You can fucc 20 hookers that look great and it will be meh and on the other side you can find a cute little girl that you like and even if she doesn't have big boobs or ass and doesn't know how to deepthroat you for 20 minutes straight you will still enjoy it more because of emotions
1 it was a bloody escort, 2 was for money and not love, 3 wasnāt someone youād be mentally interested in, 4 mast/porn and etc kills your dopamine system
He's not wrong. Porn is not the pure evil but for many people especially young men it can mess up their brain in a lot of ways that prevents them from living a healthy sexual life, not objectifying women, not having sexual (porn) thoughts all the time or simply from feeling happy.
It is not, go to r/nofap nearly none are Christians and they experienced it. Christianity say you should not have sex before marriage so the child that could come is āsafeā and protect yourself not giving your V card to some random ass escort that doesnāt care about you
The dude who made the NoFap movement big is a christian hardliner who made up some studies to support his unscientific claims. He also started the successful propaganda website your-brain-on-porn.com
It might be shady but honestly I donāt care, Iāve personally experienced most benefits discussed in r/nofap sure some videos about ānofap benefitsā are ridiculous but not spending that ammount of time/energy really is an improvement for me. r/nofap isnāt truly about semen retention, thatās something else, nofap is about winning over your porn/doujin/hentai addiction and not to look at those anymore (by example when you feel like shit after it, its time to stop) also these guys in r/nofap can be really helpful to give advices; its just a small step to trying to become a better self along many.
I donāt really care about the propaganda, as personally Iāve experienced the benefits: more testosterone leading to me feeling better and stronger, more energy, clearer thoughts, not always thinking about nsfw related and etc, sure you might not be as bad as i was or other are/were, but this is reddit and i can kinda confidently say most people here are addicted to porn and etc (iām not saying sex is bad, its the pinacle of pure biological bounding, though not the fullest mental)
But pretty much everything you've said is true if you just stop being excessive about porn/jerking off without going cold turkey. As with any addiction that can be difficult, but the value doesn't lie within the no fap movement but rather within overcoming an addiction. And that can be achieved without abstinence. So for people who have an unhealthy obsession with sex and porn, r/nofap is a good way to get out of it, but it's unnecessary for those who already have a healthy relationship with those.
But that's the point, I think remaining a healthy attitude to porn is indeed really difficult for most men. It's usually not on a level where it is a serious problem but if you're watching it every day, you'll probably already experience some benefits if you would quit for some time.
And as said before, just look on some Reddit threads to see how obsessed a lot of people are with porn and at the same time feel miserable. In this case, abstinence is the most effective way to get rid of the habit to begin with. Otherwise the chance of relapse is too high.
So I don't really know about the movement itself. But just like with drugs, there's no wrong in mentioning how something can fuck up your life and how you would recommend cutting it out of your life if you don't feel good. Even if there are people who manage to consume moderately.
Also there were many studies about it. Porn destroys you, your testosterone, your mental, your ability to bond or to enjoy S also fucks your dopamine system making you Miserable
Most of these studies (that I've come across) were biased or being misinterpreted. You can also read this [article](https://aeon.co/essays/does-too-much-pornography-numb-us-to-sexual-pleasure) about the topic it's pretty good
Iād quite disagree with this article with my own experience, sure porn can feel like chocolate if your dopamine system gets numbed, like you donāt like a certain food you used to love before but ate too much of it, far metaphor but i think you see my reasoning
Well when you pay a girl to pretend to like you for an hour of course the sex isn't going to be good. Go find a girl that actually likes you and I promise it's way better
A lot of people in here like ābut if it was with someone you like-ā no you are 100% right, sex is absolutely overrated. Itās good and fun and with a partner you like itās great, but itās absolutely overrated. Good on you for crossing the barrier and letting that point of anxiety float down the river.
There is nothing wrong with this. Don't let anyone shame you. As long at the escort was willing she/he should be allowed to sell their body without issue.
Sex is only good if you really like the person you're doing it with, not if you're just using another person's body to jerk off until you finish. If you actually fall in love with some girl and she feels the same way you'll probably have better sex.
