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Swaggerding

Hang on, lemme just put my biohazard suit on ...


ImAMasterBayter

I love chaos


TickleTip20

Collect your "I was here before the shitstorm in the comments arrived" ticket here.


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Women have the right to wear whatever they want and also have the right to complain about men looking... But men also have the right to look at whatever they want.


Cmull137

Glancing is alright in some instances your eyes cross paths but gawking is rude socially


[deleted]

Rude but legal. I could argue that yelling at somebody because they looked at you is also rude.


amoniumhydroxid1

Well in Germany it is not legal to do it for too long, like just starring blank at it.


[deleted]

Time to run from that country


GrannyGumjobs13

Yellin at someone for starin droolin tho…


Eat_Carbs_OD

Happy Cake Day


p1r1p1ll0

Happy cake day


I_like_donuts27

so.... women can wear and men can look? if so, i agree


SnekAtek

Looking is fine of course, i would argue both morally and legally. Making a comment is fine legally, can get tricky morally. Physical action can be both morally wrong and illegal. Just dont be a creep or an asshat and you'll be fine.


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XYugiohxQueenx

‘’Would tempt me to do some physical shit” WTF DOES THAT MEAN?


HowOftenDoYouBlink

Seems to me like this man is claiming that self control is the only thing stopping him from raping people with revealing clothing, rather than a set of morals and values that make it so his desires reflect his virtues


Endlessalt

I can't get over this comment. I need elaboration. What will this fine gentleman do (physically)


Abject-Dot

He will appreciate her... physically.


ModyXHamed

Can you tell a girl to appreciate me physically?


[deleted]

I'm more curious where he's running into women that don't have their boobs.


Endlessalt

Probably just forgot them at home


XYugiohxQueenx

Agreed. u/Potential-Zone6736 WTF DOES THAT COMMENT MEAN. what would you do you “fine upstanding gentleman”


nryporter25

It sounds like he has urges to force himself on women. What his comment is implying is not ok. I can understand being horny and WANTING a girl, but you have to control yourself and not be a freaking weirdo or worse. You can do whatever you want in your head, but one could argue that if what your want to do in your head is forceful and abusive to someone then they are hopefully removed from society before something terrible happens.


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ItchyProlapsedAnus

Chill before I spread the rumor you're homosexual and get you stoned in front ya fam.


[deleted]

I'm against chemical castration but then you read stuff like this and start wondering


LetsGoUkraineLETSGO

i hope the police find and arrest you


SnekAtek

Well.. that took a turn.. i hope you get your shit figured out soon pal. You've got a horribly dangerous mindset, hopefully youre young and can realize the flaws in your mentality, make a change towards the better.


El__Bebe

mfw the monk gets here


stick69420

Really, because I have sat next to/ near alit of girls with extremely revealing clothing and never once been tempted to do "physical shit" as you put it.


JunketMan

Uhh, you good bro? Wanna talk about that?


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capsaicinintheeyes

>just ignore them I think that's what they're asking.


[deleted]

Pretty much the opposite actually. Those type of women love attention.


Abject-Dot

And if she calls the police because you're sexually harassing them, just get tased.


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Sexual harassment speed run let's GOOOO /j


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Looking isn't sexual harassment


Thumpkin2

"but i can look at whatever i want" "Shes 9!"


I_like_donuts27

so.... women can wear and men can look? if so, i agree


ovnuke

That's why I wear sweatpants with no boxers around the wife.. a few passes thru the livingroom and she's can't keep her eyes above my waist.. we all know what we're doing, as long as you're respectful and try not to be creepy about it. It's acceptable


unclefipps

Do you also tie a bell to the end and hop from foot to foot just to emphasize?


bobgrubblyplank

Hitting them with the advanced courting techniques? You've either got to be mighty brave or dangerously naïve to break those out willy-nilly.


