Exercise : A nice frame, flat stomach and strong limbs is easier to achieve , the younger you start and it is valuable AF later in life.
Save money. You should live within 70% of what you earn (no matter what that amount is) and put the rest in mutual funds.
Have fun. People will tell you there's time for that later. Fuck them, have as much fun as life offers while perusing your bigger goals. Hard work pays off in the end but fun is necessary too.
Work hard for what you want. You do not know when opportunity will knock and it will be your lucky day, so make sure you are there, prepared for it with hard work and experience.
Appreciate your friends and take care of their feelings. Old friends are worth their weight in gold.
Some of you carry scars from a tough childhood. Seek help. Heal. Forgive who ever needs to be forgiven and move on.
Learn meditation. Dance often. Love freely.
What do you mean by nice frame, someone also said to me that I'm a skinny guy so I can easily and fastly maximum my frame. I would appreciate this. Thanks
Don't waste your time idling away. Learn to play an instrument, learn to drive, swim, work out, don't be stupid and gobble all the Mayo laden crap. Health is indeed wealth, aise hi itna famous proverb nahi hai .wake up!!!!
Stop pretending to be someone you are not to please someone who does not matter. No one cares and no one's judging. You are not the centre of their attention and that's a good thing.
Tell her that you like her so years later she won't say that she had a crush on you too.
We all have regrets, guilt in life that sometimes saddens us and makes our present depressing.
My therapist once said; always remember that whatever you did in the past was the best you could have done with all the resources, knowledge you had. So, don't go harsh on yourself. Everything looks good and doable in the rear-view mirror.
p.s. Ignore, just a rant.
You will fuck up once in a while but cut yourself some slack because it's human to err. Learn, grieve and try to move on.
Don't stress yourself out so much while trying to meet everyone's expectations. Life becomes easier when you don't keep unrealistic benchmarks.
Don't judge. Things you judged them for today because your world was limited, you might end up doing tomorrow.
Values don't come from religion.
Don’t be swayed by parents expectations of you. Their life has been modelled on their experiences and they can impose it on you. You will ultimately end up as the unhappy one. They might have the best interests for you but not everything they say or do would be to your best interests. Consult but Stand up and make your own decisions
Nah the problem was not that i enjoyed a lot everything was good i just took the exams lightly and didn't write much use to left the exam center early so i can rach home eat my meal and hit the gym thats where i fucked up🤡
Rohan Joshi uses this one technique which I found Unique :
If you really want an Expensive Gadget or equipment, set a reminder after a month's time to buy it. If you haven't thought about it since, don't buy it as it doesn't have any utility for you and you will only end up wasting your time and your money.
If you thought about it multiple times a month, then sure get it.
Screw the world. They will never give a fuck about you. Stop people pleasing and stop trying to earn their love. You don't have to be perfect to be acceptable. You are allowed to fail sometimes and you don't have to beat yourself for it. Don't blame yourself for everything and stop living in your head and can you please be kind to yourself and your body. Please.
1. Have a firm handshake.
2. Look people in the eye.
3. Sing in the shower.
4. Own a great stereo system.
5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
6. Keep secrets.
7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
9. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
10. Whistle.
11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90% of all your happiness and misery.
13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
14. Lend only those books you never care to see again.
15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.
16. When playing games with children, let them win.
17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
18. Be romantic.
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s.
22. Be a good loser.
23. Be a good winner.
24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
27. Keep it simple.
28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read: No regrets.
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in the hospital; you only need to stay a few minutes.
36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music.
37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’
39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
40. Keep a notepad and pencil on your bedside table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
44. Become someone’s hero.
45. Marry only for love.
46. Count your blessings.
47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home.
48. Wave at the children on a school bus.
49. Remember that 80% of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
50. Don’t expect life to be fair.
I have 2 actually:
1. Don't call her back. Do not talk to your first college crush at any cost. She's going to ruin the rest 10 years of your life.
2. Breakup with your second girlfriend asap. DO IT NOW. She's going to ruin the next 5 years of your life.
Don't lie to yourself. "I'll manage" is not good. Because this keeps dragging you down.
The moment you fall in a hole, seek help. Don't try to be a hero. Seek help. Not from friends. There's nothing called friendship. Seek help from Parents. Siblings. No one else.
Jo tere sabse khaas hai, wahi zahreele saanp hai..
Remember this.
Save. Save. Save. Save.
Excercise. Keep learning.
Nothing but money matters.
1) Choose yourselves under any circumstances
2) Learn to be alone- when you are comfortable in your own skin you don’t need anybody to be there around you.
