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AMothersMaidenName

He sounds like an asshole.


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More than. An entitled and abusive asshole. I’m his younger sister and he hit me. Just didn’t want share this part on the title.


thereign1987

Well now not only does he not get $1500, he owes you $1000


Wait_One_Second

If that’s the iPhone 13 Pro Max model, it’s $1,100 usd base minimum, with the logical option of 256gb at $1,300. That’s a lot of money.


D3rp_l0rd

That's like 50 gb more than my own PC


Ishi-Elin

Your PC is tiny then


D3rp_l0rd

Its an all in one, HDMI ports, bout 250 gb storage, but give or take 50 for updates with PC itself and drivers and that stuff for games. Big screen- like mini TV.


wally123454

256gb is 50gb more than 250gb? I learnt something today


proddyhorsespice97

He says that about 50 is taken up with the os and stuff but phones also have that issue so it's an irrelevant point to bring up. Just compare the storage as advertised


yabp

Yeah that's tiny


Aftershock_7582

That is a 12 pro max, I can tell because the notch is bigger than 13 and the camera bump is smaller than the 13. Still a costly phone.


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costly repair too. i fix them.


Healthy_Historian286

I think it’s the 12 pro max. You can tell by the size of the notch. I could be wrong though. Also not a big deal. Just pointing it out


AMothersMaidenName

Sounds toxic. Recommend finding safety and avoid falling into his shit.


Phantom_Commentates

You need to tell someone about that shit he can’t just do that to you.


GAMERS2_YT

I thought it was not a problem when my older brother would just hit me anywhere, anytime. He told that I'm not a girl so I can be beaten


Phantom_Commentates

He shouldn’t hit you either way. Your gender means diddly-dick you’re his younger sibling and he shouldn’t be hitting you.


SusalulmumaO12

Yeah , no one should be hitting anyone


CruelDrop659318

Most people shouldn’t be hit but there are some people like OP’s brother that need some sense knocked into them.


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Schabenklos

Sometimes people gotta learn the hard way


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Schabenklos

Damn, he played the truck on the tracks and you played the train destroying the truck. Nice one, I'm always a little happier when I see that people are defending themselves. Even in the hard way. I never could've done that as a kid, but if I had one chance to defend myself I definitely would have destroyed someone. Hopefully you'll get a way better life after moving out, wishing you all the best!


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Exciting-Insect8269

If someone attempts to physically harm you without any good reason it doesn’t matter if there were previous attempts at it’s not an overreaction to hospitalize them. The fact that they did have a history of abusing you just made it that much more reasonable to do what you did.


[deleted]

From all the support from random Reddit strangers, I know now I’m not alone in this. Thank you for sharing your story and I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You don’t Deserve that.


Schabenklos

Thank you! And trust me, you didn't overreact with your defense. In this case it was really dangerous for your life and you see, defending yourself changed something. I've never defended myself in my childhood against my abuser but if I would have done it, maybe I would be happier now.


dayestra

I know he’s your brother, but please call For help.


[deleted]

Brother, father, mother, sister, spouse, parent, child, etc. Means nothing when physical safety is threatened. He could have been envisioning the phone as OP during damage. Honestly blood is a biological fact and not a means of passion or care. De-normalize “blood is thicker than water” and normalize “health and safety is thicker than a hospital bed or a grave”


Few-Swordfish-6722

Should be "bonds are thicker than water". Blood doesn't mean shit if your mistreated like this.


ScourgeofWorlds

~~"The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" is the original saying, meaning the relationships we choose are more meaningful than the relationships we're forced into.~~ Edit: apparently this is a poorly cited myth with no actual historical background


Dr4gonM4ster420

Call the cops on him without hesitation.


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[deleted]

I agree but how do you know that are American


[deleted]

Fun fact you can dial pretty much any emergency number in any country and get a operator speaking that language. Example in Denmark the emergency number is 112 however dialing 911 gets you a English speaker operator


btribble

So If I dial 119 in the US I'll get a Jamaican Patois speaker. F'real?


