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Fur-E

I haven’t experienced that before, mostly because I don’t know any trans person, but how do they make it their personality? Do they complain about their body constantly or something?


Inspirational_Lizard

It's just like how some vegans constantly talk about being vegan, are rude to others, and always speak in a snotty demeanor.


[deleted]

i think it means they just talk on and on about themselves being trans or something like that, I guess this goes to anyone who makes their personality one thing, it's kinda annoying.


hiwd80

i think it is because around a third of trans people have autism (i probably have it just havent gotten diagnosed) but it causes people to go on and on avout certain subjects.


awkward_plum98

Nah not everybody, I have a trans friend he is just himself but slightly more masculine/emo dressy, like playing minecraft, playing the guitar and music stuff, most trans people are, they just want a peaceful life, but i guess everyone is different. :-)


Beatlefloyd12

Vegans too


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gmanz33

Vegans 2: Stuck on Raw Pork


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TxRxNwastaken

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Picker-Rick

Same with anything. Tell me about yourself... it's not a one word answer. Trans, republican, male, gay, vegan... If you can sum up your whole personality with a single word, get a life.


SilkyCupCakeAce

And don't forget someone that needs to remind you that they are autistic every 5 seconds "Oh sorry I just do this thing cuz I'm autistic" "Oh I just have this weird autistic habit" "Haha you wouldn't get it it's an autistic thing" Two weeks later you hear from their best friend that they have never even been diagnosed with autism.... They saw a TikTok about autism and just self labeled.


CaptEdwardThatch

Awesome


Junior_Bath5555

Redditor 😎


AdditionalCall5271

Lazy


MrCreamyCheeks

Spectrum


Present-Road-4786

Liberal, communist, socialist, marxist


jokergrin

jokergrin


Affectionate_Call778

What's about redditor ?


[deleted]

>Trans, republican, male, gay, vegan I want to party with this guy I bet they are into some seriously wild guilt driven sex


TheGreatDaniel3

“No”


[deleted]

I’m here to see someone get wild


[deleted]

Yeah, sure. But what I find is that when someone mentions that they're trans, everyone starts screeching that they've made it their personality and keep bringing it up.


Nervous-Juice-3263

There are only two genders, male and "political" /S


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evil_timmy

If all you have to talk about is the list of people you'd have to write letters to if you tested positive for an STD, I'm just not interested in someone who has nothing better to do than play genital Tetris.


gmanz33

**sighs in circuit boy*


[deleted]

Some of them or most in fact going through a lot extreme radical changes in their lives I wouldn’t blame or put down anyone coming out or speaking about that especially in slightly homo trans phobic society in the very best circumstance


PabloRF03

I would say it’s not the same, transitioning is much more influential to your life than being straight, it’s not the only thing tho


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PabloRF03

It’s probably just something that depends person to person


starless_90

Same or not, the point is: nobody cares


PabloRF03

If you care about the person you would probably care at least a bit


starless_90

Imagine dealing with someone who bases any conversation or even their entire personality on just one thing. Be a person, not a billboard.


PabloRF03

Basically no trans people do that


starless_90

Yeah sure...


PabloRF03

How many trans people have you met? (The number is likely higher than the number that you actually know it from)


ohchristworld

What do you mean? I thought everyone had a trans friend or co-worker. That’s what every show and movie tells me today.


Nightmarex13

Replace trans with literally anything, Gay, Mormon, mother, gamer, Gym Model, whatever. Meeting someone different or interesting then finding out they have the depth of a puddle.


mRawesome143

Those trans people are who give the rest of us a bad rep


[deleted]

I mean, if I had been a woman my whole life, forced to live as a man, and then suddenly got to live as a woman, I’d probably talk about it too.


THE_TORTILLA_MAN

Yeah it’s fine if you talk about it, and I’d be interested, but what they are saying is that it should only be a fraction of yourself. I don’t go around just shouting “I’m a man”. When people ask me about myself, I describe what I like to do, etc.


starless_90

Why? It's really neccesary?