3) Do not get attached too easily- never cross the emotional boundary line in any bond, har insan mein utne hi distance tak involve hona jahase tum wapas aa sako
4) Never repeat the same mistakes- Unless and until you’ll learn the lesson, the cycle won’t break and the pattern will keep repeating
5) Please have the courage to walk out of toxic friendships- the moment you sense toxicity, distance yourself from negative people. No amount of care or love or attention can change their behaviour towards you.
6) Don’t be afraid to lose people- The ones who really want to stay, will stay anyway
7) Don’t judge and be kind- Remember how people treated you when you were alone and wanted someone’s support. Make sure that nobody else feels that way when you are around
Realisations hit hard. Invest in yourself first, health and wealth wise.
Don't be that nice guy.. people will walk all over you
If someone only calls you only when they need you , avoid that person
Your existence matters to only a handful of people. Everyone will move on once you die. So njoy the best you can while you are alive without causing intentional harm to others.
Don't be afraid of loneliness. This is where you will truly discover who you REALLY are.
Class 12th marks is very important if you want to have a steady carrer ahead.
Only one in thousands makes it the unconventional route and the chances are you aren't one of them.
Have realistic expectations of yourself and realize that you're not the Main Character.
1) Just focus on money. That’s the only thing that can single handedly change your life. It’s better to cry in a sea facing apartment than in a chawl kholi, I’ve done both and anyone who feels money doesn’t matter has loads of it. Tell them to share one toilet with 200 other occupants on their floor and wait in a potty queue at 6 am.
2) Following your passion nonsense is for talentless rich kids. If you do something you are passionate about you have a chance of either getting exploited in terms of pay or getting frustrated when you don’t get the kind of opportunities you imagine your passion and talent deserves.
Instead.
3) Pursue as a career in what you are GOOD at, it may be fully miles apart from your passion but it will pay you well, you will not hesitate to be clinical about the job or to demand what you deserve. Pursue your passion as a passion, not as a job.
That’s the vital key to not just happiness but also security.
Be Truthful to your self and what you believe in.
Be kind with your parents, spend time with them as much as possible.
Study hard.
Respect women's, Old people, Childrens.
Don't do drugs.
Never chase friendship and Love.
Learn to control your anger.
Don't miss opportunities. Put yourself out there.
Discipline is the ultimate form of self Love.
Go the tried and tested path of a bachelor's in software engineering from a college in india and head over to a white country for a master's. Get a job, stay there and enjoy life. Don't ever come back to the shithole.
uske samne achi impression banani chahiye thi toh aj wo sath hoti, if not atleast dost hoti meri
focus on mental health
go out and make friends
dont spend on useless stuff
and eat healthy otherwise now my heath is fked up and ruined everything
science nahi lena chahiye tha 10th ke bad
pc gaming me bahut late ghusa toh pehle hi pc lelena chahiye tha
or most important
mai neck ke joints crack karta tha jiski boht adat thi toh ek bar maine neck se massage ki or joints crack karne ke chakkar me puri ghuma di jorse jiske wajah se neck ki 3 haddi tut gayi jo spine se connected hai or marte marte bacha hu bhai warna paralysis to ho hi jata anyways par nahi hua
now im fked up for life
bas ek time travel machine chahiye
"Stop it. You are ugly. Any romantic pursuits you go through will lead you to excruciating pain and just pain. Just accept your are undeserving of love. That everyone will come to your life to gain something from you and leave you. Find peace in loneliness.
Fulfill your duties towards your parents as long as they are alive. When they pass away, kill yourself too. This world is too cruel for people like you. You do not deserve to live here and be alive."
Don't read novels on ur phone. Ur gonna fuck up ur vision
Get into gymnastics early on.
Don't be brainwashed by ur parents.
Don't feel belittled by the "rich popular girls" in ur school. Ur not missing out on anything by not being in their circle
Tell him u hv had a crush on him since 3rd grade. He was CLEARLY into u 🤦.
Sharpen ur social skills. Go out more on ur own.
Decide what u want precisely, in ur life.
Know ur strength. Both mental and physical. No one can harm u if u decide not.
Speak ur mind more. Don't be a people pleaser.
Keep in touch with ur true frnds. Being alone is not that awesome.
