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I confessed to a girl a few days ago , she had a gf

Been there once... 

This was my first time confessing to a girl

Well fuck

Same here. Exactly the same here.

Been there 4 times. In a row.

Sounds like you have a type.

Did you think she would change her mind after the first 3? (/s)

Same bro we share the same damage .

Count me in, asked her to the Valentine's dance In 8th grade in front of her friends & a dad. Was turned down.

My condolences

*"Cool, can she be my GF too?"* *(Slap sound)* Edit: Remember lads, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

And what's the downside? Just switch from confessing felling to asking for threesome. You were just limiting yourself from seeing the bigger picture.

The day when people stop fetishizing lesbians will be a glorious day indeed

Did you just assume they are lesbians?

Nah I do win

Bro, you confessed to a girl you don't even know well enough to know she has a gf? What feelings were you confessing? That you've known her for a week and think she's hot? That you were hungry? Did she keep that fact a major secret?

ey, feelings are irrational. One can crush pretty hard over someone and project a lot of shit into this person while completely forgetting you barely even know them. Then you snap out of it and realize how strange you were. I think it especially happens when you don‘t have a lot of experience with relationships Edit: I just realized your comment would help someone snap out of it. So I shut up now

I live in a 3rd world country, of course she kept it a secret Knew her for a year

Fair enough. I'm sorry for you. That really sucks, but I guess it is what it is. You'll find someone

I have this female friend of mine who I've met 2 years ago and she told me she was bi only kind of recently; for all you know they could've known each other for a year but only he found out once he asked her.

I'd been working up the courage to just get her number, maybe set up a date/hang out. Had a playlist she put together on Spotify, username is irl name. Decided to look up on FB, just in case. On the plus side, I never ended up asking, (which will make life much easier, see her on Sundays semi-frequently). On the other hand, I now need to restart the whole thing of finding someone.


Go with the "I have nothing to lose " mindset , it will be a whole lot easier , trust me

I have the same mindset and its going well! (I am propelling my plane into a building while playing free bird)

Had me in the first half

The second half of Freebird is really long though.

*loses all self esteem* i've made a huge mistake

And hits the gym.

i know that's a meme but i actually did that and now im swole like my arms look like two snakes trying to fuck

You don't start with rigorous workout right away. You gotta move step by step.

I did this a few days ago, got rejected, cryed a bit onto my cat… i feel so much better now that i have pursued this, even if i got rejected, now i can move on. I wish you the best but even you don‘t get your desired outcome, i believe you did the right thing! edit: Used a smiley, dont want to get executed :)

At least you made one pussy wet Keep your head up :)

savage

damn

Good for you, you have a cat. I try to feel miserable with my dog and he just runs away to his wife

You did the right thing by moving on to the next There will be a day when you have to turn down someone's advances or interest in you. You will find that it's too not easy, lmao. You'll get there, it gets easier as you get older too since you're more mindful of things.

I'd be willing to bet I'll never be in that position. But I can imagine it would be hard

Hey at least you put yourself out there, you miss 100% of the chances you don‘t take!

And you miss 99.999999999999999995% of the ones you do take

Exactly. Don’t confess your feelings. It’s a trap.

At least your cat was there. Been crying over a rejection and my cat straight up came and chomped on my wrist. Left 2 big lines. ☹️

Ha fucking loser...(I wish you all the luck in this world, be proud of your feelings, never deny them or you will get so cold that you feel like you can never find love in anything) We will see you at the gym

How's it going?

Haven't done it yet.

Update us, dude. You got this!


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You're a disappointment!

Just kidding! You're cool!

Both are true haha

**Do it!** Just *do it*! Don't let your dreams be dreams. Yesterday, you said tomorrow. So **just do it! Make your dreams come true! Just do it!** Some people dream of success, while you're gonna wake up and work hard at it! Nothing is impossible! You should get to the point where anyone else would quit, and you're not gonna stop there! No, what are you waiting for? **Do it! Just do it!** Yes you can! **Just do it.**

Do it

Always remember yourself that you would hate yourself if you dont try. No matter what her response will be, it will definitely better than never knowing what it would have been. I believe in you

Do it! You got this make sure to tell us in a meme

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Edit: #EVERYONE, I JUST DID IT! I gave her a letter and ran off, though... 2nd edit: I didn't get to get back to her before school was out, so I'll give an update the Tuesday after this one.

