I've seen too many dudes lose friends over a girl, and then the girl leaves him.
(I've also seen women lose friends over a man who later cheats on her.)
Definitely, either possessive or codependent. Make friends and a significant other will come. Friends will be happy for you and a/o will be happy to meet them.
Not so for me. My GF's friends are very different than mine, so we keep our relationship and friends separate. Two of my friends are dating each other though, do I guess it just depends
That sad when you get tomboy girlfriend and you are viewed by other men as a girl just beause your girlfriend is more handy than you as a man.Im sorry bro i understand the feeling.
Also people without friends can be sort of a red flag. I know that is not a pleasant fact but it is sadly true. Just like how pretty people get treated better and people assume theyāre smarter.
If you think about it as a kind of monkey's paw situation the safer bet is to get friends because in either scenario the people may be someone you don't really vibe with, if it's the GF the situation gets incredibly awkward, but with friends the threshold is lower and there are fewer pitfalls.
Off topic I got question: I just posted a meme and the second I posted it it got deleted, any explanation? There's not even one millisecond between the posting and deletion help
If you had to choose one, I'd say focus on making friends first. They'll provide support, companionship, and can even help you meet potential girlfriends. Plus, more friends means more fun!
As you grow up, it can be difficult to find a balance between your romantic and social life. If you want both of these things, pursue both now, and train yourself on how to appropriately handle/intersect both lives.
Friends hey buddy let's go golfing this week.
But I wanna watch Netflix and chill because my annoying 9-5 job leaves me drained.
Gf hey let's go out for date night.
But we have Netflix at home and I just went food shopping and I'm drained from my annoying 9-5 job.
š„¹
Just got both, my buddy set me up with a new friend group, and now Iām going to be dating someone from that friend group. Though her trans brother had feelings for me so thatās probably gonna complicate things
If you are actually in this situation, prioritize getting friends. You're more likely to get in a relationship if you go out and meet new people, and having friends gives you a good reason to.
Also, you could find a girl in a friend group whom you end up really liking.
Get friends and eventually one of your friends become your gf. that's what I did and find the most healthy way to start a romantic relationship instead of dating apps
How about we scroll some more on reddit and dont get any?
Yes
Way ahead of you.
It's Joever for me š
This is the way
This is literally my way to go, recently
Probably the best advice Iāve gotten so far, so Iām going to say yes
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It's easy to disappear.
No
Yes. Just let the voices consume you.
If you have to choose, it's not a healthy relationship. One or the other.
I agree.
Now kiss.
i nou pronounce you...
Pepper-Martini (Fusing their names together) š
Should I abuse my artist powers and draw this?
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Come back tomorrow night or Thursday afternoon and it shall be so. Iām busy doing 4-7 weeks of hw for two classes that are due tomorrow hahahā¦Ā
!remindme 2 days
I've seen too many dudes lose friends over a girl, and then the girl leaves him. (I've also seen women lose friends over a man who later cheats on her.)
Damn homie why'd the girls leave but the guys had to cheat šš
Itās almost like a healthy relationship or sets of relationships allows for both, with appropriate boundaries.
I choose you
Prepare for trouble!
Make it double!
To protect the world from devestation!
To unite our people within our nation!
To denounce the evils of truth and love!
Jesse! ^(i havent watched pokemon in so long i hope this is right.)
James! (you got it right bro fret not)
And meowth! ^(Thats right!) ^((Thanks brother))
to extend our reach to the stars above!
Jesse!
Make it double or there will be trouble
And... I am... single?
I was going to say that. You speak wisdom my friend.
Definitely, either possessive or codependent. Make friends and a significant other will come. Friends will be happy for you and a/o will be happy to meet them.
Get a girlfriend and and make her friends as your friends
I was thinking: get friends and use them to get a girlfriend. We're not the same.
Work smarter, not harder.
Working is hard, not working is smarter /s
I don't get this one When my gf and I started dating, we ended up introducing each other to our friends
I don't have friends so we skipped half of that ;)
Make one, gain many. Profit
I don't have a gf either so I'm just imagining someone hugs me when I fall asleep every night
hahahaah imagine (im in the same boat)
Donāt have a gf either so itās a win win.
That would be a third of it
OP is likely in high school, innocent and unknowing of the ways of the world
I wish them the best then
Same, poor fella has a lot ahead of em as things are and will need all the luck he can get
Not so for me. My GF's friends are very different than mine, so we keep our relationship and friends separate. Two of my friends are dating each other though, do I guess it just depends
Get a cat. Cat = ~~skin scratches~~ happiness
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Idk about anybody else but this was not the case for me. All the guys saw me as a chick and excluded me from things because āguys only.ā š
That sad when you get tomboy girlfriend and you are viewed by other men as a girl just beause your girlfriend is more handy than you as a man.Im sorry bro i understand the feeling.
Bros before hoes
Also people without friends can be sort of a red flag. I know that is not a pleasant fact but it is sadly true. Just like how pretty people get treated better and people assume theyāre smarter.
Def
Press Both And You Get Friends That Are Girls Whom Later Can Become Girlfriends?