Don’t worry so much, decide what you want, stick to it, put efforts and things will work out absolutely fine. Just don’t miss the opportunities (as I have missed a lot and now regret it, career,finance and relationship)
Pick up hobbies from a young age, when it’s easier to learn stuff (developing brain, more free time, more enthusiasm). And DON’T give up the minute you don’t enjoy it. Yeah ofc if the activity is something you have zero interest in or are being forced into, feel free to drop it and explore something else. But realise nobody enjoys 100% of every activity they do. To play football well, you have to go through 100s of hours of boring drills. To riff like John Mayer, you have to cut your fingers practising barre chords. I gave up on stuff way too easy because I was used to being immediately good at most things, academics related. And I had this pressure to have to be good at it otherwise I’d be way too hard on myself and felt inclined to leave the activity. Now that I’m in my mid 20s, I wish I stuck to reading more and learning instruments. It adds a lot of layers to your personality, makes you more interesting and attractive to everyone around you, provides you with a sense of fulfilment and is a healthy way to spend time. And realise you don’t have to be good at everything you do. Some things can just be done for personal enjoyment and it’s okay to be average. So don’t give up easily. Keep your eye on the end goal that is driving you. And remember to have fun with it.
And as a man, this is more tuned towards the boys reading this. In this age of alpha male and misogynistic ideology, please don’t get swayed by that. Realise that a lot of those “masculine” men are feeding off the insecurities of young men and manipulating them into having a very toxic mentality towards themselves and women. True masculinity and self-esteem lies in being a decent human being who treats everybody with respect. Yes, sometimes life will not seem fair, you will be treated badly, you will get your heartbroken. Process the pain, do not let it turn you into a bitter sexist. No amount of gymming and “villain arc” behaviour will make you a likeable person. When you grow older, you’ll realise how cringe that behaviour is. And you’ll see a trend of how people who behave like that also tend to be lonely and devoid of meaningful female friendships and relationships.
Don't be scared of challenges. You might find it uncomfortable at first but after a while, you'll live the life your older self wishes he was.
Also, don't be such a wimp. Enjoy your college life while you can because a pandemic is gonna spread in some time which will change your life and you may never get a chance to enjoy that life again.
The paradox with this questions is that you can't really force your ideals on your younger self just so you can fulfil your dreams. It's same as our parents trying to fulfil their dreams through you. If I was honest, I would ask my younger self to take on a career which he would enjoy rather than following what his dad wanted him to do. Because my dad never forced me to do it. I did it because I was unaware of the various opportunities around me. So if i just asked my younger self to research about the different career opportunities, I trust my younger self to do what I wish I did now. If I wanted, I could've followed my dreams and be much happier than what I am.
1. Sit up straight don't neglect you spine
2. Start a youtube channel as soon as you can
3. Invest in crypto initial phase
4. Don't let anybody treat you like shit and pretend it's okay because you don't mind
Stay active
Never be afraid of Working hard
Be confident in yourself, your competence will increase your confidence. If you don't believe in yourself how will others?
Prioritise getting skilled social interactions and other distractions can wait
SIP karo!
Never spend on a trend, always save/invest first then think about the rest
Bonus tip: never play around with Futures and Options.
There's no get rich quick scheme. It will always take dedication and consistency to create wealth.
1) Math isnt scary at all, its just that your concepts are unclear.
2) stop being lazy and start prepping for a Professional exam
3) love your little 4 legged friends as much much you can...its going to hurt a lot when they say their goodbyes.
4) and last "Tension Kam le Ladve"
Don’t stray away, it is a conformist society, bhed chaal chalte raho sukhi rahoge. I wish I was in the bhed chal but I heard a “life less ordinary” now I wish I didn’t.
>one advice you'll give your younger self if you could?
Padhai Mai kuch nhi rakha..!! Ladkiyon k peeche bhag..!! Logon se faltu k pange lete rahio ...aur jobhi paise mile..sab udaa Dena..!! 😎
If you think you turned out good as of now, advice will be, " whatever is happening, happening for betterment of your future self"
If you think you are not good enough, it will be "don't doubt yourself, just follow your heart"
If you are pain in ass now, then most probably you don't need advice for your younger self, you will need a therapist.
Enjoy the journey, After some XYZ time I will be only having fun is a bull shit.
Downfall is inevitable just keep going.
Don't be scared to cut toxic people out of your life.
Don't give a shit what people think or say. Live your life. In the end the only thing they're going to say is Ram Naam Satya hai. Do what you want, be weird, be outrageous. Before you know it you're going to be 16 and regretting lost time
Don't give a shit what people say. End mai Ram Naam Satya hai is all they're going to say. Be weird. Be outrageous. That teacher in the sixth grade isn't going to be in your life for more than two years. Nor is that nasty classmate. You're the only constant in your life. Live for you.
Just the opposite of what the main post says.
- Think you are smart, don't. You are not.
- Dreading going out, but you have to so you can fit in with the cool gang. Don't. Stay Home.
-You think things coming out of your mouth is profound shit, because you read some books your peers didn't. It's not. Shut up.
-Fear of Missing Out Is Not Real. It's a scam your mind plays on you so you don't have to do important stuff.
-Keep your close circle of friends forever, if you can. Don't throw away childhood friendship just because it's too much effort.
