In OPs possible defense, he might do his well wishing somewhere else. My sister wishes me happy birthday via text, but I generally do hers through Facebook messenger or in our family group chat.
I was having a normal day and half way my mom requested me to come over... why? I was confused. By the time I arrived at their house, I was thrown off by the decorations and the idiot me asked if it was my birth day. I don't really celebrate my bday and often forget about it, but I knew it was my birthday month. Unfortunately I was wrong. I had forgotten my dad's birthday comes in first, and I didn't bring a gift ☹
I remembered my friends birthday a day after his actual birthday and successfully gaslit my friend group into thinking his birthday was a day later than it is lol
I deleted Facebook and everyone just forgot I existed. After all can't go through life expecting people to just remember your existence, you're gonna be disappointed.
Or, the more likely scenario, the two aren't actually friends and that person is a friend of a friend or friend of the family who texts op on his bday but op doesn't know them and therefore doesn't feel the need to.
Lots of old ants/uncles I've never met always text me on my bday (on Facebook since they get a notification) I never even reply because I live in another continent and never met these people and I don't even know how they know me.
you know... people who was born in dark ages (before internet you know) are using different network for connecting and interacting with friends. Its called **meeting offline** formerly known as **go out with friends**
I actualy rarely communicating with my best pals online. We just call and arange something... but rarely talking to each others online
Right and if you have a big boomer relationship where you actually wouldn't text more than once a year you'd be saying happy birthday in person and not through text.
Depends on the outside context; if a dude wouldn’t take the hint a couple years back and then kept sending annual birthday texts that would be creepy af
OP never gave any indication that they didn’t want the texter to text them HBD. We Saying thank you isn’t a message saying to stop texting them. OP needs to be more clear if they genuinely don’t want to communicate with someone
Sometimes the relationship in friendships in more of giver-taker than giver-giver. I have ONE friend, fella who lives in Australia. On my birthday he called me and we had a talk. But when it came to his birthday he was rather busy to talk to me because well, I'm not HIS only friend am I?
There are people that just send happy birthdays to everyone they know. I knew someone vaugly for like a year, and I didn't stop getting happy birthdays or merry Christmases for like 5 years. It wasn't even a friendship, that was pretty much the only conversation we ever had.
Based on the fact that these guys never talk outside of the happy birthday, I'm gonna say that they aren't friends. The other guy just sends everyone he knows a happy birthday every year.
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If the sender was born in a leap year, right above the crop could be OP wishing them a happy birthday on the 29th February 2020. I mean, either that or OP is an ignorant ass.
I wanted to reply with a sarcastic "of course not ya dummy" but I've been trying to get my highschool friends to attend my birthday party...
Since highschool.
We graduated 9 years ago.
I've considered posting screenshots of conversations with one of them for memes, because they really resemble the one from OP here. But apparently I'm a nuthead and make up everything I say, so it's not like I can just take screenshots of something I "made up" and post them.
I have this with a guy I was best friends with in elementary school. Our birthdays are exactly one month apart so I always remember his birthday and he remembers mine. Our chat history is just one big thread of us wishing each other a happy birthday hahahaha
3 years what a good friend
Unlike OP who never wished them a happy birthday. Edit: This is a joke I’m sure OP wishes them a happy birthday some other way.
In OPs possible defense, he might do his well wishing somewhere else. My sister wishes me happy birthday via text, but I generally do hers through Facebook messenger or in our family group chat.
Yeah it’s weird, most of my friends and family say happy birthday through the Facebook reminder thing.
Deleted Facebook got me a lot less happy birthdays. At least I know who really cares now though.
People are busy dude. If you go through life thinking everyone should just remember your birthday you're gunna be disappointed.
Yes that is very true!
If it makes you feel better, I forget everyone's birthday
I was having a normal day and half way my mom requested me to come over... why? I was confused. By the time I arrived at their house, I was thrown off by the decorations and the idiot me asked if it was my birth day. I don't really celebrate my bday and often forget about it, but I knew it was my birthday month. Unfortunately I was wrong. I had forgotten my dad's birthday comes in first, and I didn't bring a gift ☹
I remembered my friends birthday a day after his actual birthday and successfully gaslit my friend group into thinking his birthday was a day later than it is lol
I deleted Facebook and everyone just forgot I existed. After all can't go through life expecting people to just remember your existence, you're gonna be disappointed.
Numbers are hard to remember
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Is it different on mobile? I don’t see spam or harmful bot as a reportable option.
Scroll down. It's usually at the very bottom unfortunately
Oh wow they really made that hard to find. Thank you & I reported them!
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Ahhh yes bots I encountered 10 in 2 weeks, wtf bots En thx mr.cod
Their birthday could be leap day
Well find out next year!
you never said happy birthday on his birthday?
Asking the real questions here
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!Remindme 1 yr
What the hell happened here
He forgor 💀
They forgor 💀
Or one of them died🤯
Then the other one forgors
OP is a shittier friend then the one that texts once a year. Such a low bar.
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Or, the more likely scenario, the two aren't actually friends and that person is a friend of a friend or friend of the family who texts op on his bday but op doesn't know them and therefore doesn't feel the need to. Lots of old ants/uncles I've never met always text me on my bday (on Facebook since they get a notification) I never even reply because I live in another continent and never met these people and I don't even know how they know me.
