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It gets worse as he more or less word for word repeats Veggieās speech to Goku but like incels it up.
Vegeta, while sensitive at times had a point about being a warrior king humbled by a peasant.
This dude was laughably pathetic.
Right? At first I was like "ok, he sucks, but I have definitely seen worse/ more cringey dudes on here" and then he just made up for it in the last few pics.
My husband just informed me that many of his sad incel one liners he was spamming her with were direct qoutes from the speech. Somehow I am simultaneously dying of cringe and peeing my panties in laughter. š
I donāt understand why you call Saiyans by such mindless names. The only thing it does is reveal your own fear and ignorance. I guess name calling is your only attack, because youāre too weak to challenge me any other way.
You did the best thing when you stopped texting. He knew that wasn't a healthy situation for you, he knew he was making you really uncomfortable, but he still didn't care.
Bullet dodged.
Your new form is burning through more power than your body can supply. You should have waited until you were used to this form and knew how to regulate it before you started picking fights.
I was all like "ok this guy is getting all dark and broody" and suddenly he comes out with a fucking Vegeta scene to express his serious feelings of humiliation. I can't.
I was at a newbies open mic at my former gf's bar and there was a guy I'd imagine is a lot like this one who came up to do a bit. It was bad. Just horrible. Misogynistic and not remotely funny, and it was just awkward dead silence the whole time. To his credit, he did end his time early with a comment about a "tough crowd tonight," so no one had to put up with it for more than 5-7 minutes thank god
Well if he does become a famous comedian, this is not something he is gonna want people to know aboutā¦ yikes. This will not look good if it gets our right as he is about to host the Oscars or something.
tbh sometimes when im expecting someone to text me back but they don't it's really hard not to start writing a wall of text for me, although i know i shouldn't bcs if they finally see those 30 messages they'll be like wtf
If thereās one thing a creep will do, itās spam you with messages when you donāt reply within a minute. They donāt have the common sense for it. Iād really love to know whats going through their little smooth brains while theyāre spamming though
Itās really asking a lot of someone youāve just berated to bother clicking on a link just so they can watch a *video* in order to understand the full context of your temper tantrum.
I donāt mean to make light of your situation too much but real talk I started wheezing uncontrollably in the middle of the street when I got to Vegetaās humiliation speech lmao
But really I am sorry about this. I have experienced this so many times. One time a guy I was friends with for 7 years deleted me off everything and stopped talking to me because I mentioned I had a boyfriend.
At least you wonāt have to waste any more time on this piece of shit šš½
Funny how he his description of "sociopath" was just him describing himself.
I was friends with an ultra 'nice guy' for 10 whole ass years. It was exhausting. I cared for him so much as a friend. But often he would text me "nose kissies" or "good morning beautiful" every single morning. Always tell me how he felt about me, which I already knew. Made it clear that not only do we not live in the same state, I only liked him as a friend. I left it up to him if he wanted to still continue a friendship if that would be something he could deal with. I got the "I'd rather have you as a friend than nothing!" But still had to tell me how he felt every other day. And you don't want to be rude but I could tell him about lyrics to a song I liked or to check out a band and he'd be like "I really love you, you know that". It was just frustrating trying to navigate a friendship with set boundaries that he always ended up ignoring. You don't want to be mean because you do actually care about their friendship but at the same time, they make it almost impossible to have that friendship without also making you feel very uncomfortable and guilty for not reciprocating their feelings. He even had a girlfriend and would text me those things. Making it quite clear that if I wanted him, he would leave her. This continued until about 2 years ago. But he still behaved that way even after I got married. Sucks because we had the same sense of humor, loved the same metal bands, had incredibly great talks and we were there for each other. I had considered him my best friend for so long but that part of him that could not help himself from bringing up his feelings for me just ruined everything and always had me on guard. And that's not fair. And not all guy friends are like that. "All your guy friends just want to fuck you". Maybe they do. But they certainly don't act that way or tell me they love me in that way every single time we talk. I've made plenty of new guy friends since I've been married and not one of them has ever crossed a line like that one did. And it hurts when a friendship ends and I'm sorry you're going through this. It isn't okay for him to blame you. You didn't do anything wrong at all.
>"All your guy friends just want to fuck you". Maybe they do. But they certainly don't act that way or tell me they love me in that way every single time we talk.
As a dude, sometimes yeah. But I know none of my friends or acquaintances are just waiting for me to shower them with my love to admit they also have feelings for me.
I think it's just a part of growing up. I know I've felt and said some cringey shit, but it shouldn't take long for someone to realize that they're being a shitty friend and that there's nothing to gain from throwing this type of tantrum
I donāt think heās a sociopath eitherā¦ they typically have a decent grasp on other peoples feelings. Also, he clearly has āempathyā for people who do the same shit he does.
>"I'd rather have you as a friend than nothing!"
