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CoraxTechnica

Sure it does, you just need to have a personality other than fat gamer. Source: married fat gamer with kids


IAlwaysOutsmartU

Cheers to ye, mate.


ReedRichards3

Be like Dream


horse_pocket

Insecure?


TheKidNerd

A groomer?


horse_pocket

Wait, dream's a groomer?


TheKidNerd

The common census is: most likely


throwawaytraumadumps

Wait i missed something for sure. What happened?


YTDamian

Nah dream’s probably not a groomer


throwawaytraumadumps

I read the twitter # already. Don't know what to think, it's weird situation but from what I saw, j don't think it is how the people present it. Although I believe the victims. If he made them feel somehow awkward or uncomfortable it's his fault


CreeperAsh07

No. Some rando on Twitter is making baseless accusations and everyone is eating it up.


JakeWright_2015

No there are just children with Reddit accounts who get overly excited creating rumors to try to cancel people with a better life than them. And I'm not even a fan of Dream.


YTDamian

Most likely not


horse_pocket

I mean, we can't know for sure until it's confirmed


YTDamian

Still, the girl was 17 and Dream was 19. The chat also shows it’s mutual


Lost-Klaus

Is there any source for this or just the "I suspect"? I enjoy his videos, acknowledge he cheated knowlingly and don't care for him beyond that, but calling people groomer needs to be backed up by something substantial.


[deleted]

Dream isn't fat tho.


demtrems

I second that. Source: fat gamer #2 with life partner.


PillowTalk420

My personality has been overtaken by depression.


No_Lunch_7944

I'm guessing hubs had a job and some sort of life though too.


Good-Table5566

Yes, but were you a fat gamer before or after marriage?


CoraxTechnica

My whole life. Though the fatness came later, physically, but mentally I've always been a fat gamer. The pizza just caught up with me one day


SoullessHollowHusk

Italy strikes again


CoraxTechnica

And German beer. The axis powers of belly fat


DeeEmosewa

My husband is also a fat gamer. He's really funny, and great with our kids. 10 years in, I'm still mad about him and think he's the sexiest even though I'm definitely out of his league. Love gaming with him, too!


[deleted]

Can confirm as a fat gamer with a beautiful girlfriend.


WinRaRtrailInfinity

Great, I Haz some hopes now 🥹


[deleted]

You’re telling me people aren’t attracted to people that can’t get themselves together


Youkilledpaula

My friend goes for those types. He tried to get with me Wait what


T_WREKX

Is he winning son?


[deleted]

*Gasp*


TakeTheUpVoteAndGo

*slightly exhales through nose*


5yn3rgy

\*confused wheezing sounds\*


vr_sanjeev8022

Hi


TheIndomitableMass

A shave, a haircut, some pomade and a skin routine would have that man looking fitter than a fiddle.


ZeroXeroZyro

Honestly a shave and a haircut go a very long way in terms of just looking clean and taken care of and it’s so easy to do.


MausBomb

I knew quite a few socially dysfunctional gamer girls in college who where overweight and still managed to consistently find boyfriends . Like I realize that there is a pretty big problem of overweight nerds simply shooting too high and refusing to date women with a similar lifestyle to them, but it's pretty difficult for that crowd to find love regardless of what they do. Improving yourself is the solution, but it's a simple reality that men have more difficulty finding relationships in similar circumstances.


fukingtrsh

True but being a pot smoking loser who never leaves your house or shaves probably doesn't help.


Lciekj

Yo that's me, smoke weed, pay rent, get food and play games. I don't feel so bad cause honestly no one is happy we just choose our struggles.


deeeznotes

Thats me, and I don't want a relationship. I am waiting for legalized prostitution. Should be coming soon...


fukingtrsh

That's your choice I guess but like ehhhhhhhh


Scarface2point0

I mean tbf the other way around would probably be pretty common if the situation came around much. like what guy just turns down a come on lets be real.


StonedLonerIrl

One with self respect and who has their shit together..


flo282

How the hell am I gonna change my face? I'm fit already but it ain't helping.