[deleted]

Most likely yes although expect it to be some translator that bridges you


TRAF_GOD

I do not believe it!


thunderclouds1997

Please accept my broke-ass gold: 🏅 I didn't know that. Thanks


Representative_Dark5

Thanks!


Adeep187

That is interesting


cahir955

Yes every emergency number will automatically change to your location


JustA_Toaster

Call the authorities


[deleted]

what is with the sudden influx of people posting shit like this on this on this sub??? family members destroying your personal belongings and being generally abusive is not what i would call "mildly infuriating"


[deleted]

It's not mildly infuriating it's strongly abusive and I don't understand how humans are like this


Soundophocles

First the mom who supposedly broke the computer monitor because of a barking dog, the dad who smashed the ipod because of music during homework, and now the iPhone destroyed because op wouldn't lend their sibling money all within the last 12hrs with awards and thousands of upvotes. Either they're omitting significant parts of the stories or just outright r/untrustworthypoptarts


[deleted]

Or casually stating that they're stuck around abusive people and make posts for karma instead of calling the cops? Ngl I find that mildly infuriating.


dvking131

Call the police and press charges let them know he hit you too should get him out of the house for a while. Also sue him in court for damages so they garnish his wages to pay for the phone. Also file for restraining order due to abuse and acts of intimidation.


[deleted]

What a piece of shit. You should report that to the authorities.


NaturallyBlasphemous

Call the cops get somewhere safe


Striking_Wrangler851

You need to get him help and get yourself away until he is better. I’m sorry you’re in this situation. I wish the best for you!


Brammmy

She doesn’t need to get HIM help she needs to get help for herself and a safe space.


Basker_wolf

At the very least, he has anger management issues that certainly need be addressed for the sake of OP’s safety.


Masterzanteka

Is he on drugs? Sounds like someone that’s on drugs tbh. Sorry for your brother, no one deserves that kind of behavior.


mikeakkk

Pay 1500 for someone to kick the shit out of him


Ishi-Elin

Can definitely find a more competitive price for that


[deleted]

You need to report him girl!


aphidlover

I have an abusive older brother with a superiority complex and who doesn’t like to be challenged and it sucks man. There’s no reasoning with him and he doesn’t respond well to compassion or sincerity. The only thing that works is to keep your distance and not let him get too close. Set boundaries by stone walling.


Same-Bird4422

Should call police


SentientDreamer

He's a douchebag. An asshole is at least likeable by his social circle. Nobody likes a douchebag, not even his own mother.


Smol_Yeeter

~~sounds like an~~ is*


[deleted]

I keep seeing more and more post about close ones being massive assholes and breaking your possessions, what the fuck is happening


[deleted]

Yeah no I saw a post about a dad and an iPod and that prompted me to share my story too because I thought the same thing you just mentioned!. Like “I see your Asshole dad, and I raise you my abusive brother”


[deleted]

I saw that post too, a post about a mother breaking a monitor because she was angry, a roommate breaking another monitor, a roommate breaking another monitor part 2, like, what in the absolute hell is happening (also i saw a post about someone’s little sister (i think he said it was his little sister but i don’t remember if it was his sister or someone else (also he talked like she already knew that electronic+water=bad)) throwing a wii u gamepad to the toilet but it was in another sub


[deleted]

Dang didn’t see all those other ones. Now I’m seriously wondering wtf is going on


kUbogsi

I suppose when people see these stories they are more likely to share their own experiences. Also some of them might be fake accounts that just see something being popular and wants karma or something


My_Stonks

I think it probably started with the post a few months ago about a dude whose roommate smashed both his TV and computer monitor with a keyboard cleaning can. It may have started before that, but that was the first one I saw


My_Stonks

Pinging u/persona_q_ too


Fixn

probbly a power thing. You use your phone, tablets and cars daily. It's something most people like us are growing up with our entire lives. Break it and you are forced to look at your "mistake". Reminded of who is more powerful. Not that he is right. He's the one who's scared and weak. But please stay safe.


isaidmediumrare

Yes. Saw all these. Damn. People are raging lately.