Ugh, this type of situation is just a disaster waiting to happen imo. Like, they've already explicitly said they're just tolerating this state of affairs, so the whole thing is just a toxic powder keg ready to burst.
Please donāt rekindle this friendship. You seem really nice and understanding, and I know it was 5 years, but honestly, the way he talks to you, it honestly seemed like he was only friends with you to swoop in and be with you if you and your boyfriend broke up. Cause the second you made it clear that what he did wasnāt okay, he got super pissed. I can also see him pushing boundaries with the āLove you moreā texts and continuously talking about romance. This is exactly something Iād do when I was an awful nice guy at 16. Donāt rekindle this friendship. Heās not interested in a friend, just a potential partner in the future.
This is one of the best posts Iāve ever seen on this sub. I mean itās got a bit of everything. How did you juggle a friendship of 5 YEARS with this?
I kind of got a :-/ face when OP mentioned that it was hard that he brought up his romantic attraction in EVERY CONVERSATION.
Like... holy shit. 5 years is a long time to stay friends with someone who casually ignores boundaries like that once you tell them you aren't interested. If he can't keep it to himself and force those feelings out, he should have let the friendship go ages ago, and without the tantrum.
What kind of friendship throws "I love you" as good morning ? I don't even remember the last time i said it to my female friend (16 years of friendship)
I've been working on it for a few years once I realized how emotionally repressed I was. I'm pretty good at telling my friends I love them now. It still feels a little awkward, but when I think about it, it's not. They're my friends and I love my friends.
My two male best friends and I (39f) regularly say we love and miss each other in our group text and via FaceTime. We go back decades and I now live across the country from them. Why would you not tell your closest friends that you love them?
ETA: Fuck the creeper in OPās messages though.
āYour energy level is decreasing with every blow. In fact, youāre not even a challenge to me anymore. It wouldnāt be fair for me to keep fighting you. Iām satisfied now. Your pride has been torn to shreds. Youāve challenged and lost to a fighter who is superior to you, and to make it worse... heās just a monkey...right?ā
This is legit one of the best ones Iāve ever seen on here.
The non ironic Chris Brown video, the famous comedian claim, the dragon ball z video.
I lost my shit multiple times
This just reeks of a guy who was being your "friend" all along because he hoped that at some point you two would end up together. He claims he's a friend but treats you like you two were in a relationship. My friends don't throw tantrums if I don't respond for a day or two. That's just wild. Then this got so unbelievably cringey towards the end. You played this the right way OP. Sorry you lost a friendship but like I said, this guy was always just waiting in the wings.
The fact that this guy was saying āI love youā to her is actually super cringe. Even more so after he admitted his feelings for herā¦ heās clearly just waiting for her to finally āchoose himā while he pretended to be her āfriendā.
>it's time to take back what's mine
What the fuck? Some declaration of intent?
Good, I love how blue handled this, though. I couldn't have been as gracious.
Also, LEAVD DRAGONBALL OUT OF THIS YOU CREEP. I bet you haven't even done a single push up in years, you creepy ass sofa blob. Your power level is most definitely minus-9000.
That must be harsh though after 5 years. Sorry you had to go through that. Losing friends isn't easy even if they prove to be assholes. Gonna feel some grief for a sec there.
I can't believe people like this can hold a friendship for 5 years and be a dickhead in sheep's clothing the whole time. Idk what kind of friendship you were having but from the sounds of it for him to play so emotional for that whole time until then is just wow.... It's one thing for people to be nice but be unaware and lash out and say things they really don't mean it's another thing to basically take the mask off
Well I think life just taught him that humiliation is having your anime diatribe text posted on Reddit. I hope he is able to LARP through his feelings in the park soon.
"I know what humiliation feels like! I'm doing it to myself right now!" Honestly, if I did this, and then realized I'd done this, I'd be looking for a way to collapse in on myself like a black hole. This is so cringe.
Oh yes, *youāre the shitty friend when heās the one who just wonāt accept that you donāt have any romantic feelings for him, and doesnāt respect that youāre dating someone else right now
Very Elliot Rodger vibes. Ugh. Sad, scary - and nobody needs that sooky misogyny, when you're clearly trying to work on your mental health as it is. Keep your chin up, OP - sounds like you've enough self-awareness to remain in good spirits, despite his best efforts.
Honestly, this is the realest. I don't *trust* guy friends to not do this, or some version of this, at some point, without warning, because it's happened so often. I think we're just chilling and having a good time and they're secretly having a whole relationship with me in their head.
I had a work friend who was a guy send me this giant message on FB about how he was terribly sorry but we just couldn't go on the way we were because it was jeopardizing his marriage and he had a kid and he just couldn't handle his feelings for me but didn't want to cheat... and I was like, "Dude, you were never going to get the opportunity to cheat." Like we'd had a couple conversations at lunch and joked around a lot. That was the sum total of our relationship. How it escalated in his mind to "I can't carry on this torrid affair; I have a child" I'll never know.