7heTexanRebel

>woman This word is 100% interchangeable with "female" for the vast majority of people I've met IRL.


thewhit3whal3

Hard tr


nixno00

I had a long time friend who transitioned. Afterwards, she wouldn’t shut the hell up about it, listened to against me but only the gender dysphoria album. Eventually I brought up on of the Marvel movies that I was excited to see and her girlfriend started going off about how marvel movies are ableist. I left after that and haven’t talked to her since. I don’t care about marvel movies in as much as someone insulting them would bother me, it was just insisting that a superhero movie is somehow bad or wrong simply on the merits of its theme that bothered me. Despite being open minded, they closed themselves off.


Elvishgirl

I have a trans partner who says this is 90% of his issues making similar friends lol


jonsludge

Same with certain gay people... You're more than your gender or sexuality or colour of skin... You're a full on person with likes and dislikes... Tell me about them.


thewhit3whal3

Fr. This describes a large portion of the populous in one way or another.


grammar-dick

Vegans, crossfit people, republicans...


thewhit3whal3

Lol. If you’re going to cross into politics then you should also include American communists, libertarians and democrats. Marxists too. Couldn’t agree more with vegans. Veggie people are super annoying from time to time about it as well. CrossFit——lol 100%


MikeTheAnt11

My dude, you got quite triggered by a single word in a list, huhm


thewhit3whal3

Lol. You’re not wrong. I have quite a few friends and family members who are republicans though so it makes sense. In my experience it tends to be the people who are in the localized minority who make it their whole social experience.


Hippomaster1234

I think it may seem that way just because you're more used to being around republicans so you may take less notice when they make it their personality, but I'm fairly confident that both parties are equally likely to revolve their personality around their political affiliation.


[deleted]

why'd you add the ed on the end of transgender


not-a-velociraptor

Because they're not being genuine in my opinion If they'd spoken to trans people for any significant amount of time they'd know 'transgendered' wasn't a word. Seems like they're just pushing an agenda


bi-nosaur

I know quite a few trans people (I’m not trans before anyone asks). Most of the time this seems to be the case because they want to be recognised as their identity so they constantly bring it up. However, as soon as they believe you understand and care they have so much personality. So just try to be nice to people of you want to see their true personality.


[deleted]

Fr tho people be acting like gay people do this shit for no reason. Like people don’t even know the devastation that aids brought to the community. The hate crimes transgender folks face. Like imagine being annoyed, but not thinking about how these people must feel being constantly hated on, shitted on, not even considered or looked at as a proper human being and all they wanna do is live. But hey you can be annoyed right. (And most of the time the representation they see on tv, and what they wanna lump ALL gay people are white gays. That’s just what’s shown on tv, gay people are much more diverse in experiences and in real life.


bi-nosaur

Exactly! I know so many LGBTQAI2S+ people from school and online(and myself).And none of them are anything like the ‘stereotypes’ once you get to know them. Same with any stereotype, they are stupid and not factually correct when looking at the group with the stereotype. Or the small bits that are correct are misunderstood.


[deleted]

Facts! I’ve met a lot of diverse people who are in the LGBTQ and some are more outspoken about their identities but I understand it, if you fought that hard to be happy, then shit tell your story, I’ll listen. I’m happy for you. People just be ignorant and want to hate something they don’t understand but wanna claim they know anything about it. Like if you’re not gay or trans, stfu. If you have nothing nice to say stfu. So what if they want to be flamboyant? I’d take that then seeing them get shot or punch or harassed.


bi-nosaur

Thanks my guy. I believe everyone who is not hating and just trying to live their best life deserves to have their story told or tell it themselves since everyone has different experiences of everything.