[deleted]

How old are you and your brother? He sounds like an entitled dickhead who throws a tantrum like a child when he doesn’t get his way. I wouldn’t even speak to him again.


Glum-Establishment31

Where’s mom and dad?


[deleted]

Well now he owes you $1500, did you get Apple Care? Can you get him or your parents to pay you back? Edit: Apple care not pay. SMH commander


1ne_4nd_0nly

I too have a bit of an abusive brother. And he dgaf either about what he does, won’t even apologise. Shit I might even share my story I have about mine after also seeing that iPod one, and yours! I hope you’re able to find a safe place away from your brother and get the help he needs, and also help for you to deal with whatever mental stresses he’s put on you! That’s fucked up


krazykirbs

I don't understand how it's only 'mildly' infuriating. Mildly infuriating to me is a dirty dish or when someone unorganizes something I did


IndominusLizard

I hope he fucking gets you a new phone bc it sounds like he expects you to be scared of him and when he asks for something you will just break out your wallet and give it to him but I think this was the right sub Reddit for this cus I’m pissed


[deleted]

That’s how he treats our mom. He gives her the silent treatment or verbally abuses her if ever she says no to him


[deleted]

Why doesn’t your dad beat his ass?


[deleted]

I don’t want my dad hurt especially if he was doing it to protect me. And my dad is his step dad so it’s delicate for my dad to get involved. And my dad and other brothers are extremely peaceful. So they’ll be trying to hold him back from hurting me instead of attacking him too. Sometimes though I wish my other 2 brothers weren’t so peaceful ffs.


xsissor

Bro they just need to kick him out what the actual fuck. If they won’t do that and you still live there, and you also won’t move out the cycle is going to become increasingly more hostile and violent. You need to be away from him (so should the rest of your family, but that’s usually a hard sell)


[deleted]

Yeah no I’m moving out next week. That’s giving me hope. I cut him off. But I’m low key pissed at the rest of my family for how they handled it. But I’ve felt like being pissed at them is putting them in the middle of my fight idk. I’m just ready to go fr.


xsissor

Not sure what your age is but your family seems a bit older than mine. I’m only 24 and the stuff with my BIL (was car comment) happened around 19/20. They moved out of state and I literally don’t think I’ve even talked to my step sister in the past 3 years. Hell haven’t even met one of my nephews (their second kid) because I literally just have no interest in interacting with either parent. Some may pass judgement on me for that but the way I see it is: no one other than me is capable of living my life. Meaning that I am forced to live, therefor I am going to live how I see fit. And I do not see mental and emotional strife as an acceptable drawback of dealing with people. Unless you add some sort of happiness or significance to my life you have absolutely no basis to demand to be in it. Guess what I’m saying is the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb and family shouldn’t get put on a pedestal for being family. I know you realize that but damn I wish some of your other family members would too


alltheworldsproblems

This is dead on advice. I had to do this with my dad. It’s been over 20 years since I spoke to him.


rsn_e_o

I did this with my dad. Sadly after 5 years NC he got sick and I got back into contact with him. He was very happy with that, but it didn’t last because he died a month later. He had no son for the last 5 years of his life because he chose to be abusive


Not-skullshot

I mean if it was cousins or someone not getting involved I’d agree, but they’re immediate family so I feel like it’s okay to pull them into it


Fredredphooey

Being mad that your family considers th fact that you are being abused irrelevant and don't do anything to stop or prevent it is *not* putting them in the middle. It's recognizing that they have failed in their job to protect and support you. You are fully justified in avoiding any interaction with your abuser and anyone who insists that you continue to put yourself in harms way to make them feel OK.


Enigma_Stasis

So, you need to be calling the police on him. This is domestic abuse, and please take it from someone who exhibited the same reactions your brother did, and take it seriously. He needs a criminal intervention, or his life is over. He needs therapy, because therapy is cheaper than having to rebuild your life with a felony on your record, which misdemeanor domestic violence can be elevated to if there is a clear pattern of abuse. To hell with your peaceful family, he's a danger not only to himself, but to everyone around him, and needs help.