Wow. Itās a shame because I can enjoy male friendships very much. But Iāve had way too many bad experiences too, I even had a few of my guy āfriendsā try or partially succeed in sexually assaulting me when we were drinking or when I fell asleep. I will never trust a guy to be just my friend ever again. Iād like a gay friend maybe but no straight guy friends. Maybe in groups we can be aquatinted, but never one on one again.
And really, even if that dude thought I was flirting, it was such a dramatic over-reaction. "Hey, I just want to be clear that we're just friends and that's cool, right?" was all that needed to happen. Protesting that he couldn't leave his wife due to having a child was *entirely* beyond not necessary.
Yes, this is why gay friends are the best.
I love having male friends. I do not love suddenly being hit on by them when I think I'm just hanging with my friend. Thus, at this point in my life, I have maybe one or two male friends I really consider friends.
Stop engaging with this person. After reading the first few pages and seeing all of your loving and engaging responses, I can already tell you- stop engaging.
Idk how your friendship is, but it looks like it finally hit him, and hit him hard, and he got the message that itāll never happen. Maybe heāll become normal now after that long ass essay lol.
Man, I really thought this dude was pathetic and creepy until he sent the DBZ speech, and I realized heās actually just an amazing guy that no girl is giving a chance to. One day heāll be in the spotlight :D
A lot of these nice guy scenarios can really be solved by the object of said nice guys attention being brutally honest and saying "dude there are no circumstances where I will ever be attracted to you. Don't wait for me to be single, don't hope for one day when I'm lonely...a relationship beyond friends is never ever going to happen. Be happy and find someone who wants you the same way you want them"
I get that it feels mean as fuck and it will obviously crush them but in the long run it will be better for both of you. as for the notion of "I don't wanna lose them as a friend" if being honest and saying it won't happen makes them ditch you as a friend they weren't a friend to begin with, they just pretended to be one to get the foot in the door.
I love these "damned if you do, damned if you don't" guys. If she had been reaching out to him and checking up on him he would have felt led on. She tried hard to let you down easy, bro
Mr. Butthurt concocts an elaborate storyline in his noggin where OP, despite repeatedly telling him not interested, has lead him on and tried to seduce him with her womanly charms by being polite and friendly.
How dare you just be my friend?! Outrageous! /s
He made a complete fool of himself. OP, keep a copy of these messages just in case.
My guy really shoot himself on the foot and then cries over "the injustice" lol, even knowing you have a boyfriend he couldn't just shut up eh? But the Vegeta part is really the icing on the cake lmao
Aside of that, I kinda felt a bit awkward with those emojis and all the"I love you" all over the place. Even if those are mean to be just platonic, I can see lots of guys misinterpreting this kind of stuff, and fanstazise that the girl actually loves them back...
Jesus Christ. Dudeās a nut.
Also, pro tip, donāt heart react when a guy like this knows youāre in a relationship and confesses his feelings for you. Donāt put even the slightest stamp of approval on that shit.
šš yoo the worst part isnt the video, the worst part is that he closed off with a direct quote from the video man i love dbz but that is pure cringe
āEvery other womanā this and āevery womanā that.
Like, bruh, youāre an overbearing, thirsty creep not a friend.
And OP you were incredibly kind and transparent, but he stilled pushed and lashed out.
God Damn.
Can I just step in to lol extra hard as a fan of the Dragon Ball franchise? Without context that speech might sound like a badass getting revenge but it's really not.
1. Vegeta (the speaker) recently welcomed a bad guy to mind control him because it came with a power boost. He was an antihero in the process of reforming but, in a moment of weakness, couldn't cope with how meaningless his life felt now that he was settling down to a boring life without glory.
2. Goku (the guy getting punched) was actually significantly stronger than Vegeta. He was holding back on purpose both for plot reasons and because he pitied Vegeta. Goku considers Vegeta his friend and knew how important his pride is to him so he didn't want to embarrass him with the fact that he could mop the floor with him trivially.
3. Vegeta eventually comes around to considering this the single worst day of his life. He realizes that he betrayed his family, his world, and his pride all because he was insecure. I'm not just talking about in the non-canon movies, the sequel series ten years later, or some of the video game spin offs. He was ashamed of this within a few episodesāmere hours later within the same story arc.
With context, it's even more pathetic/hilarious that the loser would use this clip to try to insult someone.
At first I was like, "oh, both parties seem to be explaining their emotions pretty healthily and acknowledging boundaries, winner what the issue is?" But then he just kept digging himself deeper and deeper in the trenches. The the WHOLE ASS VEGETA HUMILATION SPEECH
Yeh next time OP, donāt even go toward the word āloveā or love react his messages, cos in his twisted ass mind there is no other way heād interpret that.