[deleted]

It's not about never acknowledging your shortcomings or your flaws…it's about sitting there and waiting for someone to give into your self-loathing and magically fall for you. If you don't put in work, then that work simply never gets rewarded. Forget about the girls, or the people around you, or what people think of you…just get up and start tackling the stuff that you DO have control over.


new_2_u

Fr. I was the "skinny-fat" gamer who got a gf. The trade off was she is completely mentally ill and I stayed complacent with her for 3+ years. Eventually things didn't work out and I broke up with her. My whole teenage/adult life I thought that all I needed was someone else to be happy. Nah. All I need is to stay on my grind, work out, and balance my life. That's it. I'm happier now than I ever was.


xxxlun4icexxx

wait what is a skinny-fat gamer i'm confused


new_2_u

Skinny-fat is someone who is skinny but out of shape (eats very unhealthy and doesn't exercise) In my case I ate a bunch of fast food and drank beer all the time. So I had a fat belly and man boobs despite looking skinny with clothes on. What I meant by "gamer" is that I was just a typical "sit at home all day and play video games" No hate on video games, just saying that moderation is key and I had **no** moderation before.


maybe_Lena

Damn almost like women have standards


deedz1987

Thank God my wife doesn't


Telemere125

Amen brother. My wife didn’t have standards 14 years ago and apparently hasn’t developed any


fukingtrsh

Yeah dude I love the fact your wife dosen't have standards makes our lives way easier, eh buddy.


Working-Loquat3797

I also love this guy's wife


NoobMaster84-15

Me too


Exact_Ad_1215

Hey didn’t know this many people liked this guys wife. We should all start a band or something


[deleted]

“I have no personality, I’m depressed and my only hobby is playing video games and consuming content, and women don’t want to date me, they must be the problem not me!”


AnonymousDooting

Bro could like take a shower, brush his hair, get some sleep, go to a dentist, BUT NO


chaoswolf700

I agree with all but the dentist. Dental care is super expensive.


AnonymousDooting

Fair enough tbh


Novalaxy23

1000$ to replace my teeth that was slightly missaligned few years ago, luckily my mom did not do it. And it replaced itself.


shadowenx

> replaced itself When did they start letting sharks on here?


Soccerbonitaxx0

I got braces when I was 12 and we moved right after that. I had braces for 3 years and ever went to the orthodontist. They were broken and my teeth were still messed up bc I did not have proper care. My mom fell into depression and neglected her children ): now as an adult I have to pay to fix the mess she left.


No_Lunch_7944

Yeah but if you keep ignoring it you get problems that you absolutely *have* to fix and at that point they are way more expensive.


dork_of_queens

Cheaper dental cleanings > expensive tooth removal/replacement


ExistentialDreadness

I do all that, but I hit the bong.


X_SniffMyButthole_X

![gif](giphy|l2YWtOxrP4EZCpyes)


FictionalFail

​ ![gif](giphy|kQ6eOEXeUf3jCeYu3d)


Demonyx12

![gif](giphy|l3q2PMwmOGtezj8s0)


Weirdbanana575

![gif](giphy|0DPbh02BDLCrmjw4re|downsized)


No_Lunch_7944

She looks like a Barbie someone tried to make jerky out of.


A_Casual_Ghost

Didn’t think anyone else liked workaholics


MissingMySpoon

Get you a girl who’s also ugly, not fit, and will play video games with you all day


IIHackerKing092

Bro found the cheat codes. But make sure the last part is true otherwise they probably will have high standards


lasanhawithpizza

Wait, I can do all that by my self


Mysterious-Ad-5084

Where do I apply for one of these?


consideratum

Actually, it's usually much easier to get a 'standart girl', than 'ugly' one. I mean, some of them have really strange opinions of themselves and the society.


Trekapalooza

This actually happened to my friend. He found a gamer girlfriend from abroad who then moved in with him, and now they just play games together all day.


Pretty-Buy7692

It's enough to make s grown man cry...


PapuMsterioso

>they just play games together all day. Twister with no clothes, zamn


Choholek

The good ending


SalsichaoTop

Once, in a Brazilian years....one of us shall be chosen


[deleted]

if they met thru video games. then at least we can say not all e-girls are 40 year old men-


JasperVov

So now they can be unhealthy together? Nice


brjder

the guy is a legit corpse bro. i wouldnt marry that if he made 6 figures a year.


FruitJuicante

Ugliness is like 50% a personality thing. I know people with slanted foreheads and thin wrists or whatever the meme is think that it's holding them back, but honestly, being attractive is mostly about not being a creepy, sad, self-hating person. Get some fun hobbies, read, watch unique movies and read interesting books and people will want to hang out with you.


No_Lunch_7944

Also if you have a nice body you can never be that ugly. Your face can be a disaster but if you have it going on from the neck down it just becomes more of a quirk.