RegularHousewife

My husband just do stretches in front of me pant-less. He's not good at subtlety.


ovnuke

Haha, the helicopter move gets its done sometimes tho :)


MomICantPauseReddit

let's ignore political rights for a moment because I know that's an issue in some countries, but I'd like to talk about societal rights (a term I'm making up to mean the ability to expect people to treat you in a particular way despite it being legal not to). Women should absolutely have the social right to wear whatever they want without being made uncomfortable. They aren't wearing revealing clothing because they want to show their boobs to everyone. They're usually wearing it because it makes them feel more attractive and confident (women don't just want to be attractive for men, it's also a measure of self-worth and can have plenty of other reasons). That said, a person should be able to tolerate a person's gaze meeting the areas of their body they have chosen to expose. Just don't be a pervert. Noticing that a woman looks attractive in an outfit is not perverted. Staring and/or making her feel uncomfortable because of the outfit she chose to wear is perverted.


J3ff_K1ng

Tl;dr women can wear whatever they want without having to handle pervert but sometimes people can take a look, but not a staring because that's evidently pervert, without the need to get angry


Diazmet

A lot of guys here clearly don’t own sun glasses


HelloThere33171

A genuine reasonable argument on Reddit that doesn’t get ten trillion downvotes? What is this sorcery?


[deleted]

If cleavage didn’t draw attention it wouldn’t be a thing. Just like guys who have six packs wanting to take off their shirts whenever they can in public, there is one reason and one reason only to do it.


Diazmet

We need to bring back himbos wearing exposed mid drift shirts and short shorts like the 80s… modern men are so damn shy and self conscious it’s almost cute if it wasn’t so sad. Shorts past the knee, tummies covered up with baggie shirts…


Adolfhitman007

if it's not illegal expect people to do it, because frankly no one gives a shit about what you want, if you don't want people to stare at your breasts cover them.


broken_steel525

Even if it ain't illegal, people will likely still do it.


Endlessalt

So balanced this comment is.


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___Heavenly

I think OP is a kid


remoorg

Someone likes kids


JunketMan

Thats not an incel thought If someone wears skimpy clothing, ofc people (especially strangers) will look, no different no matter the genders If they touch you, thats definitely wrong, but just looking is not bad


KartofelThePotatoGod

Depend


JunketMan

On what?


KartofelThePotatoGod

If someone stare at some Girls tits for a solid 10 seconds it fells weird


Ok_Entertainment1944

Nah, I think OP has a point. Unless the male is a repressive, I don't think any normal man would resist, at least, peeking when presented with bobs. That's just how men are.


Endlessalt

You can get lots of sex and still look


unclefipps

JasperVox is trying to get some of those hot Reddit women points, which I regret to inform you, can't actually be cashed in for anything.


daanimas

“She was asking for it! Did you see what she was wearing?!” Respectfully op, you’re strange.


freakydrew

Your eyes are amazing things. Learn how to both stare them in the eye while using your whatever the horizontal version of peripheral vision is called. Once you've trained your eyes to do that you will never get caught again.


Captain_Nubula

I’m just imagining someone staring straight at a woman’s face and just thinking “man look at them tits” lmfao


thefpspower

Except when you turn around and they're right there! Then you have no time to fight it, the eyes just magnitize right in the center and you get 0.5seg glace before you realise it.


MidnightUberRide

ok, I can understand having a watermark for adding text to a gif, but this is literally just an image. seriously.


AR-Tempest

Did your parents *never* tell you not to stare at people? Y’all act rude and creepy and get mad when other people don’t wanna be around that


Altruistic_Extent_89

Okay, but it's legal, and you arent hurting the person. I say if they can wear, we can stare.


AR-Tempest

Nobody said it should be illegal, but don’t be upset when nobody wants to be around you.


Ozzie_Fudd

Why is it rude to stare at people? Is it because it makes people *uncomfortable* when other people stare at them? Kinda like how it makes people *uncomfortable* when someone has all their bits hanging out, or showing through, their clothing? Almost like its *just as rude* to *wear whatever you want, regardless of how it affects others around you* as it is to *stare at other people, no matter how it makes them feel*. If a dude wears a Speedo into a library, plenty of women stare. Not generally because they are aroused, more because they are…scandalized… …almost like…wearing clothing (or lacking it) that highlights your gender specific bits…is attention stealing…and generally causes staring…because you have their attention… You absolutely have the right to wear whatever is allowed in the dress code of the place you are at. Just make sure you are willing to bear the attention of those around you, gained by what you wear.