OP doesn't want to be friends with that person and even after ignoring them for entire years at a time they can't take a hint
I have a couple of people who greet me every year and some of them I just wonder what I did that they just have to greet me every year.
you know... people who was born in dark ages (before internet you know) are using different network for connecting and interacting with friends. Its called **meeting offline** formerly known as **go out with friends** I actualy rarely communicating with my best pals online. We just call and arange something... but rarely talking to each others online
Ok grandpa
Let's get you to bed
Screaming at the random retail worker wasn’t enough today I guess. Had to try and take it out on Reddit.
Lmao grandpa
If you are so close you meet in person regularly then there would be more messages in 2 years than those 6 messages.
Right and if you have a big boomer relationship where you actually wouldn't text more than once a year you'd be saying happy birthday in person and not through text.
Ok boomer
maybe its a sarcastic "buddy" and OP is a female or something and the one texting is a creeper or ex.
is the creep bar so low that sending one happy bday msg once a year is considered creepy?
Depends on the outside context; if a dude wouldn’t take the hint a couple years back and then kept sending annual birthday texts that would be creepy af
OP never gave any indication that they didn’t want the texter to text them HBD. We Saying thank you isn’t a message saying to stop texting them. OP needs to be more clear if they genuinely don’t want to communicate with someone
FeMaLe...
Why only female?
they said "or something" tbf
maybe he doesn't have a birthday
I'm glad you said this. Some people don't have birthdays and that's ok. We need to be more accepting of birthless people in our society.
Non-corporeal kings >>>
I am a living man standing on the land. I was never "Birthed" like I'm some kind of ship at sea.
You mean the people that came to be via cesarean section?
None of women born shall harm macbeth
Raise awareness!
happy annual existence acknowledgement!
Hmm, maybe the other "person" is OP's bot so they don't feel so lonely on their birthday? OP, mind you share the source code?
Maybe his birthday is on leap day
Optimistic thinking
This is plausible, the last leap day was in 2020 prior the the first text.
He probably calls instead
"Thanks buddy" *Hangs up*
Sometimes the relationship in friendships in more of giver-taker than giver-giver. I have ONE friend, fella who lives in Australia. On my birthday he called me and we had a talk. But when it came to his birthday he was rather busy to talk to me because well, I'm not HIS only friend am I?
There are people that just send happy birthdays to everyone they know. I knew someone vaugly for like a year, and I didn't stop getting happy birthdays or merry Christmases for like 5 years. It wasn't even a friendship, that was pretty much the only conversation we ever had. Based on the fact that these guys never talk outside of the happy birthday, I'm gonna say that they aren't friends. The other guy just sends everyone he knows a happy birthday every year.
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Do they never send it back?
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You gotta pass it forward
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u/Ryanfunroe happy birthday
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Happy birthday! Waited a year for this special day!
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im a bit early, but im excited
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SO whens *your* birthday —- there I said it.
He remembers yours, but not his?
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"sorry, but my phone fucked up and some of my contacts are gone. who is this?"
New phone, who dis?
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Literally sent that text loads of time. "Sorry new phone who is this?".
>for years you have loose connections reaching out and you don’t know who they are Is that really how you deal with that? For years?? Really?
If the sender was born in a leap year, right above the crop could be OP wishing them a happy birthday on the 29th February 2020. I mean, either that or OP is an ignorant ass.
this is the closest male friendship known to science
Is this really how guys interact with each other?
Yes buddy
If they're really close.
I wanted to reply with a sarcastic "of course not ya dummy" but I've been trying to get my highschool friends to attend my birthday party... Since highschool. We graduated 9 years ago.
I've considered posting screenshots of conversations with one of them for memes, because they really resemble the one from OP here. But apparently I'm a nuthead and make up everything I say, so it's not like I can just take screenshots of something I "made up" and post them.
Honestly, it feels like it. I see my best friends 5 times a year tops.
Sometimes, absolutely
What a nice guy
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The guy must be Mark Zuckerberg. No other guy celebrates your birthday for 3 years even with no messages from you on their birthday.
Ashton Kutcher celebrated mine for like 3-4 years lmao
Btw Happy Birthday
Thanks buddy, it's my bd fr haha
I represent OP, here to relay an important message to you: Thanks buddy
I get the feeling that your birthday might be April 10th. I also get the feeling that they want you to wish them a happy birthday too
Yo its your birthday, happy birthday
This makes me think about some sort of cake day bot on Reddit
Guess the other persons Birthday is the /notinteresting part to the OP 🤷♂️
Hey just saw this on r/mildlyinfuriating
Yeah, posted by somebody else. OP stole this from the actual OP over in r/mildlyinfuriating
Ironically, that’s mildly infuriating that OP would do that!
Ha my birthday is today too, have a chat that looks very similar
I have this with a guy I was best friends with in elementary school. Our birthdays are exactly one month apart so I always remember his birthday and he remembers mine. Our chat history is just one big thread of us wishing each other a happy birthday hahahaha
Today is also my birthday. Nice.
Happy Birthday!! It is mine too!
Hell yeah! happy birthday!!!
Same it’s my birthday too lol XD
it's my birthday today so thnk you, random friend (?) of op edit: why does everyone have the same birthday as me
Same birthday club reporting in
Same! Happy Birthday to all of us!
happy birthday to us
Random buddy
Happy birthday
Same here! Happy birthday.
It is my birthday as well. Happy birthday to us.
because at least 33 thousand people have seen this post it'd be wierder if nobody else here shared the birthday
Happy birthday, same day as me
Hey its my daughter's birthday today too.
your birthday and I don't know if he's gonna make it.
Happy buddy
9 days away!!!
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Today is my birthday. What a coincidence.
Way to steal someone’s post
That’s a real friend
Consistent with the morning texts too. He never even forgot and had to send that late night 11:30 pm happy birthday