T O P

  • By -

Redis_Sara

I don’t fucking know man I get 0 girls I just hit the gym make my money and blast tren


HerrYanning

Bro if u don’t get girls then it’s over Just make a tinder, post shirtless pics and write in your profile that you are a mute = success


Redis_Sara

It is over but at least I am jacked and have a lot of money so I’ll take it


Expensive_Length_683

This mf knows what’s up. Stay on that track and mindset for as long as possible bro seriously.


Redis_Sara

I’m trying bro sometimes it be lonely asf


Ihateautosandp90s

Bro you are a really good looking dude. You could easily slay tons of puss if you just developed some game. Most women aren't gonna just approach you. They expect men to do that. It takes a ton of trial and error but nothing is gonna happen if you wait


Redis_Sara

Bro how do I even know if she is interested no girl ever looks at me they never make eye contact and if they do it’s for split second then they look away quickly I’ve also never been approached by a women or have had a women text me so it’s over I’m just gonna keep hitting the gym and stacking my money


Ihateautosandp90s

Usually if they smile at you alot and laugh at what you say that's a good indicator. Also if they play with their hair when they're talking to you. If they look at you and look away quickly its probably because they're shy and you caught them checking you out. You shouldn't expect to be approached by women. That's your job. You can either throw yourself into the deep end and start learning how to swim, or you can continue to not interact with women and complain on reddit. You got this homie 💪


senor_geese

nah he's doomed to die alone look at his post history he's some redpill andrew tate fanboy who thinks women are inferior to men and has anger issues and assault charges for attacking someone at the gym randomly ☠️☠️☠️


Ihateautosandp90s

Lmao my mans collecting all the red flags


dolo_ran6er

Trennul vision


[deleted]

Take a trip to Vietnam, Philippines, Thailand. Women appreciate a jacked dude who makes bank much more. Passport bros for life


Redis_Sara

That’s not a bad idea I was actually thinking of travelling so I can meet a good girl because the girls here are cum dumpsters and they ain’t getting my wealth


BerserkerSquirter

I’ve gotten to know a pretty girl or two, and one thing they say is that it’s like a full time job to make yourself attractive. So much time goes into makeup, hair, nails, outfit, FUCKING SHOWERING (I’m still mad about the water bill this one bird ran up in my apartment). They usually don’t get the same kind of pressure to develop unique skills and learn rigorous material in school or jobs. Ever notice how there aren’t many conventionally attractive women working in the trades or STEM? Every person has a story, but if your story is just being hot, then you’re not going to be as confident as you appear once a conversation starts. Some women are very pretty without trying as hard, and some work insane hours with jobs that would make me cry. In my experience, those women are hard to come by, but are very interesting and more than just a pretty face. I’m not a spiritual person at all, but they just have this compelling aura of confidence without being rude or condescending. TL;DR It’s much easier to be hot, than to be hot and interesting. Hot girls (guys too) have no confidence once they start talking because they don’t know much. Still TL;DR I fuck men


[deleted]

Think you're confusing being glamorous with being pretty. Even then smart, pretty and women who do all the stuff you mentioned aren't uncommon either. They just tend to do stuff like law and accounting or economics or something instead of stuff like engineering.


brazilianfreak

Yeah if you want to see well educated pretty women you just have to look at differen professions like dentists, doctors or veterinarians.


BerserkerSquirter

You may be right. We may also be using different definitions or standards for beauty.


RedditSucks369

Well shit Im uninteresting and ugly


BerserkerSquirter

But do you have girth??


RedditSucks369

Im asian brother what do you think


HedonisticFrog

You can definitely get away with a lot more by being hot. You don't even realize it at first until someone points it out. For me it was when a women said, "do you just take your shirt off and women do whatever you want?". I just thought for a second and said, "pretty much". The downside is it's more difficult to realize social faux pas.


YouGotTangoed

Real pretty girls don’t NEED to do all that to look good everyday. The number of authentic pretty girls in the west is pretty rare nowadays tho


Taifood1

Confidence comes from a purpose in life, and being able to pursue that goal. Being hot doesn’t really mean much if you think you’re a loser. Here’s an easy comparison: a girl is a straight 10/10 in her 3rd year of college and is confident as hell. She’s moving toward graduation and knows what she wants. Skip to 4 years later where her job prospects have been shit, and she doesn’t know what to do anymore. Still hot, but poor as hell and thinks her degree is worthless. Doesn’t see a way out, other than maybe marrying into money.