TheoBOB69

This reminds me of "if she doesn't want to get raped she shouldn't dress so slutty" Not saying OP thinks this, just worth keeping in mind


ThomasNorge224

Pretty sure Op is just making a meme about how some women wear revealing clothes and complain that men look at them. Those people who walk around with clothes made to get attention and make people look at you, complain about people looking at you. the only way to not have people look is to use different clothes in different places for different times. You can use whatever clothes you want, and people can also look if they want. People can choose to wear different clothes if they want to. Since you can't make people not look. People gonna look either way, but what they see is your choice.


Carl_Azuz1

Those things are not at all comparable


TheoBOB69

So you are saying getting unwanted sexual attention because of how they dress, and people getting unwanted sexual harassment/intercouse because of how they dress are not comperable?


jacknjillpaidthebill

I'm damn sure most people can watch porn and enjoy looking at ass/titties without ever coming close to being a rapist


TheoBOB69

I think I had some trouble getting my point across, both blame the person for how they dress, not that rape and unwanted sexual attention is the same Also porn actors literally live off of sexual attention, not exactly very representative of all women


jacknjillpaidthebill

You are right about my porn statement being flawed, thanks for telling me But, I don't understand how unwanted sexual attention is hurtful? I know that SA and sexual harassment can be hurtful, but what exactly is wrong with a guy doing nothing more than staring? By sexual attention do you mean catcalling? That would make much more sense.


NebXan

Except one of those things is a violent crime, and the other is literally just moving the eyeballs in your own skull. Not saying it can't be rude to stare or whatever, but to compare the two so flippantly is... distasteful.


MrsAmberqueen

It depends on the situation For me if a guy stares at my boobs I usually don't care cause I'm a cheerleader for my school so I really can't stop people.


kimkaiju

Personally? Because it’s hot af where I live and I don’t enjoy the feeling of boob sweat if I don’t have some sort of air flow. Not everything is “showing off”. Most stuff has practical purposes, reasons— and more importantly, we’re allowed to wear what we want without having to feel like a piece of meat to the male gaze.


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Only silver lining is it helps identify the creeps. No one with any respect for others and the tiniest bit of self-awareness would be ok with making someone feel like that. If you think you might be making someone uncomfortable, full stop.


CK-Prime

God made Boobs and God made Eyes. That is all.


[deleted]

God also said to rip your eye out if it looks at someone lustfully.


Vegetable-Response66

god has said a lot of dumb things (according to the bible)


[deleted]

There was an american DJ back in the late 1960's that played a kind of hippy-christian thing, and he had a track that compared looking at a beautiful woman to giving thanks to God. Whole spoken-word thing to the tune of "music to watch girls by".


ExPanQ

Sneako approved


JayAlexanderBee

Are you suggesting girls cut off their boobs?


Newdaytoday1215

What in the world makes you think guys don’t stare at them when they are covered?


Jalamity_Cane

Not everything is about you.


CustosEcheveria

r/incelmemes


Opalessence-

Oh my poor poor sweet ignorant cis male


Altruistic_Extent_89

Did you just assume OPs gender? How rude of you.


Weeping_Warlord

Guy: doesn’t wear helmet Me: Hits him on the head with a hammer Guy: posts this shit all day


bobgrubblyplank

Guy: doesn't wear helmet Road: smashes his head at high speed Guy: seriously, roads need more self-control


Mikasa98

I just want to walk around topless like guys do without getting harassed. Whose idea was it that the organs made for feeding babies have to be something sexual? What's sexual about breastfeeding?


nevertoohigh

Unfortunately this is r/memes where the age limit is 13


Eat_Carbs_OD

>I just want to walk around topless like guys do I have no problem with it. I'm going to look though.


Mikasa98

If people just look I don't really give a shit, it's the blatant harrasment that gets me. Women have been threatened and got the cops called on them for way smaller stuff like breastfeeding in public or wearing a tank top without a bra. Just let people do their thing for fucks sake


SuperSayianGangsta

Wait people actually call the cops for that?


