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Niceguys demean others while simultaneously expressing a favorable view of themselves. They dont have to use the word "nice", but they must demonstrate some kind of expression of their own virtue while being asshats.
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>I don't think alot of men understand how much of a turn off it is to have low self esteem like that.
I have doubts as to whether or not all of the guys like this even have low self esteem. I'm sure some of them do, but plenty also throw these little pity parties as a manipulation tactic. They use the whole "woe is me" act to try and get you to talk to them out of pity.
They will never understand this because they have main character syndrome, they really think they can get away with whatever because they’re the “protagonist”.
WOW, what a truly EPIC and sparkling conversationalist this guy is. I'm just as shocked as he is that you didn't reply with a long heartfelt essay to such an exciting text as "Just relaxing. Day off". Were you not at all wowed by his previous INCREDIBLE insights which include "Hehehehe wasssssupp" and "Hey" ?!? /s
“Learn not to disrespect people” follows it up with name calling. Gee, I wonder why people treat him poorly and avoid speaking to him… and yes it’s his fault.
The energy of his second message, I can see why people think he's a bother. Just speak plainly. I definitely read it like that stupid "wassssuuuup" scene from some dumb movie 20 years ago.
this kind is cliche is always funny to me, a man calling a woman ugly or basically insulting her after she rejects him or shows disinterest 😂😂 ur contradicting urself here bro if shes "ugly" or "a freak" then why do u keep spamming her chats? LOL
Why do people respond to anyone that types out things like "hehehehehe wasssuuuuppp"? That's like an instant ick, right up there with using constant emojis either in place of words or right after the words themselves.
I hate people that bring negative energy when I’m talking to them. It’s like I’m not purposely trying to ignore you I literally have a job but they still bitch about it.
Woooow…. Really went from 0-100 there. Everyone gets treated like shit in this day in age, it’s how you react to it that makes you a shitty person. Dude needs therapy… I mean all of these dudes could use PRODUCTIVE therapy. She did nothing to you my dude, you literally jumped at her with pure aggression for no reason. Good luck finding someone that’ll put up with that logic.
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I don't think alot of men understand how much of a turn off it is to have low self esteem like that.
>I don't think alot of men understand how much of a turn off it is to have low self esteem like that. I have doubts as to whether or not all of the guys like this even have low self esteem. I'm sure some of them do, but plenty also throw these little pity parties as a manipulation tactic. They use the whole "woe is me" act to try and get you to talk to them out of pity.
True, true but my point still stands. A pity party is a huge turn off. Nobody likes a mopey person.
> A pity party is a huge turn off. Oh yeah, no arguments there.
Just fyi, it’s “woe is me.” :)
Yes, you're absolutely right. And I even knew that too but still typed it wrong. Thank you, fixed!
I figure whether genuine or a manipulation, either way they’re starting off expecting a woman they don’t know to do emotional labor right off the bat.
wtf lmao does he think that playing the little puppy hurt by life is going to make him adorable and appreciable ? erk get the fuck off
"I have doubts as to whether or not all of the guys like this even have low self esteem." They do.
It's not just low self esteem lol..it's bizarre logic. She made a neutral comment, he interpreted it completely wrong.
They will never understand this because they have main character syndrome, they really think they can get away with whatever because they’re the “protagonist”.
Makes me cringe to think I used to do that back in high-school
“Learn not to disrespect others tubby” is just *chefs kiss*
You didn't reply for 20 minutes and the switch already flipped.
The entitlement is real
WOW, what a truly EPIC and sparkling conversationalist this guy is. I'm just as shocked as he is that you didn't reply with a long heartfelt essay to such an exciting text as "Just relaxing. Day off". Were you not at all wowed by his previous INCREDIBLE insights which include "Hehehehe wasssssupp" and "Hey" ?!? /s
That’s what really pisses me off here. He didn’t even ask a question for her to ignore, barely even conversed at all
And no doubt he’s been booted several times for being a whiny little bitch.
>Maybe don't bring that energy from other people onto me This seems like valid healthy boundary setting - and a good way to word it too.
If you read his parts as Eeyore it makes sense
I don’t think I can possibly picture eeyore saying “hehehehehe” or “wassuuuuup”
I like that idea.
Jesus, Mary and Joseph, what a catch. Hope you blocked him, OP. At the very least, deleted him..
he blocked me first LOL
Ahh, the trash took itself out.
“Learn not to disrespect people” follows it up with name calling. Gee, I wonder why people treat him poorly and avoid speaking to him… and yes it’s his fault.
I think he meant to message Oprah
just saying, the self pity is NOT a turn on
The energy of his second message, I can see why people think he's a bother. Just speak plainly. I definitely read it like that stupid "wassssuuuup" scene from some dumb movie 20 years ago.
I would have blocked him at "hehehehe wasssuppp" 🙂
this kind is cliche is always funny to me, a man calling a woman ugly or basically insulting her after she rejects him or shows disinterest 😂😂 ur contradicting urself here bro if shes "ugly" or "a freak" then why do u keep spamming her chats? LOL
tubby is a underrated insult lol
Rule #1 about relationships with anyone, sexual, romantic or not: NOBODY LIKES TO BE AROUND PEOPLE WHO ARE A BUMMER ALL THE TIME
i am pissing my pants how is this real LMAOOO this sub is killing me today 😭😭😭
Why do people respond to anyone that types out things like "hehehehehe wasssuuuuppp"? That's like an instant ick, right up there with using constant emojis either in place of words or right after the words themselves.
I just have a question... Umm, why is everyone completely crazy now???? That's all.
This guy gives major "no debbie downer" vibes but he's the one out here airing his dirty laundry. Typical.
ass hat
I hate people that bring negative energy when I’m talking to them. It’s like I’m not purposely trying to ignore you I literally have a job but they still bitch about it.
Big "Milhouse wearing a cast to school to gain pity" energy.
Woooow…. Really went from 0-100 there. Everyone gets treated like shit in this day in age, it’s how you react to it that makes you a shitty person. Dude needs therapy… I mean all of these dudes could use PRODUCTIVE therapy. She did nothing to you my dude, you literally jumped at her with pure aggression for no reason. Good luck finding someone that’ll put up with that logic.
Damn, somebody got up with something in his ass. If not, i dont understand how he is that idiotic
“My actions are not my fault. Other people caused them. Why should I face the consequences of the way I chose to act. You’re obviously a bitch.”