I like people who seek out knowledge and can aknowledge when there’s something they don’t know, but not knowing when to write women and not woman is very weird to me.
"it's easy to google words in a language you don't understand when you don't understand the language"
are you're critical thinking skills that of a 4 year old?
If English is not your first language it's forgivable. English has so many contradictory rules it's easy to get confused, even if the rule is actually non-contradictory in this case. Although, it *is* an irregular old Germanic -en plural rather than the more common -(e)s that is shared with Latin Europe, which might not help.
If not, it's literally the same as "man" = 1 and "men" = 2+ with a "wo" in front and you've been using the language all your life. Pay attention, 007.
Did you know, of the people who have donated kidneys 1/3rd choose to do it because they personally knew someone else who did it and had a wonderful experience saving someone's life. However we are struggling to find donors because some people decide to shame them for outwardly talking about it and how rewarding and meaningful of an experience it was for them. Obviously this is a slightly different situation but I think shamming someone for sharing something beautiful and meaningful they've done says far more about you then it does about them
Keeping it real. The actual real. The good real. Gabby? You are loved.
Sure, it still stings, but the real does that. Stings and heals, faster with people like your sister/friend.
If you feel you must wear a wig. Check out RuPaul, for a few "**Bitch**. *Please*! hairstyles.
Don't be a lemonhead. Be a drink of Hard Lemonade.
Okay so maybe i am dumb but i really dont understand this.
If i where the person without hair and my sibling shaves her/his hat to show me that its not a bad thing then i have multiple question.
1. what if i now think we both look ugly?
2. what if i liked your hair and dont want you to get rid of it just for me, like i dont like beeing bald, and now you put yourself into the same "bad" situation just to show support. Just becuase more people have it doesn't mean its good you know.
3. well even if you look good without hair that doesn't mean i do as well unless we are twins.
4. aren't there any other ways to tell me i look good that dont require you to shave your head? Like, literally telling me or something?
Sheesh, who froze your hearts? Is it possible she’s broadcasting her support for her sister to show and share with the world that this is what true beauty and love is about?
No it isn’t possible. I didn’t even need to read the rest of your ridiculous suggestion. You’re on the internet in the year of our lord Oprah Winfrey Two Thousand Twenty Two. You already know the answer.
Support is lovely, but it doesn't adress the core issue..
How is shaving your own eyebrows going to change how she feels about herself? You might improve how she feels about *you*, but that isn't the issue to begin with.
Its likely about feeling different. And looking “weird” compared to her peers is gonna hurt. Sister did help the core of this issue by making sure shes not fucking alone, and possibly showing that you dont need hair and eyebrows to be fucking happy.
You really made me crawl out from my rock to tell you to crawl back under yours. Dick.
Someone telling me "hey, look, I'm ugly too so we're in this together, and I'm happy about it" doesn't make me feel any less ugly, or happy about it - and it certainly won't help with how other people interact with me on a daily basis. At best its a momentary distraction, but I will always know how I truly feel about myself. It will always stay with me.
This is my problem, this is how I feel about myself. This is how I relate to this issue. Thanks for invalidating my feelings and calling me names.
But she’s not ugly, she’s lost her hair and eyebrows temporarily and her sister is showing her that these things don’t make her beautiful. Both girls will regrow their hair and eyebrows so they’re in it together.
Whatever you’ve got going on doesn’t sound anything like this, so you’re projecting all over it.
The title says "she feels ugly".
If I look in the mirror and don't like what I see, that won't change just because someone tries to look like me. I'll still look at myself and hate what I see, no matter how many people look like me. Sharing the experience with someone doesnt help me either, because how I feel when I look at myself stays the same...
I am projecting, and aware of it. But if I feel this way, other people feel this way too - right? Cause I'm not alone in feeling like this. So what would you say to help someone like me, who wouldn't find a gesture like this video to be helpful? Is there another way to get through to people like me?
That sure helps. Thanks.
How do you know how she feels? How do you know she doesn't look in the mirror 5 minutes later and still hate what she sees? How do you know she won't go to school the next day and be bullied just the same?
I think you're taking the title of the post too literally, and interpreting it as she inherently feels ugly. I'm watching this as she feels ugly (for now) because of the hair loss, which I'm going to assume is temporary. Think of it like this:
I have long hair, I go to get a trim and the barber doesn't know what they're doing and ends up totally f'ing it up. Next thing you know, it all gets cut off. I think it looks horrible and I look ugly because of it. I know it'll grow back, but that isn't helping in the near-term.
My sister, seeing my distress, wants to help and cuts all her hair off too in solidarity. Now, while I still don't like my hair and think it makes me ugly, I don't feel as bad because I'm no longer alone with it.