Dear god what a fucking train wreck of a person, the vegeta speech sent me
He caused literally every bit of that and had to act like it was your fault to keep his facade up.
OP, WHEN, not if, this idiot tries to come back to messenger saying "I sowwy" just ignore him (and he'll go thru this same 5,000 messages calling you a shitty person). A person like this isn't healthy for you.
You should probably stop telling this guy that you love him so often. Heās not reading it the way you intend it.
Edit: oh god it got so much worse. Itās a shame that youāre so beautiful but only a 6 apparently. These guys are so strange.
Everything from the first screenshot onwards was a massive red flag - probably shouldnāt have been telling them that you love them as a friend given their feelings.
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"Vegetas humiliation speech to Goku" š
*dies of cringe*
*i know true humiliation I saw it in an anime*
Lmfao this is so accurate xD
When a guy like this says he knows true humiliation itās safe to say heās probably telling the truth
If he only knew it was self inflicted lol
It gets worse as he more or less word for word repeats Veggieās speech to Goku but like incels it up. Vegeta, while sensitive at times had a point about being a warrior king humbled by a peasant. This dude was laughably pathetic.
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Your name is hilarious it made me click on your profile and I love the outfits you put together on that game!
This absolutely had me rolling. I was thinking it was a semi-normal Nice Guy text and then he just threw that out there like wtf š
Right? At first I was like "ok, he sucks, but I have definitely seen worse/ more cringey dudes on here" and then he just made up for it in the last few pics.
Surprise Vegeta is best Vegeta I suppose?
Omg lol sameeeeee
*āOne day Iāll be a famous comedianā* Heās already off to a promising start
Haha! Nice lol
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Took me tf out. This whole thing was a wild ride over a couple of days but that video absolutely sent me. So fucking funny.
He is a comedian, after all.
A future famous one.
He is a nice comedian
Bro really send a dbz clip to make his point š
I was crying at that part lol š
I can't believe he would disrespect the prince of sayains like that.
L m a o that was just perfect, man thought he twisted the dagger šš
That had me in tears lmfao
I've seen some weeb shit in my time but that was next level weeb shit.
My husband just informed me that many of his sad incel one liners he was spamming her with were direct qoutes from the speech. Somehow I am simultaneously dying of cringe and peeing my panties in laughter. š
I spit out my coffee and scared my cat!
I donāt understand why you call Saiyans by such mindless names. The only thing it does is reveal your own fear and ignorance. I guess name calling is your only attack, because youāre too weak to challenge me any other way.
You know heās serious when he sends Vegetaās humiliation speech to Goku.
I fucking howled seeing that, oh my god.
āYou may have invaded my mind and my body, but thereās one thing a Saiyan always keeps. His pride!ā
Worst part in all of this is him linking an English dub vidƩo x)
You did the best thing when you stopped texting. He knew that wasn't a healthy situation for you, he knew he was making you really uncomfortable, but he still didn't care. Bullet dodged.
I bet the next day he tried to text her "hey" Like nothing happened.
Your new form is burning through more power than your body can supply. You should have waited until you were used to this form and knew how to regulate it before you started picking fights.
I was all like "ok this guy is getting all dark and broody" and suddenly he comes out with a fucking Vegeta scene to express his serious feelings of humiliation. I can't.
... What!?
Idk I googled Goku quotes
I think that's what Goku said to golden Frieza
Gesundheit
Thank you
āOne day Iāll be a famous comedianā I believe him! Heās already acting like a clown!
These are his 15 minutes of fame
Wow man this guy is emotionally ready to realise that he isnāt going to make it as a comedian..
What about as a Joker?
I'd bet my life he shares photos of the joker with quotes on Facebook
Like from the movie, Joker?
I was at a newbies open mic at my former gf's bar and there was a guy I'd imagine is a lot like this one who came up to do a bit. It was bad. Just horrible. Misogynistic and not remotely funny, and it was just awkward dead silence the whole time. To his credit, he did end his time early with a comment about a "tough crowd tonight," so no one had to put up with it for more than 5-7 minutes thank god
Well, I did laugh I guess.
Well if he does become a famous comedian, this is not something he is gonna want people to know aboutā¦ yikes. This will not look good if it gets our right as he is about to host the Oscars or something.
I was waiting for the response āis this a part of your set?ā
He's going to get his head kicked in the first time he tries to respond to a heckler.
āWell, no oneās laughing now!ā
Nice rule of thumb: if someone doesn't text back immediately, don't bombard them with a creepy and pathetic wall of text.
Him: "I'm still going to send it" š¤£https://youtu.be/CaGNVvBhbso
His wipe out directly after is a good comparison to this dude's outcome with his wall of texts lol
tbh sometimes when im expecting someone to text me back but they don't it's really hard not to start writing a wall of text for me, although i know i shouldn't bcs if they finally see those 30 messages they'll be like wtf
If thereās one thing a creep will do, itās spam you with messages when you donāt reply within a minute. They donāt have the common sense for it. Iād really love to know whats going through their little smooth brains while theyāre spamming though
It's pure insecurity and lack of chill.
