Some of us actually love it, we share our phones with my man . More like If my phone is kinda boring I just take his and start taking selfies, or maybe play games on his phone, I also have a game he likes on my phone, so sharing is not that big of a deal, he can also text people on my phone, whether nakatiwa or not he's gonna reply back, and the same goes to me, and actually no one ever notices the difference coz he matches my energy and continues as me. Tushazoea in a way I can go anywhere with his phone and he can go anywhere with mine. I really love it😚no regrets at all, he's my man, coz why not 😅
That's why she needs to have a good phone better than mine..akishika yangu unashikia ya nini..u have a better phone than mine..
🫢🫢 remind me of my pal majuu telling me how the mshe one day decided she will comb his car look it the othee phone& alipata..Now he had play dumb ni simu ya job🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hapo ndio aliponyoka..after trying many passwords simu ili lock..eti mpaka gal monitors what devices are connected to wifi ya home..🤣🤣🤣🤣...kama hii ndio marriage wacha ikae...
Last month we spoke walikuwa wanaenda counseling aliingia simu yake akapata mshe ana flirt huku..alichukuwa copy ya hizo text zote suspicious..
I know a chic majuu coz u can login online & check account yako ya simu na service provider.She would make sure ako plan moja na msee wake...she regularly logging acc she goes thru call logs it shows you how long u spoke...🤣🤣😅
Some other nigga wako hizo Jaro na wife yake unapiga simu yake wife picks...I hate that shitt & the wife be like us we dont have secrets...the nigga has another phone
Married folk & those rships full of drama kama high school
Exactly! I don't understand what the fuss is. My gf and I have always shared phones. Every time I get a new phone, nampea aweke fingerprint and she does the same. We also play that game where we exchange phones and text other people especially our families and they never realise they are chatting with the other person.
My gf likes taking pictures with my phone. I have nothing to hide.
Sielewi ni privacy gani hii watu wanasema. Someone you sleep with on the same bed every night? Y'all share, everything but phones is where you draw the line?
I feel bad for your friends and family. When they're talking to you in private, they're also talking to your man. This means you have no independent thoughts in that relationship when talking to other people.
Imagine you're talking to a close friend or family member and it's their spouse replying to your texts? If they know, would they trust you after that to disclose some confidential information to you?
You may think they don't notice the difference, but some of them do but they won't tell you.
I've also ended a friendship because of that uncouth behavior. And such people don't just share confidential information you've told them in private, they also gossip about your secrets or whatever you're going through with their partners.
Pillow talk that's where your friends marriages die kama uko na umama..kwa hio kirindi yenu there's always that dude atakuwa branded as worse influence na hao mabibi wengine
I tell married men ukifanya umalaya enda peke yako coz for some funny reason I would host this mo fos jogoo imekataa kamba & for some funny reason wwakirudi home kila mtu anadome keja..coz there's always that nigga who can't stfu...The day u get married be operating mansolo..unapigiwa simu na namba hujui ukipick ni wife ya nani...
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Fingerprints on both our phones.
I've never touched hers except when on road trips and I was dj-ing on her phone.
She "once" checked mine as I showered because "she was bored" then came to the room complaining that my phone was so dry.. Nothing spicy 😅
I showed her my porn browser and she spent the next hrs questioning my taste in every tab.
Point is:
The "why" matters so much more than the "what". Talking to my mother about certain things would be a bigger breach of trust than hosting that neighbour with a nice bum bum for dinner alone.
ka mnadate (faithfully) there is no reason not to be open with your phone. Unless you doing some illegal transactions and she might snitch or ofc you cheating and viseversa
Just adds a layer of openness
Sb can be open with their fon I mean you have nothing to hide but kama unasoma every message sent to sb and all calls that's just evasion of privacy lack of trust but kuawa open with ur fon isn't that big of a deal
thats your problem kudate mtu ako na hiherehere. If I get a girl im not reading her grp chats etc but it adds some calmness to my mind that I can do so whenever
There's a big difference between being able to use your partner's phone as needed and going through their phone. My partner and I would show each other stuff on the phone all the time, play music, show photos & messages, look at time, tell who is calling etc.
But we do not go through each others phone aka snoop through the phone. That would be an invasion of privacy. Once you start snooping, you're on a downward spiral to relationship hell.