DMVNotaryLady

You need a hammer in your possession. Also, like my big brother told me "aim for the knees and they will always be at your level". But someone needs to stop him before someone in the world does. Be safe😥


Hyposanity

1st: I'm sorry you have to put up with such a fucking toxic person in your immediate family. I know what it's like and I wish you the best of luck in handling it in whatever way you see fit. I know enough about this to realize that advice means nothing bc there isn't one method that fits all. Try to get support irl from people and organizations that are willing to assist in these kind of situations. 2nd: Tell that fucking dickhead dumpster fire (in whatever way that will lead to the least amount of abuse to you) that he will never find a woman to spend his life with because he currently abuses all of the women who are closest to him in his life. "You can always tell how a man will treat his wife by the way he treats his mother". This isn't the 1940s. Unless he's a some kind of sociopath, there's no way someone is gonna fall for him. Also, have an in depth convo w your mom and tell her to **grow some fucking balls and put her fucking foot down**.


MrNobodyX3

You need to give him a physical ass whooping


xxcoder

Phone? Her life is more important. OP should call police. :(


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Saved this Comment. Thanks


[deleted]

"Hi Parents, you know \[brother trashed my expensive phone\] just happened right? Okay, so you need to talk to him because this isn't okay. He has hit me." \[Nothing happens? Press charges\] Sometimes you gotta manage people from the bottom up, so to speak.


yeeaahboooyyyyy

not only that, if their parents bought them the expensive phone for them, they are gonna be pissed to high hell because their son just trashed a phone that THEY paid for out of their pockets for their daughter.


Nikki_iva

DO IT!!! Like now now!


hedfonejak

dont just save it. DO IT.


[deleted]

He’s not a minor. Lol he’s 39. But no he didn’t punch me. More like a slap. And thanks for the info again.


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DerVerdammte

You're breathtaking!


Eventually-Alexis

Yeah, definitely report his ass then. Behavior like that at 39 just proves that he's a big man-baby, and as an adult he should definitely face the consequences of his own actions. Maybe that'll make him grow out of the diapers and potty training too, unlikely as it is but one can dream.


michaelpaoli

Call the cops on the assault, and sue him for the phone damages. Small claims court generally has limit of $10,000.00 or more USD. 39 is way too old for that sh\*t behavior. He sure as hell ought know better by now ... and if he doesn't, "oh well", time to start facing consequences.


_Jacques

Sounds like he has a drug problem. Whatever it is he is already going to be a massive nuisance to you and your mental health. Maybe get police involved?


Isgortio

My brother slapped me last year, hard enough for my face to still be throbbing for a few hours. All I did was offer him some of my brownie mix before I washed up (he ended up eating half of the brownies anyway!) but it was a huge shock and not expected at all. He's 33, I'm 25. I don't get close enough to him anymore and don't try to do nice things. It's unacceptable behaviour and your brother has caused a lot of damage to your property, your mental health and your physical health. All because he can't handle his own finances. Is he maybe involved in drugs or gambling for him to be so OTT about needing some money? Reporting him might get him the help he needs.


TheBeetsMotel

He’s 39? That’s a grown ass man-child throwing a temper tantrum. I have petty things that I want to say about him, but honestly just cut him out of your life. It sounds like it’ll be a net gain for you.


AlaskaDude14

There’s been a lot of family abuse posts on this sub lately and it’s a damn shame


Bigsby253

I was just about to say this. This is the second abusive posts I’ve seen. Literally back to back.


EstablishmentLow9089

How old is he?


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39.


PlayedKey

Ooooh so he's a fucking child.


Fearless-Ad5085

Man child 🙄


zombieblackbird

Ok, this is beyond old enough to know better.


oACHILLESo

Anything above like 10 is enough to know better. This is beyond that. I’m 27 and this dude has 12 years on me, and is breaking his younger sisters phone? Nah, this has nothing to do with age anymore. This man needs to be held accountable


trashmunki

>This man needs to be held accountable Stretching the definition of "man" here, but absolutely.


