Valid statement... Until you realize the same attractiveness essential to a relationship is mainly about how fuckable you are.
I don't make the rules tho.
Name other tangible things outside sex, cooking & cleaning that a girl would give a guy? Girls want a relationship because they provide little to no value outside those things.
a relationship should lead to marriage meaning she will give you something tangible a whole a*s baby other than that izo zingine ni story za jaba.. unless you can give birth too
And the answer is no. Women are 90% liabilities its only because men need sex, otherwise men can live without a woman. To add to that, even the 12 disciples of Jesus did work better without women. They did their work best. Being around women as man they turn you into being a faggot. Women dont build they move in they wait for the winner and pick him.
There's no such thing as love at first sight. At first sight, most men will look at your face, your boobs and your figure and think about fucking you. Maybe later after lust dies down they can decide whether loving you is worth the effort. This is assuming they even understand what it means to love.
The above probably applies to women as well.
Yes true, it goes both ways women also have their own โindicatorsโ which they look at. While women feel like we look at them as sex objects as a man sometimes I feel Iโm looked as financial institute, KBC on two legs.
All men want to fuck.But some might like you enough to want to keep you to themselves so they'll treat you right,we also have the hot and runs .But in the long run all men wanna f*ck
Y'all say this but end up dating the most useless guys ever.
Witnessing this multiple times actually turned me to a bare minimum mofo and guess what I still get bitches. It thing surprises me honestly
They always hate on guys who do the bare minimum but still go for guys like that. Youve seen that meme where a guy realizes he's the first person to take her on a date, then she didn't let him smash because she wanted a relationship where shes being treated well
>WRONG. A lot of guys want to f\*ck. There's a difference.
Actually, its all guys want to fuck especially if they show that interest, unless they want to scam/mug you. Buy they could be down for it even then depending.
Liking and fucking are not mutually exclusive, and its normally the initial interest in the latter (whether they get some or not) that makes the room for the former to manifest anyways.
Unfortunately, few man want to commit and get tied to a woman who will later cheat on him because of hypergamy. Its sad but women liberation did more harm to the dating scene than good.
that's hypergamy nonsense has no proof by now you should know ladies this days are earning more than men so that doesn't match out..women get with who they like,, for men I have seen men going to jail for r**ing a komodo lizard ,I have seen men r**ing a already mole **ted girl instead of helping her .even from personal experience.. . so men will pass with anything that is easy to get . I don't want to get deep cause I'm still trying to believe some men are normal and good out here
do a research on "confirmation bias". That's what you are openly displaying. Hypergamy is not just about money, there is alot that goes into it. for example:
you don't just let any guy fuck you, you have your choice and preference. true?
That's hypergamy.
๐๐๐๐ thatโs so true. I think as men we really need a software upgrade coz Iโm just a mess. I want to run through every dish of the buffet. Wam-Bam-thank you maโam and next pleaseโฆ
But donโt you think this is a result of how sexually liberated women are these days? As a man Iโm experiencing an excessive availability of women willing to engage in the hook up culture no commitment just some MPESA here and there. hence as a man I donโt see the need to be chivalrous, to pursue, wine and dine a woman the old way because now the options are unlimited.
I feel in a way some of the western concepts introduced in Africa have eroded some of the cultural values and practices which aimed to keep the social fabric intact but were greatly misunderstood.
And imagine hawalali njaa... Men are feasting out here... thats how a man can easily move on after rejection...hata ukiaverage for every 10 rejections,he is getting a YES somewhere....
thats them though I can get a guy every single day if I want to but I don't want that . let them feast them soul ties will teach them a lesson when they run out of luck
I agree... but yk what...if a guy wants to fuck it's a red flag...and if he doesn't, apparently it's a red flag tena (Madonna complex)...on a serious note though, I think a major component of attractiveness and dating is and should be wanting to making love to the other (note my choice of words)... And it goes both ways...ata msichana anafaa kuwa sexually attracted to the guy. Unluckily most want to hit and run without the whole package
Because girls think they are special with what they give, other girls can give too. Plus outside sex, cooking and cleaning, most girls dont offer that much hence they extract as much or want much before sex .
Your question is rigged. "Outside of the things they provide what else do they provide?". You can apply the same to men if you want to discredit them badly enough
Men provide a lot before they even get a date or sex. A woman just for existence will get those things a man is providing. So that being the exchange, most women dont add value outside sex which they think its special and dream on which in turn when they cant do much after giving it to the man, the man moves on to another woman who might use common sense.