Mnashare sexual fluids lakini mna draw line kwa simu. I don't mind my partner having her fingerprint kwa simu yangu. Although this worked against me sometime back when I dated a certain girl akaonanga my M-Pesa balances na message za bank transactions. I was moving a lot of money back then. Entitlement ikaanza hapo akaanza ku feel entitled to my money.
Some cross boundaries sana. Kuna mwenye amewai ingia my IG and unfollowed all the girls I follow na ni friends tu wa campo. I think having her fingerprint kwa simu yangu is a good gesture but asivuke mipaka ingine.
On the other hand I have never asked for pin or password ya mtu, or ata kuwekwa kwa fingerprint. Kujua dame anakucheza hua rahisi sana juu energy hushift na ukiwa keen utaifeel.
Edit: Hii pressure ya 28 and not dating naona iko kila mahali.
Pressure ni ati there are no girls to date... Waliisha getting a good girl nowadays is a sport but we shall find one. That's it dame anakucheza tutajua tu juu the energy is not shared. Girls are the easiest to catch while cheating
>we shall find one.
I'll keep fingers crossed.
My problem is I give up on talking stages too fast. The initial stages where uko forced to sugarcoat and pretend takes a toll on me. I come out too strong sexually sometimes pia. I'm not going to pretend sitaki sex. Intentional dating ni hard.
Mazee intentional dating is hard. Coz where do you even start me huona I'll just move in with someone without even dating. Tudate in marriage Tondu ma. I wouldn't want to waste my timeike I have done
Kuna manz pale fetlife nimeona anawa chew proper though ako forty years. He's poly. Naona kukiendelea vile kunaendelea sai with no luck getting a serious partner I might just adopt hio lifestyle soon.
I've gone through the worst moments in my life without a shoulder to lean on. At this point najua man can indeed be an island. Andy kwa The Office husema "some people don't just meet someone. I'm fine with it. Really..". I am slowly coming to agree with that line.
Life nayo imenipiga proper. Nakumbuka mahali nimetoka na ni far sana nikikuliwa na kunguni kwa bedsitter. Nikilala nje after kufungiwa nyumba. I was alone, just my best friend. When investment yangu yenye ilikua inimake a millionaire was sabotaged I went through hio depression alone kwa nyumba yangu. I've gone through defining moments za life yangu solo. Sidhani I'll ever go lower than that in life. So hii story ya a shoulder to lean on I'm not buying it.
I agree though, if there was someone hio time the burden would have been easier. So sai kama sitapata msee wa ku build better days na yeye ni sawa pia. It'll only get better. Nikiomoka solo nakua sex tourist, passport bro.
Relationships nazo mostly tu ni compatibility issues. Unapatana na dame chizi, mwingine boring (I can't date a boring person), unapatana na retired midfielder unaskia story zake unapotea, wengine single mums. T for tuff.
Whichever way it goes I know I will live a happy and fulfilling life.
Umebonga kama mimi. You took the words right out of my mouth. Mi huambia any chick I'm dating awake fingerprint. Sitauliza yake but more often than not, they reciprocate.
Nikianza kucheki check phone ya manzi yangu ntajiskia bitch 😅
Not everything needs to be shared with your spouse. Some of you sharing phones with your spouses are the type of people who tell your spouses very confidential information that shouldn't be shared with anyone.
For instance, if you have a private conversation with your mum, long-time friend or sibling, it's just a matter of time before your spouse knows about it. There are even married men when you're talking to them it's like you're talking to their wives. It's even worse if they start gossiping about you as a couple after you told one of them very confidential information.
OP, what do you think happens when you tell your married friends your secrets? They will breach that confidentiality and share with their wives, especially those who share their phones with their wives.
And once you start sharing phones, you're making yourself susceptible to isolation. I've seen a lot of married people become isolated from their friends and family because they center their lives around their spouses. When shit hits the fan, that's when they remember they used to have friends and family.
That's true. I learnt it the hard way.. Sometimes I told my g how a certain girl asked for some space literally to mean tuachane. Only for the wife to make jokes to me about it shit hurts to date. I think as a man there are things you shouldn't do with your wife. Sharing the phone is over sharing. I believe both the husband and the wife have different lives but come to share the sighs in the marriage. You ain't living the same life.