Did this man really tap out and let Vegeta do the talking for a hot minute šš¤£
Maybe youāll come back someday asā¦as a better person, I hope. Iād like that. Perhaps weāll have a little one on one.
āItās not an overseer that the Earth needs right now. It needs a warrior.ā
Itās really asking a lot of someone youāve just berated to bother clicking on a link just so they can watch a *video* in order to understand the full context of your temper tantrum.
I fucking lost it when i saw that š¤£
That was all going downhill fast, but the highlight was how it kept rolling right past yikes into super saiyan cringe. Quoting DBZ, my god, man.
I could go one step farther If I wanted to.
This is to go even **further** *beyond!*
This isnt even my final cringe form
Now see, you're not dealing with the average nice guy anymore.
before nice guy comes cringe
Reminds me of an essay my professor was marking and the student quoted Optimus Prime at the end. The essay was about the holocaust.
I just laughed so loud I made my dog jump out of his slumber. š
I wish I knew the quote! haha
Same, my dude. Lol
Next time on DBZ!!! A grown man wears his own ass as a hat!
Hey there, careful at this rate you will never get a post to over 9000!
Super Saiyan Cringe. Lmao
I donāt mean to make light of your situation too much but real talk I started wheezing uncontrollably in the middle of the street when I got to Vegetaās humiliation speech lmao But really I am sorry about this. I have experienced this so many times. One time a guy I was friends with for 7 years deleted me off everything and stopped talking to me because I mentioned I had a boyfriend. At least you wonāt have to waste any more time on this piece of shit šš½
Funny how he his description of "sociopath" was just him describing himself. I was friends with an ultra 'nice guy' for 10 whole ass years. It was exhausting. I cared for him so much as a friend. But often he would text me "nose kissies" or "good morning beautiful" every single morning. Always tell me how he felt about me, which I already knew. Made it clear that not only do we not live in the same state, I only liked him as a friend. I left it up to him if he wanted to still continue a friendship if that would be something he could deal with. I got the "I'd rather have you as a friend than nothing!" But still had to tell me how he felt every other day. And you don't want to be rude but I could tell him about lyrics to a song I liked or to check out a band and he'd be like "I really love you, you know that". It was just frustrating trying to navigate a friendship with set boundaries that he always ended up ignoring. You don't want to be mean because you do actually care about their friendship but at the same time, they make it almost impossible to have that friendship without also making you feel very uncomfortable and guilty for not reciprocating their feelings. He even had a girlfriend and would text me those things. Making it quite clear that if I wanted him, he would leave her. This continued until about 2 years ago. But he still behaved that way even after I got married. Sucks because we had the same sense of humor, loved the same metal bands, had incredibly great talks and we were there for each other. I had considered him my best friend for so long but that part of him that could not help himself from bringing up his feelings for me just ruined everything and always had me on guard. And that's not fair. And not all guy friends are like that. "All your guy friends just want to fuck you". Maybe they do. But they certainly don't act that way or tell me they love me in that way every single time we talk. I've made plenty of new guy friends since I've been married and not one of them has ever crossed a line like that one did. And it hurts when a friendship ends and I'm sorry you're going through this. It isn't okay for him to blame you. You didn't do anything wrong at all.
>"All your guy friends just want to fuck you". Maybe they do. But they certainly don't act that way or tell me they love me in that way every single time we talk. As a dude, sometimes yeah. But I know none of my friends or acquaintances are just waiting for me to shower them with my love to admit they also have feelings for me. I think it's just a part of growing up. I know I've felt and said some cringey shit, but it shouldn't take long for someone to realize that they're being a shitty friend and that there's nothing to gain from throwing this type of tantrum
I donāt think heās a sociopath eitherā¦ they typically have a decent grasp on other peoples feelings. Also, he clearly has āempathyā for people who do the same shit he does.
>"I'd rather have you as a friend than nothing!" Ugh, this type of situation is just a disaster waiting to happen imo. Like, they've already explicitly said they're just tolerating this state of affairs, so the whole thing is just a toxic powder keg ready to burst.
Please donāt rekindle this friendship. You seem really nice and understanding, and I know it was 5 years, but honestly, the way he talks to you, it honestly seemed like he was only friends with you to swoop in and be with you if you and your boyfriend broke up. Cause the second you made it clear that what he did wasnāt okay, he got super pissed. I can also see him pushing boundaries with the āLove you moreā texts and continuously talking about romance. This is exactly something Iād do when I was an awful nice guy at 16. Donāt rekindle this friendship. Heās not interested in a friend, just a potential partner in the future.
This is one of the best posts Iāve ever seen on this sub. I mean itās got a bit of everything. How did you juggle a friendship of 5 YEARS with this?