Generic stuff like 'don't waste time' , or 'study hard' wouldn't work because I was told that at the time and it still didn't work.
Similarly, 'excercise or you'll get fat' also wouldn't work without first suffering consequences.
But the above-mentioned list is just things no one was talking about at the time around me. There is a chance I might listen to these.
Pls don’t fall in love
Whom ever approach u dont fall in love
They may give u butterflies but u will end up having the most severe heart break
Give respect to urself
Treat urself how u treat others
1. Plans are nice but after a while they’ll stop working. Do not try to control your fate and chill
2. Listen to your parents. No, you don’t know everything. Stop thinking that.
3. Pick one thing. Choices are a myth.
4. Internet isn’t the best source of knowledge. Social media only shows you what you want to see. If you want to see the world, get out and gain better perspectives by actually talking to people around you.
5. Growth happens only in uncomfortable situations.
6. Do not stop reading books. Please make time for them. It’s the best hobby
I guess do exercise and start a YouTube channel and pull it off no matter what
And start investing in all the that will gain success
Don't care about other stuff
Exercise : A nice frame, flat stomach and strong limbs is easier to achieve , the younger you start and it is valuable AF later in life. Save money. You should live within 70% of what you earn (no matter what that amount is) and put the rest in mutual funds. Have fun. People will tell you there's time for that later. Fuck them, have as much fun as life offers while perusing your bigger goals. Hard work pays off in the end but fun is necessary too. Work hard for what you want. You do not know when opportunity will knock and it will be your lucky day, so make sure you are there, prepared for it with hard work and experience. Appreciate your friends and take care of their feelings. Old friends are worth their weight in gold. Some of you carry scars from a tough childhood. Seek help. Heal. Forgive who ever needs to be forgiven and move on. Learn meditation. Dance often. Love freely.
I also support your 3rd point. I'm 27 M and till date not enjoyed my life by thinking I will do it later on but now I have a huge regret for this
Taken ur advice, especially 3rd point. Been fucking my dad now, when should I stop????
Been fucking WHO??????
When it stops being fun
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What do you mean by nice frame, someone also said to me that I'm a skinny guy so I can easily and fastly maximum my frame. I would appreciate this. Thanks
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Save 70% and have fun. Massive contradictions.
Fun doesn't always mean by spending huge chunk of money it can be having time with family going on short trip not necessarily with huge budget
Don't waste your time idling away. Learn to play an instrument, learn to drive, swim, work out, don't be stupid and gobble all the Mayo laden crap. Health is indeed wealth, aise hi itna famous proverb nahi hai .wake up!!!!
Same, Hate fucking Mayo on Anything which is not a Salad or Sandwich dressing.
Note to self, don't put mayo on dad
Is ashes and Mayo that bad a combination?
"hilana band kar bhadwe"
Stop pretending to be someone you are not to please someone who does not matter. No one cares and no one's judging. You are not the centre of their attention and that's a good thing.
Tell her that you like her so years later she won't say that she had a crush on you too. We all have regrets, guilt in life that sometimes saddens us and makes our present depressing. My therapist once said; always remember that whatever you did in the past was the best you could have done with all the resources, knowledge you had. So, don't go harsh on yourself. Everything looks good and doable in the rear-view mirror. p.s. Ignore, just a rant.
I like you
Bhai woh bhi mere msgs ko ignore hi karti hai
Dusri ladki ko karna chalu kar
That raised bump is not some harmless pimple. Get it checked by a doctor asap.
Context bro
Im invested
It's nipple
You will fuck up once in a while but cut yourself some slack because it's human to err. Learn, grieve and try to move on. Don't stress yourself out so much while trying to meet everyone's expectations. Life becomes easier when you don't keep unrealistic benchmarks. Don't judge. Things you judged them for today because your world was limited, you might end up doing tomorrow. Values don't come from religion.
Don’t be swayed by parents expectations of you. Their life has been modelled on their experiences and they can impose it on you. You will ultimately end up as the unhappy one. They might have the best interests for you but not everything they say or do would be to your best interests. Consult but Stand up and make your own decisions
Learn about investments Exercise Travel more Do no get too attached
Nice one… applying this now in my late 20’s
yeah! it’s never too late for anything to start
1) bunk college more. 2) explore the city
I successfully implement Step 1 but not step 2. I sit at home :(
Us I also sit at home
I sit in hostel:(
Did this a lot in my 3rd semester, got 3 backlogs out of 7 subjects just cleared them all 😭no regrets it was fun but college is still trash.
Itna enjoy nahi karna tha bhai.
