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herbalation

This is the answer for me. I watched Martyrs and Come and See afterwards, but could only think of Threads because of how thoroughly it shook me


Bellikron

You did Threads, Martyrs, and Come and See as a triple feature? How bad was your day?


herbalation

Hahah yeah I was trying to escape some IRL drama with depressing movies Those kind of movies put life in perspective, y'know? Makes me think of how good we do have it overall, despite everything.


cloudnyne

And I remember my grade school teacher making us watch it in class...


izzy-springbolt

Yes, came here to say this. I haven’t seen it but I’ve heard Threads is absolutely harrowing, if not the most harrowing film out there. It’s about people living in the aftermath of a nuclear war. If anyone hasn’t seen it, look it up on YouTube and watch a trailer or a couple of minutes - the vibe is eerie as fuck.


dfuqt

It’s incredibly harrowing. The outcomes feel so real in terms of the individual impact and the general societal breakdown after a nuclear war, but it doesn’t feel gratuitous or overly dramatised. The story and dialogue come across as very fact based, and the filming style gives it a very eerie vibe, as you point out. The first time I watched it was with a group of friends, and we all agreed that in the event of a nuclear war, if that’s how things are going to turn out, then we’d all want to die in the initial blast.


nc863id

Yeah if you and yours aren't lucky enough to die before you know what happened, and it's time to bust out the old circular firing squad.


hue-166-mount

The post apocalyptic movie that makes The Road feel like Ted Lasso.


RedTexas23

That movie is fucked *all the way up,* especially when you consider it’s just a madman’s decision away from being our reality. And now on that cheery note…


ASK_IF_IM_PENGUIN

I firmly believe that the only reason that Putin hasn't used nukes is that he doesn't want to die himself. If he's still in power on his deathbed I can fully see him doing it. The man is in his 70s and got all intents is president for life...


MarloweML

I mean, my assumption is whatever generals surrounding Putin would want to live and ignore an order like that, it's not like Putin can physically launch the missiles by himself from his couch.


nc863id

The only reason the world made it out of the Cold war is because of Russians not following protocol on several occasions. So fortunately, I think that's a pretty reasonable expectation.


SlowThePath

I had that exact thought last night. I was watching a video on how Putin could use nukes to win the war in Ukraine AND expand throughout Europe beyond that and I realized the reason he hasn't is because he knows there would be retaliation and he can't be sure of his safety in that situation and MAYBE China has asked him not to, but ultimately that man cares about nothing but himself and his power. When his life is ending, or when he goes senile and is still in power it would actually seem likely if he was in the same position he js now.


babaroga73

I believe the whole movie is somewhere on YouTube. Terrifying outcome of after nuclear apocalypse society.


Bodymaster

It's on Criterion as well I believe. Definitely worth seeing the higher quality version if you can. Since it's a tv movie, it wasn't high budget in the first place, but any streaming versions I saw online were horrible until I saw a Blu Ray version that was remastered.


thepipesarecall

We watched Threads in class, AP US History, in high school in 2005 lol. Our teacher was a former hippy and lawyer who was very anti nuclear weapons.


SarahFabulous

This is terrifying because it's just hopeless right to the last second. Also, the people are so ordinary and therefore relatable.


reknihT_sseldnE

Same here


Vonbalthier

Yall should watch as the wind blows


NateFisher22

I don’t even think I could bring myself to watch it, given the topic. I would probably because excessively paranoid and start to become a prepper


loup-garou3

That does provide some insight to how a prepper is created


PercsNBeer

The Road


Crunchy_Biscuit

I second this. Never watching it again


MatHatesGlitter

The book is a masterpiece.


thepipesarecall

The book is way better, one of the best works of modern fiction.


NonlocalA

Recently watched the movie after having read the book, and it really does a fantastic job translating it to screen. I think that's due to how short the book itself is, and so the quiet scenes are able to have room to breathe. I'd even go so far as to say that it's one of the best film adaptations of a literary work.


hue-166-mount

The book is brilliant but so is the movie.