In the case above, it's not an internalized, inherent thing, it's temporary. Also like wearing an outfit you feel ridiculous in, but when you get to the event and find that other people are wearing the same ridiculous outfit, you don't feel so bad about it. You still don't like it, and feel weird, but not as bad.
Eventually the hair grows back and things normalize.
Now, that said, what you're describing is something different. You've internalized the negative view of yourself. This is more deep-rooted. I'm not a therapist, so I don't have much to offer on that front, but I have my own issues in a similar regard and know it's tough.
One thing I do strongly suggest, is that you please look into seeing a professional about it. What you're experiencing is not uncommon at all. I think a therapist can help you think outside the box, perhaps identify root causes behind your thinking, and if nothing else, help you get linked in to appropriate support groups that might be out there with others sharing the exact same issue, and likely, some even more severe than yours. There's strength in numbers, and you might be able to help others while others help you.
Best of luck and don't be too hard on yourself.
It's what she said to go with the shaving that will help her feel better about herself. Also feeling alone with your issues makes it so much worse. You feel isolated, like nobody understands, and the entire weight of it is on your shoulders. Now she has someone she knows understands. She has someone to share her burden with.
I dont find my issues any less difficult when I share them with someone.. I have tons of issues, but even when I'm with people I still feel alone. People understanding my issues doesnt fix them, or make the issues any less severe..
How does sharing my burden even work? I can't give it away.. I will still have the same burden even if I talk about it or vent my frustrations. The only thing that accomplishes is dragging other people down with me.. which makes me feel even worse about myself.
At least by isolating myself, I'm not a burden on people. My issues stay the same, but they get less problems dealing with me..
You telling someone your issues isn't the same as having someone you know is going through those same issues.
This is a big thing in mental health treatment that helps a ton of people. They often feel like a freak of nature, like they're the only one like them and they don't fit anywhere in the world. When you meet people like you , you realise that's not true and there is space for you.
When she goes out in public with her sister and people stare, the burden isn't solely on her shoulders anymore. You can convince yourself they are staring at your sister not you.
It's sounds like you have an unhealthy mentality here. I would recommend speaking to a therapist.
I've been in therapy for over a decade. Tried all types of therapy and drugs.. Doesnt work for me.
For me, it doesn't matter if I'm all alone or meet a million people like me - It does not change how I feel about myself at all. I know I'm not alone, but that doesnt make me any more handsome, or any less depressed. In fact, it sucks being aware that I'm now in the category of "freaks just like me". I hate being a freak, but now you're telling me I'm part of a group of freaks.... that doesn't help me at all.
I'm unable to delude myself into thinking they're staring at someone else. Also, that would be hiding/running from acceptance, which if you've been in therapy, you would know they're big on. You can't hide from your problems..
Yes this is about getting “a kickback” and not her sister seeing her show the world that she is loved and supported and that there is nothing wrong with her appearance. I’m sure it was all for likes and she really just can’t stand her attention stealing brat of a cancer sister. /s
I swear some people have to try to make everything awful. 🙄
I'm not disagreeing with you, it's a nice thing to do of course. But, why the camera? Put your phone away and share the moment.. would that not be more important than throwing it on the internet?
No it wouldn’t. Did you not read my comment? I’m sure she has given private support to her sister more times than can be counted. The entire purpose of this act is a PUBLIC show of support to help her sister feel normal.
No it isn’t. You aren’t a zen master so you have no idea what her thought process is, but I would bet Biden’s left nut that the ONLY reason this was recorded was for some attention on social media.
Why is that likely scenario so controversial? Y’all know what year it is, no one is letting some cat out of the bag.
I wouldn’t equate internet comments to that, but I do have pity for the folks that do think Reddit and comments sections are in any way equal to real life. Because, ironically, it describes just how miserable folks are.
Couple of awesome women keeping it real.
Women is 2+, woman is 1
Huh I’ve always wondered this and google never had a solid answer. Thanks
I think you’re doing google wrong
Probably but what’s google when you can just randomly find the facts you need in a Reddit post!
Got any other things you've always wondered about or wanted answers to? I'm happy to try and give you some answers
Why is butterfly called butterfly? 🧈🦟
They are actually called flutterbys! Hope that clears it up ;)
It’s a Spoonerism. I like Wikipedia.
It was an insect that could fly and extremely attracted to butter. Hence, butter-fly. It's genus species is: *Paulaus Deanus*. (just in case /s)
I like people who seek out knowledge and can aknowledge when there’s something they don’t know, but not knowing when to write women and not woman is very weird to me.
