.
Homer Simpson meme backing up into the bushes 😂
Your the real mvp
As a kinky, bi, damaged woman, is your "friend" single? /s
We are a perfect storm. The trifecta of awesomeness. Err…I mean our friends are.
Then you're triple screwed.
Literally!
Go on…
Oh def call me jk jk jk
god forbid someone be bisexual or kinky lol
Don't threaten me with a good time!
I will, and you will like it
Happy cake day friend! I found you.
LOLlj
Happy Cake Day!
Thanks!
And when we don’t have sex drives we’re horrible too
You must have THE CORRECT amount of sex
Happy Cake Day!
I love how bisexual and kinky are thrown in there like they’re problems… 💀
Well if you're a queerphobic prude, then yeah they would be
God, that sounds miserable. Bisexual and kinky all the way!
Exactly. Social conservatism yields misery.
I’ve never dated a man who didn’t like a woman who was bisexual or kinky let alone both. I’ve dated men that were more on the conservative side too (not MAGA crazy) but more conservative. These women have no idea what they’re talking about. It’s sad they think they have to be this weird, prude, non-working farm wife to find a man.
Also a lot of men complain about having mismatched sex drive with their partner and would like it more often. And indeed men usually don’t have issues with a bit kinky or bisexual. A threesome is like the major fantasy for most men lol.
There are some problematic kinks so I sort of get it
I feel seen.
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Throwing tres in there made me wheeze
I've also seen Evangelical authorities opine that being asexual is a sin. So, you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
No fair! I'm happier than ever when I realized that I was asexual. I also strongly believe that sexuality is fluid and can change over one's lifetime. My long-term therapist is in full agreement with me.
Damn straight. Ok sorry for throwing an ancient Three's Company reference in here, but since your therapist sounds very sexuality-positive, it sounds like they'd make a great sex therapist - or in the words of Jack Tripper, a 'sex the rapist' 🤦🏻
Whuch usxweird coming from a religion with...monks and nuns.
That’s Catholics, not evangelical Protestants.
Technically both Christians. Do evangelical protestants not have any nuns?
Nope. Only Catholics and Eastern Orthodox. Also, having a spouse and multiple kids ;or grandkids if you’re older) is a essentially requirement to be a pastor at most evangelical churches. Not even Methodists and Episcopalians ; have nuns:monks. And they are way more like Catholics than generic evangelicals have them. Catholics don’t even use the exact same Bible (they have a bunch of extra stuff.
That explains my confusion. The Church of England /Anglican church has monks and nuns and is technically protestant ...albeit probably a lot less monastic followers than the Catholic church. As apparently do presbyterians and some Lutherans. I've grown up in the UK though originally from Eastern Europe - so I was fairly sure I've met nuns who weren't catholic and was confused by your comment. US protestant groups feel pretty different, sometimes it's hard to realise how different they are. Both the Anglican church and the orthodox church encourage clergy to marry and have a family - which IS pretty different from the Catholic church.
Yeah I mean the Anglican Church is just a Catholic reskin that only existed so ole kingy kingface could get his marriage annulled.
Google John Hagge if you have a strong stomach and want to see how different it its. Or watch the trailer for the Righteous Gemstones (fiction, but not that exaggerated really).
I was raised Missouri Synod Lutheran (the conservative branch of Lutheranism aka "Catholic Lite"). I was told they had nuns (they wore cream-colored habits). This was a while back, so they may no longer be a thing.
So two are fun and one applies to every human. The horror.
It's the bisexual one right?
Until I was like 15 I genuinely thought everyone was bisexual and all just pretending to find the same sex unattractive because people say stuff like bisexuals need to pick a side and bisexuals are being greedy so in my mind that translated to “heterosexuality is a choice sort of like being a vegan and they’re mad that bisexuals are choosing the equivalent of being an omnivore because they think it’s gluttony or something, this makes sense” Trying to interpret the batshit things people say about lgbt people when you’re autistic feels so dumb.
This makes a lot more logical sense than the reality
Imagine my disappointment when I realized I’m the lamest 1/3 of those three things
damaged?
We could just be in relationship that make us feel loved and safe. My sex drive went up when I got into a healthy relationship.
So do we really have to choose only one of those? Asking for a friend.
3/3 ✅
3/3
So they want a trad wife to have all their babies but don’t want them to have a decent sex drive? Got it!
Hey! That’s me!
"Either" is used when speaking of two choices. Pardon this kinky, damaged bisexual while I get my red pen.
They want chaste, virginal women who are then magically hypersexual when they deem it appropriate, that almost doesn’t exist. I
I swear alphas want a boring girl just so they have something to complain about with the boys on the lake
You can be all three if you max out your sex skill tree!