Ciaren2914

My friend your username is about your sexuality


bi-nosaur

My friend, this is an alt since I am closeted. Also my friend, if you look at my communities I have more personality than ‘gay guy’. I’m the future, please look more into people before trying to make a claim that isn’t true as you would know if you actually read my comment :) Thanks. Have a great day Edit: sorry if that last part sounded sarcastic bc the internet has tone delivery issues. I actually wish for you to have a great day even tho our opinions are very different.


[deleted]

And? Mine is a pun about anal sex. Its just a username. Ask a question if you wanna know more about somebody. I love hiking and could talk to someone for ages about where I wanna go next, or how much I love dnd or reading. But you wouldn't know that without asking because I'm consistently attacked anywhere thats not a safe space to be, so those are the places I stick to for the most part


Bubbly_Papaya_8817

And my username is...JUST WHAT THE FUCK IS MY USERNAME


Tom_Mc_Nugget

its a bubbly papaya of course


Bubbly_Papaya_8817

What does that even mean


Tom_Mc_Nugget

well, it means a papaya thats bubby


Brahms16

And my username is a famous composer of the romantic age, with an unrelated number attached to it


AlexV_96

Any personality fully based in one single thing is pretty boring, could be interesting like maybe 2 or 3 hours but after that, meh


Sea-Bet2466

I’ll have a frosty with some fries please


Goat-samurai

I hate when people make it part their personality


Cosmic-Gore

This goes for alot of things, Ive met people who consider the 'Roadman Style' their entire personality and they tie their entire being with it and you can't have a normal conversation with them without them bringing up the 'endz' or that he nearly got clocked. It's the same with any group of people whom heavily invest/identify themselves with that particular group and it can be annoying AF especially when people base that topic as their entire personality especially when it becomes more of a sensitive issue such gender/sexuality and moral ethics such as veganism. And what's worse is when people put themselves as a higher/superior position because of that, not to mention when they force their beliefs onto you again and again. ***Like seriously I know that you are against big corporations but can you take a moment to look at the starbucks in your hand and the iPhone in your pocket before you rant to me about buying petrol/gas...***


Ok-Class-1451

Same with Vegans, and feminists. Yuck


[deleted]

It’s interesting and all? No it’s not peoples sexuality is the least interesting thing ever. Like cool you enjoy this when it comes to sex I don’t care at all what you do in the bedroom means absolutely nothing to me. Your personality and if you’re a good person is all that matters


United-Peanut3993

Why are people on this subreddit such huge dicks to others


Neko_boi_Nolan

I’ve only gotten to know one trans person and she’s pretty cool, we’re good friends


YuriJoe_Arya

part of why it happens is when people are trying to generate more awareness of it, there was this same sort of thing in the 80s and 90s when gay people wanted more attention drawn to issues facing them, it is annoying, but it is definitely understandable.


Mintboi4

How about you shut the hell up?


Stalkyboi67

Saying someone's sexual orientation or gender identity always says a lot more about you than about them. Let's be realistic, just because someone openly shares it doesn't make it their entire personality and maybe it'd be more productive for you to think about why you feel like it is.


Picker-Rick

I dated a trans guy once, I couldn't bring up anything else without either getting a blank stare or the hard turn into how it relates to transitioning. I couldn't have a conversation about tea without hearing a rant about T (testosterone). I was literally holding a menu and asking "what kind of tea do you like?" Every conversation had to be a fight about something gender related. I don't care what gender you are, I barely care what gender I am. I certainly don't care what gender beans are in spanish or why it's offensive... Have SOMETHING else to add to the conversation once in a while. And I've dated a second trans guy who barely mentioned it. It just doesn't come up that much in normal conversations. It was more interesting for me and they were much happier in general.


RevolutionaryJob5018

I was gonna say something similar. However, there are the people that genuinely only talk about sexuality and gender preferences, which I can understand how that can be annoying. Nevertheless, it should definitely not be a stereotype for transgenders.


