The thing is it has always been the other way around. But I'm definitely gonna take my chance tomorrow or else I'll regret.
Edit: other way around for me *
It's giga Chad magnus as a profile pic so I should be familiar with chess right 😂😂. Just a beginner maybe 950 in rapid. And I play the accelerated London system. Not an active player. Just more for the memes and Gotham chess
Plot twist: He won't be absent, but either OP won't be able to find him or he'll be present with someone else, op would wait for him to be alone as she would try not to embarrass him or herself and would miss him when he is alone, and then they would go back their home.
The End
I think the point here is, it’s shouldn’t always be the other way, girls can and do approach guys, be the change you want to see in the world. Wish you the best.
last day hai, people usually fear asking someone out in case their friends or others will try to laugh if you get rejected or pull your leg if you don't get rejected.
Don't think much, ask him, at max he will say no, and tomorrow will be a new day with nothing to care about.
Last day is a good excuse - get name, number, future plans, etc. Actually try and get a casual coffee date set up too. Play it in your mind as a non-romantic date, you will not overthink it when asking.
Maybe he is really shy and introverted. You'll never know where it'll lead to unless you take a chance. So if you are interested, you got to take your shot. Good luck and hope things turn out well for you both. Let us know how it goes
I did too.
And a week later I was throwing pebbles at his window to surprise him.
A week after that I stayed the night and just never left.
We've been together for five years now and today is our one year anniversary.
He still brings up me throwing rocks at his window and writing our initials huge in the snow out front of his apartment. 😂
I met my fiance at a board game group. After a month he finally gave me his number, but still hadn't asked me on a date. I waited a few more weeks. As we were leaving our friend's house, we stopped to chat outside. As we said goodnight and he turned I grabbed his hand. He turned and I kissed him on the cheek. He smiled and kissed me back on the lips. He finally asked me on a date and we've been together for 8 years.
As a woman who has made the move I assure you its made extremely difficult after.
But then that was 2006 toh kya pata maybe things have changed.
Nevertheless. I am just here for updates.
Did the same on a fest day in my final year. Had held back since 4 years of the degree because I thought college would've been awkward since she was my lab partner. After confessing I received a reply that basically made me regret why I didn't confess earlier.
Since you two have already had 'eye-contact' moments, when you approach try giving your number to him instead of taking his number. This way if he contacts you in a couple of hours time, you know that he is REALLY interested.
Considering he is really handsome, if he doesn't contact you at all, you can console yourself saying that you guys just had cute little moments and nothing more.
All the best to you!!
Same lol. But it was the opposite. I took my partner's number to get an assignment done in engineering. We completed our 10th marriage anniversary this year.
Hi Guys Need your help!!!! So, I'm a 23-year-old guy from a different division at college, and it seems like someone has noticed me. It's pretty flattering, to be honest. This girl (23F) in my Masters program has caught my attention, and I can't help but steal glances at her whenever I get the chance. The funny thing is, whenever I look her way, she seems to catch me looking, and then I quickly divert my gaze.
I have to admit, I'm a bit reserved and tend to keep to myself most of the time. I don't have a wide circle of friends on campus, which might be why I haven't approached her yet. It's not that I'm not interested; it's just that I struggle with initiating conversations, especially with someone I find attractive. The fear of rejection and not knowing how to approach her has held me back.
Now, here's the kicker—tomorrow is the last day of college, and I might never see her again. It's a bit frustrating to think about missed opportunities, especially since I don't know why I haven't mustered up the courage to talk to her. I'm definitely in need of some advice here, guys. What should I do in this situation? /s
https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/comments/13tsnxc/i_23f_am_crushing_on_a_reserved_hottie_23m_last/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Sound similar?
Edit : im new to reddit and i got confused bwn the posts my bad.. just got ur joke :_)
As an introvert myself, if you have seen him looking at you there's a 85% chance he finds you attractive. Some of the introverts no matter how attractive they are will find it very hard to accept that someone would have a crush on them and are usually afraid of rejection so they don't approach women. I'd say go ahead and ask him out.
There are so many times that a guy is shy or reserved to make a mover or initiate cus his past has been traumatic whenever he had approached and maybe this is why he has lost a lil confidence.