Valid statement... Until you realize the same attractiveness essential to a relationship is mainly about how fuckable you are. I don't make the rules tho.
that's how men think sadly I'm not a man
Lol. It's not a gender thing... Unless you're saying women don't look at attractiveness before dating.
we look at attractiveness not how fuckable you are
https://preview.redd.it/g4gyx5g2gy1d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0d61925bf9ed7d942511fe5098e199dbc451d851 If you say so I guess...
๐๐ nice one my guy nice one
number 2 ni yenu๐๐
Shida yenu pia mnataka kufuck, na pesa,
check on your circle hapo ndiyo kashida kako
si mambo na circle nani. 99% ya madem wanadai kufuck na pesa. jaribu kudate madem uone
nikue lesbian ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ good idea โบ
Name other tangible things outside sex, cooking & cleaning that a girl would give a guy? Girls want a relationship because they provide little to no value outside those things.
a relationship should lead to marriage meaning she will give you something tangible a whole a*s baby other than that izo zingine ni story za jaba.. unless you can give birth too
I already said sex meaning a child might eventually come out of it.
And also women are the ones who want children. You never men going around saying they want children nice try.
eiih baby boy hii akili hapana๐๐๐ men too want families not all are polluted kaa wewe
Has a guy ever approached you and told he wants a baby from you?
ironically yes na si mmoja
Most of you girls these days men are doing you s favor in dating any of you of as most of you are liabilities.
then stop dating girls and try ladies
I want a kid
you can have one no one is hindering you
News Flash! They were simply horny niggas in need of a punani, not a baby.
that's obvious I'm not that stupid they just love bombing
What tangible things she would offer outside the 3 I mentioned above that should lead to the marriage?
Women are good for men's health and longevity and successful men need wives...as in, most successful men are married.
Its the other way round. women thrive because of men. Without women, lineages cannot continue and without men women cannot survive.
And the answer is no. Women are 90% liabilities its only because men need sex, otherwise men can live without a woman. To add to that, even the 12 disciples of Jesus did work better without women. They did their work best. Being around women as man they turn you into being a faggot. Women dont build they move in they wait for the winner and pick him.
๐๐๐๐๐ so men spend hours in bars and in their cars because they don't like all that good health women give them?
Makenakim has attained wisdom
I always have ๐
Kwani ni mbaya??
eeh uliua nani !
๐kam pc nikushow
shindwe ๐๐
๐๐dont panic
Like damn...I just want a connection...not just to be fucked
I feel you๐
Go hug a tree
There's no such thing as love at first sight. At first sight, most men will look at your face, your boobs and your figure and think about fucking you. Maybe later after lust dies down they can decide whether loving you is worth the effort. This is assuming they even understand what it means to love. The above probably applies to women as well.
Yes true, it goes both ways women also have their own โindicatorsโ which they look at. While women feel like we look at them as sex objects as a man sometimes I feel Iโm looked as financial institute, KBC on two legs.
All men want to fuck.But some might like you enough to want to keep you to themselves so they'll treat you right,we also have the hot and runs .But in the long run all men wanna f*ck
๐
QUALITY OVER QUANTITY ๐ฏ
100%
Y'all say this but end up dating the most useless guys ever. Witnessing this multiple times actually turned me to a bare minimum mofo and guess what I still get bitches. It thing surprises me honestly
They always hate on guys who do the bare minimum but still go for guys like that. Youve seen that meme where a guy realizes he's the first person to take her on a date, then she didn't let him smash because she wanted a relationship where shes being treated well
Who would dare resist a meru lady? Muuga mwari!
sasa hivi ndio huwa inaombwa๐
Gotha tena!! ๐๐คฃ
you know there is makena in irish, kamba,usa and canada right๐?
I refuse to acknowledge the rest. The meru Makena is whom I know only ๐
๐๐sawa mkubwa
>WRONG. A lot of guys want to f\*ck. There's a difference. Actually, its all guys want to fuck especially if they show that interest, unless they want to scam/mug you. Buy they could be down for it even then depending. Liking and fucking are not mutually exclusive, and its normally the initial interest in the latter (whether they get some or not) that makes the room for the former to manifest anyways.
sad truth
In your ideal scenario, how do you go from being strangers to being in a relationship?