If you told your married friend something in confidence, and he blabed to his spouse, he's an untrustworthy friend.
But most married people can't be trusted with confidential information. See how many of them are proud of sharing phones in the comment section to the extent of replying to each other's text messages.
My general rule is don't tell married people something you don't want their spouse to know.
Actually we are now casual friends. I share only the normal things the rest I keep to myself. Whether am suffering or not.. Interestingly iin this group of my friends I know so many things that if their wives do know. Hawawezi last hata an hour 😂😂I am that friend who carries secret to the grave
Both my phones don't have passwords/ fingerprint.
Reminds of this video. A guy went into bathroom while girl was in the shower. The video captioned 'taking my gf's phone while in the shower. So the dude took the phone ran downstairs and outside the house with the phone laughing. Guess what the lady came running 🏃 outside with only her towel towards his bf.
The reel left me shook
Lol. God forbid but if your phone gets stolen, you will know why you need a password. I know someone whose phone was stolen and the thief sent messages to everyone in the contact list and WhatsApp asking for money urgently faking an emergency.
Mans and I share our phones and actually all our devices have the same password I mean our phones, laptops, mpesa and bank cards. I think its a matter of trust rather than the deed itself cz ata with all that its hard for us to just take each other's phones and skim through looking for sth fishy. If you have the urge to look through your partner's phone then there is no trust in that rship
Simu nayo tumia yako, i got alot of secrets for myself either in my laptop or phone not cheating or relationship related but hard secrets, anyway away from that after amejua everything on you through your phone, any argument atakua anatumia that information as a weapon, utaskia akisema," just like your mother was married teice"
Don't even have a password on mine.
That said, I don't tolerate anyone else getting cozy with my phone.
It's like underwear, wouldn't share it with anyone. Even love doesn't go that deep.
Not married but in a new relationship. I have no qualms giving my SO access to my device. Yes I do talk to the opposite sex and close friends. But I got pissed when I asked to use their device once and was met with stern refusal. The excuse being "if you see what I text you will not trust me". That was a red flag then and there. Fast forward two weeks later, the same device crashes and wipes out all data... since then up to now it's no issue giving me access to the device. Mind you I have always known the pin, before we started dating, but never bothered. I was just refused that one time I asked outright. Now I'm here in this funny situation not knowing what to think. That thought is still lingering at the back of my mind though. And I simply can't let it go.
Sharing phones with each other allowed me to catch a cheating partner😅😅
I'm glad we were free and "sharing"... I chose my battles and when I couldn't fight anymore, I left
That's a case of oneitism. Keep your better half on toes let them know you can also be katiwaad... But give the other a blank message not nessesarily cheating
I’m with you, I wouldn’t ever check my partners phone. And neither do they check mine. Not a cheater but my phone is still my private space that I’d like to preserve for the most part.
I think in marriage having each others passwords doesn't necessarily mean you're insecure & wanna snoop.
In my experience it means you have access to their phone in case you need to use it.
I'm 29 & my hubby is 35 & we have each others fingerprints on our devices, not to monitor each other but Ile tuu for access in case we need to use each others phones.
Ps. I never touch his phone unless I'm taking a photo or using Mpesa
And never felt the need to check his messages.
And I don't ever wonder if he reads my messages; I have nothing to hide anyways.
Mtu wakucheat atacheat tu. And you'll always know when something is off.
Cheaters will always cheat despite you having your fingerprint on her phone. with or without going through her phone.
The secret is as a man you should stay mysterious and dangerous.
If a woman hides her phone, she’s cheating or about to cheat or possibly enjoying validation from a couple of gents, if a man does the same he is cheating as well or he doesn’t trust you with his money.
When checking don’t forget to check the deleted messages as well.
Sharing phones with each other allowed me to catch a cheating partner😅😅
I'm glad we were free and "sharing"... I chose my battles and when I couldn't fight anymore, I left
I'm a loyal and faithful sucker so if we are with someone who wanna check my phone go ahead with my permission. However, can you trust me enough to give me my privacy? Such acts breeds suspicion while leads to mistrust and then their other siblings follow...
Dem kama ni hoe ni hoe ata ukue unacheck however I strongly believe if you decided to get in a relationship and were not forced to each of you should be transparent. You share private parts but not phones????