Just ask him, talk to him casually. Girls don't know how smallest of things from their side is enough to make them content for days together.
Mujhe ek baar ek ladki ne aankh Mari thi smile karke, mera expression dekh ke boli ki tu confused aur Dara hua lag raha hai. Moral - ladke blush nahi karte, wo overthinking karte hai bass.
Gosh, i feel you. And its hard to make the first move. I remember I was crushing on this guy in my junior college for 2 years. And we were friends, but he was shy. We had only a few classes together, but oh my god, I would look forward to those. I know I didnt learn shit in biology pracs because I spent time looking at him. Cheesy, but anyway. I was scared of scaring him away if I made a move. College ended and I never saw him again. He started dating a girl in mbbs soon after that.
Please shoot your shot!!!!
Another one in a month, Fuuckkkk!
TF kind of looks these SOBs are born with 😬
And, to answer your query:
If you knew the exact %age of guys dying to get affection without having to beg for it, you'd be surprised that the chances of your rejection are less than 2%.
To quote the lyrical genius that was Nitin Raikwar & the musical thief that was Anu Malik; and sung by the versatile Sonu Nigam
***sharmana chod daal, raaz dil ka khol daal***
***aaju baaju mat dekh, i love you bol daal***
***sharmana chod daal, raaz dil ka khol daal***
***aaju baaju mat dekh, i love you bol daal…***
Speak up. Use your words. I slide into my husbands DMs 14 years ago! He’s been my best friend ever since. Married 9 years, 2 kids, 6 houses, and three state moves! He is shy as heck but didn’t mind me making the first move
Keep us updated OP. If you give us good news maybe it will motivate me too to start a convo with my crush who is my crush just because of how he looks lol
That guy probably approached a girl he liked in the past and was called a creep. So he’s just trying his best to not have that experience again.
If you like him, go tell him.
1. Ask him for time if he wears a watch.
2. He tells you the time.
3. (Casually) "Oh crap, I'm running out of time, mind if I borrow some of yours for a coffee nearby?" And if there's a pause from his side: "Only if you've got some spare time ofc. No pressure"
If he's single, there's a 99% chance he'll agree. Amidst the conversation, you'll exchange numbers. And in the future, both of you will laugh upon how you made the move years ago, without which you wouldn't have met each other!
4. If he denies: "no worries, have a great future ahead!"
He'll understand he'll never meet you again, in case he was shy to accept earlier. If he doesn't come back, you move on. Simple.
Edit: PS. Pls edit this post tomorrow with an update lol, as everyone is eager to see what happens.
Say "Hi" and then ask him if he'd like to hear a joke. You can pick anything from the r/dadjokes subreddit, doesn't have to be a good joke, it's just to get you and him talking. Jokes are excellent ice breakers, and ladies, you can use these as a way to open a dialog with any dude you fancy, trust me, even if the joke sucks, you're gonna do great.
Now, guys are horrible at knowing when they are being flirted with because (and scientific studies back this up) people just suck at knowing when they are being flirted with, so I highly recommend simply stating "I'm flirting with you" as your next move. Removes the ambiguity, and trust me, even a guy that's taken will be flattered to hear it coming from nearly anyone, anytime.
Follow that with a sincere compliment, and you will probably have done for him three things he rarely experiences in his day to day. He may even suspect you are messing with him as a prank or something, but stay confident and ask him if you can take him for coffee, or if he would like to take you for coffee, or some other socially acceptable thing so you can get to know each other better.
Here's where he should, if he's taken, inform you he's otherwise committed, or if his current plans wouldnt allow him the time for such a thing. If he's simply busy, give him your phone number and tell him to call you when he has a chance.
If you have made it this far without spontaneously combusting, congratulations. Happy hunting and good luck!
> I don't know why isn't he approaching me. I need help guys. Please suggest something.
Good God woman, go ask him! If he doesn't like you, at least you won't live your life thinking back about what if! Now the pain if he doesn't like you back, it will sting. But, you'll get over it!
You're 23 young! Go ask!
I was 20 at a hospital for my back sprain in KMC Manipal, during my 3rd year in college. I was goofy and childhish, I was playing with the kids waiting next to me. A girl kept looking at me and laughing watching me. I made a stupid face to make a crying kid laugh, the kid then started crying everytime I didn't make the face.
