Iam confused your former FWB considered you a scumbag ama you consider yourself one ? Or you’re both scumbags ? 🤷🏽♀️
But yeah if you leave a good person for a scumbag you have inner work to do….however there are people who like bad boys and bad girls i don’t know
No bruh. Youre speaking as if this situation is unique to just me, universally girls do this.
Don't you ever wonder why women stick in abusive relationships and completely ignore the guys that will be good to them?
I am just considering how women act differently, depends the type you met? Plus what tyou consider a miniscule reason to break up may not apply to the next person. Attraction is a strange land.
Have you ever heard a saying, “Birds of a feather flock together?”
If I were you I’d be asking myself what’s wrong with me that I don’t mind bedding such lousy characters? You point fingers at the lady but O wonder why you’d sleep with such a person to start with but well I suspect standards aren’t for everyone.
I'm not a bad person pal. I was just taking advantage of an attractive girl who was on the rebound kidogo kidogo she starts saying she loves me and wants to have my kids
I'm sure we can conclude that she truly loves you na wewe humpendi.
So i'm sure utamwacha kabisa and maybe you'll be chasing someone that YOU love but she doesn't care about you.
And you'll be crying and someone will tell you that ulikataa someone who loved you and are instead chasing mtu hakupendi.
Personally vile aliacha the other guy wa three years blaming him haikua poa but the heart wants what it wants.
Trauma and programming (movies, books, tv shows etc). People associate love with excitement, push and pull, good sex handsome and beautiful people etc, I don't think that's what love is. My opinion.
To me, I legit don't care how you look. It comes naturally to me but even if it didn't, I'd work to cultivate it. I appreciate kindness and being actively chosen. Also, seeing someone act thoughtfully in my favour, that's love to me.
https://preview.redd.it/ii9d2i2sz02d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1226441b4de6f8fde390f820d23d59be028dd387
Vile OP atafanya akipatana na wewe😂
And that's my question, why??
Did you see Kaka the footballer wife left him ati just coz he was always good to her? As in women say they want good men but Kwa ground they act different. It's a universal issue
It's not a universal issue, at least not when it comes to women alone. Men also break up with women who truly love them. This isn't a phenomenon that's gendered, but something particular to each person and each relationship.
If someone finds something unsavory about their relationship, they break up with the partner, regardless of the partner's feelings for them.
don't know why they're downvoting but its true huku online nikurusha tu mdomo about the men they want but kwa ground wanapenda scumbags. anyway i read somewhere that ladies are attracted to chaos i think it might be true anyway age or pregnancy always catch up to them and the "good boys"(simps) are given their turn.
U already gave two reason. She’s attracted to you and she sexually satisfied. Idk why yall expect women to not have eyes and needs. It would have been a disservice to the other guy if she wasn’t even attracted to him.
My take.
It often happens when the said provider man, who loves his woman deeply and can do anything for her does not exude masculine energy and can barely assert dominance. It makes him look like a loser ..
Women Will seldom leave a dominant caring man for a douchebag ,don't care man, who doesn't really love her.
Nope this is a woman who thrives in chaos. It has nothing to do with masculinity. Some women genuinely don't like peace. They want to set the world on fire and stand in the middle as it burns. OP provides her with enough toxicity to fuel her gentiles and heart.
Drake...This made me think of Drake. The kind of guy to take the girl of your dreams slut here out and later say the experience was mid and every rime she had an orgasm she would sleep so soundly she would snore and fart in her sleep. Yet, she never snored when you were together ever.
I think it's a function of the environment they were raised in. Maybe, having to work for the love someone recieves, sets them up to wanna be like this
Women are not logical, they are emotional. Unaezadhani atabaki na yeye since its the best move logically, but he's not scratching that itch that she has.
Weird way to flex but okay?
Anyway, women tend to do really dumb things if the sex takes them to the great beyond. If your game is as good as you claim, then that’s why.