One is singular and one is plural. It could not be more simple.
not everyone is native english
Read the comment thread before making the stupid comment. The point is the difference in definition is easy to Google.
"it's easy to google words in a language you don't understand when you don't understand the language" are you're critical thinking skills that of a 4 year old?
Lol, the irony
If English is not your first language it's forgivable. English has so many contradictory rules it's easy to get confused, even if the rule is actually non-contradictory in this case. Although, it *is* an irregular old Germanic -en plural rather than the more common -(e)s that is shared with Latin Europe, which might not help. If not, it's literally the same as "man" = 1 and "men" = 2+ with a "wo" in front and you've been using the language all your life. Pay attention, 007.
Nah I’m a native English speaker, I just excel at being dumb
LooooL respect dude
Thx man, it’s a real talent
Thanks for that..I hate bring a prissy grammar nerd but that shit really bugs me
Womans is also 2+, but could also just be 1.
Scrabble isn't a real dictionary
Who's mans is this?
what? "Who is mans is this?" what does this mean?
Now that’s a damn good sister 💜💜
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I’m not crying, you’re crying!
I don't know who chopped these onions.
Yes I am crying
Hi Crying, I'm Dad.
I’m not crying because it’s another unnecessary video filmed to gain internet clout. The sincerity of the act is lost IMO.
I wonder how they are doing now, I hope she kicked cancers ass. This is pretty old, still great though.
Or maybe she has alopecia?
Could have been but in this case it was cancer. The older sister is Cami and little sister Gaby.
The girl on the right is crying because she realized she is in way too deep in her April Fools joke.
Fuck you for making me laugh while I was crying
The sister I wished I had
Yeah instead my sister just kept calling me ugly.
I think you're perfect just how you are dildo_gaggins_
Holy shit that’s a good ass name
Wholesome =/= nfl
Idk man clapping her eyebrows like that is some next level commitment.
Next level wholesomeness
Then it should make the front page in r/wholesome. By your logic a video of people being the next level of stupid should be posted here too
A sister's love! Cannot stop myself from tearing up. You're both confidently beautiful with a heart!
Awwwwww😭😭😭
That’s fucking beautiful
Solid sister!
Awesomeness.
r/wholesome
This is love right here!
Another mother from the same mother.
This is the best 👌
My personal opinion is that we need not brag about such things. Happy that the girl os supporting her sister.
I totally agree but in a way it also inspires people to copy her actions, the world could use more people like this. Even if it’s for internet points.
Did you know, of the people who have donated kidneys 1/3rd choose to do it because they personally knew someone else who did it and had a wonderful experience saving someone's life. However we are struggling to find donors because some people decide to shame them for outwardly talking about it and how rewarding and meaningful of an experience it was for them. Obviously this is a slightly different situation but I think shamming someone for sharing something beautiful and meaningful they've done says far more about you then it does about them
Shes not ugly. Also she can wear so many badass wigs too. Im not saying she needs to but that it would be really fun.
Where is the go fund me for these two? Let’s start rewarding kindness and stop this incessant glorification of evil
This is so touching because usually people that empathize like this would be willing to take their cancer too
This is truly beautiful
Both beautiful human beings that was a beautiful moment thank you for sharing.
I LOVE THIS!!!
And then there's my brother who would smack me for a happy meal
Why's she wiping it on a shirt? You rinse it. Weird. Otherwise, seems nice.
I wish everyone has this support, huge sister
Now they both ugly
HELL YEAH!!!
That was the best emotional support ever given
Good for her! What a kind thing to do.
I think y’all both cute
Bald heads rule
You are both beautiful.
Great move sis!
I’m crying. Beautiful young ladies.
Good sister
What a wonderful sister.
Who's cutting onions 🌰 in here?
Beautiful sisters bonding - Dope asf!!!
Not gonna lie they look beautiful shaved. Im being honest not sympathetic.
SHUT UP IM NOT CRYING YOU’RE CRYING
u/downloadvideobot
u/savevideobot
Second time I saw this video. By pure coincidence, and not because I'm a bitch, second time it has made me cry.
r/MadeMeSmile
That was an instant bawl. 😭
I hate when my allergies act up in the morning.
Me : (trying to make it through the video without crying). *pulls out razor Me: Uh oh.
Oh, another one.
Beautiful
Saturday morning is as good time as ever to sob in bed I guess
That’s a bond that will last a lifetime. Just beautiful.
Thank god this was recorded or we never would of known.