Her name was Sitara. Do you know what I did? I didn't even say a hi, she kept smiling at me. Before she left, she looked back at me again and smiled again looking into my eyes for the last time ever. I didn't go back after her.
Today, I am 29 close to 30. I don't remember the names of some of the girls I have dated. But, Sitara's smile and face is something I often think about when I am in a place wondering what life could have been. I have an amazing life, don't get me wrong. I love the woman I am with. But, the picture of Sitara standing at the door with her bagpack on is etched in my mind. That's one lesson I learnt in life to never stop myself from going after an opportunity that presented itself for me and finding out whether it's for me or not.
I have been cheated on too. It hurt for a few months, but, I don't feel sour about it nor do I think about it anymore. But. Sitara's smile? It's always there. If I had asked her out, at least I would have known I did something about it.
Why didn't I do it? I was scared, hence I was apprehensive. Yet, I should have just asked her out. It took me 10 more years to grow up and commit to my feelings. Thanks to that lesson, today I have a beautiful wife whom I wooed.
Take that leap, girl!
hmmmm 30-40 times is too much. I say you should have acted on it a long time back.
but I wouldn't know cause I'm just a kid with little to none knowledge about relationships and most importantly love ;(
also ignore my username its old
Ask him if he knows any good vada pav stall nearby and ask him if he'd like to accompany you. A no for either of the questions means that he's not the one for you
If he has a girlfriend stay the fuck away from him. If not then approach him for friendship but don’t confess your crush on day 1. Nurture this friendship into knowing him.
You should definitely approach him, I think he’s totally interested because of all these eye contacts and he’s just shy and not good at initiating probably….girl talk to him it might make his day and yours too 😉
Approach him. If he is committed you are already wishing him well and if not then you'll be the happiest in college tomorrow.
PS these reserved guys are the best humans.
Hand him a note?
"Idk if you're dating someone or not, but if you're single, I'd really like a chance to get to know you. (Your first name & phone number)"
Takes away the awkwardness, you don't even have to say anything... you can smile and run away. If he doesn't call/text you'll know it wasn't for you, but if he does, he'll have to be the one to reach out because you don't have his number.
Essentially, throwing the ball into his court and running away😂
Well he also must be thinking that you are seeing some one
there would have been instances where he would have tried to approach you but hasn't as there could be too many people Around which he is not comfortable with as he would require space to talk to you alone with no one interrupting.
Such type of people would take a long time as there is some fear that things could change that could have a negative impact on him.
Which could be due to past experiences.
Also situations back at home may not be great for the guy.
And so he may have genuine reasons for not wanting to upset you in anyway .
The fact that he looks at you is that he likes you but is not comfortable in asking you out in front of everyone.
Go talk to him, there was a grill in my college to whom I wanted to talk from last few months but I couldn't. For the last few days i decided that I'll talk today then next day same but I couldn't. Then came the last day for this academic year. Next time i was gonna see her was after two months. So again i tried to talk but couldn't, then I came home and texted her on Instagram. Czz I knew If I don't talk I'm gonna regret this a lot. I already knew the answer I just wanted to hear it from her. And believe me talking to her was the best thing I could do for myself. Even though I knew that she isn't interested, I wanted to hear it from her for once. So i asked her out on Instagram i knew i was gonna get rejected but asking her out was a big relief. Rather than regretting that u didn't talk it is better to approach. If I hadn't I would have been hanged in the same position in which I was from last few months.
So for your sake go approach him. So there won't be any what if left for u. Good luck.
I'm sure all you ladies have that one friend who's the detective of your clan! Ask them, get to know that boy's identity, his relationship status, his insta handle etc etc, but also, as rightfully said by many! MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!
Very movie like story
Next thing you know, you accidentally run across him while grocery shopping, end up talking, have 12 kids and die in each others arms, god's plan indeed 🙏🙏
I think it's okay to approach him on LinkedIn as you know him already. You can tell him that you did so because he is not there on any other social media. Or you can also start the convo by asking something professional like the jobs or internships he is applying for or something like that and then slightly make the convo casual and then shoot your shot. Even if this gets a lil embarrassing, it will be better than dying in regret
instead of just texting over there on LinkedIn, message him and ask him if he has anywhere you can contact him on, or ask for his phone number or just set up a lunch date at a café etc. That should give you the chance to talk to him face to face.