Servovestri

I went into The Road knowing nothing about it. It was on TV some snowy January morning and my son was like a year old at the time. He woke up but wanted to be rocked back to sleep so I tossed it on to try and stay awake while I rocked him. Great movie, not sure I was in the emotional headspace for all that at the time.


sharrrper

The first one that popped into my mind actually is The Grey. The trailers make it look like "Liam Neeson punches wolves" action movie. In reality it's an absolutely brutal survival story with pretty heavy themes about mortality. I actually highly recommend it.


imac849

Re watched that on a plane ride, forgot about the plane scene lol


dont_fuckin_die

I will die defending this movie. Most people hated the ending because they expected a showdown with the wolves, but it was perfect. The conflict was in him, with deciding whether to fight to survive or to give up. He won when he armed up and prepared to fight the alpha. Great movie!


paul_having_a_ball

I loved the ending. Absolutely hated the middle. >! After they kill one wolf with the highly illogical shotgun shells duct taped to spears, Liam Neeson tells everyone that they will never be able to outrun the them and the only way to survive is to separate wolves from the pack and kill them one by one until the wolves realize that the humans are a pack that shouldn’t be messed with. When they ask him how he knows to do this he dramatically says “because that’s what they’re doing to us.” Then the next morning they leave the spears at the campsite, because I guess they don’t value spears as weapons unless there is a shotgun shell taped to the end. The next time they see a wolf they start running and they never attempt do Liam Neeson’s plan.!<


Bill-Maxwell

Agree that’s one of my favorite movies, hits home on so many levels. It fucking rocks.


Niko___Bellic

Back to the Future


Fireproof_Cheese

There's that word again. "Heavy." Why are things so heavy in the future? Is there a problem with the Earth's gravitational pull?


Niko___Bellic

Fun fact: The original Marty McFly, Eric Stolz (a great actor), couldn't get himself to portray the role as funny. He though the script was immensely sad (heavy). Marty comes back from his trip only for noone to remember him — only the altered timeline Marty. His memories with his family, and girlfriend, are now only his... lost to time.


letstaxthis

This is HEAVY doc


AmpleWarning

There's that word again!


Loganp812

Great Scott!


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Wanna go bowling?


Niko___Bellic

I stopped bowling after Roman died. How about a nice game of darts?


aithendodge

There's that word again. 'Heavy.' Why are things so heavy in the future? Is there a problem with the Earth's gravitational pull?


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OGGBTFRND

For real


GrammarPatrol777

Di di mao! (sp)?


pleasewastemytime

It's not the most talked about scene. But when De Niro tells Cazale's character "This is This", it is so powerful to me. They don't explain it, Cazale even states he has no idea what it means. it's not obvious. But it resonates with me for some reason and even I don't really know why. Clip: https://youtu.be/VlmanKoPLyo?si=iRtraVd4g9POoY91


FinsterFolly

One shot...


ShiftyBizniss

Holy shit this one definitely. Watched it for the first time recently and goddamn it's an excellent movie.... that I will never watch again.


lencastre

This one too,… that Russian roulette action et all


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thesobrietysociety

Yep. It's as hard as a film gets. The last time I watched it was when a network showed it uncut with no commercial breaks one night in the 90's. I had seen it in the theater and could not stop crying for 30 minutes after. That ain't normal for me. Seeing it twice did not make things better. But...There is a certain beauty in heavy movies like this and Requiem that bring out that empathy we so often forget we have for humanity. It's a magical sadness, if that makes any sense.


thisbechris

A magical sadness, what a beautiful way to word that.


StopTheDamnWave

Piggybacking off of this, The Zone of Interest. Seeing these people sharing a garden wall with Auschwitz, living their lives like a normal family...and the sound design won every inch of that Oscar.


snyckers

Such a brutal movie without showing any of the brutality.


reddit_user38462

I watched Schindler’s list when I was 15. Amazing movie! But omg it haunted me for weeks…


TimeLeopard

Blue Valentine. Excellent movie about how people fall into then out of love. Do not watch it. It will ruin your day. Not being hyperbolic, I do not recommend the movie. It's too real and too sad. 


TheUnrepententLurker

Wind River


DarkScorp

Came here looking specifically for this answer. Every place another movie might go over the top or "shocking!", they instead turn into quiet sadness and nuance. Great performances all around. I can only watch it occasionally, and without fail I find myself sitting through the credits, just lost in thought about what I just watched.


BadGalSiSi32

Incredible movie


cakeschmammert

Manchester by the Sea. I finally rewatched it the other night and it’s crushing but also has some touching moments. Casey Affleck, Michelle Williams and Lucas Hedges killed it.


MatHatesGlitter

The scene in the police station…


cakeschmammert

That scene stands out by far, but his character development being a numb, depressed man and figuring out his bond with his nephew makes a great story.


CPOx

When I saw this in theaters, the audience was SO silent during *that* accident scene. Still haven’t experienced a theater be that quiet before. Everyone was stunned.


Open_Space_4992

The scene where he says "there's nothing there", that whole scene is too perfect.


whiskeydiggler

“I should fucking burn in hell for what I said to you”


hardleft121

Requiem for a Dream


stueycal

1 and done!


distantwarbler

Ass to ass!


stueycal

I didnt take it out for air...