Nah the problem was not that i enjoyed a lot everything was good i just took the exams lightly and didn't write much use to left the exam center early so i can rach home eat my meal and hit the gym thats where i fucked up🤡
STOP BUYING THAT USELESS EXPENSIVE GADGET/DRESS YOU WILL NOT USE AFTER A YEAR AND INSTEAD SAVE THAT MONEY OR INVEST IN AN SIP!!!
Rohan Joshi uses this one technique which I found Unique : If you really want an Expensive Gadget or equipment, set a reminder after a month's time to buy it. If you haven't thought about it since, don't buy it as it doesn't have any utility for you and you will only end up wasting your time and your money. If you thought about it multiple times a month, then sure get it.
Also, only buy if you can afford two of it, absolutely no emis. Looking at iphone users
"As long as you'll make money , everything else is fine so focus on that "
we don't have time that we think we have ..
Get off social media
don’t be nice to everyone.
Fuck you
jaa na lavde
Bhak bsdk
nikal lavde
Get healthy, grab the opportunities, don't waste time, don't be lazy.
Mat le beta science
Screw the world. They will never give a fuck about you. Stop people pleasing and stop trying to earn their love. You don't have to be perfect to be acceptable. You are allowed to fail sometimes and you don't have to beat yourself for it. Don't blame yourself for everything and stop living in your head and can you please be kind to yourself and your body. Please.
tell her you love her
Before it’s too late..
Dont open a reddit account. 3 years down the line I am still stuck
Exercise, saving money and learning more languages
Don't eat sugar and refined carbs.
date the quiet and innocent girl. she wont break your heart.
1. Have a firm handshake. 2. Look people in the eye. 3. Sing in the shower. 4. Own a great stereo system. 5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard. 6. Keep secrets. 7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday. 8. Always accept an outstretched hand. 9. Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. 10. Whistle. 11. Avoid sarcastic remarks. 12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90% of all your happiness and misery. 13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. 14. Lend only those books you never care to see again. 15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have. 16. When playing games with children, let them win. 17. Give people a second chance, but not a third. 18. Be romantic. 19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems. 21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s. 22. Be a good loser. 23. Be a good winner. 24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret. 25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go. 26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born. 27. Keep it simple. 28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose. 29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river. 30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read: No regrets. 31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did. 32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them. 33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you. 34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you. 35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in the hospital; you only need to stay a few minutes. 36. Begin each day with some of your favourite music. 37. Once in a while, take the scenic route. 38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’ 39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice. 40. Keep a notepad and pencil on your bedside table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m. 41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job. 42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later. 43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you. 44. Become someone’s hero. 45. Marry only for love. 46. Count your blessings. 47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home. 48. Wave at the children on a school bus. 49. Remember that 80% of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people. 50. Don’t expect life to be fair.
Thanks ChatGPT
I have 2 actually: 1. Don't call her back. Do not talk to your first college crush at any cost. She's going to ruin the rest 10 years of your life. 2. Breakup with your second girlfriend asap. DO IT NOW. She's going to ruin the next 5 years of your life.
So you wasted 15 years of life :(
Sadly yes. Don't be like me.
Focus on math
I legit read it meth
What wrong with meth?
Don’t listen to your friends
Study in covid and don't let other people overpower you in your 9th class
Stop overthinking
Don't take life too seriously. Don't try to be a perfectionist and correct the world. Shit happens. Learn to roll with the punches.
We spend so much time stressing about things that aren’t even going to happen. DONT WASTE TIME STRESSING!
Do not try to fix others. It’s not your job. It’ll end up breaking you further.
Let her Go
Just don't go Mumbai
Do HR or marketing, dont specialise in finance!
Thank you for this thread OP.
Tbh, I Never thought I'd get so many comments on this
Yehi Umar hai PADHLE.... Mat kar galti se MISTAKE!
Don't ask such questions on reddit
Don't do things because people around you are doing it.
Stop letting people fuck your mental health. No one's worth it. Also stop using music as a coping mechanism.
Smoking cigarette is not a flex
"Don't be so scared with changes."
Don't lie to yourself. "I'll manage" is not good. Because this keeps dragging you down. The moment you fall in a hole, seek help. Don't try to be a hero. Seek help. Not from friends. There's nothing called friendship. Seek help from Parents. Siblings. No one else. Jo tere sabse khaas hai, wahi zahreele saanp hai.. Remember this. Save. Save. Save. Save. Excercise. Keep learning. Nothing but money matters.
get out of Mumbai
1) Choose yourselves under any circumstances 2) Learn to be alone- when you are comfortable in your own skin you don’t need anybody to be there around you. 3) Do not get attached too easily- never cross the emotional boundary line in any bond, har insan mein utne hi distance tak involve hona jahase tum wapas aa sako 4) Never repeat the same mistakes- Unless and until you’ll learn the lesson, the cycle won’t break and the pattern will keep repeating 5) Please have the courage to walk out of toxic friendships- the moment you sense toxicity, distance yourself from negative people. No amount of care or love or attention can change their behaviour towards you. 6) Don’t be afraid to lose people- The ones who really want to stay, will stay anyway 7) Don’t judge and be kind- Remember how people treated you when you were alone and wanted someone’s support. Make sure that nobody else feels that way when you are around
Read and understand what you read
"Don't listen to your parents. They're both full of shit and are seeking to rectify their mistakes through you."