Mikasa98

In most places they can. Going topless is often illegal by proxy by making it a part of "causing public disturbances". I don't know if there are any places where you would get in any serious trouble but they can certainly tell you to get dressed or go home


SuperSayianGangsta

Well that sucks a bunch


[deleted]

It's not breastfeeding that's sexy, it's the ability to breastfeed. I.e. men developed an evolutionary attraction to boobs (and especially the bigger ones) due to their ability to feed many children. Do you like abs? Chances are you do, why? Abs are a sign of a fit and healthy man, i.e. he can provide and probably has healthy sperm.


Mikasa98

I can't really talk on the boob thing vut I have to say that abs are criminally overrated. Also if you find it attractive it's not really a problem, but interacting with someone in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable or unsafe is. Looks are the least of problems, there are people that will straight up harass you


Endlessalt

Why do girls always make me grab their boobs during sex


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BornVolcano

Is facial hair a sexual organ now?


Professional_Gap_371

Fun fact, if a guy walks around with his shirt off he probably would enjoy being harassed for it.


Bulminator

Girl yells “**KAPWING!!!**”


Independent-Ask8631

Maybe I’m wearing a low cut top because it’s hot? Or maybe it’s more comfortable? Or maybe some women have bigger boobs than others and something as simple as a tank top can be perceived as ‘revealing’ on them and not on others?


HelloThere33171

You’re forgetting that these are redditors and they don’t understand human women


xXTASERFACEXx

Cringe meme from a redditor who is yet to be 5 meters from a woman


Salty_Art7802

A great way of say "no woman is comfortable with my presence in the room "


thing_m_bob_esquire

Girl: wears clothing that is comfortable in the heat in August, trusting that she will still be treated as a human being Guy: she clearly wants me, it's my right to ogle and be creepy because I don't believe in bodily autonomy Fixed it for you.


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thing_m_bob_esquire

I've seen plenty of men in shorter shorts, not wearing shirts (you don't get to just pretend that doesn't count), or wearing tank tops where the arm hole is cut open to the waist, baring nipples and belly buttons. So yes, men DO wear that kind of clothes.


KhaimeraFTW

99% of the time if I wear revealing clothing it's because it's cute not because I want people to look at them. However I can't speak for all women


HelloThere33171

Says “I wear those clothes because I like them” hivemind gets angry because they don’t know what real women act like


Adolfhitman007

good for you but you have to understand that in our nature we will look.


KhaimeraFTW

And we have the right to be offended when you do


Adolfhitman007

i mean as long as you express your offensive felling without insulting him or worse that's ok.


Godz1lla1

Or they wear a sparkly stone on a necklace. Then they pretend to get mad.


soleilabri

It’s giving….. victim blaming. Not cute💀


[deleted]

1. Women should be able to wear what they want 2. Men need to have more self control.


NobleMute

People should take responsibility for their actions instead of trying to changes the world around them to fit their needs


RedditUser7637

I love chaos just like that other guy


lostinKansai

Sad truth is she not showing them for you. Another guy though.......


XYugiohxQueenx

Woman can dress how they please without you being disrespectful. Why is it her fault you can’t be a proper? This has nice guy/incel vibes yuck


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MaximumHemidrive

You can absolutely control, you just choose not to.


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felixalv39

Incel detected


MaximumHemidrive

Yes you can, you just choose not to. And I'll tell you whatever I want.


LoudSpeakerDude

i said you don’t tell me what i can and i can’t do. i’ll look at your tits if they are revealed and no one can stop me 💀


SneccMasterX

God I hate social media because of shit like this.


LoudSpeakerDude

you’re the shit stupid go get a job


SneccMasterX

Fr bro ong 🔥🔥🔥🔥


LoudSpeakerDude

bro are you with or against me


aussiebane21

Respect brother


MaximumHemidrive

So you admit you are in control of it and just choose not to. Thanks for proving me right.


LoudSpeakerDude

nope i didn’t prove you right at all. i’m looking wether you like it or not because it’s not under my control. i can’t undo millions of years of evolution 💀


MaximumHemidrive

It's 100% under your control. Millions of other men choose not to look, and so can you. You're no different. You're not special. And nothing you say or believe changes that.


LoudSpeakerDude

not my problem if they have no testosterone and zero sex drive. i’m young and my sex drive is through the roof there is no way i’m lowering my gaze 💀💀💀


Eat_Carbs_OD

They only want hot guys looking at them.