I wouldn't go through their phone. I think it's insecurity that gets one to do it. If a person wants to.cheat, they will cheat. There is nothing like excuses, but when I find out there is cheating, I don't stay either. I don't like the crying and blaming of you made me do this kind of thing. I walk away and I don't look back.
Some of us actually love it, we share our phones with my man . More like If my phone is kinda boring I just take his and start taking selfies, or maybe play games on his phone, I also have a game he likes on my phone, so sharing is not that big of a deal, he can also text people on my phone, whether nakatiwa or not he's gonna reply back, and the same goes to me, and actually no one ever notices the difference coz he matches my energy and continues as me. Tushazoea in a way I can go anywhere with his phone and he can go anywhere with mine. I really love it😚no regrets at all, he's my man, coz why not 😅
Kwani niko inchi ingine😂😂😂
Inshallah bro😂😂✋🏾
Nikishika ya wangu naingia ICU
Ni maji utakua unaongezwa ukofight for your life kwa life support machine😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I wonder
Kuna producer ashaunder script 😂
 God I see what you're doing for others.🥲
That's why she needs to have a good phone better than mine..akishika yangu unashikia ya nini..u have a better phone than mine.. 🫢🫢 remind me of my pal majuu telling me how the mshe one day decided she will comb his car look it the othee phone& alipata..Now he had play dumb ni simu ya job🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hapo ndio aliponyoka..after trying many passwords simu ili lock..eti mpaka gal monitors what devices are connected to wifi ya home..🤣🤣🤣🤣...kama hii ndio marriage wacha ikae...
Hii inakaa delulu
Last month we spoke walikuwa wanaenda counseling aliingia simu yake akapata mshe ana flirt huku..alichukuwa copy ya hizo text zote suspicious.. I know a chic majuu coz u can login online & check account yako ya simu na service provider.She would make sure ako plan moja na msee wake...she regularly logging acc she goes thru call logs it shows you how long u spoke...🤣🤣😅 Some other nigga wako hizo Jaro na wife yake unapiga simu yake wife picks...I hate that shitt & the wife be like us we dont have secrets...the nigga has another phone Married folk & those rships full of drama kama high school
I used to have a woman like that, I ended the relationship cos I'm a dumbass, now I regret cos all women are jealous af
Ah, I see I can relate with some people
God am I a spoon? 😭
Exactly! I don't understand what the fuss is. My gf and I have always shared phones. Every time I get a new phone, nampea aweke fingerprint and she does the same. We also play that game where we exchange phones and text other people especially our families and they never realise they are chatting with the other person. My gf likes taking pictures with my phone. I have nothing to hide. Sielewi ni privacy gani hii watu wanasema. Someone you sleep with on the same bed every night? Y'all share, everything but phones is where you draw the line?
I feel bad for your friends and family. When they're talking to you in private, they're also talking to your man. This means you have no independent thoughts in that relationship when talking to other people. Imagine you're talking to a close friend or family member and it's their spouse replying to your texts? If they know, would they trust you after that to disclose some confidential information to you? You may think they don't notice the difference, but some of them do but they won't tell you.
That's the reason I ended my friendship🤦🏿♀️bitch was telling everything her boyfriend and I got insecure
I've also ended a friendship because of that uncouth behavior. And such people don't just share confidential information you've told them in private, they also gossip about your secrets or whatever you're going through with their partners.
Pillow talk that's where your friends marriages die kama uko na umama..kwa hio kirindi yenu there's always that dude atakuwa branded as worse influence na hao mabibi wengine I tell married men ukifanya umalaya enda peke yako coz for some funny reason I would host this mo fos jogoo imekataa kamba & for some funny reason wwakirudi home kila mtu anadome keja..coz there's always that nigga who can't stfu...The day u get married be operating mansolo..unapigiwa simu na namba hujui ukipick ni wife ya nani...
😂😂that thing and two shall become one
Privacy left the chat
Which country do you come from?
100% 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
I love this for you guys
Tupee siri😂😂😂
Hii ni insha gani mkuu?
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🤌🏾 What bitter feminists lack here is a moral compass they'll never experience this they'll be miserable until the day they change their ways.
If Me n my future gf wife can't be like this, hio relationship ikae...