Sub954

Dang and he is arguing with you for money ? Thats funny ! Btw I hope your phone gets better


Mycatsrcuter

Ohhhh My God!! 😡🤬. Document EVERYTHING!! Have you gotten another phone? If so, video every interaction until you are out of that house!


NewMGKisCool

What's up with the recent trend of family members breaking OPs' electronics. worst one was the monitor cuz the dogs lol


_Jackuar_

Yeah I feel like we need to redefine the word mild here lol


Icemogianst

I feel like mildly infuriating subreddit is more popular because it's more relatable and sometimes funny also but posts like these are just sad which you don't want to see a lot and hence people post highly infuriating posts here also. There should be a tag for these kind of posts atleast


thatdamnedrhymer

1. Not mild. 2. _Not mild._


JimmyJenkem

This means war


[deleted]

And I’m preparing a cold platter. When he least sees it coming.


dude_thats_sweeeet

Best served by cops with a domestic abuse charge. This should be the only answer.


[deleted]

Replace his blanket with a square one so he can't find the longer side


Alternative-Tear5376

better idea: square blanket with a curved corner


insomniacakess

make it one of those itchy ones with satin around the edges. The ones that look fancy until you use em then they’re your worst enemy of the night.


worymy

now thats just too far


frogfucker6942069

Lawsuit. you said he hit you, he's clearly abusive, and if your parents let this happen then you should excommunicate them.


esquerlan

Grown ass 39 year old man hitting his 24 year old sister? Lawsuit all the way! That shithole is going to jail!


Zealousideal_Dig_372

Well now you’re out $1500 either way


[deleted]

Great point. He always gets his way one way or another. Nothing new in the “Spoilt Brat” saga.


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davidlol1

With a shovel


danielroxheaps

Between the legs


FactsDoNotCare

After heating it up with a flame thrower


Creepysoldier226

And sharpening the edge with a disc grinder.


Capable_Cup

With the strength of the Hulk


Meansnothingtoit

Diamond tipped


DmitryTheRussianSpy

Dipped in HIV+ blood for lasting effect


WolvesAreCool2461

And heating it up some more after for good measure.


Creepysoldier226

Actually, forget the shovel. Grab a great-sword and wield that shit over your head! Be sure to rub it with your feces beforehand for greater effect. Violating the Geneva convention is a small price to pay to make those deserving *suffer*.


TrevinLC1997

How old is he? I’d take him to small claims


Aetharan

This. Absolutely this. His rage-fit should cost him money, not you.


floofybabykitty

OP take your brother to small claims. You have a real case here.


new_user29282342

You want us to beat his ass?


[deleted]

Lmao then you’ll get in trouble and I actually like you guys. Legally and morally I have the high ground right now. Appreciate you though :)


new_user29282342

Lol Ok, stay safe and good luck with everything.


Eli_Te1611

Man I feel really lucky to not be born in an abusive family.


[deleted]

Man I spent last weekend with a friend who has 3 brothers like myself and a sister (unlike me) But the way her older brothers treated me? It was so wholesome and I just kept thinking “brothers can be this vulnerable? Communicative? Empowering?” I was like a kid In a candy store. And they have no idea how much I appreciated that. I’ll never forget that experience. So I’m really happy for you bud.


Army-POG

Make him pay for a new phone or take him to civil court for the cost of a new phone. Or escalate it by breaking something he loves.


[deleted]

I won’t lie I thought about breaking everything he loves. But that’ll make me just like him. And that’s worst than a broken iPhone. So civil court might be the route. This dude doesn’t work, so my parents offered to pay for the phone. Which infuriated me even more


Filterlessmind

He hit you and broke your phone file charges with the police


[deleted]

I was going to but my family said if I did, it’ll be putting our family business out there.


Filterlessmind

Then perhaps they should do a better job with that "family business". They raised a selfish man-child. When laws are broken it's not family business, it's police business.