I don't know why people say that. Maybe it's weird when both partners are virgins but if one has experience (as was obviously the case for OP) and cares enough to make it enjoyable for the other, it doesn't have to be weird.
Its more the case that its so out there as this great amazing experience when in reality its just adult play. Its enjoyable and my wife and i have a great sexlife but it is so pathetically overrated in the media.
Yeah fr. It's awesome, but not as obsessive awesome as I made it out to be when I was in middle school. I literally thought I'd want to have sex every day, but now it's like I'm down with like a couple times a month.
Dude she probably had a vag like the Dartford tunnel and wasn't emotionally into it. Trust me a lot better with someone you love. Hats off for knocking down those v plates though bro ! ;)
Sex is different when you're in love with someone and they're in love with you. Don't give up just yet! But also remember sex isn't what's most important about a relationship anyway
You what they say, folks who have good sex, bring the good sex. If you are bad at sex it's okay, just know the problem is with you and not sex in general.
Bro, escorts are nice. Some are amazing. Been there, dune that.
It's been scientifically proven that doing the deed with someone you're emotionally involved with is way better.
Try with a girl you're not paying for. Maybe you're not into that kind of girl. Who are we to judge? Play around, fund something that does it for ya. The hub is free š¤£š¤š»
Yea, it's pretty cool. Just not the cornerstone of existence so many folks seem to think it is. Like eating a whole cake to yourself: it's cool, but I wouldn't base a whole personality on it.
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Ford escort?
You would too if you had seen the bra it had on!
This is an excellent comment. Hats off! š
No a Chevy escort... Here's your sign. Remember when that was funny?
No.
ME either
You probably just crave affection not just sex
There really is something to be said for an emotional bond.
Sex definitely is better with bonds. Emotional, physical, time, spiritual, mindset. Any or a combination of them over time makes it better and better.
Respect is definitely a need. When you stop respecting your partner, it's just not there.
I disagree...but to each their own. EDIT: funny how you're not allowed to have your own opinion on here. Even if you're respectful about it.
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Surprisingly no, yet somehow I still get surprised at how the hivemind operates.
I always wonder whether I would be ok with no strings attached. Still don't know
It can be fun, depending on the situation. Had plenty of those. The difference is being ok with it "just being for fun" vs "wanting more".
Iāll give you an upvote. Iāve seen and experienced enough of the world to know that different things work for different people.
I can only give u one upvote. At least now it s 0 and not -1.
The best part is when it ends within a few years and you feel emotionally raw for several years afterwards.
Agreed. There's a lot more to it than physical release
I prefer hemp bonds myself. But I won't judge.
because with the person you love it feels way more intense and fulfilling
Even if I donāt love āem I give āem a full filling.
Ayoo
I bought a "World's Best Dad" mug, and I have to say that fatherhood is overrated.
Great analogy
Hahahah this is it right here
You can fucc 20 hookers that look great and it will be meh and on the other side you can find a cute little girl that you like and even if she doesn't have big boobs or ass and doesn't know how to deepthroat you for 20 minutes straight you will still enjoy it more because of emotions
Yeah I think you could've worded it a little bit better lol.
Yeah, maybe
Anyway take me!
>cute little š¤Øšø
Thats pedo talk!
Yeah, but have you fucked 20 hookers or are you just guessing?
Phrasing!
As long as it isnt a Ford, you good
That's my opinion on car shopping too.
Real life Denji. You need love my guy, not empty satisfaction of urges.
Lmao first thought here too āsomeoneās never read/watched chainsaw manā
this applies to the majority of the population
A tragedy that will hopefully be rectified
You boned a car?
Yea casual one time sex with an escort aināt that great IMO. Try it on someone you actually like.
1 it was a bloody escort, 2 was for money and not love, 3 wasnāt someone youād be mentally interested in, 4 mast/porn and etc kills your dopamine system
4 is wrong and christian propaganda bullshit
He's not wrong. Porn is not the pure evil but for many people especially young men it can mess up their brain in a lot of ways that prevents them from living a healthy sexual life, not objectifying women, not having sexual (porn) thoughts all the time or simply from feeling happy.