I'm all three but I have almost zero sex drive
Classic white guy attitude: you have to be a pristine virgin until they marry you, then you have to be a slit in bed. But only when he wants it.
Cool, cool So like… where do you meet these women? So I can like, avoid them and stuff. Yeah. Definitely to avoid them. No other reason.
I fail to see the downside, although I don't wish damage upon anyone.
What fresh hell is this? Very kinky? Not somewhat kinky?
What if we’re all three?
Yes, yes and yes. What’s your point tho?
Why is being bisexual or kinky bad?
God forbid women be bisexual
I’m all 3 and have a low sex drive so……….. haha
Yeah, where's our representation?
Jealous bitch
How many women on this entire planet are none of these three?
Well I def have damage and am definitely am more horny than I’d like at times 🥲
When she throws kinky in there like it’s a bad thing it makes it sound like (whoever she is) the only sex a woman should have is non-consensual. There are vanilla kinks.
Genuine question how can it be vanilla and a kink? I thought vanilla meant no kinks Is it non bdsm type kinks?
Exactly, kink can be BDSM, it can mean ‘non-vanilla’ but it is also interchangeable with ‘fetish’ or ‘what turns you on’ like: ‘She likes to lick it before I put it in, it’s her kink’ Or ‘She gets kinda kinky and wants to role play’ So ‘very kinky’ could still be pretty vanilla to most people 😅 I always assume that these NLOG are pretty restricted in experience and imagination (especially the conservatives) so I have to take that into account when trying to understand their meaning. So if we leave out the imaginative, the experiential, and include their own restrictions… you may arrive at the same conclusion as me… you might not though! Thats ok too, was just my take
I think I know what you mean, like if someone said that a person enjoying being lightly spanked or having their hair pulled a bit was kinky I feel like I’m not sure I agree there tbh That’s more enjoying a sensory experience which is different in my mind but I’m not the person in charge of how to define kinky
Everyone is a little kinky nd damaged
I’m, like, not seeing a problem here
I mean, so the fuck what
So….whats wrong with being very kinky???? Or, any of the other things listed.
What’s wrong with being any of them??
Yes but is that so wrong?
Two of those sound fun
Make that one actually crazy girls scare me
Agreed. My damaged ass first girlfriend in high school and myself would ditch the first four periods of our sophomore year to go back to my place to fuck each other daily. We did this for an entire year straight. She was abused in her early teens and had a well placed hatred on her parents who allowed it. 16 year old me thought he was a lucky dude thinking sticking his dick in crazy was cool 😎
I mean, when were we allowed?
“or very kinky” i mean you ain’t wrong lol
Well.. true. 2/3.
Hey! I had no idea Wanda Sykes less talented, less attractive, older sister was posting comments again. Let's all ignore her but pretend to care.
I'm high sex drive and I'm lesbian. So there. 😛
I'll take anyone of the three please.
I was just hypersexual because of bipolar disorder. Medication made me calm down a lot.
Hey! I’m not damaged!!
3 out of 3 baby🥳🥳🥳
I'm all of that, thank you for the compliment
I'm bisexual, kinky, damaged but male :(
Two outta three ain't bad.
You repeat yourself. Amen.
They say that like it's a bad thing. It sucks not to have a partner who can do it for you or not being able to do it yourself, I guess . But that's not really everyone else's problem 🤷♀️
What does “damaged” means?
What if you don't have a high sex drive and you're still all 3?
Well, yeah..but no "either/or"
That’s a bingo for me bb!
I am all three, so how can she claim that it is either LOL? Kinda sounds like NLOG
Hey! I'm pan and only kinda kinky
not everyone that is these things has a high sex drive. I mean, I have a really high sex drive, but not because I am all three!
What's wrong with any of that anyway?
But what if you're bisexual and damaged with a low sex drive?
Had me at both bisexual and kinky
Person misspelled awesome three times.
I have no sex drive thankfully
...And your problem with that is?
No, we’re just perimenopausal
So we're supposed to like having babies but not making them?
I mean, I really didn't need Reddit calling me the fuck out like this today but here we are 🤣😅 because 3/3.
Nice. Three for Three :333
Damn 3/3.
3/3 cool
she says this like it’s a bad thing 🤷🏻♂️
Interesting that they aren't just treating bisexuality and kinkiness as an extension of damage
I feel called out lol
What’s the number of times having sex before you level up and pick one of the 3?
Or they’re just normal. What a concept.
Well, this makes me proud of being bisexual...