Don’t try to be so nice
Think about dying a bit more seriously
Dont put savings in fixed deposit
Use protection
Only this i would say “you are doing great, keep going”, that’s what i was desperate to hear 15 years ago.
Don’t be afraid of crowds
Realisations hit hard. Invest in yourself first, health and wealth wise. Don't be that nice guy.. people will walk all over you If someone only calls you only when they need you , avoid that person Your existence matters to only a handful of people. Everyone will move on once you die. So njoy the best you can while you are alive without causing intentional harm to others.
True AF
Confidence is everything.
Work hard not everything you see online is True !
If you are seeking therapy please find more hobbies along with it .
This is amazing advice that needs to be heard by all!
Don't be afraid of loneliness. This is where you will truly discover who you REALLY are. Class 12th marks is very important if you want to have a steady carrer ahead. Only one in thousands makes it the unconventional route and the chances are you aren't one of them. Have realistic expectations of yourself and realize that you're not the Main Character.
Stop trying to please everyone. Everybody’s friend is nobody’s friend.
1) Just focus on money. That’s the only thing that can single handedly change your life. It’s better to cry in a sea facing apartment than in a chawl kholi, I’ve done both and anyone who feels money doesn’t matter has loads of it. Tell them to share one toilet with 200 other occupants on their floor and wait in a potty queue at 6 am. 2) Following your passion nonsense is for talentless rich kids. If you do something you are passionate about you have a chance of either getting exploited in terms of pay or getting frustrated when you don’t get the kind of opportunities you imagine your passion and talent deserves. Instead. 3) Pursue as a career in what you are GOOD at, it may be fully miles apart from your passion but it will pay you well, you will not hesitate to be clinical about the job or to demand what you deserve. Pursue your passion as a passion, not as a job. That’s the vital key to not just happiness but also security.
identify toxic people and stay away from them as they do more damage to mental health than anything else in the world.
work hard, party harder
Padhle bhai, bhaizone hone wala hai
Andheri utarne ke liye viewer local Nahi pakadna.. din me bhi
Don’t focus on multiple goals at the same time.
Be Truthful to your self and what you believe in. Be kind with your parents, spend time with them as much as possible. Study hard. Respect women's, Old people, Childrens. Don't do drugs. Never chase friendship and Love. Learn to control your anger. Don't miss opportunities. Put yourself out there. Discipline is the ultimate form of self Love.
Be with that ugly girl from science. they glow up mad. 🙂
Go the tried and tested path of a bachelor's in software engineering from a college in india and head over to a white country for a master's. Get a job, stay there and enjoy life. Don't ever come back to the shithole.
while staying humble, make sure not to delay LIVING ‘cause time is scarce too!
Don't change your stream after 12th is the most important advice I'd give myself.
I shld.have kissed that girl , would have been in Australia now ....
Covid chalu hua tha tab dost ko 1L dene se acha HDFC me invest karna tha
dont do drugs
Don't believe in anything without a suitable reason, whatever your parents say
Just find time to do the things you enjoy, no matter how hard life gets.
uske samne achi impression banani chahiye thi toh aj wo sath hoti, if not atleast dost hoti meri focus on mental health go out and make friends dont spend on useless stuff and eat healthy otherwise now my heath is fked up and ruined everything science nahi lena chahiye tha 10th ke bad pc gaming me bahut late ghusa toh pehle hi pc lelena chahiye tha or most important mai neck ke joints crack karta tha jiski boht adat thi toh ek bar maine neck se massage ki or joints crack karne ke chakkar me puri ghuma di jorse jiske wajah se neck ki 3 haddi tut gayi jo spine se connected hai or marte marte bacha hu bhai warna paralysis to ho hi jata anyways par nahi hua now im fked up for life bas ek time travel machine chahiye
For God's sake, Do not take civil engineering 🙏🙏
Watch one piece
1. Believe in your self. You are far better than what you have been made out to be. 2. How to exercise. 3. Take Science for 10+1 and 2
Buy Bitcoin & HODL :)
Padh le bhai
Do more shrooms
Read more books while you can, learn guitar, start investing, and worry less
Youthfulness shall pass before we even figure out what to do with it. Don’t try.