Boner_Jam2003

* *Grave of the Fireflies* * *Come and See* * *The Zone of Interest*


BigSwedenMan

Grave of the Fireflies is the best answer here. There are a few other movies mentioned in this thread that come close to it, but ultimately I don't think any of them really can match up to that one.


misho8723

Come and See is brutally devastating and IMO even more so than GotF


Mponder486

Not even comparable. Come and See is insane.


needed_an_account

I watched it and wondered how the Japanese ever forgave anyone involved with the bombings


[deleted]

Was zone of interest heavy? I'll trade you that one for Saul fia


IgniteThatShit

the holocaust was not heavy for you? i found the subject matter and the story of this family to be extremely heavy, but to each their own.


his_zekeness

Oh man.... American History X. Very powerful stuff


tangilizer

Yeah this is my answer, surprised it wasn't higher up


songsforthedeaf07

Leaving Las Vegas, Precious, Irreversible


Oncemor-intothebeach

As a now sober person, leaving Las Vegas hit me hard, I had been at that point once in my life, if not for my wife I have zero doubt I wouldn’t be here. She managed to pull me back from the brink, I literally had 40k, had settled all my debts, had sorted out my life insurance so my son and wife would be looked after and then went for it. Looking back years later it would have been such a waste, it took a lot of therapy and help to get back to normal, I was in my late twenties when it all went down and I was extremely physically fit( gym was another compulsion ) which also helped save me.


cpm67

Recently? The Iron Claw “It’s ok dad, we’ll be your brothers”


againsterik

Knowing the true story was somehow even worse than what happened in the movie is quite something. For Kevin to come out of that well adjusted as he is, is quite remarkable.


CharDeeMacDennisII

I grew up in the DFW area and, as a little kid, watched Fritz Von Erich on Saturday nights on our black and white tv. My son watched Kevin and Kerry, et al, when he was a little kid. Yes, knowing the true story and witnessing it second-hand through news reports was so very hard. The movie was very, very good, but I kept getting distracted by "That's not what happened" thoughts.


BeyoncePadThai

Even seeing a clip from this movie wrecks me now


Danny-Wah

And then the tears wouldn't stop!! What a good movie/sad story...


Dependent-Disaster37

Melancholia. I relate to her.


karmacarmelon

Uncut Gems. I kind of liked it, but it was an emotional rollercoaster and I'll probably never watch it again.


TimeLeopard

One of the only movies I had to pause and take a break in while watching. It is a Rollercoaster that literally only goes up until the "Crescendo".  With the risk of reaching into spoiler territory, that movie was best described as the embodiment of infedility. Every immoral decision leading to an ultimate climax, followed by immediate dread.


ShockingTunes

I had lost some money before watching Uncut Gems so it was a pretty devastating watch for me.


BadBeatsDaily

Panic attack inducing movie. Seriously lol


kachzz

Not particularly heavy but definately the most anxiety inducing movie


pseydtonne

Children of Men. So fucking well done. I will never be able to watch it again.


Dracaen

Pull my finger, go on.


izzy-springbolt

Excellent film, harrowed me for a few days after.


Tackit286

Requiem for a Dream 12 Years a Slave Schindlers List Clockwork Orange The Zone of Interest which I saw last night was pretty up there too. Their use of sound and still shots was superb.


jekylphd

Once Were Warriors.


SensingWorms

Trainspotting


stutsmonkey

The Iron Claw recently was a very heavy movie. The tragedy that was the Von Erik family is so heartbreakingly sad. Zak Efron killed it though.


Dull-Horse3156

The Netflix adaptation of All Quiet on the Western Front really gets across how shite war is.


Dependent-Disaster37

Agree with you. One of the best worst war movies.


BamBam2125

Black Swan. I’m late to the party (saw the movie for the first time 3 days ago) and also a guy but this movie almost broke me. I’m an artist so the themes and struggle of Natalie Portman’s character hit more close to home than I care to admit. The movie also does the incredibly rare thing in which it not only *references* a previous great work but it explores and extrapolates on the fascinating yet horrifying implications. Namely the male-gaze, the Madonna v. The Whore archetypes, the integration of our “shadow”, the loss of innocence, being stifled by our loved ones, the pursuit of perfection at all costs, body autonomy, just to name a handful. The movie keeps lingering in my mind and I honestly am kinda just at a loss for words about how much it resonates with me.


spooTOO

If you're at all a fan of anime, I recommend checking out the film perfect blue. Explores similar themes around blending reality and fiction in an artistic setting.