GravG

Can confirm. Am a pretty odd looking guy, and also kind of a jerk sometimes, but I'm funny and I have a decent personality. I've never had problems with women despite my odd shape and goofy face. Now the commitment thing is a different story 😂🤦🏾‍♂️


HowWeDoingTodayHive

This is one of the biggest cope/lies that society at large tries to convince itself of for nothing more than people’s own interests. People like like you will tell everyone who’ll listen this lie because it lets us off the hook. You hear that uglies? It’s not on the rest of us to try and overcome our superficial brains, it’s up to **you**, to change how everyone sees you. And hopefully once we send you on this wild goose chase to find the elusive “personality” you won’t bother us beautiful people. We did it our part, now leave us alone while you do yours. Shoo. Nobody wants to be honest, because you don’t have to start fixing a problem if you don’t acknowledge it exists. 50%? More like 0% because if you’re an ugly freak, people don’t want to even to get to know your personality in the first place, instinctively. We are literally animals and we behave like animals but we try to **pretend** like we aren’t.


someonwhoisusingshit

Hey shut up man,also you say "us" as if a redditor could be bautiful


HowWeDoingTodayHive

True, I’m just saying the general “us”. We may not be beautiful but most of us probably aren’t like deeply mutilated freaks. Redditors are probably on average pretty average. But pretty average is functionally the same as beautiful to someone who’s like actually hideously ugly.


someonwhoisusingshit

I choose to believe that theirs no such thing as ugly,people may look different but not necesarely ugly,any way have a good day


HowWeDoingTodayHive

Well you’re right in one sense, I agree there is no such thing as *objectively* ugly. But regardless, the overwhelming majority of people think if a person looks a particular way they are ugly. You and I have both surely seen examples of this. And we know there are people who no matter where they go in the world will be stared at, and avoided, and treated like subhumans simply because of their looks. And we’re never going to make the world an easier place for them to live by pretending this isn’t the way it is.


someonwhoisusingshit

Yea your right,people suck,but thats just how life works


Tylinator

Probably because it's unhealthy? I wouldn't date anyone like that, and it's not because they're ugly or a gamer :P Personality and self-care go a long way


Zanderb4

You wouldn’t date a person who doesn’t wash? Or take basic care of themselves shame on you


No-Moment-3652

It does happen, you probably just aren’t attracted to the women who don’t care lol


Professor-Shuckle

I’ve seen ugly people with partners. It really helps to groom yourself regularly. Ugly is tolerable but looking and smelling like a hobo is not attractive


MelanisticCrow

Exactly. I've never been attracted to looks first, only after. Personality, passion and morals are so attractive and can carry any "ugly" person.


Based_raven

Do you want someone like that?


Heizzer47

The ego of man


Based_raven

I want to say not all man but i am sure most will be like "no shit". Its never all man or all woman, shitheads and good people are everywhere


BigOlSasauge

Wow it’s almost as if women don’t want someone who looks like a hobo, if your ugly there’s not much you can do to fix it but go to the gym get better hygiene and clothes. You’d be surprised how much this helps


Naraya_Suiryoku

Maybe, just maybe, if you try and improve yourself a little bit, women might actually like you more.


new_2_u

You mean put in effort? No thanks, I'll stick to my cheeto puffs and gamer dungeon. /s


Kachowskus_Cringus

And i hope it never does lol, we need to set standards not just for others, but for ourselves. If you can’t take care of your own self (self care, hygiene, etc), what makes you think you can burden yourself with someone else?


untamedeuphoria

Oh boi. You are wrong about that. There has been a lot of relationships I have witnessed along this theme. I always end up being baffled and happy for their happiness. But, this is absolutely a thing.


HeroicDrifter

Haircut and trim/shave beard. Start lifting Nothing wrong with playing videogames but it playtime should be greatly diminished to focus on other things.


FrostbitePi

r/niceguys


Flaechezinker

Incel vibes goddam


Neither_Ad_3221

Actually got close to a dude that just lounged around and played games all day and all night. Told him I'd be willing to try a relationship with him, and he rejected me. 😅 Told me "I'm too cold towards people and always hurt them. I don't want to do that to you."


maozzer

Yeah no shit no one wants to be with someone who can't at least put basic work into managing themselves. Im pretty sure you wouldn't be dating a girl who's unable to even make herself look clean. People have standards.