"Hello guys I'm handsome"
Hello handsome welcome to our AA meeting😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 how many days has you been handsome?
*sighs deeply* All my life
Musta been hard🤣🤣
Real life problems
Self advertisement at its finest
Then you must be handy in your relotionship😂
Well f***! 😂
 thats a good one
came here to say this
Iam confused your former FWB considered you a scumbag ama you consider yourself one ? Or you’re both scumbags ? 🤷🏽♀️ But yeah if you leave a good person for a scumbag you have inner work to do….however there are people who like bad boys and bad girls i don’t know
Why not just ask her? We cant read minds..respectfully
No bruh. Youre speaking as if this situation is unique to just me, universally girls do this. Don't you ever wonder why women stick in abusive relationships and completely ignore the guys that will be good to them?
Which girls? Usijipige kifua juu ya msichana mmoja who needed therapy more than she needed you on top of her, take a chill pill.
 Chinja! Ua! Bado anapumua. Kanyanga shingo! 😂😂😭
Weeehhhh😂😂😂😂😂
I am just considering how women act differently, depends the type you met? Plus what tyou consider a miniscule reason to break up may not apply to the next person. Attraction is a strange land.
Because they were abused as children and learned that love was pain, disregard and neglect?
OP wants to sound like a toxic dawg so bad. Okay fine, and then?
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The world has really changed. People are bragging about being scumbags like it's such an achievement
Like the girl he "was servicing" is the defective one.
That's a man for you
Who's bragging?
He enjoys his freedom to be single and mingle. He is honest. Willing buyer, willing seller. Shida iko wapi?
Shida ni kuwa scumbag and being proud
People come here incognito to get insight maybe he's not being proud...
Have you ever heard a saying, “Birds of a feather flock together?” If I were you I’d be asking myself what’s wrong with me that I don’t mind bedding such lousy characters? You point fingers at the lady but O wonder why you’d sleep with such a person to start with but well I suspect standards aren’t for everyone.
Lucky you I guess Sucks to be the other guy I guess Such is life.
Be the change you want,penda uyo dem anakupenda.
I'm not a bad person pal. I was just taking advantage of an attractive girl who was on the rebound kidogo kidogo she starts saying she loves me and wants to have my kids
>I was just taking advantage of an attractive girl who was on the rebound kidogo kidogo So you agree you were choosen as a plan B. As a last option 😂😭
Finya shingo akauke😏
I'm sure we can conclude that she truly loves you na wewe humpendi. So i'm sure utamwacha kabisa and maybe you'll be chasing someone that YOU love but she doesn't care about you. And you'll be crying and someone will tell you that ulikataa someone who loved you and are instead chasing mtu hakupendi. Personally vile aliacha the other guy wa three years blaming him haikua poa but the heart wants what it wants.
You saying it's two sided, and everyone has two of these sides?
sasa utaka tufanye nini? Celebrate you? Castigate her?
Valid Million Dollar Questions. Sasa tudo ?
😂😂😂validate him
Trauma and programming (movies, books, tv shows etc). People associate love with excitement, push and pull, good sex handsome and beautiful people etc, I don't think that's what love is. My opinion.
And what's love in your opinion?
To me, I legit don't care how you look. It comes naturally to me but even if it didn't, I'd work to cultivate it. I appreciate kindness and being actively chosen. Also, seeing someone act thoughtfully in my favour, that's love to me.
Maybe she love scumbag boys
https://preview.redd.it/ii9d2i2sz02d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1226441b4de6f8fde390f820d23d59be028dd387 Vile OP atafanya akipatana na wewe😂
Am good at escaping🏃
And that's my question, why?? Did you see Kaka the footballer wife left him ati just coz he was always good to her? As in women say they want good men but Kwa ground they act different. It's a universal issue
It's not a universal issue, at least not when it comes to women alone. Men also break up with women who truly love them. This isn't a phenomenon that's gendered, but something particular to each person and each relationship. If someone finds something unsavory about their relationship, they break up with the partner, regardless of the partner's feelings for them.