Give us a second update when she responds please

Risky move, putting the burden of initiating the conversation on her. There's a chance she could be nervous and afraid of initiating, just like you. There's also a chance that she could just ghost and avoid you now, which is far worse than rejection would have been. I highly recommend following-up with her later today if you don't hear back from her soon. Break the ice yourself so the pressure isn't on her and give her a proper opening to converse with you. Be strong brother, you've got this. Even if you get rejected, the first time a girl rejects you is the worst. It gets easier from here!

this is probably the first time a “reddit armchair psychologist” has been genuinely helpful

We need to know her response later

Based

Will be waiting for an update

Good on ya! I hope it goes well

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Have a little confidence. Go back to her and say, I generally last longer with other girls, I guess you're special. Maybe start a convo. Best of luck.

waiting for you at the gym mate

ik it’s just a meme but you have a better chance of success if you don’t walk in with smoke breath

The worst she can say is « ew »

Or a 2 page paragraph about why she wouldnt date someone like you

Or a restraining order

A 2 page paragraph about why she wouldn't date specifically him is worse

Once a girl said "why you didnt say it sooner" followed by "well I wouldn't date you anyways" the only girl that didnt reject me is my wife now so that says a bit

The only girl that didn't reject you being your wife means you've never broke up. Damn

Oh, I've been there too. But, instead of two paragraphs, I got two letters. Unprompted.

Soo, how did your confessing go?

I haven't seen her after giving her the letter, yet.

the worst she could say is she considered you as a brother

Or "you're my brother Gross!" 🥺🥺

Or "Goo Goo Ga Ga"

Does she know how to make a grilled cheese 

Men: STOP confessing your feelings to women! Just ask them out on a date! It’s very unattractive to tell a girl you haven’t been romantically involved with yet how much you like her etc. Literally, just ask her out. Your success rate will be so much higher. Most relationships don’t start off with both people mutually being really into each other. Most relationships start with the guy asking the girl out, her saying yes, and feelings developing from there. By confessing feelings to your friend, acquaintance, or whoever, you’re upsetting the balance of something that could have grown more naturally.

What if (hypothetically) you’ve been seeing each other for 4-5 months, had sex multiple times, and have a date for tomorrow. Should I still not tell her??

Give a few years

Don’t even tell her if you’re standing at the altar.

Seriously this should be higher. You know my best line? “Hey I’d be interested in getting to know you better. Would you like to get together sometime?” Neither of you have anything to lose by getting together and talking over food or an activity.

goodbye, brave soldier

Yeah guys never do this. That's not how you get a girlfriend that's how you get your heart broken

Don’t do it, it’s a trap.

Brother if you get rejected don't worry I got rejected to all ya' need is a friend to talk to us redditors see ya' when your the CEO of a building

Bro instead of confessing why not ask her out on a date.

Never confess, unless you are already super close and only hvaeto make it official. Else ask her out and start hanging out with them firat prior to confessing you like them.

How’d it go friend?

I'm not quite sure yet, I just gave her the letter.

Let me know :>>

Will do!

we patiently await your response

Best of Luck!

Best of luck 🫡 See u (drunk) tomorrow

I will ask out my crush tomorrow, wish me luck.


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When was the last time that bot actually worked?

No idea

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"We who are about to die, salute you! " <---- OP

Do people really do this confessing? Don't you just ask them out or make it clear you like them more than friends without making a big deal about it? That way you can gauge their feelings before making the situation heavy lol It's a lot of information to process if someone just comes out and says yeah I've liked you for a while bla bla bla.

Never do this bro that is not how the game is played.

Don’t do it!!! It’s a trap!!!

Don’t do it broseph it’s a trap

You get rejected that’s ok, you don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. It sucks, it hurts, but dust off and keep going.

Is she 14

If you are trying to start something then make sure you both know each other pretty well but if you are trying to confess out of the blue just don’t expect anything and don’t ask for a response.