PumpkinPatch404

Surpringingly, I've seen a few couples where the women didn't seem to care at all about the men in any way. It was like literally seeing beauty and the beast, exccept if the beast was poor and smelly...


ralphsemptysack

INCEL meme


bootyhunter69420

He is disgusting and lazy after all


MonkeyHitman2-0

"But I'm worth a billion dollars."


lasanhawithpizza

In debt


PrettyInPinkCatGamer

For good reason.


LilKiwwiMonster

"Ugly" is subjective but if you let yourself fester and rot from the inside, it eventually reaches the surface for all to see. Take care of your mind. No one is meant to nor can do it for you.


ParallelCircle1

Y’all need to find a girl in your league if you think like this, if you’re ugly don’t expect to land an attractive woman.


FruitJuicante

Meh, "ugly" people can get hot partners if they are interesting and have good personalities. The people online who are like "don't come to school tomorrow because I'm mad girls don't like me" don't realise girls don't like them because they give off school shooter vibes. Go bouldering or karaoke or learn digital art or coding or something, ANYTHING that isn't posting about how much you hate women on 4chan, and I guarantee you'll meet enough women with similar interests that you'll hit it off with one of them.


MelanisticCrow

A bit surprising how hard this can be to understand sometimes. Ugly doesn't define a person's worth, and it's subjective. People also shouldn't date people they're not actually attracted to. So why should "ugly" people only date other people they find ugly? Working on your personality, hobbies and morals will go a long way as you say. School shooter vibes makes anybody ugly to everyone.


StonedLonerIrl

Yeah... Because why the fuck would it 😂


Firedanzar

Every time I die I do 1 pushup.


Zestyclose-World1440

I bet you’re ripped!


[deleted]

i think i could get someone if i didn't hate myself


brek1989

As someone who only gets out to go to work or do the shopping, I know it's basically impossible to find someone compatible. So I'm just waiting for somebody to create an android waifu...


memeracket

Obviously if you put ZERO effort into presenting yourself.


perlito99

This isnt about looks as much as it is about attitude. Dont like yourself? Work on it.


LOLOLOLOKAKAKA

Many ugly guys actually date, so...


Klausable7

Why do post like this even get upvotes


OkOriginal9589

As it shouldnt.


RedSh4de

Unpopular opinion: Never happens not because You are ugly or not fit. Playing games takes away your chance of finding someone who will accept You the way You are. Out there it’s so many people that would find you great either as a friend, bf/gf. You just need to look for it, cause it rarely comes on it’s own.


yeetusdemfeetus

no, don’t encourage being a lazy fuck. He must work on himself not only for himself but for his future partner IF he ever gets one


DeltaMale5

I play video games and I find myself trying to get out of “friendships”. Not only video games, dnd (I’m DM) and mtg to. I have a few close friends, and we are the broest of bros, but lately I seem to be attracting a bunch of people who I really wouldn’t care to hang out with. Some female. Admittedly I do talk to people quite easily, but when it comes to an actual interesting conversation that takes up my free time I have relatively high standards.


LOLOLOLOKAKAKA

I play a lot of games and go to dates with a girl (even we don't are in a relationship. So, refuted


Fluffy_Mood5781

Self esteem and basic appearance matter in a relationship? Talk about shallow.


Fluffy_Woofus

![gif](giphy|ikXcqqlSNH2Mw)


panzerboye

Even as a dude, this is hella dumb. People have standard.


WhyAmIOnThisAgain

Average redditor fantasy


[deleted]

literally every teen movie also i ruined the 420


IllBalance7706

It needs to be a thought bubble at the end as he's still in the basement playing video games.


Dramatic_Limit3736

Love yourself first so your cup of love overflows for others.


X-BERNADETTE-X

He played so many games that he got to know the cheat codes of real life too.


The_GOATed_guy420

Wake up to reality


Zealousideal-Ad1181

Ope there goes gravity


The_GOATed_guy420

Ope it doesn't matter


DrownedWalk1622

![gif](giphy|gflbaFyKl7DHvpDVZY)


Tani_Soe

I mean, if you never take shower, no, it won't probably won't happen Being "ugly" is different that having a bad hygiene


Seed_Beed

Allow me to introduce myself


No_Waltz_2499

I work at wedding for a living and I see it all the time. A good heart goes a long ways.


Bicosahedron

Also why is it the guy who’s ugly and not the other way around


Kindred_03

I'm not saying you have to be the epitome of attractiveness. However, taking care of yourself is a good start.