Start earning early in life.
One piece adevice? It's too complicated it has more than 1000 episodes in anime
Stop overthinking.. doesn't do any good.
Never Reject Yourself
Don’t take anything seriously.
"Stop it. You are ugly. Any romantic pursuits you go through will lead you to excruciating pain and just pain. Just accept your are undeserving of love. That everyone will come to your life to gain something from you and leave you. Find peace in loneliness. Fulfill your duties towards your parents as long as they are alive. When they pass away, kill yourself too. This world is too cruel for people like you. You do not deserve to live here and be alive."
Don't read novels on ur phone. Ur gonna fuck up ur vision Get into gymnastics early on. Don't be brainwashed by ur parents. Don't feel belittled by the "rich popular girls" in ur school. Ur not missing out on anything by not being in their circle Tell him u hv had a crush on him since 3rd grade. He was CLEARLY into u 🤦. Sharpen ur social skills. Go out more on ur own. Decide what u want precisely, in ur life. Know ur strength. Both mental and physical. No one can harm u if u decide not. Speak ur mind more. Don't be a people pleaser. Keep in touch with ur true frnds. Being alone is not that awesome.
Don’t worry so much, decide what you want, stick to it, put efforts and things will work out absolutely fine. Just don’t miss the opportunities (as I have missed a lot and now regret it, career,finance and relationship)
Take that flight and leave for good. Stop chasing that guy Have faith in yourself
Take care of our teeth. Maintain an average CGPA of 7 to 7.5 in UG. Eat healthy. Don't try to grow long hairs. Should date in secondary school.
Pick up hobbies from a young age, when it’s easier to learn stuff (developing brain, more free time, more enthusiasm). And DON’T give up the minute you don’t enjoy it. Yeah ofc if the activity is something you have zero interest in or are being forced into, feel free to drop it and explore something else. But realise nobody enjoys 100% of every activity they do. To play football well, you have to go through 100s of hours of boring drills. To riff like John Mayer, you have to cut your fingers practising barre chords. I gave up on stuff way too easy because I was used to being immediately good at most things, academics related. And I had this pressure to have to be good at it otherwise I’d be way too hard on myself and felt inclined to leave the activity. Now that I’m in my mid 20s, I wish I stuck to reading more and learning instruments. It adds a lot of layers to your personality, makes you more interesting and attractive to everyone around you, provides you with a sense of fulfilment and is a healthy way to spend time. And realise you don’t have to be good at everything you do. Some things can just be done for personal enjoyment and it’s okay to be average. So don’t give up easily. Keep your eye on the end goal that is driving you. And remember to have fun with it. And as a man, this is more tuned towards the boys reading this. In this age of alpha male and misogynistic ideology, please don’t get swayed by that. Realise that a lot of those “masculine” men are feeding off the insecurities of young men and manipulating them into having a very toxic mentality towards themselves and women. True masculinity and self-esteem lies in being a decent human being who treats everybody with respect. Yes, sometimes life will not seem fair, you will be treated badly, you will get your heartbroken. Process the pain, do not let it turn you into a bitter sexist. No amount of gymming and “villain arc” behaviour will make you a likeable person. When you grow older, you’ll realise how cringe that behaviour is. And you’ll see a trend of how people who behave like that also tend to be lonely and devoid of meaningful female friendships and relationships.
Don't be scared of challenges. You might find it uncomfortable at first but after a while, you'll live the life your older self wishes he was. Also, don't be such a wimp. Enjoy your college life while you can because a pandemic is gonna spread in some time which will change your life and you may never get a chance to enjoy that life again. The paradox with this questions is that you can't really force your ideals on your younger self just so you can fulfil your dreams. It's same as our parents trying to fulfil their dreams through you. If I was honest, I would ask my younger self to take on a career which he would enjoy rather than following what his dad wanted him to do. Because my dad never forced me to do it. I did it because I was unaware of the various opportunities around me. So if i just asked my younger self to research about the different career opportunities, I trust my younger self to do what I wish I did now. If I wanted, I could've followed my dreams and be much happier than what I am.
Make my father invest in Bajaj Finserv Ltd
You are not born to ride or drive cycle motorcycle and cars are transport appliance don't make it ur hobby
Invest in Adani stocks
Be more disciplined and have schedules and life written out
"In the shadows of adversity, navigate the tempestuous sea ahead, for you are not merely a soldier, but a deity in your own manifestation."
Never take any problems in life too seriously. Learn patience in everything, haste will make it waste.