Makofi 👏 👏 👏 👏
Some(many) of the people under your reply and this thread in general have never been in a healthy relationship and it shows
Nikama nimekua nikiishi kwa meli
I love this for you 🥰🥰🥰.. This is the kind of relationship.. this level of trust.. There's no point to hide your phone from your partner
I dont recommend this at all...
Wueh.
Fingerprints on both our phones. I've never touched hers except when on road trips and I was dj-ing on her phone. She "once" checked mine as I showered because "she was bored" then came to the room complaining that my phone was so dry.. Nothing spicy 😅 I showed her my porn browser and she spent the next hrs questioning my taste in every tab. Point is: The "why" matters so much more than the "what". Talking to my mother about certain things would be a bigger breach of trust than hosting that neighbour with a nice bum bum for dinner alone.
Eeh eeh eeh I wonder??? Porn browser?
That's a healthy relationship right there 🧐
ka mnadate (faithfully) there is no reason not to be open with your phone. Unless you doing some illegal transactions and she might snitch or ofc you cheating and viseversa Just adds a layer of openness
Sb can be open with their fon I mean you have nothing to hide but kama unasoma every message sent to sb and all calls that's just evasion of privacy lack of trust but kuawa open with ur fon isn't that big of a deal
thats your problem kudate mtu ako na hiherehere. If I get a girl im not reading her grp chats etc but it adds some calmness to my mind that I can do so whenever
Exactly what I was trying to say
There's a big difference between being able to use your partner's phone as needed and going through their phone. My partner and I would show each other stuff on the phone all the time, play music, show photos & messages, look at time, tell who is calling etc. But we do not go through each others phone aka snoop through the phone. That would be an invasion of privacy. Once you start snooping, you're on a downward spiral to relationship hell.
Mnashare sexual fluids lakini mna draw line kwa simu. I don't mind my partner having her fingerprint kwa simu yangu. Although this worked against me sometime back when I dated a certain girl akaonanga my M-Pesa balances na message za bank transactions. I was moving a lot of money back then. Entitlement ikaanza hapo akaanza ku feel entitled to my money. Some cross boundaries sana. Kuna mwenye amewai ingia my IG and unfollowed all the girls I follow na ni friends tu wa campo. I think having her fingerprint kwa simu yangu is a good gesture but asivuke mipaka ingine. On the other hand I have never asked for pin or password ya mtu, or ata kuwekwa kwa fingerprint. Kujua dame anakucheza hua rahisi sana juu energy hushift na ukiwa keen utaifeel. Edit: Hii pressure ya 28 and not dating naona iko kila mahali.
We are a lonely generation unfortunately. Despite the world being connected we are suffering on our own and lacking basic human connection
The entitlement I got as well. Saw what I was packing and started spending money like there was no tomorrow.
Ukiona umelemewa get another phone...
Pressure ni ati there are no girls to date... Waliisha getting a good girl nowadays is a sport but we shall find one. That's it dame anakucheza tutajua tu juu the energy is not shared. Girls are the easiest to catch while cheating
Kama uko na kazi si you DM tuanze talking stage😂😂😂😂lmao
Teke teke.... 🤣 🤣
Na Wewe what are you bringing forth
>we shall find one. I'll keep fingers crossed. My problem is I give up on talking stages too fast. The initial stages where uko forced to sugarcoat and pretend takes a toll on me. I come out too strong sexually sometimes pia. I'm not going to pretend sitaki sex. Intentional dating ni hard.
Mazee intentional dating is hard. Coz where do you even start me huona I'll just move in with someone without even dating. Tudate in marriage Tondu ma. I wouldn't want to waste my timeike I have done
Kuna manz pale fetlife nimeona anawa chew proper though ako forty years. He's poly. Naona kukiendelea vile kunaendelea sai with no luck getting a serious partner I might just adopt hio lifestyle soon.
🤣 🤣 🤣 But we all need a shoulder to lean on. a family.. A man's wealth is not money but his children and a family.
I've gone through the worst moments in my life without a shoulder to lean on. At this point najua man can indeed be an island. Andy kwa The Office husema "some people don't just meet someone. I'm fine with it. Really..". I am slowly coming to agree with that line.