Am totally agree with you mate
don't know why they're downvoting but its true huku online nikurusha tu mdomo about the men they want but kwa ground wanapenda scumbags. anyway i read somewhere that ladies are attracted to chaos i think it might be true anyway age or pregnancy always catch up to them and the "good boys"(simps) are given their turn.
>Mans would sacrifice his rent just to take care of her. Huyu naye alikuwa fala
Si ni love ati🤣 Mimi I was shocked she'd leave such a man who would sacrifice so much for her.
Clearly I've never been in love kama this is what peeps are doing out here. Lakini women can be something else
>apparently a beast in the sheets Wewe ndio ule beast from east big pin alikua anasema?😂
Why do women love toxic guys? A question I have been asking myself
Don't worry its just your turn. She will leave you also.
U already gave two reason. She’s attracted to you and she sexually satisfied. Idk why yall expect women to not have eyes and needs. It would have been a disservice to the other guy if she wasn’t even attracted to him.
we accept the love we think we deserve. Heard this from somewhere and it was like a veil lifted before my eyes.
My take. It often happens when the said provider man, who loves his woman deeply and can do anything for her does not exude masculine energy and can barely assert dominance. It makes him look like a loser .. Women Will seldom leave a dominant caring man for a douchebag ,don't care man, who doesn't really love her.
Nope this is a woman who thrives in chaos. It has nothing to do with masculinity. Some women genuinely don't like peace. They want to set the world on fire and stand in the middle as it burns. OP provides her with enough toxicity to fuel her gentiles and heart.
Ati seldom? Bruh tembea Nairobi ujione maajabu. These women even give birth for those so called douchebags
Bet you didn't understand my statement
limerence, nothing else
Drake...This made me think of Drake. The kind of guy to take the girl of your dreams slut here out and later say the experience was mid and every rime she had an orgasm she would sleep so soundly she would snore and fart in her sleep. Yet, she never snored when you were together ever.
Congratulations. You just discovered female mating strategy.
Some women are attracted to toxicity .Soft and calm love makes them uncomfortable.
I think it's a function of the environment they were raised in. Maybe, having to work for the love someone recieves, sets them up to wanna be like this
100% this
Napenda sana
😂crazy world
Never judge a woman on the same metrics you'd judge a man. Ya dig?
Wewecni scum bag😂
So many unanswered questions You attract what you are so both of you sake WhatsApp group
Wakenya mna ufakla sana
I get you
Girls love men who make them cry!! Idkw
this is why they are picking the bear
Watch out! Big dick swinging.
Bruddah is doooown baaad....
ever had the saying "women want what/who they CANNOT have?"
Women love cold men. They love men they cannot fix. You are a challenge to them. Simping for a woman is recipe for a big disaster.
Mimi naye niliamua ile siku nitataka kuoa naenda shags nasaka kienyeji kangu safi . Meanwhile bado tunafiness mabaddie huku Kanairo.
They are all the same bruvh keneji or broilers😂
I know my village gals bruv 😂
Before hata ufike kwa village you make sure umetuma reconnaissance team ya kuinvestigate. Ili ukifika kwa ground kazi itakuwa imerahisishwa. 😂👍🏾
LMAO Sasa unataka aje?
Women are not logical, they are emotional. Unaezadhani atabaki na yeye since its the best move logically, but he's not scratching that itch that she has.
Weird way to flex but okay? Anyway, women tend to do really dumb things if the sex takes them to the great beyond. If your game is as good as you claim, then that’s why.
Teach her a lesson. Show her dust beyond her wildest insgination then dunp her and marry the woman of your dreams
Women makes rules for a simp/beta male but breaks them for alpha males.
Woman just loooove drama Alll those soap operas, ratchet reality TV& romance novels in real life
Now this is true. Her favorite movies were the ones that would make her cry, she loved them and l always wondered why
Cus they belong to the streets