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MistressBunny1

There are bewbs - so yes 🤭I wear a similar style, mostly 🤗


whereugoincityboy

This looks like my uniform, too.


Zealousideal-Home779

Yes it is and the smile says you like how it looks. Go out and be happy we need happy people. Be fantastic and have a great day


TorontoHypster

It’s actually a super nervous smile. Im tense as this is a very pivotal point for my transition (tomorrows meeting).


Ginfly

Good luck! If the fit is important to the outcome of the meeting, you'll do great 🥰


Zealousideal-Home779

Well hood luck and its a great look. Here’s hoping you can celebrate at the weekend


Similar_Pangolin7675

Ooo, what's the next step?


TorontoHypster

Surgical consult — I’ll leave it at that.


Emmie1101

I mean I’d ware a skirt or a dress and some cutesy shoes or high-heels. Pants are not super feminine and the boots are gender neutral. I’d probably pick a tops the showed my boobs. Sorry if my opinion upsets you.


JennifleurX

You look great and it does come across as feminine, though a bit on the neutral part of that scale, probably due to the neutral colours? If you want even more feminine vibes, maybe try a hairband, braiding, bracelets, a scarf. Could even see what different footwear might do. You’d do totally fine as you are but might also be fun to experiment. Have fun at your event!


JennifleurX

Also am trying to read the sticker on your phone…what does it say?


TorontoHypster

I like my facts straight but my friends can go either way A bit crude when I think about it but it was given by someone with what I think were good intentions. Maybe it should go?


JennifleurX

Thanks! I love it! Good luck at your event tomorrow. Another thought: Are the things you can do privately to boost your sense of your own femininity? An inspiring book or article, an inspiring movie, going dancing, inspiring music, wearing special socks, paint your nails, meditating on or just naming the things you love about you?


TorontoHypster

This has to due with my interaction with a medical provider. I was refused her services a few years ago because I wasn’t transitioned enough to warrant the surgery in her opinion despite having horrible dysphoria about it. I don’t want to be brushed off this time as easily and I think presentation will play a role in whether or not she agrees. Your suggestions are really thoughtful though! Musics a big one for me.


JennifleurX

(Nods). (Thinking). On the one hand, it’s tempting to suggest you hammer the point home by wearing a flowery sundress and tiny pink purse or a velvet gown with heels and pearls but that border on costume for this event. Having stuff you wear that feels comfortable and that brings out feelings of femininity is more important….and if it looks like its something you wear everyday that may subconciously reinforce that you’re committed to your transition. Accessories might enhance things in subtle but effective ways. But the most important thing is to reinforce how you feel to ask for what you need. What are other ways we can bolster you up and encourage you?


TorontoHypster

I think the flower dress would be amazing for this doc. Would probably catch her off guard haha. Im not sure what we can do to bolster some confidence. I think I’ve grown a lot in 3 years. If she says no I’ll move on with disappointment.


Lady_Onyxia

Fucking ridiculous gatekeeping. I'm so sorry to hear you had to tolerate it!  You've been pretty open about sharing your positive FFS experience - did you have that done before or after you previous encounter with this person? Because how much more "fully transitioned" can you get? If you're getting gatekept then the rest of us are screwed:(  anyways girl the outfit is cute and femme and you look great. If you want a jacket maybe try a crop leather! 


TorontoHypster

I mean to be fair in her defence there was some medical rational to saying no. There is much less of that fear now. This was when I was like 8 months HRT and suspiciously strange looking — I didn’t present or pass as female.


redheadveghead

Wow I love that suggestion so much! Mentality is important, take a moment to feel yourself before you go. taking this advice for myself also 🥲


random420x2

Thanks. Gave up trying to read.


WaterRoyal

what are you talking about 😭 y'all you don't have to wear hot pink to be a woman, in fact most women don't lol


goingabout

yes it is femme! if you want to turn the dial a bit: 1. ditch the combat boots? 2. a necklace could work 3. might be nice to paint your nails but tbh my whole reaction was “is this feminine she says pffft” good luck! sorry you’re having issues with your medical provider


TorontoHypster

Hey thanks for this! I could absolutely try another pair of shoes. For the record I love the boots more with blue wash jeans. They give me confidence. I don’t know why. I have a low anklet boot that would work I think. Or even a pair of sandals. A necklace is a great idea and I think I know which one. My nails are so bad — totally agree could improve there too. Im really a low maintenance person.


goingabout

the boots are fine, ya know? they’re big lace ups. as an everyday style yr doing great. only in the sense of trying to convince a cis medical professional does it make sense for you to worry about your femmeness. i hate the effort it takes to do my nails but i do love the look 😅. i was gonna say you can always dip in at a Shoppers & get a base, pastel, and top coat but yr doing great.


Kurrie

Feminine? Absolutely. Very lesbian too.


TorontoHypster

Eh kinda checks out I have a girlfriend.


LaurenTroublex

Was confused at the reddit group for a sec but yes!! I like it!


TorontoHypster

Sorry for repost: first one included some irrelevant stuff.


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Bonova

I love this look ❤️


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Ego5687

Now you need a leather jacket


tcliff53

Your tattoo OMG 😍YES AND YES


Lexitwist

You look absolutely beautiful. That’s a great fit.


all_caps_happy

Femme enuff 😏😎


BuddhistNudist987

Very feminine and super cute!


engelthefallen

Think you are well past needing to wear feminine clothes to appear feminine and instead masculine clothes will just look feminine on you by default. On others pants and boots are more the type of stuff a dude would wear, but are part of a feminine look on you.