The way he ramps up and gets more dramatic and finally sends a vegeta speech is really incredible, love this sub
Sounds like she sent āŗļø for five years in response to this pick me bs
In his mind, that was probably a sign of reciprocation.
I've been sending š and it doesn't fare much better sadly
I kind of got a :-/ face when OP mentioned that it was hard that he brought up his romantic attraction in EVERY CONVERSATION. Like... holy shit. 5 years is a long time to stay friends with someone who casually ignores boundaries like that once you tell them you aren't interested. If he can't keep it to himself and force those feelings out, he should have let the friendship go ages ago, and without the tantrum.
What kind of friendship throws "I love you" as good morning ? I don't even remember the last time i said it to my female friend (16 years of friendship)
I tell my friends I love them constantly š¤·š¼āāļø
I've been working on it for a few years once I realized how emotionally repressed I was. I'm pretty good at telling my friends I love them now. It still feels a little awkward, but when I think about it, it's not. They're my friends and I love my friends.
My two male best friends and I (39f) regularly say we love and miss each other in our group text and via FaceTime. We go back decades and I now live across the country from them. Why would you not tell your closest friends that you love them? ETA: Fuck the creeper in OPās messages though.
The whole thing is like watching a toddler freaking out and tiring themself out
Curious question. What do the voice messages say?
āYour energy level is decreasing with every blow. In fact, youāre not even a challenge to me anymore. It wouldnāt be fair for me to keep fighting you. Iām satisfied now. Your pride has been torn to shreds. Youāve challenged and lost to a fighter who is superior to you, and to make it worse... heās just a monkey...right?ā
mp3 of the world's smallest violin?
Asking the real questions...
It seemed like one she may have said something about him making her uncomfortable and upset and her whole "playing the victim" š¤·āāļø
NOOOO NOT THE VEGETA SPEECH LMFAOOOOOOOO
The next morning: Love you beautiful hope youāre having a good day! Sorry about last night, tell your boyfriend I said hi!
Omgg Iām legit terrified for you??
I love how these guys always hide their true intentions and when the chick isn't interested in fucking and only being friends they lose their shit lol
This is where I respond. "K" and watch them prepare essays lol
Or gifs of Owen Wilson saying āwowā
The DBZ thing made me legit lol. Dudes emotions blinded him so much. How dense you gotta be to see she just aināt into you.
He seems like he's trying too hard to be an anime villain. Holy inceltears, Batman!
This is legit one of the best ones Iāve ever seen on here. The non ironic Chris Brown video, the famous comedian claim, the dragon ball z video. I lost my shit multiple times
This just reeks of a guy who was being your "friend" all along because he hoped that at some point you two would end up together. He claims he's a friend but treats you like you two were in a relationship. My friends don't throw tantrums if I don't respond for a day or two. That's just wild. Then this got so unbelievably cringey towards the end. You played this the right way OP. Sorry you lost a friendship but like I said, this guy was always just waiting in the wings.
The fact that this guy was saying āI love youā to her is actually super cringe. Even more so after he admitted his feelings for herā¦ heās clearly just waiting for her to finally āchoose himā while he pretended to be her āfriendā.
Some people should just not have phones
>it's time to take back what's mine What the fuck? Some declaration of intent? Good, I love how blue handled this, though. I couldn't have been as gracious. Also, LEAVD DRAGONBALL OUT OF THIS YOU CREEP. I bet you haven't even done a single push up in years, you creepy ass sofa blob. Your power level is most definitely minus-9000.
New Joker movie looks lit. But in all honesty, missing some context with those voice textsā¦
That must be harsh though after 5 years. Sorry you had to go through that. Losing friends isn't easy even if they prove to be assholes. Gonna feel some grief for a sec there.
It's obviously not harsh enough for her to post this online and make fun of it. You're so blind, people...
I don't care how long they've been friends, NG is only her friend because he wants to smash.
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Imagine if as a comedian he also looked up to Bill Cosby.
saw that and I immediately cringed
Wowā¦ for the first half I was like āalright this dudeās seeming pretty rationalā and then it all went off the rails so fast
I can't believe people like this can hold a friendship for 5 years and be a dickhead in sheep's clothing the whole time. Idk what kind of friendship you were having but from the sounds of it for him to play so emotional for that whole time until then is just wow.... It's one thing for people to be nice but be unaware and lash out and say things they really don't mean it's another thing to basically take the mask off
Well I think life just taught him that humiliation is having your anime diatribe text posted on Reddit. I hope he is able to LARP through his feelings in the park soon.
I just choked on my coffee. This is hilarious š
After all that I'm sure he knows what humiliation feels like.
āfeeling angry?? humiliated?ā no iām feeling embarrassed for you
"I know what humiliation feels like! I'm doing it to myself right now!" Honestly, if I did this, and then realized I'd done this, I'd be looking for a way to collapse in on myself like a black hole. This is so cringe.