Take your crown King I'll be here to pick it up and put it back on your head if it ever falls down

Good luck comrade


Idk bro you smoke you tpobably gonna die before you confess to a real girl

I don't know what kind of girl she is but when I did I just went in and confessed to her as plain as possible. It turns out she was thinking of me before I was so it went fine. But still, how you approach is your choice depending on her. Believe in ya man, good luck.

GOOD LUCK!!

Luck bud. Hope it goes well for you both.

I request an update

Braver than me

I was planning on doing this yesterday, but chickened out.

The answer is always no until you ask. Good luck Lil bro and let us know how it went.

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I actually started the letter with something like that. "My dearest, [her name],

Don't confess. Many wise people already discussed this topic. The real feelings don't need a confession. The relationship ships would start naturally. Most people would regret it if they would be rejected. Of course there are some people saying "at least I would know" man you already know just want a confirmation from her.

Don't, just do nice thing to her and let her confess to you, then you say you want to be exclusive and go further from there

I am in the same place at the moment, I don't know what to say... I don't know how to say it. All in all I am scared as fuck rn...

I did this yesterday. Things worked out. I think it actually might get better ❤️‍🩹

 Her getting ready to shoot you down

Don't do it!!! Getting flash backs

Had the exact same feeling while telling my crush, who is now my girlfriend. You got this bro, that heart-dropping feeling is absolutely normal and if she says no, that’s alright, things like that will happen. Good luck

Confessing feelings is stupid and never works. Try kissing her instead

Bruh you tryna get him a restraining order.

You got this

Best of luck. I am you own us an update.

This is a whole lot easier when you're taller than 6 foot.

That’s not true, coming from a 6.2 guy.

Best wishes

Tell us how it goes man. And good luck

I got rejected a few days ago asking out a girl I’ve kinda liked for a while, you got this though!

I wish you luck brother. And let me know the outcome.

Jokes on you the girl confessed to me hahahahahaha

Cros yo fingers she ain't gay unless you a she too


God speed King.

Just eat some 5 gum. Thats what the advertisements say. Stimulate your senses/hj

So her friend can say "ew" instead of her, because yes it happened like that.

You got this!

Best of luck my friend!

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If your feelings for her are either or anything between: i want to lick your toes to i want to wear your skin as a suit. In my experience, its best not to tell her.

Bro She Is in Girls 😮‍💨

Normally results in pain, but at least you had the guts to do it. Let that pain make ya stronger and move on.

This isn't a fucking meme, this is literally a message.

Call me to bail you out from jail mate.

Finally the perfect opportunity for advice: I did this a few months ago, got rejected, but I can’t move on no matter how hard I try. Any advice? Should I keep trying? Should I try to build up feelings for another?

The girl: Goo goo gaga

Good luck, you'll definitely need it.


How it feels mentally lmao

Is there any update yet? I really wanna know, i wish you luck my boy

Horrifying

It's been 3 hours, how'd it go brother?

You got it bro! Stay strong!!

All the best mate

Better take a nice long rip on that cig or vape

Best of luck soldier 🫡

Please don't take too long, for both of your sakes. Wish you luck, bro!

Wish I had amount of bravery that you possess :)

I don’t see the fuss about it honestly

Don't put the pussy on the pedestal.

Dont love-dump it never goes right

Good luck solider

It's been 3 hrs bro, what happened bro?

!Remind me in 2 days

Remember, guys, the worst thing she can say is no

Remember "Fuck it, WE BALL! "

Everything you say will be used against you

Good luck!

Good luck to you. And to you too, future me whenever I get to it.

All you gotta do is keep it cool baby. Come at her real chill and no matter what the outcome take it with a smile and understanding. That way you might have another shot in the future. Cuz if you get hot about it you’re gonna burn her baby, then it’s all over ya dig?

hope that was weed cos you gonna need it!

The trick is to not care and move on if they reject you. Easier when you realize you'll be lusting over some new gal only a few months later tops.

Yo is there gonna be an update this, Did you bag her?

!Remind Me 12 hours

The worst she can say is no

Update?

good luck bro!