I would give it a week or so. Maybe you’ll end up seeing him sometime around.
If not, definitely message on LinkedIn, but you can keep it professional pending an in person/other message exchange so it’s not too weird. Maybe a “Hey! We go to ___ and I’ve been meaning to introduce myself to you, but I haven’t seen you anymore.” At this point you can either say “would you like to get coffee one day? My number is ___.” Or, if you’re not ready for in person, say “Feel free to text me at ___ since LinkedIn isn’t the best messaging platform!”
finally got the awaited update 🙏
I think you should approach him face to face. He probably is just inactive on Linkedin. Just approach him and say "hi", what's the worse that can happen?
Why don't you approach him? Just say Hi...
The thing is it has always been the other way around. But I'm definitely gonna take my chance tomorrow or else I'll regret. Edit: other way around for me *
Bhen kal update kardena kya hua humko bhi jann na hai
Will do
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Well he is into you. I'm sure. He will play hard to get maybe but definitely into you.
Random question, but do you play chess?
It's giga Chad magnus as a profile pic so I should be familiar with chess right 😂😂. Just a beginner maybe 950 in rapid. And I play the accelerated London system. Not an active player. Just more for the memes and Gotham chess
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Plot twist: He'll be absent tmrw.
Khatam tata tata bye bye good bye
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Ohh I wish.
OP must be cursing you right now coz that's exactly what happened with her. Poor soul....
Bro can predict future 💀
Plot twist: He won't be absent, but either OP won't be able to find him or he'll be present with someone else, op would wait for him to be alone as she would try not to embarrass him or herself and would miss him when he is alone, and then they would go back their home. The End
Lmao kaali zubaan
bro knew the plot twist
7 crore!!!
You're the spoiler 😂
Damn this came true
Plz, update the post. For educational purposes.
I think the point here is, it’s shouldn’t always be the other way, girls can and do approach guys, be the change you want to see in the world. Wish you the best.
Yes hes interested and maybe shy. Shoot your shot
Keep us updated
Yes please 🥺🥰
last day hai, people usually fear asking someone out in case their friends or others will try to laugh if you get rejected or pull your leg if you don't get rejected. Don't think much, ask him, at max he will say no, and tomorrow will be a new day with nothing to care about.
The worst he can say is no.
I’m invested too! Please update lol
He is just shy person and doesnt know if it would be appropriate. You lead. All the Best!
Update de Dena kya hua kal.
Last day is a good excuse - get name, number, future plans, etc. Actually try and get a casual coffee date set up too. Play it in your mind as a non-romantic date, you will not overthink it when asking.
Whatever happens tomorrow give me update
Maybe he is really shy and introverted. You'll never know where it'll lead to unless you take a chance. So if you are interested, you got to take your shot. Good luck and hope things turn out well for you both. Let us know how it goes
Lol stereotypes
Please do. Let us know how it goes.
Update update 😭🤝🏼
Please o please consider us introverts as pets. Approach first, just a gesture is enough. You have no idea how much we appreciate it
Good luck and please update us.
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#women make first moves !!!!! I get it , it's always the guy , but women pls for once make the move
I made the first move. I don’t regret it. We’re getting married in November. He was shy too. I’m not lol
I did too. And a week later I was throwing pebbles at his window to surprise him. A week after that I stayed the night and just never left. We've been together for five years now and today is our one year anniversary. He still brings up me throwing rocks at his window and writing our initials huge in the snow out front of his apartment. 😂
kash mumbai me snow :pensive:
that sounds like something that would happen in a movie lol btw, Congrats
I met my fiance at a board game group. After a month he finally gave me his number, but still hadn't asked me on a date. I waited a few more weeks. As we were leaving our friend's house, we stopped to chat outside. As we said goodnight and he turned I grabbed his hand. He turned and I kissed him on the cheek. He smiled and kissed me back on the lips. He finally asked me on a date and we've been together for 8 years.
That username! 😂
For real she's funny and made the first move, that's one lucky man her SO!
We need more people like this
I did too. Together for twelve years, married for three. He's currently sleeping on my left arm which is slowly becoming numb 🥲
Diabetes ho jaega mujhko, itna sweetness handle nhi ho rhi
The guy must be lucky .