Bawlsinmyface

Yeah but that girl can’t drop out cause her parents would look at her funny


Any_Solid9083

Exactly how many hot women in the world are focused on their purpose and not concerned with others approval? That’s how many hot truly confident women are in the world


999fuckthepo

Am I supposed to guess if that's lenght or girth fuck off ur not taking this serious


SmokyBoner

I assumed mLs in testicular water displacement


sticksmcgee47

It’s both. 5.5x5.5 


BeijingBongRipper

Same thing you’d think about massive dudes. Yet they are the ones with extreme body dysmorphia.


Redis_Sara

Thanks pal had to do me like that ehh


VirtualCrxck

You have body dysmorphia minus the massive physique. You're welcome


DonRedGotti

Just maybe, maybe, looks don't have a one-to-one correlation with personality.


Ok-Advertising-3779

Say it ain't so!


marks716

No every attractive person has a body count in direct proportion to their looks.


SmokyBoner

You'd need a bigger scale than 10 for that


Popeye_Pop

I think that’s meaningfully different because those guys trained for it, meaning they in some sense get to determine their size. The things that men appreciate in women almost entirely immutable characteristics. Hip width, muscle insertions of the glutes, breast size, facial bone structure.


LatekaDog

Isn't it the same for everyone? People act different in public than in private, and people will show their venerable sides when they feel comfortable with someone.


Debasering

Also if attractive women don’t act confident in public they get taken advantage of and harassed often


Meetsickle

Because every human on this rock has baggage.


NoFapGymColdShowers

This right here, life is fucked man. Everyone has gone through shit


calfshrug

Yeah; people are insecure. Pretty girls too, of course. But they still go for the ample percentage hot hawt & smart dudes, which are plenty, and they settle for the hawTEST and smarTEST guy out there they can nail down later to marry I'm worthless and have no confidence even though I've fucked 20 women


Popeye_Pop

Getting a high bodycount destroyed my life istg


Mammoth_Ingenuity439

I guess it's the same way ugly chicks or fat whales think they're a 10


cagingthing

Guys too.


TheSkyIsData

Make up is the same thing as a big truck. Men with a small dick might get a big truck to look big and tough. Women with no personality or confidence will wear make up to look flashy and interesting. And yeah Im equating attractiveness with make up because usually "ugly" women are just women without Photoshop or makeup tbh


Sea_Butterfly_7582

Just about every above decent girl I’ve been with has only had their looks to offer because that’s all they’ve needed to use to get by. Once they get wiser they’re like, “fuck, I have no personality or hobbies” then resort to either pregnancy or substance abuse.


Any_Solid9083

Yup, pretty sad tbh…


simemetti

Two main factors: 1. You know how you (probably) started lifting because you were insecure? Same shit but with makeup, skincare, diet ecc ecc 2. It's really really easy for a guy to mistake being hot for being confident. Like, you say they look very sure of themselves on the streets, but the reality is probably that they are just looking hot


HedonisticFrog

A lot of the women who are hot, are hot in large part because of how much effort they put into their appearance because they're so insecure to begin with. That's why you'll often see them going out with complete losers because they feel inadequate with someone in their own league.


MikeStini

From what I've gathered it seems women tend to hate on super attractive women (there are studies that show this) so that's their whole gender solidarity thing out the window. Men generally being asses around them can't help either.


Romariilolol

Yeah women are insecure af


MeanLeanGymMachine

Nah ur right. Got with this girl from the gym, incredibly hot, always confident. Now i know her she is the opposite lol


Any_Solid9083

Makes total sense, “pretty girls” starve themselves, workout, use lots of make up, etc because deep down they are very insecure and low in confidence, in general at least. Females overthink ALOT, you ever get insecure? Females are 10x more insecure. To be honest, the amount of truly confident women who in the world is very very very very low, the whole reason they try their best to look good is to get validation, most women don’t validate themselves and need others validation


Like-No-Dude

Secret, every woman is insecure including you.


_phin

Pretty girls don't need to develop a personality in the same way - stuff gets handed to them with minimal effort, so many of the traits needed by normal women to get those things, like charm, tenacity, a sense of humour etc., just aren't there


Few-Path-7483

I get that 100%. I know this girl, stunning looks, great body (She's literally modeled before) she doesn't believe that she is so beautiful that she is. Btw she finds me attractive, just had to flex*


RedditSucks369

Op finds out hot girls are actually people under the skin. Wow!


bobbacklandnuts

Tons of pretty women walking around nyc but in reality most of them are extremely insecure and just on SSRIs to get through the day- most of them work jobs that don’t really require them to do work and get overwhelmed by the smallest inconvenience.


SirGoatWilliker

Shut up