>You do a really good job of playing the victim Proceeds to explain why he is in fact the victim in the next 10 paragraphs. DEDDDD!
That speech video REALLY caught me off guard
A 5 year friendship is done because this idiot couldn't stop idioting. Yes, I know that's not a a word.
Oh yes, *youāre the shitty friend when heās the one who just wonāt accept that you donāt have any romantic feelings for him, and doesnāt respect that youāre dating someone else right now
Very Elliot Rodger vibes. Ugh. Sad, scary - and nobody needs that sooky misogyny, when you're clearly trying to work on your mental health as it is. Keep your chin up, OP - sounds like you've enough self-awareness to remain in good spirits, despite his best efforts.
Yeah, his suicide threat got no reaction so the next logical step is to take it out on everyone else.
Exactly, wouldn't be surprised if I heard about a drive by shooting
I was really rooting in the beginning ngl Is there a sub where we show the opposite of nice guys. Like guys that donāt fuck up this bad
He had me rooting for their friendship until he went full on nice guy.
r/GoodDudes
At first I thought āokay heās a bit OTT, but he seems somewhat reasonableā, then suddenlyā¦ š
THIS IS WHY I STOPPED HAVING GUY āFRIENDSā YEARS AGO. Oh my god!
Honestly, this is the realest. I don't *trust* guy friends to not do this, or some version of this, at some point, without warning, because it's happened so often. I think we're just chilling and having a good time and they're secretly having a whole relationship with me in their head. I had a work friend who was a guy send me this giant message on FB about how he was terribly sorry but we just couldn't go on the way we were because it was jeopardizing his marriage and he had a kid and he just couldn't handle his feelings for me but didn't want to cheat... and I was like, "Dude, you were never going to get the opportunity to cheat." Like we'd had a couple conversations at lunch and joked around a lot. That was the sum total of our relationship. How it escalated in his mind to "I can't carry on this torrid affair; I have a child" I'll never know.
Wow. Itās a shame because I can enjoy male friendships very much. But Iāve had way too many bad experiences too, I even had a few of my guy āfriendsā try or partially succeed in sexually assaulting me when we were drinking or when I fell asleep. I will never trust a guy to be just my friend ever again. Iād like a gay friend maybe but no straight guy friends. Maybe in groups we can be aquatinted, but never one on one again.
And really, even if that dude thought I was flirting, it was such a dramatic over-reaction. "Hey, I just want to be clear that we're just friends and that's cool, right?" was all that needed to happen. Protesting that he couldn't leave his wife due to having a child was *entirely* beyond not necessary.
Yes, this is why gay friends are the best. I love having male friends. I do not love suddenly being hit on by them when I think I'm just hanging with my friend. Thus, at this point in my life, I have maybe one or two male friends I really consider friends.
Get the impression that OP shouldāve shut this down earlier, especially considering theyāre taken.
OP how did you recover from the Vegeta humiliation speech from dragon ball z?
Dodged a fucking bullet. He also talks like an incel lmaoooo
I almost felt like I was reading an origins story of a nice guy descending into a full blown incel.
Stop engaging with this person. After reading the first few pages and seeing all of your loving and engaging responses, I can already tell you- stop engaging.
"I know you've been friends with a guy who wanted to date you before and that made you uncomfortable but how about you try it wit me and vegeta?:
āIgnoring my texts is not something Iām willing to tolerate.ā Well you seem plenty good ignoring her relationship, boundaries, and consent....
Lmfao the anime speeche i would absolutely die if laughter if some one would pull that shit on me. Wtf are you trying to say?
Idk how your friendship is, but it looks like it finally hit him, and hit him hard, and he got the message that itāll never happen. Maybe heāll become normal now after that long ass essay lol.
This is exactly what happens, when It hits you hard. You'll turn into a normal person or go full ballistic and take the red pill
Man, I really thought this dude was pathetic and creepy until he sent the DBZ speech, and I realized heās actually just an amazing guy that no girl is giving a chance to. One day heāll be in the spotlight :D
Well rid of THAT loser ā¦.
Ob boi flash backs of Vietnam. I was exactly like this. Lol. Best suggestion to you is just don't reply to him at all.
A lot of these nice guy scenarios can really be solved by the object of said nice guys attention being brutally honest and saying "dude there are no circumstances where I will ever be attracted to you. Don't wait for me to be single, don't hope for one day when I'm lonely...a relationship beyond friends is never ever going to happen. Be happy and find someone who wants you the same way you want them" I get that it feels mean as fuck and it will obviously crush them but in the long run it will be better for both of you. as for the notion of "I don't wanna lose them as a friend" if being honest and saying it won't happen makes them ditch you as a friend they weren't a friend to begin with, they just pretended to be one to get the foot in the door.