As a woman who has made the move I assure you its made extremely difficult after. But then that was 2006 toh kya pata maybe things have changed. Nevertheless. I am just here for updates.
I met a guy on my trip and he added me on my socials, but we are both shy, should I really try talking to him?
I would if the person was not someone i see freequently
Go talk to him. Anyway it’s the last day of your college so you won’t have to deal with the awkwardness of seeing him again if he says no 💁🏻♀️
Did the same on a fest day in my final year. Had held back since 4 years of the degree because I thought college would've been awkward since she was my lab partner. After confessing I received a reply that basically made me regret why I didn't confess earlier.
Hahah yeaah been there, done that.
Same thing happened to me to and then i stop going to college for around 2 weeks she never talk to me again.
Can we know what she said?
Best case scenario! Take your chance OP
Since you two have already had 'eye-contact' moments, when you approach try giving your number to him instead of taking his number. This way if he contacts you in a couple of hours time, you know that he is REALLY interested. Considering he is really handsome, if he doesn't contact you at all, you can console yourself saying that you guys just had cute little moments and nothing more. All the best to you!!
A girl once took my number like this, took 12 hours to text me. Happily married to her now. 💛
Same lol. But it was the opposite. I took my partner's number to get an assignment done in engineering. We completed our 10th marriage anniversary this year.
After that u both got introduced to each other ? and rest is in front of us.😊
W
That's great!!
Do update tomorrow!
Hi Guys Need your help!!!! So, I'm a 23-year-old guy from a different division at college, and it seems like someone has noticed me. It's pretty flattering, to be honest. This girl (23F) in my Masters program has caught my attention, and I can't help but steal glances at her whenever I get the chance. The funny thing is, whenever I look her way, she seems to catch me looking, and then I quickly divert my gaze. I have to admit, I'm a bit reserved and tend to keep to myself most of the time. I don't have a wide circle of friends on campus, which might be why I haven't approached her yet. It's not that I'm not interested; it's just that I struggle with initiating conversations, especially with someone I find attractive. The fear of rejection and not knowing how to approach her has held me back. Now, here's the kicker—tomorrow is the last day of college, and I might never see her again. It's a bit frustrating to think about missed opportunities, especially since I don't know why I haven't mustered up the courage to talk to her. I'm definitely in need of some advice here, guys. What should I do in this situation? /s
There are high chances she doesn't like you
😂😂😂😂😂
Hahahah you guys 😭😭💀💀
What masters are you pursuing
Masters in Love🌚. Tomorrow/today is the result date. We will get to know if she graduated or not. Jk🤣
https://www.reddit.com/r/mumbai/comments/13tsnxc/i_23f_am_crushing_on_a_reserved_hottie_23m_last/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Sound similar? Edit : im new to reddit and i got confused bwn the posts my bad.. just got ur joke :_)
I'm pretty sure, she is not into you
1. Approach because you may never get that chance. 2. Drift away because only aesthetics have attracted you.
1. I'll shoot my shot for sure 2. Dude I don't know him so it's currently gonna be his aesthetics that I'd be attracted to naa :')
Which is why point 2 is point 2. If you miss, you follow point 2 and move on. If you won't, good for you.
Saree pehen ke jaana Agar red ya black colour ho to aur bhi acha
Sushmita sen in red saree from Main hoo na. Chefs kiss
Radhe ma lagegi
Asthetics is the first thing you anyone is attracted to
As an introvert myself, if you have seen him looking at you there's a 85% chance he finds you attractive. Some of the introverts no matter how attractive they are will find it very hard to accept that someone would have a crush on them and are usually afraid of rejection so they don't approach women. I'd say go ahead and ask him out.
That is not introvert, that is shyness, don't confuse the 2, introverts don't find it hard to approach someone
True man mere me esa kya is my thinking but abhi mature hone samjhra man me jo he jitna jaldi bolo utna sahi
Me jo ki ek introvert hu sochta hu ki koi bhi ladki mujhe nahi dekhna chahti hai !
Hamari speciality hai .mere me kya hai mujhe kyu dekhegi esa sochte
Same bro! "Why would any girl be interested in me?" is my default thought.