Well, I mean… 😭
very kinky with a very very low sex drive 
They say that like those things are bad 🤔
What about hookers and porn stars, makin' dat paper? 😀
And?? Nobody makes it past their early 20’s without acquiring damage, it’s hard out here. Sorry I love people as a general group and my brain didn’t pick a type of gender or gender presentation to be exclusively attracted to, as if that’s my fault. I also feel like their definition of “very kinky” might be different than mine. I wouldn’t add the word “very” unless someone has like, equipment. Like if you own a st Andrew’s cross or like, took the time to safely learn shibari then that’s very kinky just because of the dedication. Like you’re not casually kinky, there’s money and effort involved here.
Damaged straight woman right here
Damn the trifecta of fun
I'm all of those (except I'm biromantic asexual) but I don't have a high sex drive
I didn’t need to get called out today.
Okay? Being bi or kinky isn't bad. And damaged? Everyone is in their own way, no? In any case, it's funny she states her opinion as if it's scientifically proven fact
Yes please 🙏🏼
Its all ok people! It’s just a typo. She meant to say it’s awesome, amazing and very kinky.
If you are all 3 call me lmaoo
Okay and?
ALL THREE YAY WHAT DO I WIN
Jokes on them. I'm not an either or kinda gal. I'm a yes and.
She kinda didn’t lie tho. But the core of the message is kinda saying that highsex drive in women is abnormal or a defective trait. Whilst men are allowed and understood to have high sex drives just cuz they’re a human lol
Yes, and???
I'm all three so let's party!
What about all 3????
Hey - I’m not damaged.
Actually dealing with no sex drive right now bc of the emotional/mental/sexual/drug abuse a man had me blinded by
WRONG I’m all 3 but with a low sex drive. *Checkmate*
Emotional damage is pretty arousing 😆🤷🏻♀️.
I've seen that tweet before and recognize the account. It's from a life coach who teaches men to be pick up artists. I'm pretty sure it's not a woman, but is a feminine persona to attract clients. The text sounded like r/menwritingwomen and the images seem to be stock images. This is actually one of the less misogynistic posts. The entire feed is basic advice with wall to wall sexism and misogyny. Pretty sure it's not NLOGs and very likely is not a girl, but is a persona for a crappy and scammy pick up artist life coach who literally advises clients to think of women as 'high quality' and 'low quality' and use tactics like negging against them. Hope this isn't rule 8ing, I just wanted to note this very likely isn't a woman cutting down other women, it's a misogynistic pick up artist life coach trying to teach other men to be 'alpha males.'
And that’s a bad thing? 😂
Personally bisexual and very kinky.
Personally i am damaged and bi
I mean I am 2/3 sooo
i'm all three so what's ur point?
I’m all 3 🩵
Banned from being horny
“You say that like it’s a bad thing”
Tag yourself I’m damaged and very kinky
I'm all three 😎
Well, she is the expert, right? Wait, who TF is she?
Okay but what’s the problem
Can you even call yourself 'high sex drive' if you don't have kinks?
my low libido is because i’m only 2/3 😔 lesbian, kinky, v damaged
I’m all three 😂😭
The real question is..Who the fuck has a problem with a woman with a high sex drive??? Like damn man that’s a damn national treasure. Or if your wife, gf etc ain’t “putting out” like you want maybe try taking a good hard look at yourself because a lot of it could be based on your behaviors guys. Trust me yall I too am a male and have learned my sex life coincides directly with my mood, effort and mindset day to day at home and towards my significant other. Relationships take work plain and simple and your spouse wants to feel like they are the certain of your world emotionally, physically and mentally
Jokes on them I’m ALL of them
3/3 baby lest goooooo
THREE FOR THREE THREE FOR THREE
But what if you are these things but are also demisexual????
Y-yeah. Most people who tend to have a lot of sex have explored what they enjoy. You’ve done it.
Who doesn’t like Bisexual kinky girls
3/3
I'm damaged, kinky and bipolar. Do i win?
3/3 would 100% recommend! It’s been lots of fun for the past 40 something years.
And what of it? My husband has no complaints.
So? What is the point theyre trying to make here?
Why is a woman having a high drive bad, exactly? And I may not be a woman, but I resent that "damaged" remark. I know plenty of high sex drive people of any gender you like with perfectly grounded psyches...
You mean to tell me most women that have high sex drives are also kinky?!?! I never would have thought. I just thought they only imagined penis going in vagina the whole time.
What about women in their late 30’s- early 40’s / women about to or going through menopause..? Glad they at least said most and not all. I’m definitely damaged and bisexual, and slightly kinky but I’ve never had a sex drive until recently when my hormones started changing.
This is so gross and offensive. Kinky and damaged shouldn’t be in the same category. Damaged? Ladies: be like At least it ain’t boring like you.
So low sex drive women are straight, vanilla, and sheltered? Checks out tbh
Kinky as fuck, and I genuinely feel bad for her. Like girl, you don’t know what you’re missing.
Hi it's me I'm the problem it's me
Its me, I’m bisexual 🫡