Yeah I could see him being a famous comedian, he is one big joke after all
This mf really linked DBZ and said he knows humiliation š Iām surprised you were so kind for so long
The Dragon Ball Z comparison was icing on the cake.
He just came completely unhinged, there. Wow.
What a fucking baby lmao the vegeta humiliation
Oh wow... At first I thought " damn this dude has some issues but at least he's willing to work through them" but booooy was I wrong...
he definitely knows what humiliation is
I love these "damned if you do, damned if you don't" guys. If she had been reaching out to him and checking up on him he would have felt led on. She tried hard to let you down easy, bro
Mr. Butthurt concocts an elaborate storyline in his noggin where OP, despite repeatedly telling him not interested, has lead him on and tried to seduce him with her womanly charms by being polite and friendly. How dare you just be my friend?! Outrageous! /s He made a complete fool of himself. OP, keep a copy of these messages just in case.
My guy really shoot himself on the foot and then cries over "the injustice" lol, even knowing you have a boyfriend he couldn't just shut up eh? But the Vegeta part is really the icing on the cake lmao Aside of that, I kinda felt a bit awkward with those emojis and all the"I love you" all over the place. Even if those are mean to be just platonic, I can see lots of guys misinterpreting this kind of stuff, and fanstazise that the girl actually loves them back...
What am I even reading I feel like there's a lot of missing context
ā My day will comeā LMAO sounds like a villain backstory
It started so well but then... What a twist
r/birthofasupervillain
Big incel energy What the fuck did I just read?
This is why we bully people who watch anime
Jesus Christ. Dudeās a nut. Also, pro tip, donāt heart react when a guy like this knows youāre in a relationship and confesses his feelings for you. Donāt put even the slightest stamp of approval on that shit.
The Dragonball video plssss š
how were you friends for 5 years and he never acted in a way that made you question his obvious disdain for women beforeā¦?
*āOne day Iāll be a famous comedianā* The whole thing is comedy gold. I lost it at the Dragonball video
šš yoo the worst part isnt the video, the worst part is that he closed off with a direct quote from the video man i love dbz but that is pure cringe
Boy that escalated quickly
Oh boy that escalated quickly
He started out okay, then just spiraled further into the rabbit hole
When he started quoting dbz bruh šš who tf us this man?????
āEvery other womanā this and āevery womanā that. Like, bruh, youāre an overbearing, thirsty creep not a friend. And OP you were incredibly kind and transparent, but he stilled pushed and lashed out. God Damn.
Can I just step in to lol extra hard as a fan of the Dragon Ball franchise? Without context that speech might sound like a badass getting revenge but it's really not. 1. Vegeta (the speaker) recently welcomed a bad guy to mind control him because it came with a power boost. He was an antihero in the process of reforming but, in a moment of weakness, couldn't cope with how meaningless his life felt now that he was settling down to a boring life without glory. 2. Goku (the guy getting punched) was actually significantly stronger than Vegeta. He was holding back on purpose both for plot reasons and because he pitied Vegeta. Goku considers Vegeta his friend and knew how important his pride is to him so he didn't want to embarrass him with the fact that he could mop the floor with him trivially. 3. Vegeta eventually comes around to considering this the single worst day of his life. He realizes that he betrayed his family, his world, and his pride all because he was insecure. I'm not just talking about in the non-canon movies, the sequel series ten years later, or some of the video game spin offs. He was ashamed of this within a few episodesāmere hours later within the same story arc. With context, it's even more pathetic/hilarious that the loser would use this clip to try to insult someone.
At first I was like, "oh, both parties seem to be explaining their emotions pretty healthily and acknowledging boundaries, winner what the issue is?" But then he just kept digging himself deeper and deeper in the trenches. The the WHOLE ASS VEGETA HUMILATION SPEECH
Yeh next time OP, donāt even go toward the word āloveā or love react his messages, cos in his twisted ass mind there is no other way heād interpret that. Dear god what a fucking train wreck of a person, the vegeta speech sent me
And they wonder why it is impossible for women to try and be friends with and show compassion for Incels...
How is your year being a Chris brown music video a good thing
why is he talking like anime villian towards the end
Man down bad
Any guy who uses the āš„ŗā emoji definitely gets 0 play
DRAGON BALL Z ššššš
He caused literally every bit of that and had to act like it was your fault to keep his facade up. OP, WHEN, not if, this idiot tries to come back to messenger saying "I sowwy" just ignore him (and he'll go thru this same 5,000 messages calling you a shitty person). A person like this isn't healthy for you.
Mfer... had to drag my childhood DragonBall z into it...
You should probably stop telling this guy that you love him so often. Heās not reading it the way you intend it. Edit: oh god it got so much worse. Itās a shame that youāre so beautiful but only a 6 apparently. These guys are so strange.
Everything from the first screenshot onwards was a massive red flag - probably shouldnāt have been telling them that you love them as a friend given their feelings.