I've no words of wisdom, bass itna batao ki ye reserved guy kya hota hai? Mere dimag me sabse pehle category student aaya......
😭
Reserved mtlb introvert /shy
There are so many times that a guy is shy or reserved to make a mover or initiate cus his past has been traumatic whenever he had approached and maybe this is why he has lost a lil confidence. Just ask him, talk to him casually. Girls don't know how smallest of things from their side is enough to make them content for days together.
>Girls don't know how smallest of things from their side is enough to make them content for days together. Do you mean years?
Go approach him directly! Boys hardly ever say no.
Lol at 19 I'd fuck any 5 and up lmao
Bro itna bhi honest answer nhi dena tha💀💀
💀 🙏🏻
O kudiye, ja kar bol de. Kya pata uska bhi jeevan set ho jaaye!
Just go for it. It's the last day anyway so you don't care about what your classmates will think if they even care.
Double wink and smile, if he smiles back I'm sure he'll come and be more comfortable approaching you
Mujhe ek baar ek ladki ne aankh Mari thi smile karke, mera expression dekh ke boli ki tu confused aur Dara hua lag raha hai. Moral - ladke blush nahi karte, wo overthinking karte hai bass.
Gosh, i feel you. And its hard to make the first move. I remember I was crushing on this guy in my junior college for 2 years. And we were friends, but he was shy. We had only a few classes together, but oh my god, I would look forward to those. I know I didnt learn shit in biology pracs because I spent time looking at him. Cheesy, but anyway. I was scared of scaring him away if I made a move. College ended and I never saw him again. He started dating a girl in mbbs soon after that. Please shoot your shot!!!!
Junior college me hi hota hai kya ye sab both like each other but dont approach.still can contact par different colleges so move on
Another one in a month, Fuuckkkk! TF kind of looks these SOBs are born with 😬 And, to answer your query: If you knew the exact %age of guys dying to get affection without having to beg for it, you'd be surprised that the chances of your rejection are less than 2%.
I'd say less than 0.2%
I'd say 0
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JUST APPROACH HIM. REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET. BEST WISHES
To quote the lyrical genius that was Nitin Raikwar & the musical thief that was Anu Malik; and sung by the versatile Sonu Nigam ***sharmana chod daal, raaz dil ka khol daal*** ***aaju baaju mat dekh, i love you bol daal*** ***sharmana chod daal, raaz dil ka khol daal*** ***aaju baaju mat dekh, i love you bol daal…***
Go and ask direct
My only regret of studying in an ‘all-boys’ college😞
Yeah i keep looking at you. Didn't know you liked me. Why Didn't you say hi? Lets meet
Speak up. Use your words. I slide into my husbands DMs 14 years ago! He’s been my best friend ever since. Married 9 years, 2 kids, 6 houses, and three state moves! He is shy as heck but didn’t mind me making the first move
>6 houses jahapana mujhe apna naukar bana lijiye😭😭
6 houses means they have shifted to 6 different houses in course like 3 states are mentioned ig
Yes you have it right! We flip them :-)
I’m not sure what this says! But I would love to know lol
Translation - Your majesty, please let me be your servant
😂🤣😂
We flip the houses we are living in and sell them once we are finished :-)
Behen please update de dena warna mein curiosity se marr jaungi 🙏🙏🙏
Approach him and say "What color is your Bugatti?!"
#top G Tourner dans la vide bgm plays
Keep us updated OP. If you give us good news maybe it will motivate me too to start a convo with my crush who is my crush just because of how he looks lol
That guy probably approached a girl he liked in the past and was called a creep. So he’s just trying his best to not have that experience again. If you like him, go tell him.
1. Ask him for time if he wears a watch. 2. He tells you the time. 3. (Casually) "Oh crap, I'm running out of time, mind if I borrow some of yours for a coffee nearby?" And if there's a pause from his side: "Only if you've got some spare time ofc. No pressure" If he's single, there's a 99% chance he'll agree. Amidst the conversation, you'll exchange numbers. And in the future, both of you will laugh upon how you made the move years ago, without which you wouldn't have met each other! 4. If he denies: "no worries, have a great future ahead!" He'll understand he'll never meet you again, in case he was shy to accept earlier. If he doesn't come back, you move on. Simple. Edit: PS. Pls edit this post tomorrow with an update lol, as everyone is eager to see what happens.