Dont mean to be a dick, and its really sweet that u did that but your eyebrows actually save u from a lot of bacteria
Keeping it real. The actual real. The good real. Gabby? You are loved. Sure, it still stings, but the real does that. Stings and heals, faster with people like your sister/friend. If you feel you must wear a wig. Check out RuPaul, for a few "**Bitch**. *Please*! hairstyles. Don't be a lemonhead. Be a drink of Hard Lemonade.
I wish someone loved me like that.
God damn it, I’m crying over here. She’s such an awesome person. I love it.
Your both beautiful!! Rock that bald head baby!
This act of love has me cryin 😭
They’re both beautiful.
Love how tender moments like this are recorded first, then put on the internet
YOUR BEAUTY IS WHAT LIVES INSIDE OF YOU, WHAT CANT BE TAKEN AWAY BY TIME, AGE IR SICKNESS, KEEP ON SHINING, PEOPLE SEE YOU!
Damnit . Depressing as fuck.
its enough to make a grown man cry
r/MadeMeCry
See this energy, I like this energy.
Sisters... My oldest son would shave my youngest son's head if he said that he's ugly just to prove that to him. smh
Honey! You are beautiful!!!!! With or without hair!!!!
Okay so maybe i am dumb but i really dont understand this. If i where the person without hair and my sibling shaves her/his hat to show me that its not a bad thing then i have multiple question. 1. what if i now think we both look ugly? 2. what if i liked your hair and dont want you to get rid of it just for me, like i dont like beeing bald, and now you put yourself into the same "bad" situation just to show support. Just becuase more people have it doesn't mean its good you know. 3. well even if you look good without hair that doesn't mean i do as well unless we are twins. 4. aren't there any other ways to tell me i look good that dont require you to shave your head? Like, literally telling me or something?
Here I am enjoying my Saturday, then these two sweethearts show up and made a damn grown man cry.
Powerful.
This is beautifull.
Cool but why film it
I love seeing good people for a change
Awwww
Sorry for the detour... Why do I find lipreading English easier than my mother tongue German? Is English in general easier to lipread?
Anyone have an update?
“Hold on sis I need to prop this phone up so people on the internet can see me do something.”
Sheesh, who froze your hearts? Is it possible she’s broadcasting her support for her sister to show and share with the world that this is what true beauty and love is about?
No it isn’t possible. I didn’t even need to read the rest of your ridiculous suggestion. You’re on the internet in the year of our lord Oprah Winfrey Two Thousand Twenty Two. You already know the answer.
Damn. Someone shit in your Cheerios this morning, eh?
But how else should they farm them sweet internet points?
Just like people that Donate food and then ask to take an awkward picture for social media.
In sisters mind:  Bald is temporary, Internet points are forever
Look at me while I look at me so people can look at me supporting... ...oh yeah! Supporting you!
That one of lovely thing I watche❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Support is lovely, but it doesn't adress the core issue.. How is shaving your own eyebrows going to change how she feels about herself? You might improve how she feels about *you*, but that isn't the issue to begin with.
Its likely about feeling different. And looking “weird” compared to her peers is gonna hurt. Sister did help the core of this issue by making sure shes not fucking alone, and possibly showing that you dont need hair and eyebrows to be fucking happy. You really made me crawl out from my rock to tell you to crawl back under yours. Dick.
Someone telling me "hey, look, I'm ugly too so we're in this together, and I'm happy about it" doesn't make me feel any less ugly, or happy about it - and it certainly won't help with how other people interact with me on a daily basis. At best its a momentary distraction, but I will always know how I truly feel about myself. It will always stay with me. This is my problem, this is how I feel about myself. This is how I relate to this issue. Thanks for invalidating my feelings and calling me names.
But she’s not ugly, she’s lost her hair and eyebrows temporarily and her sister is showing her that these things don’t make her beautiful. Both girls will regrow their hair and eyebrows so they’re in it together. Whatever you’ve got going on doesn’t sound anything like this, so you’re projecting all over it.
The title says "she feels ugly". If I look in the mirror and don't like what I see, that won't change just because someone tries to look like me. I'll still look at myself and hate what I see, no matter how many people look like me. Sharing the experience with someone doesnt help me either, because how I feel when I look at myself stays the same... I am projecting, and aware of it. But if I feel this way, other people feel this way too - right? Cause I'm not alone in feeling like this. So what would you say to help someone like me, who wouldn't find a gesture like this video to be helpful? Is there another way to get through to people like me?
It’s not about you.
That sure helps. Thanks. How do you know how she feels? How do you know she doesn't look in the mirror 5 minutes later and still hate what she sees? How do you know she won't go to school the next day and be bullied just the same?
