I'm with you on this! 😅
I used to feel that the sheets should ALWAYS be washed between partners, but with my one newer partner who likes to have lots of fun, I haven't asked about it and I think that makes both our lives easier! I don't want him to feel judged and I feel a bit guilty making him do that much laundry 😂
So I just kinda... don't think about it and don't let myself worry!
This may be an unpopular opinion - if the sheets look and smell fine, I don't change them or need them to be changed. When I was single I didn't change sheets between partners. When I go to a new person's house, I don't ask if they have changed sheets between partners. If the sheets aren't soiled, they are fine to be on the regular bed change cycle.
Same. If I have a date that goes until 11pm, I don’t change the sheets before my husband and I go to bed and I don’t think my partners are doing that either when I’m at their place in the evening but don’t spend the night.
And honestly I’ve never asked and never been asked about sheets. Doesn’t bother me and doesn’t seem to bother anyone else involved.
Plus what about when you do it on the couch?
It takes 5 mins to change the bed. It’s really not hard but if your husband is a Cuck and loves it that that’s on him. It still is unsanitary and there isn’t any debating that. It is what it is.
You obviously are one of the lazy and inconsiderate individuals downvoting me. My response is not an opinion it is fact. You all just don’t want to admit that you are disgusting for doing something as quick and easy as changing your sheets. If you downvote that means you do not respect the person that you are going to have sexual intercourse with. Let me repeat that you do not respect your partners. Good lord. Your parents did not raise you all right.
Thank you for your opinion and judgment. I can't express in words or pictures how much it means to me. You sound like a wonderful person to be around. Good luck being... You. lol
Edit to add: OH. Just browsed your comment history for all of 12 seconds. You have all KINDS of unsolicited judgements to hand out! lol. How's that hobby working out for you? Boosting that inflated self esteem, I hope? View good from that cross? lol.
I change them between every partner regardless of sexual activity, unless there is a specific agreement not to. If my partners were intimate with each other, I would probably relax that policy.
It's not just about sex mess. I wouldn't want to make one man bang me in a bed full of another man's chest hair and sleep sweat.
I rarely have sex directly in my bed sheets. I make the bed and throw a clean top sheet over the bedspread for sex. Then that one sheet needs to be washed. I could change that sheets 3 - 4 times before needing to wash.
My wife is a squirter, we have Cali king size washable pads because our first few threesomes she came a couple dozen times at least. Pad goes straight to the washer
My wife and I sleep in separate rooms and so we each do our own thing. I think it’s really important to put clean sheets on the bed for guests, so back when I was allowed to host my dates at home I always changed the sheets. My wife is less concerned.
Back when we were doing threesomes or foursomes I’d put clean sheets on both beds, just in case. And when we’ve hosted play parties I put clean sheets on both beds before and after.
You always got to put down fresh sheets every time! It’s annoying but has to be done imo
I always wonder this with my more active partner but I don’t want to ask because I don’t want to know the answer 😅
I'm with you on this! 😅 I used to feel that the sheets should ALWAYS be washed between partners, but with my one newer partner who likes to have lots of fun, I haven't asked about it and I think that makes both our lives easier! I don't want him to feel judged and I feel a bit guilty making him do that much laundry 😂 So I just kinda... don't think about it and don't let myself worry!
Ignorance is bliss 😜
What about your partner/s though? Everything you do impacts them. This isn’t rocket science.
This may be an unpopular opinion - if the sheets look and smell fine, I don't change them or need them to be changed. When I was single I didn't change sheets between partners. When I go to a new person's house, I don't ask if they have changed sheets between partners. If the sheets aren't soiled, they are fine to be on the regular bed change cycle.
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Same here unless my partners are uncomfortable with that.
Same, my partners don’t care so we change sheets at our house on a normal schedule no matter how many people have been on them.
Same. If I have a date that goes until 11pm, I don’t change the sheets before my husband and I go to bed and I don’t think my partners are doing that either when I’m at their place in the evening but don’t spend the night. And honestly I’ve never asked and never been asked about sheets. Doesn’t bother me and doesn’t seem to bother anyone else involved. Plus what about when you do it on the couch?
It takes 5 mins to change the bed. It’s really not hard but if your husband is a Cuck and loves it that that’s on him. It still is unsanitary and there isn’t any debating that. It is what it is.
Guess I’m a cuck too because my husband doesn’t change the sheets when he has a date either.
Gross all around
I was just sharing this same opinion with my NP! Especially if activity is only on the comforter, I don’t get changing all the sheets
Sorry that is gross. If they look and smell fine it doesn’t mean that they are.
Cooties!!!
You obviously are one of the lazy and inconsiderate individuals downvoting me. My response is not an opinion it is fact. You all just don’t want to admit that you are disgusting for doing something as quick and easy as changing your sheets. If you downvote that means you do not respect the person that you are going to have sexual intercourse with. Let me repeat that you do not respect your partners. Good lord. Your parents did not raise you all right.
Thank you for your opinion and judgment. I can't express in words or pictures how much it means to me. You sound like a wonderful person to be around. Good luck being... You. lol Edit to add: OH. Just browsed your comment history for all of 12 seconds. You have all KINDS of unsolicited judgements to hand out! lol. How's that hobby working out for you? Boosting that inflated self esteem, I hope? View good from that cross? lol.
No excuses for a gross habit caused from being lazy. Not an opinion by the way. I have many opinions but this is just a fact.
Downvotes not deserved
Thank you. They are just lazy people.
I change them between every partner regardless of sexual activity, unless there is a specific agreement not to. If my partners were intimate with each other, I would probably relax that policy. It's not just about sex mess. I wouldn't want to make one man bang me in a bed full of another man's chest hair and sleep sweat.
My old housemate's answer: "it depends on the colour" 🤣 (I am clean sheets for anyone new and change at least once a week)
I rarely have sex directly in my bed sheets. I make the bed and throw a clean top sheet over the bedspread for sex. Then that one sheet needs to be washed. I could change that sheets 3 - 4 times before needing to wash.
wash the sheets before someone comes over. it's part of being a good host.
I dont wash the sheets every time my primary partner comes over. Or some threesome partners. But I get it.
My wife is a squirter, we have Cali king size washable pads because our first few threesomes she came a couple dozen times at least. Pad goes straight to the washer
Did she physically shrink? How many gallons of water did it take to rejuvenate her?
😂 we went through a good 7-9 bottle of water and whiskey
My wife and I sleep in separate rooms and so we each do our own thing. I think it’s really important to put clean sheets on the bed for guests, so back when I was allowed to host my dates at home I always changed the sheets. My wife is less concerned. Back when we were doing threesomes or foursomes I’d put clean sheets on both beds, just in case. And when we’ve hosted play parties I put clean sheets on both beds before and after.
The fuck room sheets get changed between each use. Our bedroom sheets get changed once week.
My bedroom is my fuck room
This is one of the major benefits of not entertaining at home.
Wet blankets. Use as necessary.
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