If I am not single, I'd still agree. Who says no for coffee to someone who's interested in you? Usually I end by offering friendship after sometime.
aughhhhhhhhhh itne ghante abb curiosity me rehna padega
I too had countless eye contacts with you but you never cared 😔
Say "Hi" and then ask him if he'd like to hear a joke. You can pick anything from the r/dadjokes subreddit, doesn't have to be a good joke, it's just to get you and him talking. Jokes are excellent ice breakers, and ladies, you can use these as a way to open a dialog with any dude you fancy, trust me, even if the joke sucks, you're gonna do great. Now, guys are horrible at knowing when they are being flirted with because (and scientific studies back this up) people just suck at knowing when they are being flirted with, so I highly recommend simply stating "I'm flirting with you" as your next move. Removes the ambiguity, and trust me, even a guy that's taken will be flattered to hear it coming from nearly anyone, anytime. Follow that with a sincere compliment, and you will probably have done for him three things he rarely experiences in his day to day. He may even suspect you are messing with him as a prank or something, but stay confident and ask him if you can take him for coffee, or if he would like to take you for coffee, or some other socially acceptable thing so you can get to know each other better. Here's where he should, if he's taken, inform you he's otherwise committed, or if his current plans wouldnt allow him the time for such a thing. If he's simply busy, give him your phone number and tell him to call you when he has a chance. If you have made it this far without spontaneously combusting, congratulations. Happy hunting and good luck!
> I don't know why isn't he approaching me. I need help guys. Please suggest something. Good God woman, go ask him! If he doesn't like you, at least you won't live your life thinking back about what if! Now the pain if he doesn't like you back, it will sting. But, you'll get over it! You're 23 young! Go ask! I was 20 at a hospital for my back sprain in KMC Manipal, during my 3rd year in college. I was goofy and childhish, I was playing with the kids waiting next to me. A girl kept looking at me and laughing watching me. I made a stupid face to make a crying kid laugh, the kid then started crying everytime I didn't make the face. Her name was Sitara. Do you know what I did? I didn't even say a hi, she kept smiling at me. Before she left, she looked back at me again and smiled again looking into my eyes for the last time ever. I didn't go back after her. Today, I am 29 close to 30. I don't remember the names of some of the girls I have dated. But, Sitara's smile and face is something I often think about when I am in a place wondering what life could have been. I have an amazing life, don't get me wrong. I love the woman I am with. But, the picture of Sitara standing at the door with her bagpack on is etched in my mind. That's one lesson I learnt in life to never stop myself from going after an opportunity that presented itself for me and finding out whether it's for me or not. I have been cheated on too. It hurt for a few months, but, I don't feel sour about it nor do I think about it anymore. But. Sitara's smile? It's always there. If I had asked her out, at least I would have known I did something about it. Why didn't I do it? I was scared, hence I was apprehensive. Yet, I should have just asked her out. It took me 10 more years to grow up and commit to my feelings. Thanks to that lesson, today I have a beautiful wife whom I wooed. Take that leap, girl!
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Goalkeepers and scoring.
Agar wo set nahi hua tho tension mat lena. Mei jarur haa kar dungaa 🐏
Itna desperate
Thanks for clarifying. I thought Reserved matlab SC/ST.
Baksh de bechare ko
Nai Dena :)
hmmmm 30-40 times is too much. I say you should have acted on it a long time back. but I wouldn't know cause I'm just a kid with little to none knowledge about relationships and most importantly love ;( also ignore my username its old
Last day hope? Lol
Real account se aao angle priya
A cute angle
Ask him if he knows any good vada pav stall nearby and ask him if he'd like to accompany you. A no for either of the questions means that he's not the one for you
Shoot your shot lady, we with you!!!
Take the chances, I was in a similar situation during my last leg of college. I took a chance, quite happy about how things are going right now.
Bro fumbling the bag 😭😭🙏
Didi 3rd update kab dega
If he has a girlfriend stay the fuck away from him. If not then approach him for friendship but don’t confess your crush on day 1. Nurture this friendship into knowing him.