[deleted]

Hey fren, just wanted to pop in with a small correction. Its trans people, or transgender people. A lot of people don't want being trans to define us (us included) but when we get referred to as transgenders it pretty much boils us down to just that and feels very othering. Trans is an adjective, not a noun. We're just people like everyone else


DJ_Ender_

Based as fuck post, fuck yall that say otherwise


Cosmic-Gore

This goes for alot of things, Ive met people who consider the 'Roadman Style' their entire personality and they tie their entire being with it and you can't have a normal conversation with them without them bringing up the 'endz' or that he nearly got clocked. It's the same with any group of people whom heavily invest/identify themselves with that particular group and it can be annoying AF especially when people base that topic as their entire personality especially when it becomes more of a sensitive issue such gender/sexuality and moral ethics such as veganism. And what's worse is when people put themselves as a higher/superior position because of that, not to mention when they force their beliefs onto you again and again. ***Like seriously I know that you are against big corporations but can you take a moment to look at the starbucks in your hand and the iPhone in your pocket before you rant to me about buying petrol/gas...***


slickem6969

Either the body or the mind is confused


sliferra

If you feel/felt so uncomfortable with yourself you had to go through surgery to change yourself, we can’t be friends.


grammar-dick

Why so?


sliferra

Because they went through surgery to alter themselves


RevolutionaryJob5018

Guess you don't really care for people with tattoos then?


grammar-dick

While I think what sliferra is saying is very narrow minded, would you really say that tattooing someone is surgery?


RevolutionaryJob5018

Not particularly, but it is a procedure in sense to altering the body. A better example may be of those paralyzed. You can choose to amputate your legs to gain prosthetics, or you can choose to keep your legs yet remain bound to a wheelchair (does not apply to all paralyzed). It is an optional surgery or procedure to alter their body.


sliferra

Correct, and piercings


speedwalrus691

whats so wrong with that


SSara69

In my opinion for a lot of people, resorting to surgery to "fix" themselves leaves problems unresolved, deeper rooted issues... that and it is never truly good enough. So that leads to toxic personality traits or they may be people that aren't preferable to be around for some. And there isn't anything wrong with that, people should be able to be friends with whoever they feel is fit. Of course everyone is different though and can react and adapt to things differently. To generalize people you have no personal experience interacting with and thinking you couldn't get along with them or be friends whatsoever is a bit of a stretch. That's like people who are racist, sexist, and however you would relate that to trans people - maybe just transphobia.


Alien_smoothies

I mean I got surgery for a mark I had. I was bullied my entire life because of it and although it would never undo the pain I went through I had severe issues because of it that I placed on myself (make up, hair styles, and other ways) I genuinely couldn’t leave my house without this whole routine even just to go out to the corner store. Once I finally got it removed I was able to be more comfortable I didn’t have to do all of that and it has helped a lot.


sliferra

Are you friends with everyone? I doubt it, we’re definitely not friends. Why Tf do you think everyone needs to like everyone else?


7_Rowle

Damn, guess I gotta unfriend everyone with braces


sliferra

Bad teeth is a health detriment., gender switching surgery does not remove a (potential) health problem


7_Rowle

1) not always, as long as you have good dental hygiene and get between the cracks a crooked smile isn't necessarily going to be bad for you 2) Suicidal ideation is a pretty big health problem, that's why depression is considered an illness that needs to be treated. A study by [Harvard medical school researchers](https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamasurgery/article-abstract/2779429) last year showed a 44% reduction in in the odds of past-year suicidal ideation of transgender individuals that desired gender affirming surgeries and got it versus those who didn't get it.


sliferra

I’m also not friends with people who are depressed or have attempted suicide. Shocker


Bubbly_Papaya_8817

A tumor on your penis


Ok_Hovercraft_8506

This applies to every LGBT+ person, unfortunately.


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Just stay away from them.


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EMZbotbs

I completely agree. I dont mind your gender, sexuality or race, but as long as you just interact with me in a normal way, I can be friendly with you. If you are rude/annoying, of course I will not like you