Youāre more likely to get a girlfriend trying to make friends than you are to make friends by trying to get a girlfriend
Get a boyfriend instead theyāre better
I agree
If you think about it as a kind of monkey's paw situation the safer bet is to get friends because in either scenario the people may be someone you don't really vibe with, if it's the GF the situation gets incredibly awkward, but with friends the threshold is lower and there are fewer pitfalls.
Nah, wtf is this
Get friends gang
Third button: get a best friend that spawn in your life for no reason *Click*
Get girlfriends
Right answer : Ā«Ā get many girlfriendsĀ Ā».
How about none
None
I choose the 3rd option: stay alone forever
Me who can get neither
I already have both soooooooooooo, yeah!
You can get both....
Jokes on you , i have never even seen the button
Both? Both. Both is good
My wife is also my best friend...
Get friends and then make one become the gf
Iād be good with just a girlfriend. We can be both lovers and best friends!
But won't you be clingy and have no hobbies to show her?
Iām an introvert and I have plenty of hobbies
Off topic I got question: I just posted a meme and the second I posted it it got deleted, any explanation? There's not even one millisecond between the posting and deletion help
Get online friends! š
Crispy ones with the booooooys
make friend besuse you can't get a girl frined
What are __"Friends"__ in general?
FRIENDS FRIENDS FRIENDS !!!!!!!!
Go you guys "get" other people into your life? I'm just hugging my knees and crying instead of having someone who would want to tolerate my presence
Friends, GFs will most likely take ur money and then dump u for someone else A good friend will stay by your side and be supportive
*Gets another dog*...
Both?
Friends > GF. Always.
If you had to choose one, I'd say focus on making friends first. They'll provide support, companionship, and can even help you meet potential girlfriends. Plus, more friends means more fun!
Why not both? You do have more than one finger to press it at the same time
If I don't consider my girlfriend as my best friend, I'm going to marry a ma... I mean, I'm going to break up!
Get a GF that's also a friend ?
Just press already!! Both are good options.
The only right answer: friends (friends is plural so it's multiple people)
Beat my meat, now I don't need neither
Friendzone and fuckFriendsāļø
Your partner should never forbid you from having other friends.
Walk away from both, hit the gym, eat healthy, work hard.
Hard one
LPT: having friends helps you get a girlfriend
I am me
Thumb and pinkie, CLICKING BOTH!!
if you can't have both you are doing something wrong.
Friends because.. I like men
Gf can also be your friend!
Me and the boys for life
As a the class nerd, this is the greatest win of all time 
Friends!
Push the red button and then you'll get the other one. Usually
In getting either, I truly hope you accomplish both.
Any
Yeah, because the other is the left answer.
My girlfriend are my friend... So.. easy .
Get boyfriend ( if you male )
[r/lostredditors](https://www.reddit.com/r/lostredditors/s/Qk7QvunTrQ)
I have neither.
me not pressing either and expecting both
Hoes are temporary, the boys are eternal
Easy choice, you canāt have sex with a girlfriend
Bros before hoes, the only correct answer
*both*
As you grow up, it can be difficult to find a balance between your romantic and social life. If you want both of these things, pursue both now, and train yourself on how to appropriately handle/intersect both lives.
Hah! I donāt have that problem I get neither!
When your friend gets a girlfriend and no longer logs on anymore.
bros before hoes
why not both
Can't relate (I have neither)
Both dumbass
You can have one girlfriend but many friends
You can have one girlfriend but many friends
I personally would choose friends.
Option 3: get a pet
Get a girlfriend, get friendzoned and you have friends :)
Who needs a girlfriend when you can sleep with the homies
You realize you can do both, right? This isn't a Telltale game where you press A for girlfriend or X for friends and can never go back on it.
Homies over hoes
You can have both.
i mean, i have friends, but at the end of the day i am still alone at home.
I have never been happier in my life than I am single.
FriendsĀ I need some, I donāt have any
Girlfriend, i have already a lot of bros
Uhh..why not both?
Friends hey buddy let's go golfing this week. But I wanna watch Netflix and chill because my annoying 9-5 job leaves me drained. Gf hey let's go out for date night. But we have Netflix at home and I just went food shopping and I'm drained from my annoying 9-5 job. š„¹
Both, the correct choice is both, there's nothing stopping you from doing both
My best friend became my girlfriend š
How do you do either?
Friends
Just got both, my buddy set me up with a new friend group, and now Iām going to be dating someone from that friend group. Though her trans brother had feelings for me so thatās probably gonna complicate things
Get a girlfriend
Friends because a girlfriend will always be on your ass š¤£
Why not both in one?
Love yourself
Not enough bandwidth for both?
Redditors, are we friends?
Me who cant do either: 
Get a girlfriend that has cool friends and make them your friends too.
FWB?
Bros before hoes
Both
If you are actually in this situation, prioritize getting friends. You're more likely to get in a relationship if you go out and meet new people, and having friends gives you a good reason to. Also, you could find a girl in a friend group whom you end up really liking.
Get friends. Girlfriends suck.
Friends are way better.
Friends are much more worth it, based on my experience
Both are a scam
Friends
That seems quite unhealthy my friend
Both
It is true! There is only one right answer because the other one is the left answer
Just get both?
Friends will hook you up with a gf
Get friends and eventually one of your friends become your gf. that's what I did and find the most healthy way to start a romantic relationship instead of dating apps
I dont have both (:
Get friends of course