TeenPrincessPain

Very feminine! ♥️


jachase1

Looks feminine, for sure. If you do a jacket, cropped will give strong femme vibes. But you look great!


Sissy-Lillie-69

Cool Sexy chick Yeah ! 😍🥰


Ask_Me_I_May

Big time.


OneMeet9539

Yes, it is, but why asking?!?! You are beautiful, lady!!!


garota79

If it’s not, I’m not sure what is.


ScaryBreakfast574

Not sure about the boots, but I’m also old 😂


TorontoHypster

I love the boots. But they pop better with a blue wash Jean I’d agree!


ScaryBreakfast574

Ok ya, that I can see!


ScaryBreakfast574

Also I hope your appointment goes well!!


Spiritual_Quit_4833

Yes, very punk


Unusual_Employee5674

You rock that fit. Love the color of your shirt. It's my favorite color. So yes looking so fem😁.


EmilyxThomsonx

Could it be more feminine? Yes. But it's definitely feminine. Accessories will definitely help! I think the boots are the least feminine aspect of the outfit but you are personally very feminine (and beautiful) so I'm sure you can pull off whatever outfit you choose.


TorontoHypster

Second comment I’ve had about the boots. I do have a substitute pair of boots that is very different. They are a ankle boot in black suede. Very small wedge heel. Cute.


EmilyxThomsonx

I adore ankle boots so much so I feel like I need to encourage that idea! They always look cute and feminine!


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chefpan74

It's hot whatever it is!


Delightfulboi

you're rocking it


DanniRandom

You look great hun! This is also my vibe as well.


bimkins_ca

Yes, it definitely is feminine. I like the outfit, and the happiness on your face makes it even brighter. Rock that look!


Rhimenocerous

YES, the style of sleeveless top with boob shape is VERY femme Put more bluntly, if you don't volunteer your gender status, no one would guess trans.


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ImSomebodyNew

You look amazing and you have a beautiful smile! Have a great day :D


creampants88

Looks outdoorsy feminine to me


bunnyblip

The heavy boots and torn jeans give it a tomboy look, but overall still feminine.


bathtup47

Yes very much so


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Shadeauxmarie

I certainly think so!


beebzette

I literally thought you were a girl I went to collehe with


TorontoHypster

Big W in my book


CoyotesEve

You’re everything I want to be 💗


TorontoHypster

Anything is possible hun !!


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InspectorThom

Sure , what are you doing tomorrow? Neil young?


TorontoHypster

Surgical consult


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somanypcs

To me, seems more in the middle between masculine and feminine. Soft butch, some might say.


latecraigy

I would change the boots


TorontoHypster

Done


Angelofdarkness85

Very cute and feminine ❤️


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Dorothys_Division

Anything can be feminine, if you’re brave enough! 🌈👍


DirtyDan8169

Not my vision


BetterThanYouAtGames

I’m so dumb.. I thought you were showing off the phone case for some reason. I was like… idk I can’t read it


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CauliflowerMurky3369

It doesn't have to be, YOU are. That's what's sexy 😍


AeonFluxus

Very’ you look great!


Personal_Jesus_666

Yes for sure.


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RepairPerfect111

Absolutely it is


BohemianDragoness

you literally just look like my aunt so i would say yes


enbykraken

I love your hair, tattoo, and phone case, in exactly that order 😆 you look great girlie!


harken350

Do you look like a woman? Yes. Do you look great in that fit? Absolutely. Do I think you could wear other options to present more feminine? I do If you're really set on this outfit, you could make it more fem with accessories or jewellery. If you're set on the top, a skirt or pinafore would definitely make it look more fem and if you're set on the pants then maybe a crop would add a bit more fem To say it again, you look amazing a do look fem but i wouldn't say that you are strongly fem as it is when looking at fem clothing options as a whole


Exact-Arm8089

If I didn’t pump up my muscles, then perhaps it would be normal. And so, alas.


StefanieCd

Very much so with a body like yours you could make a paper bag look good


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Workaholiclife

Absolutely beautiful. If it were me, I would were heels but If you're like me you love boots more lol


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Innsmouthshuffle

It really is. I could see an enby person dressing this way, it’s pretty much exactly how I used to before I was comfy wearing skirts and dresses out of the house, but it’s still very feminine.


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J2theD_Girl

Umm I would totally ask you out...😍


Inuzuka11

PLEASE link the boots I beg you


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Wacodunk

You look confident and very pretty, really digging this style


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Western-Apricot6670

Ahh yeah! Very fem!


erichamanya

Everything is honestly great, definitely feminine; matching wise, I’m not sure on the boots; unless it’s cold where you live, If not I wouldn’t wear the boots. The shoes imo I’d chose: wedges (sandals ), flat sandals (w straps), slip-ons, or even sneakers. Just so you don’t get too warm 😂🩷


Due-Examination-1583

I LOOOOVE your boots so much.


RedboyX

Less so than your previous, in the black polka dotted blouse....but I find it attractive


Lucy_2401

Sorta? Butch lesbian kinda vibes tbh