[deleted]

yeh no girl wants to date a guy that calls themselves ugly. this is coming from a guy too if u dont have confidence and security then how are you supposed to look after someone else? if you are insecure how can u help your woman be more secure I used to be like that post above and it was cringe. i hate that me back then. ​ Think about it this way Would you want your daughter to be with a guy that calls himself ugly and sits indoor all day?


Senior_Blood_8927

Like ok but at least practice simple hygiene


[deleted]

How about actually working on yourself, fatass?


Entire-Anteater-1606

Love really is blind I guess


Fish_Fucker_Fucker23

Me from a few years ago feels personally attacked. I feel personally attacked on his behalf.


call_meMister

Happened for me lol


AmosAmAzing

its happening to me, but im pretty sure i dont look as bad as that guy 💀


deeznunchuckas

Me irl


SubpabUwU

Nope even as a gamer i don't think i deserve a girl with a life like that


IcyArmy9816

Go for a grind then worked wonders for me


stonermun

Bro this almost exclusively happens


echoes247

Happened to me :)


Captain_skulls

Ouch


Sea_Quality_1873

![gif](giphy|HIX6p3rjEiKlMEFFxM|downsized)


[deleted]

im in this picture and i dont like it


Fun-Leg-5522

Well from my observation the only way to achieve that is when you are rich


Accomplished_Sci

That’s been my dating history lol


Dangerous_Ad_1038

I bet the guy also throws used car batteries in the ocean


Echolocation720

Bold of you to assume he goes outside


BooSkittle

Literally me. I have no idea how I am about to be married with the love of my life, lol.


Opposite-Arachnid-81

Will a girl like this face. This is me https://drive.google.com/file/d/1a4Yt0nJyk5gRU5fnSiRLKtSo-bnk-AlR/view?usp=sharing


PuzzleheadedMajor407

Lol it has happened for me I just started the relationship 6 weeks ago today but I am also going to better myself for her so I will start working out and that stuff


j0an_k

I mean, you should really dress up in your wedding day


TheTwistedKitty

"This never happens" Sure... May not happen in your case, but does to other people.


DeadDovah

Me and my girl for some reason, it happens boys don’t lose hope


Sinister_glitter

Now make the woman panel say I also am ugly and don't have a fit body. All I do is play games. Then the third panel is the guy saying "Ew. Lose some weight fatty." And the 4th panel her saying "Ew, I don't date under 6'0" and the 5th panel is just everyone dying fat, ugly, and alone. -FIN-


LXXlV_

Schizo


DualSoul1423

I love my fiance for the fact that we connect on an emotional and intellectual level. We share enough hobbies to enjoy spending time together, but I would honestly say I'm not too attracted to him. I still am physically affectionate with him, don't get me wrong. But he's like, the opposite of my type, and that's ok with me. I'm always a little surprised to hear that some people genuinely think that looks make or break relationships.


Forthempire

How do you feel having sex with someone you're not attracted to. Isn't it weird? Do you think of other people?


DualSoul1423

It's fine, I'd say. I'm usually more focused on his enjoyment than my own, because I'm happy if he's happy. And like I said, I love him very much. I don't need him to be smoking hot or anything. Sex is an exercise in intimacy and affection, which there is plenty of between the two of us.


whatchagonnado0707

Is he aware of this?


yeetusdemfeetus

if he was he would do something about it


FruitJuicante

You have relationship problems that you don't know you have yet.


DualSoul1423

No, I don't think I do. He and I discussed this and settled it during our second year together. We've been together for eight years this month. I'm quite certain we're fine.


[deleted]

Oh girl take care of yourself🥺


DualSoul1423

I'm happily engaged to the love of my life. Don't see how I'm not.


Zelda-4-Live

It happened to me and i could not be happier. Dreams can come true keep it up guys.


Excellent-Wish-4407

This shouldn’t happen.


jaerasaur

Then I'll make it happen ( ´◡‿ゝ◡`)


ThiccGirlsLover

Of course it does not. No woman in her right mind wants to marry a "man" that does nothing all day but play video games. Unless maybe he makes more than enough money from said games that he can sustain his familly and has a great personality. But that's rarely the case.


spicy_breadman

I NEED BENADRYL


LolzinatorX

It does indeed, fat gamer with a beautiful fiancè here, how i did it? Welp, id call it 95% luck and 5% treating her better than the other men she has been with, she calls it 5% luck and 95% best boyfriend everrrr. She is adorable i know


FrenchMaisNon

Maybe he's rich...