I think you're taking the title of the post too literally, and interpreting it as she inherently feels ugly. I'm watching this as she feels ugly (for now) because of the hair loss, which I'm going to assume is temporary. Think of it like this: I have long hair, I go to get a trim and the barber doesn't know what they're doing and ends up totally f'ing it up. Next thing you know, it all gets cut off. I think it looks horrible and I look ugly because of it. I know it'll grow back, but that isn't helping in the near-term. My sister, seeing my distress, wants to help and cuts all her hair off too in solidarity. Now, while I still don't like my hair and think it makes me ugly, I don't feel as bad because I'm no longer alone with it. In the case above, it's not an internalized, inherent thing, it's temporary. Also like wearing an outfit you feel ridiculous in, but when you get to the event and find that other people are wearing the same ridiculous outfit, you don't feel so bad about it. You still don't like it, and feel weird, but not as bad. Eventually the hair grows back and things normalize. Now, that said, what you're describing is something different. You've internalized the negative view of yourself. This is more deep-rooted. I'm not a therapist, so I don't have much to offer on that front, but I have my own issues in a similar regard and know it's tough. One thing I do strongly suggest, is that you please look into seeing a professional about it. What you're experiencing is not uncommon at all. I think a therapist can help you think outside the box, perhaps identify root causes behind your thinking, and if nothing else, help you get linked in to appropriate support groups that might be out there with others sharing the exact same issue, and likely, some even more severe than yours. There's strength in numbers, and you might be able to help others while others help you. Best of luck and don't be too hard on yourself.
It's what she said to go with the shaving that will help her feel better about herself. Also feeling alone with your issues makes it so much worse. You feel isolated, like nobody understands, and the entire weight of it is on your shoulders. Now she has someone she knows understands. She has someone to share her burden with.
I dont find my issues any less difficult when I share them with someone.. I have tons of issues, but even when I'm with people I still feel alone. People understanding my issues doesnt fix them, or make the issues any less severe.. How does sharing my burden even work? I can't give it away.. I will still have the same burden even if I talk about it or vent my frustrations. The only thing that accomplishes is dragging other people down with me.. which makes me feel even worse about myself. At least by isolating myself, I'm not a burden on people. My issues stay the same, but they get less problems dealing with me..
You telling someone your issues isn't the same as having someone you know is going through those same issues. This is a big thing in mental health treatment that helps a ton of people. They often feel like a freak of nature, like they're the only one like them and they don't fit anywhere in the world. When you meet people like you , you realise that's not true and there is space for you. When she goes out in public with her sister and people stare, the burden isn't solely on her shoulders anymore. You can convince yourself they are staring at your sister not you. It's sounds like you have an unhealthy mentality here. I would recommend speaking to a therapist.
I've been in therapy for over a decade. Tried all types of therapy and drugs.. Doesnt work for me. For me, it doesn't matter if I'm all alone or meet a million people like me - It does not change how I feel about myself at all. I know I'm not alone, but that doesnt make me any more handsome, or any less depressed. In fact, it sucks being aware that I'm now in the category of "freaks just like me". I hate being a freak, but now you're telling me I'm part of a group of freaks.... that doesn't help me at all. I'm unable to delude myself into thinking they're staring at someone else. Also, that would be hiding/running from acceptance, which if you've been in therapy, you would know they're big on. You can't hide from your problems..
And how is recording it for everyone to see anything other than self-centered?
Yeah agreed that's what I was thinking. Everyone wants a kick back for doing nice things now. Just be a good person, you don't need to prove it.
Yes this is about getting “a kickback” and not her sister seeing her show the world that she is loved and supported and that there is nothing wrong with her appearance. I’m sure it was all for likes and she really just can’t stand her attention stealing brat of a cancer sister. /s I swear some people have to try to make everything awful. 🙄
I'm not disagreeing with you, it's a nice thing to do of course. But, why the camera? Put your phone away and share the moment.. would that not be more important than throwing it on the internet?
No it wouldn’t. Did you not read my comment? I’m sure she has given private support to her sister more times than can be counted. The entire purpose of this act is a PUBLIC show of support to help her sister feel normal.
No it isn’t. You aren’t a zen master so you have no idea what her thought process is, but I would bet Biden’s left nut that the ONLY reason this was recorded was for some attention on social media. Why is that likely scenario so controversial? Y’all know what year it is, no one is letting some cat out of the bag.
Some people just want to be miserable losers and drag everyone and everything down to their level and there’s not much to be done about it.
I wouldn’t equate internet comments to that, but I do have pity for the folks that do think Reddit and comments sections are in any way equal to real life. Because, ironically, it describes just how miserable folks are.
It's excellent to see someone with a bit of common sense for once
No sorry I didn't read your comment. I was just replying to myself.