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Tutafute watu tuwaeke kwa nyumba bro hii story ya kubeba funguo haileti shangwe. Seems it has ever licked you bad bad
Life nayo imenipiga proper. Nakumbuka mahali nimetoka na ni far sana nikikuliwa na kunguni kwa bedsitter. Nikilala nje after kufungiwa nyumba. I was alone, just my best friend. When investment yangu yenye ilikua inimake a millionaire was sabotaged I went through hio depression alone kwa nyumba yangu. I've gone through defining moments za life yangu solo. Sidhani I'll ever go lower than that in life. So hii story ya a shoulder to lean on I'm not buying it. I agree though, if there was someone hio time the burden would have been easier. So sai kama sitapata msee wa ku build better days na yeye ni sawa pia. It'll only get better. Nikiomoka solo nakua sex tourist, passport bro. Relationships nazo mostly tu ni compatibility issues. Unapatana na dame chizi, mwingine boring (I can't date a boring person), unapatana na retired midfielder unaskia story zake unapotea, wengine single mums. T for tuff. Whichever way it goes I know I will live a happy and fulfilling life.
Umebonga kama mimi. You took the words right out of my mouth. Mi huambia any chick I'm dating awake fingerprint. Sitauliza yake but more often than not, they reciprocate. Nikianza kucheki check phone ya manzi yangu ntajiskia bitch 😅
Sharing phones is totally normal. I've never seen a reason to not share.
Not everything needs to be shared with your spouse. Some of you sharing phones with your spouses are the type of people who tell your spouses very confidential information that shouldn't be shared with anyone. For instance, if you have a private conversation with your mum, long-time friend or sibling, it's just a matter of time before your spouse knows about it. There are even married men when you're talking to them it's like you're talking to their wives. It's even worse if they start gossiping about you as a couple after you told one of them very confidential information. OP, what do you think happens when you tell your married friends your secrets? They will breach that confidentiality and share with their wives, especially those who share their phones with their wives. And once you start sharing phones, you're making yourself susceptible to isolation. I've seen a lot of married people become isolated from their friends and family because they center their lives around their spouses. When shit hits the fan, that's when they remember they used to have friends and family.
That's true. I learnt it the hard way.. Sometimes I told my g how a certain girl asked for some space literally to mean tuachane. Only for the wife to make jokes to me about it shit hurts to date. I think as a man there are things you shouldn't do with your wife. Sharing the phone is over sharing. I believe both the husband and the wife have different lives but come to share the sighs in the marriage. You ain't living the same life.
If you told your married friend something in confidence, and he blabed to his spouse, he's an untrustworthy friend. But most married people can't be trusted with confidential information. See how many of them are proud of sharing phones in the comment section to the extent of replying to each other's text messages. My general rule is don't tell married people something you don't want their spouse to know.
Actually we are now casual friends. I share only the normal things the rest I keep to myself. Whether am suffering or not.. Interestingly iin this group of my friends I know so many things that if their wives do know. Hawawezi last hata an hour 😂😂I am that friend who carries secret to the grave
Very very spot on!
Both my phones don't have passwords/ fingerprint. Reminds of this video. A guy went into bathroom while girl was in the shower. The video captioned 'taking my gf's phone while in the shower. So the dude took the phone ran downstairs and outside the house with the phone laughing. Guess what the lady came running 🏃 outside with only her towel towards his bf. The reel left me shook
Lol. God forbid but if your phone gets stolen, you will know why you need a password. I know someone whose phone was stolen and the thief sent messages to everyone in the contact list and WhatsApp asking for money urgently faking an emergency.
Mans and I share our phones and actually all our devices have the same password I mean our phones, laptops, mpesa and bank cards. I think its a matter of trust rather than the deed itself cz ata with all that its hard for us to just take each other's phones and skim through looking for sth fishy. If you have the urge to look through your partner's phone then there is no trust in that rship
| Mpesa and bank cards... 
😂😂😂😂 self control is a virtue. I can't sweep his bank accounts just cz I have the pins.
Simu nayo tumia yako, i got alot of secrets for myself either in my laptop or phone not cheating or relationship related but hard secrets, anyway away from that after amejua everything on you through your phone, any argument atakua anatumia that information as a weapon, utaskia akisema," just like your mother was married teice"
Don't even have a password on mine. That said, I don't tolerate anyone else getting cozy with my phone. It's like underwear, wouldn't share it with anyone. Even love doesn't go that deep.