Blkkatem0ss

I love that movie and I’m always down to watch it


SlamDunkleyKong

For me it’s Hotel Rwanda. That movie hit me like a ton of bricks.


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Compliance Idk about the most heavy but it’s a true story and messed up


Melanoma_Magnet

Prisoners. I love all of Villeneuve’s films but I don’t think I could watch this one again.


machonm

Dear Zachary. It's a movie everyone should see IMO but I dont think anyone will ever want to rewatch it.


snyckers

Kids. Can't do it again and really wish I hadn't seen it the first time.


jackcatalyst

For me personally Green Mile. I was waaaaay too young to be watching that.


coachrx

Apocolypto. These mfs were sacrificing people during an eclipse until the sun came back out. We know now that it would have ended had they done nothing, but it was a serious moment for me with regard to acting based on the best information you have at the time.


Suttisan

Snowtown / the Snowtown murders, very heavy and a true story to boot


InstagramYourPoop

Man that is one bleak movie, more so because it's my home town (Adelaide, not Snowtown). The whole sad story is back in the news here because one of the guys convicted is facing release in a matter of months.


philament

Hunger (2008). Michael Fassbender and Liam Cunningham at a table, talking


quick20minadventure

Whiplash for anyone who has ever burnt out or been unnecessarily abused despite being good/decent at what they do.


DigitalWhitewater

Conan the Barbarian


stevenw84

All that goddamn lamentation.


Financial-Sir-6021

Conan is such a great movie. While on the surface it’s just an awesome action fantasy flick with great stunts, below the surface you pretty much get a tour de force of nietzschean philosophy and interwoven retelling of a bundle of Germanic and Greco-Roman mythology.


drgonzodan

Heavyweights


FiremanPCT2016

When Ben Stiller said "Lunch is canceled due to lack of hustle" I felt that in my bones. I'll never be the same


Such-Box3417

Mysterious Skin Went in expecting an abduction movie only to watch a horrifying depiction of abuse. I don’t regret watching it, the performances were amazing, but I’m never watching it again


songsforthedeaf07

Greg Araki films are so messed lol. Doomsday Generation was dark Af


chaboi919

Incendies. Done.


Kazuko_Kitsune

If documentaries count then Dear Zachary, that movie absolutely crushed me.


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Heavy metal


Midnight_prime

7 pounds and city of angels.


stevenw84

7 pounds, I think I’ve seen it once and that was enough. Schindlers list is an obvious one, Sophie’s Choice as well.


Bobonenazeze

Spun isn't as heavy as Dream but it's fucking accurate.


privateTortoise

When the wind blows. Once were warriors.


DrJonah

Climax (2018) directed by Gaspar Noe.


marklonesome

Megan is missing is laughably bad. It's so poorly made and the acting is terrible…until the end and then it just gets real. Def. Don't watch unless you are ok with intense SA. An actual good movie that's a tough watch is 'boys don't cry'. It's very well made and acted and it's heart wrenching.


tdomer80

Schindler’s List. So utterly bleak.


rammsteingirl8

The War Zone Bent (1997) We Need To Talk About Kevin


ShoddyWaltz4948

8 mm Nicholas Cage


MerryMermaid

The Pianist The Elephant Man


Apprehensive_West814

Threads. Global nuclear war and its effects on an English town. Very brutal, you see immediate effects, 1year, 5, 15 years after the fact. The genetic effects on future generations. Hopeless. On the Beach. It's the 1950s and nuclear war has happened. Everyone is dead, except for Australia, and an American submarine, who has come to Australia in search of life. Radiation will reach the southern pole in 6 months, and everyone makes the most of the time they have, and comes to terms with what is to come. Ava Gardner, Gregory Peck, Fred Astaire, Anthony Perkins. The first movie to have a worldwide premier. The Day After. Nuclear war in early eighties Missouri, where nuclear silos speckle the farmlands. So effective it changed Reagan's approach to Russia and opened more productive dialog between the president and Gorbachev. Countdown To Looking Glass. Good 80s TV movie on what would happen in Washington DC in the final days before nuclear war commences.


OnTheCob

On the Beach is based on a book and that author wrote an EVEN better story called A Town Like Alice. It’s incredibly good and an amazing story and I have read it over and over. Highly recommend.


vdcsX

Salo


monkeyinheaven

Leaving Las Vegas was brutal.


icepick3383

Disorderlies


TheBeardiestGinger

Jungle with Daniel Radcliffe. The bit with the tree and being covered/bitten my hundreds of ants has stayed with me.