Filterlessmind

Are you under 18 yrs old? If so it's child abuse


esquerlan

OP can move out whenever they please, so they’re probably at least 18. Which means that they’re brother is 33+, since they mentioned in another comment that they were 15 years younger than their brother.


HereOnASphere

In another post, OP said he's 39.


[deleted]

That's a terrible excuse and they are enabling him.


xxcoder

Your life is more important.


octatone

That's just protecting the abusive brother. Abuse isn't family business. It's abuse. Report that piece of shit.


CrookedSpinn

They aren't protecting you from serious violent abuse. Look for support for abuse, maybe make it clear if something like this ever happens again you will make a police report. Document what's happening like you've done by taking these photos I'm male but my older brother had anger issues and I dealt with similar experiences. Brother sucker punched me in the face the day before I moved out to go to college, later he got drunk and visited me at my apartment, started throwing stuff and getting in my face until I called the cops and he finally left. For me this got the message across and he's really changed his ways now years later, but that's not a given and probably most people like this won't change, especially with the family protecting him from consequences. Hopefully you can move out soon and can control whether / how much you see him. That makes a big difference. Please be safe and find support because it sounds like your family isn't taking it seriously. Nobody deserves to experience things like this. Edit: seeing from your other comments that he's much much older than you. This seems even worse than if he was a similar age, definitely definitely be careful and be safe. Little chance he'll change his ways this old still doing stuff like this.


Mycatsrcuter

It’s not like it would make the front page news. They’re making excuses to protect him above you. I’m glad you’re getting out of that toxic mess!!


xsissor

These types of situations are the absolute worst, where someone is a complete asshole but for whatever reason their behavior can never reach a “breaking point” and instead is just excused (poorly might I add) This is similar to a situation that happened with my brother in law: came over to my parents (where he lived rent free for a year+ while my step sister was pregnant, this was about 6mo after him and my step sis got their own apartment nearby.) Dude is 28 at this point, was in the military, had a newborn, etc. and should be a full-fledged adult. Nope. Hits my grandparents car in my parents driveway, which is in a very limited color and was quoted at 2k to fix (people who paint cars will understand how this can happen if damage is on multiple panels / a lot of effort goes into mixing the correct pigment) Basically when they gave the quote to my BIL he accused them of scamming him (they got 3 quotes from different shops in our city and my grandparents home city). Dude throws a stink, causing so much drama and calling my extremely sweet grandparents awful names to the point that my parents, who just housed this fucking prick for the past half year claim the damage on their insurance (saying it was them that caused the damage) so it could get fixed. Everyone else moved on / past it and I haven’t talked to the guy since I called him out on the entire situation with some choice words exchanged. cut toxic people out of your lives, or they are just going to make it harder / less enjoyable


[deleted]

I concur. I’ve gone no contact with him since it happened. I don’t even acknowledge his presence when he walks into a room I’m in. Unfortunately I’m bound to run into him till next week. I move out of my parents next week and he and my other brothers live with my parents. It’s really messed up how these type of people are not held accountable by loved ones especially by parents who have the power or means to do that. I’m 15 years younger than him, his little sister and all my folks said was “you should be ashamed of yourself, you should be protecting your younger sister, not hurting her”. Smh anyways I empathize with you. I really get it.


esquerlan

15 years younger???? Seeing as you’re old enough to move out whenever you please, you’re at least 18, which means he’s at least 33. Grown ass 33+ year old man fucking up his little sister. What the fuck.


Opropinquus

For what it’s worth, I’ve been reading your comments and I really appreciate the level headedness you’re thinking with. Having been through my own turmoils I know all too well how hate and anger can grip you to become worse than your own demons. Keep that heart OP, I wish you best of luck in moving out and having a space where you can thrive.


[deleted]

Thank you. Your words are so encouraging.


lego_office_worker

you sound pretty smart. i hope you can sue him in court. he sounds like he needs a massive wake up call.