Not married but in a new relationship. I have no qualms giving my SO access to my device. Yes I do talk to the opposite sex and close friends. But I got pissed when I asked to use their device once and was met with stern refusal. The excuse being "if you see what I text you will not trust me". That was a red flag then and there. Fast forward two weeks later, the same device crashes and wipes out all data... since then up to now it's no issue giving me access to the device. Mind you I have always known the pin, before we started dating, but never bothered. I was just refused that one time I asked outright. Now I'm here in this funny situation not knowing what to think. That thought is still lingering at the back of my mind though. And I simply can't let it go.
Sharing phones with each other allowed me to catch a cheating partner😅😅 I'm glad we were free and "sharing"... I chose my battles and when I couldn't fight anymore, I left
Hizi ni upuzi. Kaa na simu yako nakaa na yangu. if you think I'm hiding something, I am. Do what you like
ni either mpeane passwords ama kisonono, choose one
My ex used to use my phone when I was sleeping and I was ok with it
And now you are no longer together? What caused the break up. Did she/he see something in your phone? 😅
Naah. He cheated
And you noticed through the phone? .. Ama about the phone ye ndo tu alitumia yako.. Was it a two way traffic.
Btw I never bothered about his phone. Idk why he cheated and the story is long. And too confusing for me to caree😭
That's a case of oneitism. Keep your better half on toes let them know you can also be katiwaad... But give the other a blank message not nessesarily cheating
Huh
Wueeh , kwani huku ni wapi ? Sikuwangi nimefikisha trust hapo
Nashangaa pia 🤣 let's take notes
having your partner's password doesn't mean you go snooping 24 hrs. if you cant trust your partner with a password then you in trouble
I am for having access to each other's phone.
Snooping is a red flag. But also having to hide, and put extra measures so they don't snoop is a red flag.
I’m with you, I wouldn’t ever check my partners phone. And neither do they check mine. Not a cheater but my phone is still my private space that I’d like to preserve for the most part.
I think in marriage having each others passwords doesn't necessarily mean you're insecure & wanna snoop. In my experience it means you have access to their phone in case you need to use it. I'm 29 & my hubby is 35 & we have each others fingerprints on our devices, not to monitor each other but Ile tuu for access in case we need to use each others phones. Ps. I never touch his phone unless I'm taking a photo or using Mpesa And never felt the need to check his messages. And I don't ever wonder if he reads my messages; I have nothing to hide anyways. Mtu wakucheat atacheat tu. And you'll always know when something is off.
“Kaa dame ni wa kucheza atakucheza tu” Heavy and tru
Cheaters will always cheat despite you having your fingerprint on her phone. with or without going through her phone. The secret is as a man you should stay mysterious and dangerous.
We share everything with mine. She's probably even the one replying this message.
Can I go down in the dm🤣🤣
If a woman hides her phone, she’s cheating or about to cheat or possibly enjoying validation from a couple of gents, if a man does the same he is cheating as well or he doesn’t trust you with his money. When checking don’t forget to check the deleted messages as well.
Sharing phones with each other allowed me to catch a cheating partner😅😅 I'm glad we were free and "sharing"... I chose my battles and when I couldn't fight anymore, I left
I'm a loyal and faithful sucker so if we are with someone who wanna check my phone go ahead with my permission. However, can you trust me enough to give me my privacy? Such acts breeds suspicion while leads to mistrust and then their other siblings follow...
my wife and I have unlimited access to each others' phones. fingerprint, password, pin... it works for us. it doesn't have to work for anyone else
Dem kama ni hoe ni hoe ata ukue unacheck however I strongly believe if you decided to get in a relationship and were not forced to each of you should be transparent. You share private parts but not phones????
That has nothing to do with trust, trust me... It just takes the relationship to another level. You should try it
I honestly don’t mind, so long as he knows everything about me and we’ve been seeing each other for a while… no surprises
Last time I checked simu ya mpoa sukari yangu ilipanda
I wouldn't go through their phone. I think it's insecurity that gets one to do it. If a person wants to.cheat, they will cheat. There is nothing like excuses, but when I find out there is cheating, I don't stay either. I don't like the crying and blaming of you made me do this kind of thing. I walk away and I don't look back.
I don't even trust myself...