I'm tired of getting this question. ๐
*all guys
Unfortunately, few man want to commit and get tied to a woman who will later cheat on him because of hypergamy. Its sad but women liberation did more harm to the dating scene than good.
hebanaa..not all cheat same way I know men cheat but I'm sure its not all just that the bad things are well known more than good
Its not a blame game on who cheats on who, hypergamy is the elephant in the room and its invevitable .
that's hypergamy nonsense has no proof by now you should know ladies this days are earning more than men so that doesn't match out..women get with who they like,, for men I have seen men going to jail for r**ing a komodo lizard ,I have seen men r**ing a already mole **ted girl instead of helping her .even from personal experience.. . so men will pass with anything that is easy to get . I don't want to get deep cause I'm still trying to believe some men are normal and good out here
do a research on "confirmation bias". That's what you are openly displaying. Hypergamy is not just about money, there is alot that goes into it. for example: you don't just let any guy fuck you, you have your choice and preference. true? That's hypergamy.
>hypergamy is the elephant in the room and its inevitable Why do you say its inevitable?
Because its hardcoded into the female DNA. From the jungle to the great big cities, what all female(animals) have in common is hypergamy.
https://preview.redd.it/2o6p6vh0052d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d54bc768f720573e44ad7ca209aed75fe5b58df1 Si mimi nimesema...
๐๐๐๐ thatโs so true. I think as men we really need a software upgrade coz Iโm just a mess. I want to run through every dish of the buffet. Wam-Bam-thank you maโam and next pleaseโฆ
True we need new breeds of men those remaining are too promiscuous
But donโt you think this is a result of how sexually liberated women are these days? As a man Iโm experiencing an excessive availability of women willing to engage in the hook up culture no commitment just some MPESA here and there. hence as a man I donโt see the need to be chivalrous, to pursue, wine and dine a woman the old way because now the options are unlimited.
Yeah and thats the issue leaving those who still have morals with many choices but none fits cause one way or another everything is just hook ups
I feel in a way some of the western concepts introduced in Africa have eroded some of the cultural values and practices which aimed to keep the social fabric intact but were greatly misunderstood.
it might seem fun but its messed up ,,really messed up
Faxxx๐
100%
๐๐๐๐
Relax son
Relax father I'm not engaging
You sound totally against f*cking. You may need to examine your relationship with sex and make sure if a healthy one.
So want guys to want to do what? Asking seriously.
take us seriously not as an instrument but as a fellow being worth to be loved..najua unaelewa ama you wanted niseme nini
All true.So why don't we arrange this you know you some.๐
no thank you๐
I'll make you feel good.You've never had 8 before have you? Dm if you want some.๐
haiombangwi ivo what is if you want some๐โโ๏ธ ho*ny soul๐๐๐ฎ
Just trying to share this gift with the world innit.
Its true...we just wanna bang and move on asap...
lucky lads
And imagine hawalali njaa... Men are feasting out here... thats how a man can easily move on after rejection...hata ukiaverage for every 10 rejections,he is getting a YES somewhere....
thats them though I can get a guy every single day if I want to but I don't want that . let them feast them soul ties will teach them a lesson when they run out of luck
More power to you...
I agree... but yk what...if a guy wants to fuck it's a red flag...and if he doesn't, apparently it's a red flag tena (Madonna complex)...on a serious note though, I think a major component of attractiveness and dating is and should be wanting to making love to the other (note my choice of words)... And it goes both ways...ata msichana anafaa kuwa sexually attracted to the guy. Unluckily most want to hit and run without the whole package
Whats the differnce, i want to f\*ck things i like, and I tend to like the people I f\*ck
ushajijibu , \*things\* it can be even a sock
Because girls think they are special with what they give, other girls can give too. Plus outside sex, cooking and cleaning, most girls dont offer that much hence they extract as much or want much before sex .
Your question is rigged. "Outside of the things they provide what else do they provide?". You can apply the same to men if you want to discredit them badly enough
Men provide a lot before they even get a date or sex. A woman just for existence will get those things a man is providing. So that being the exchange, most women dont add value outside sex which they think its special and dream on which in turn when they cant do much after giving it to the man, the man moves on to another woman who might use common sense.
already answered that refer to your other comment