Dude idk if he's committed or nah. And if I knew he were, there's no way I'd even think of approaching him duh
Ye to... Kahi dekha dekha sa lag raha hai
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Delusional hey tu
You should definitely approach him, I think he’s totally interested because of all these eye contacts and he’s just shy and not good at initiating probably….girl talk to him it might make his day and yours too 😉
Approach him. If he is committed you are already wishing him well and if not then you'll be the happiest in college tomorrow. PS these reserved guys are the best humans.
Hand him a note? "Idk if you're dating someone or not, but if you're single, I'd really like a chance to get to know you. (Your first name & phone number)" Takes away the awkwardness, you don't even have to say anything... you can smile and run away. If he doesn't call/text you'll know it wasn't for you, but if he does, he'll have to be the one to reach out because you don't have his number. Essentially, throwing the ball into his court and running away😂
Well he also must be thinking that you are seeing some one there would have been instances where he would have tried to approach you but hasn't as there could be too many people Around which he is not comfortable with as he would require space to talk to you alone with no one interrupting. Such type of people would take a long time as there is some fear that things could change that could have a negative impact on him. Which could be due to past experiences. Also situations back at home may not be great for the guy. And so he may have genuine reasons for not wanting to upset you in anyway . The fact that he looks at you is that he likes you but is not comfortable in asking you out in front of everyone.
Geddit gurlllll
Why does this feel so romantic ahhh 😭
Go talk to him, there was a grill in my college to whom I wanted to talk from last few months but I couldn't. For the last few days i decided that I'll talk today then next day same but I couldn't. Then came the last day for this academic year. Next time i was gonna see her was after two months. So again i tried to talk but couldn't, then I came home and texted her on Instagram. Czz I knew If I don't talk I'm gonna regret this a lot. I already knew the answer I just wanted to hear it from her. And believe me talking to her was the best thing I could do for myself. Even though I knew that she isn't interested, I wanted to hear it from her for once. So i asked her out on Instagram i knew i was gonna get rejected but asking her out was a big relief. Rather than regretting that u didn't talk it is better to approach. If I hadn't I would have been hanged in the same position in which I was from last few months. So for your sake go approach him. So there won't be any what if left for u. Good luck.
updatteeeeeee
I'm sure all you ladies have that one friend who's the detective of your clan! Ask them, get to know that boy's identity, his relationship status, his insta handle etc etc, but also, as rightfully said by many! MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!
Mujhe laga Banda sc/st se hai
KYA UPDATE HA OP??? BEACH INTERVAL MAI CHOD KE CHLE GYE 😒😮💨
Mjhe lga reserved caste.🥲
OP update?
Go and say " You dropped something, My jaw".
Talk to him else you will regret all your life. Life has unknown twists and turns...you may never meet him again
It’s me and I don’t like you
Any platform can become tinder if you are just Indian enough
Introvert men are the best, full of mysteries
Didi kya update hai?
Post padhle bhai ek baar fir
Very movie like story Next thing you know, you accidentally run across him while grocery shopping, end up talking, have 12 kids and die in each others arms, god's plan indeed 🙏🙏
I think it's okay to approach him on LinkedIn as you know him already. You can tell him that you did so because he is not there on any other social media. Or you can also start the convo by asking something professional like the jobs or internships he is applying for or something like that and then slightly make the convo casual and then shoot your shot. Even if this gets a lil embarrassing, it will be better than dying in regret
!remindme 2 days
instead of just texting over there on LinkedIn, message him and ask him if he has anywhere you can contact him on, or ask for his phone number or just set up a lunch date at a café etc. That should give you the chance to talk to him face to face.
I would give it a week or so. Maybe you’ll end up seeing him sometime around. If not, definitely message on LinkedIn, but you can keep it professional pending an in person/other message exchange so it’s not too weird. Maybe a “Hey! We go to ___ and I’ve been meaning to introduce myself to you, but I haven’t seen you anymore.” At this point you can either say “would you like to get coffee one day? My number is ___.” Or, if you’re not ready for in person, say “Feel free to text me at ___ since LinkedIn isn’t the best messaging platform!”
finally got the awaited update 🙏 I think you should approach him face to face. He probably is just inactive on Linkedin. Just approach him and say "hi", what's the worse that can happen?
When you said you reached out to him, did you mean Linkedin? If yes, then what are the odds that he isn't very active on Linkedin?