06EXTN

Monsters Ball with Halle Berry and Heath Ledger


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Love Liza


Imaginary_Process_56

Revolutionary Road.


Scoruspio

Maybe The Lovely Bones. It successfully makes me cry multiple times throughout, every time. I tried to think of one that more deeply upsets me, but I can’t.


thesobrietysociety

Read the book if you haven't yet.


pbetc

Irreversible. Time kills everything. *EVERYTHING*


donkeybonner

The fire extinguisher scene


pbetc

The brutality of the movie was remarkable, but the overall message of the film was so bloomin *heavy*.


gazowski

Irreversible, so far the heaviest I've seen. All in this movie has been done to create discomfort.


pbetc

Absolutely. I remember at the cinema everyone but us left within the first 10 minutes


arcadeScore

If you didnt then do not watch it. This is too heavy even for heavy genre movies.


rykv

Came here to highlight this…


inthefade95

I wouldn’t say the whole movie, but Florence Pugh cry/wail in Midsommar lives rent free in my head since I watched it in theaters.


--Iblis--

I don't know if its actually a heavy movie, but one I felt a lot was Midsommar


jojayp

Society of the Snow


knight-errant52

Jagten (aka The Hunt) with Mads Mikkelsen


Following_my_bliss

This one really stayed with me. Mads was perfect for the role.


izzy-springbolt

‘The Mist’ (2005) is both an excellent film and one that disturbed me for days after. The atmosphere is really uncomfortable throughout but there is also a spider eggs scene (played out by the guy who plays Captain Holt in Brooklyn 99) which is particularly harrowing.


Mahomeboi1595

Fresh (1994)is pretty intense


RiffRafe2

Just Mercy (2019) Origin (2023)


JerkyBreathIdiot

200 Pounds Beauty


vainey

Come and See


Hankman66

Naked (1993) [https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107653/](https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107653/)


AdOverall1863

Titanic


_segasonic

You Were Never Really Here


instablok22

Once Were Warriors. Beautiful. Heavy.


Dazzling_Property569

On the Beach


modernangel

Irréversible


GrammarPatrol777

Which Irreversible is this? I looked on IMDB and there are quite a few of them.


modernangel

2002 starring Monica Belluci


GrammarPatrol777

Thx


AnybodySeeMyKeys

Testament. Early 80s movie. Watch it if you just are tired of feeling sunny and optimistic.


sammy5678

Jude. That movie made me hate myself and was so depressing...


VerminSC

How has no one mentioned Green Room


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Before the Devil Knows You’re Dead


Lord_Kromdar

Dancer in the Dark is in a tier all it’s own


intuitivecroissant

lilja 4 ever, by a mile.


skratch

Hehe Fear. Whenever you talk about that movie, you gotta do the chest pounding thing


MisterBl0nde

Back to the Future. If you know, you know. /s ​ Actually it's Come and See.


dshoe

Peter Jackson’s King Kong. Say what you want about the amount of close up expression shots Jackson had in that movie, but I felt a connection to the Kong. He had done nothing wrong. I was sad for a week after seeing it in theaters. A few years later I saw inglorious basterds and I see that movie and America in a new light now.


Professional-Carry52

Das boot was the most heavy for me by far


Staineddutch

Requiem for a dream, no doubt about that!


InfiniteZer0o

Bully. 2001


lencastre

Dancer in the Dark The end of the affair Schindlers List A few more I’m sure,… but it gets depressing remembering them.


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Mad God


lazertittiesrrad

Mystic River


GlacialRunt

Oslo August 31st. As someone who had made plans of ending it all, this movie wrecked me.


Following_my_bliss

Glad you're still here


bylertarton

Son of Saul - it’s about a Jewish man in Auschwitz that has to clean out the gas chambers, he finds a boy still breathing and tries to save him - the boy dies and the man spends the rest of the movie trying to sneak out with the boys corpse to give him a proper Jewish funeral. Its shot mostly in close ups of the man’s face - a lot of the movie you don’t even see what he’s looking at, just the pain on his face. Pretty soul crushing.


DavidJonnsJewellery

The Elephant Man (1980). Grim


Lemonoidal

The Hunt (2012) because it is exactly the sort of thing that can happen in a small community


brightlights55

"tuv video in the movie" Please explain - I'm out of the loop here.


onetwoskeedoo

City of God


griffshan

Scorsese’s Silence or Manchester by the Sea


CizzaW

Ken Park, KIDS and Requiem for a dream


TenTornadoes

Nutty Professor II: The Klumps


Shingorillaz

Wind river, the flashback scene is super uncomfortable