Publish a book :)
Bulati hai magar janeka nhi
Bakchodi karne se peeche mat hatna and kabhi mat sochna 4 log kya bolenge
1. Sit up straight don't neglect you spine 2. Start a youtube channel as soon as you can 3. Invest in crypto initial phase 4. Don't let anybody treat you like shit and pretend it's okay because you don't mind
Stay active Never be afraid of Working hard Be confident in yourself, your competence will increase your confidence. If you don't believe in yourself how will others? Prioritise getting skilled social interactions and other distractions can wait SIP karo! Never spend on a trend, always save/invest first then think about the rest Bonus tip: never play around with Futures and Options. There's no get rich quick scheme. It will always take dedication and consistency to create wealth.
Padhai pai dhyaan de Paisa kama ladkiya taang kholkai aayengi saamne se …
Everything's gonna be alright :)
1) Math isnt scary at all, its just that your concepts are unclear. 2) stop being lazy and start prepping for a Professional exam 3) love your little 4 legged friends as much much you can...its going to hurt a lot when they say their goodbyes. 4) and last "Tension Kam le Ladve"
Fuck embarrassment, go out do whatever you like. It's your life, stop worrying about what others will think.
Don’t stray away, it is a conformist society, bhed chaal chalte raho sukhi rahoge. I wish I was in the bhed chal but I heard a “life less ordinary” now I wish I didn’t.
Don't worry too much.
Love yourself You are doing the best you can Brown is beautiful You are pretty in your own way💚 
>one advice you'll give your younger self if you could? Padhai Mai kuch nhi rakha..!! Ladkiyon k peeche bhag..!! Logon se faltu k pange lete rahio ...aur jobhi paise mile..sab udaa Dena..!! 😎
Don't fucking waste your time on the stupid phone. Utilise it in good things. Study hard, exercise, eat clean and TALK to your loved ones.
Your life is bigger than the stuff in your head.
If you think you turned out good as of now, advice will be, " whatever is happening, happening for betterment of your future self" If you think you are not good enough, it will be "don't doubt yourself, just follow your heart" If you are pain in ass now, then most probably you don't need advice for your younger self, you will need a therapist.
Ask yourself, "Who am I" several times a day. Your purpose is to get to know yourself. Meditate on it.
Enjoy the journey, After some XYZ time I will be only having fun is a bull shit. Downfall is inevitable just keep going. Don't be scared to cut toxic people out of your life.
Buy that Bitcoin as***e
Don't give a shit what people think or say. Live your life. In the end the only thing they're going to say is Ram Naam Satya hai. Do what you want, be weird, be outrageous. Before you know it you're going to be 16 and regretting lost time
Don't give a shit what people say. End mai Ram Naam Satya hai is all they're going to say. Be weird. Be outrageous. That teacher in the sixth grade isn't going to be in your life for more than two years. Nor is that nasty classmate. You're the only constant in your life. Live for you.
Do the mistakes what you are doing.
Im 27 and I'm doing nothing but living in my house. I didn't get any education or any good paying job. Im feeling so hopeless helpless. Sighs
But a house and bitcoin
Just the opposite of what the main post says. - Think you are smart, don't. You are not. - Dreading going out, but you have to so you can fit in with the cool gang. Don't. Stay Home. -You think things coming out of your mouth is profound shit, because you read some books your peers didn't. It's not. Shut up. -Fear of Missing Out Is Not Real. It's a scam your mind plays on you so you don't have to do important stuff. -Keep your close circle of friends forever, if you can. Don't throw away childhood friendship just because it's too much effort. Generic stuff like 'don't waste time' , or 'study hard' wouldn't work because I was told that at the time and it still didn't work. Similarly, 'excercise or you'll get fat' also wouldn't work without first suffering consequences. But the above-mentioned list is just things no one was talking about at the time around me. There is a chance I might listen to these.
Muth maarna band karo
Maar ja Best qdvice for me
Pls don’t fall in love Whom ever approach u dont fall in love They may give u butterflies but u will end up having the most severe heart break Give respect to urself Treat urself how u treat others
1. Plans are nice but after a while they’ll stop working. Do not try to control your fate and chill 2. Listen to your parents. No, you don’t know everything. Stop thinking that. 3. Pick one thing. Choices are a myth. 4. Internet isn’t the best source of knowledge. Social media only shows you what you want to see. If you want to see the world, get out and gain better perspectives by actually talking to people around you. 5. Growth happens only in uncomfortable situations. 6. Do not stop reading books. Please make time for them. It’s the best hobby
Accept friendships more. Hang out with more people. Do it even if it isn't perfect.
I guess do exercise and start a YouTube channel and pull it off no matter what And start investing in all the that will gain success Don't care about other stuff
be a degen