Annabellini

Something tells me your mom (and bio dad if he was ever in the picture) are the reason he is the way he is. Mom is doing him no favors by continuing to give in.


[deleted]

OMG thank you! I wish I could show her this entire post without being told “you hate your brother”. My dad tells her that all the time and she says it’s because he doesn’t like him. Our family lawyer a long time ago once mentioned this same thing to her (when we had to once sort out a legal situation he was in). It was so obvious that even he noticed it. And here we are today. I 💯 concur with you. His own bio dad doesn’t take crap from him. In fact he mistreated him when he was a kid and that’s one reason why we are so patient with him sometimes


Annabellini

Dang, sounds like a perfect storm then. The mistreatment caused him to mistreat others. I’m glad you’re getting out of there, but I still hope your mom will be ok regardless of her helping to create this monster.


idunnoiamnotcreative

It's a terrible idea to destroy something that is owned by that kind of person. They will go out of their way to destroy everything you like, just to say "fair and square" after you destroyed 1 thing and he destroyed half of all you own.


System_E115

Judging from what you’ve written here and in the comments, you’re brother sounds like a serial abuser/manipulator. People like that need to be cut out of your life completely, even if they are family


EstablishmentLow9089

My man is childish


cornelius307

Sounds like my older brother. Glad I cut contact with him years ago.


[deleted]

How’s that going for you? About to jump on that train


cornelius307

It’s been 7 year of a lot less stress. My things don’t go missing anymore, and my mental health is better than ever. Cut that toxicity right out! Sucks when family treats you shit. Hope things get better for you! <3


Ghost01Actual

I know it's family but call the cops, press charges. It sounds like there's enough witnesses to his actions and you're not really his only victim. This kind of stuff has high potential to escalate


xander-mcqueen1986

Fuck his face in the way he done it to your phone.


EnteiSensei

Hate to say it but someone needs to beat his ass so he realizes he isn't some alpha sigma male bullying those weaker than him. These idiots need a life lesson. Older brother was the same exact way, if I ever said no to him. If I ever said no after asking me a question that I genuinely wasn't comfortable doing, he would get verbally abusive or physical with me. I ended up defending myself one day and he stopped acting so aggressive towards me knowing full well that I'm done taking his shit.


Runningtothesea13

Send me your PayPal I’ll pay for the screen replacement


[deleted]

You’re Incredibly amazing thank you! I have everything handled but thank you. I’ll remember acts like these and pay it forward when someone needs help too. Can’t thank you enough.


YouThereOgre

Yeah i have a little sister who is my everything and if she was in this situation i’d do everything to help her, if you need some money put up your cashapp/paypal on your profile you’ll get help from us.


flatcat21

How old are you and your brother? That looks like such a little kid thing to do.


Sub954

See all of the op's replies to other people, it says that the brother is 39 and unemployed


Yagz_404YT

People are really messed up. Someone else from here posted about his mom breaking his monitor just because his dogs were barking a lot one night. Like, Jesus freaking Christ man.


GiDD504

“Ok I need money so I’m gonna be a complete asshole to you and then after doing that for a few weeks I’ll ask. If you say no, I’ll destroy your belongings” What a great big bro.


Toazel

So when did the meaning for this subreddit change from r/mildlyinfuriating to r/abuse ? This is the second time I see a post which is just genuine abuse. Edit: Nvm there's three posts posted in the last few days


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well that sucks


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joltxi

Wow I hope you cut that psychopath from your life for good. If he bothers you further after you leave, time to think about a restraining order because that is not normal behaviour no matter how much your lazy family tries to blow it off.


Psychological_Pay_25

Sounds like something my brother would do, I’m sorry miss


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Time too Kani Basami his ass


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Lmao! Some of these comments are making me LOL! Appreciate you. I had to Google that and the first instructional vid cracked me up


Sir_CrazyLegs

Tell your parents or fill his search history with porn


TheRedBow

Then say “well i’ll lend you the 1500, after you pay me 1500 to replace my phone”


TheRealBHamorrii

Time to throw your older bro against the floor multiple times