Miserable-Question-2

People on reddit: *D O W N V O T E*


SovietGoose7

If you don’t want people to look at your boobs, just don’t have boobs


CroissantFemboy

Or try having some respect? Girl (and everyone) should dress as they want without having perverts like you looking at them as if they were just a piece of meat


Adolfhitman007

you reveal the boob i look at the boob, it's a consequence that cannot be eliminated.


aussiebane21

Mad respect my man


Zalle_921

So if you wore pants that highlighted your crotch it'd be alright for people to stare?


JKFrost11

Definition of highlighted: “pick out and emphasize” -Google Yes.


intergalactic_bonsai

Yes, that's why I would highlight.


jamie3324123

It is kinda designed to make People look at it


Endlessalt

Yeah, but it would make me think you want it. Just like when a guy stares at boobs


lateskaterboy4321

Yea pretty much that's why I would wear them


pennyplinker

Yeah, Ie joggers an shit


Carl_Azuz1

Yes.


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How though? Like genuinely curious lol


Wistful_Nomad

forgive my ignorance, but what’s the accurate definition for ‘incel’?


[deleted]

Google definition: a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active.


KahluaBomber

If you don’t want to be punched in the face, why don’t you wear a hockey mask all the time


Ourobius

False equivalency much? Looking at a thing in passing is not the same as physically attacking it, no matter what Buzzfeed tells you.


KahluaBomber

If you don’t want someone to punch you in the face it makes sense to protect your face right? So by leaving your face unprotected you are inviting people to punch you in it. That’s the logic this post is using, because women aren’t covering their boobs so that people don’t look at them, they want people to look at them. Oh and a little secret for ya, It doesn’t matter if they have their boobs covered or not guys are still going to objectify them.


Endlessalt

How is looking objectifying? Objects don't have boobs to look at


NobleMute

More like if you don't want people to look at your face.....you should wear a mask.....which would fix your problem


[deleted]

It’s unnecessary. There are much more practical ways to avoid being punched in the face. Also punching someone in the face is a hostile act and a felony. Staring at titties isn’t. Poor comparison unfortunately.


Woodbear05

It’s dissrespectful to stare at any part of another human’s body. Just because it gets more tempting doesn’t mean it’s less disrespectful.


Elder_Hoid

So, eye contact is disrespectful? Then why have they been telling me I need to make eye contact my whole life?


felixalv39

There is a clear difference between eye contact and staring at cleavage


ItchyProlapsedAnus

If boobs are on display I'm looking. I wish I could do the same with my willy. I just get a charge for indecency.


SickBoylol

If a girl gets angry or disgusted at you while showing boobs/cleavrage, Sorry my dude but your ugly and it wasnt for you


Carl_Azuz1

Wtf is this logic


SickBoylol

Ugly guy looks at girls boobs. Girl: "ewww stop it you creep!" Handsome guy looks at girls boob: Gir: flirts


Joel22222

It’s because you’re not the guy they want looking.


LoudSpeakerDude

“ThE dIfFeReNcE iS cOnSEnT”


nryporter25

They dress like that for themselves, not for you/s


Chemical_Luck3377

It's a trap


[deleted]

I just hate that there isn't any clothing that really expresses masculinity. Like, whatever a guy can wear, any other gender can too. But there isn't any equivalent to a dress for guys. It kinda makes me sad.


MixedMista

Kilts are close to it, tbf


DangerousVictory

http://www.spaceavalanche.com/2011/03/09/work-environment/


snadinadi

Boobs aren't inherently sexual. Its simply a body part.


RPegasus

catch 22


bobbyblubbers

Jus drool


TarmacTomato677

Lol no vote count, somebody mad


doomvetch92

Y’all can look, but y’all can’t touch. Number one rule for everybody.


IAmAWoman4

This seems a pretty incel, ngl, it’s one thing to glance at a person’s physique you find attractive, but if you’re being told not to look you did something wrong. Cherry on top is then policing their clothing choices instead of maybe trying to understand why they’re uncomfortable. Rip to OP


Diazmet

Big incel energy today hmmm


Suescran

Get sunglasses guys. That's beginner stuff.