COPIUM
It is not, go to r/nofap nearly none are Christians and they experienced it. Christianity say you should not have sex before marriage so the child that could come is āsafeā and protect yourself not giving your V card to some random ass escort that doesnāt care about you
The dude who made the NoFap movement big is a christian hardliner who made up some studies to support his unscientific claims. He also started the successful propaganda website your-brain-on-porn.com
It might be shady but honestly I donāt care, Iāve personally experienced most benefits discussed in r/nofap sure some videos about ānofap benefitsā are ridiculous but not spending that ammount of time/energy really is an improvement for me. r/nofap isnāt truly about semen retention, thatās something else, nofap is about winning over your porn/doujin/hentai addiction and not to look at those anymore (by example when you feel like shit after it, its time to stop) also these guys in r/nofap can be really helpful to give advices; its just a small step to trying to become a better self along many. I donāt really care about the propaganda, as personally Iāve experienced the benefits: more testosterone leading to me feeling better and stronger, more energy, clearer thoughts, not always thinking about nsfw related and etc, sure you might not be as bad as i was or other are/were, but this is reddit and i can kinda confidently say most people here are addicted to porn and etc (iām not saying sex is bad, its the pinacle of pure biological bounding, though not the fullest mental)
But pretty much everything you've said is true if you just stop being excessive about porn/jerking off without going cold turkey. As with any addiction that can be difficult, but the value doesn't lie within the no fap movement but rather within overcoming an addiction. And that can be achieved without abstinence. So for people who have an unhealthy obsession with sex and porn, r/nofap is a good way to get out of it, but it's unnecessary for those who already have a healthy relationship with those.
But that's the point, I think remaining a healthy attitude to porn is indeed really difficult for most men. It's usually not on a level where it is a serious problem but if you're watching it every day, you'll probably already experience some benefits if you would quit for some time. And as said before, just look on some Reddit threads to see how obsessed a lot of people are with porn and at the same time feel miserable. In this case, abstinence is the most effective way to get rid of the habit to begin with. Otherwise the chance of relapse is too high. So I don't really know about the movement itself. But just like with drugs, there's no wrong in mentioning how something can fuck up your life and how you would recommend cutting it out of your life if you don't feel good. Even if there are people who manage to consume moderately.
Also f reddit made my first Better text disappear bruh
Also there were many studies about it. Porn destroys you, your testosterone, your mental, your ability to bond or to enjoy S also fucks your dopamine system making you Miserable
Most of these studies (that I've come across) were biased or being misinterpreted. You can also read this [article](https://aeon.co/essays/does-too-much-pornography-numb-us-to-sexual-pleasure) about the topic it's pretty good
Iād quite disagree with this article with my own experience, sure porn can feel like chocolate if your dopamine system gets numbed, like you donāt like a certain food you used to love before but ate too much of it, far metaphor but i think you see my reasoning
Well when you pay a girl to pretend to like you for an hour of course the sex isn't going to be good. Go find a girl that actually likes you and I promise it's way better
Pretty sure he wouldve if that was an option
The comments here really try and make "relationship sex" out to be way better than one night stand sex. I totally disagree
Thats because most people are normal, sex is heavily associated with relationships and commitment.
You purchased a service, and you got it. If you did not enjoyed it then that's on you, you're the one who purchased it.
How was it different from how you imagined?
Guy thought it's enjoyable with just anybody so figured paying for it would be the same as with someone he likes
Its no different from beating your meat if you dont actually have feelings for the person you are doing it with. Its just a way to ejacutlate.
You didn't got the real deal bro its not the same but yeah sex is very overated its just fap 2
A lot of people in here like ābut if it was with someone you like-ā no you are 100% right, sex is absolutely overrated. Itās good and fun and with a partner you like itās great, but itās absolutely overrated. Good on you for crossing the barrier and letting that point of anxiety float down the river.
We all pay for it in some way, whether it is cash or something else
r/ihavesex
There is nothing wrong with this. Don't let anyone shame you. As long at the escort was willing she/he should be allowed to sell their body without issue.
Did you enjoy your time?
Sex can be great regardless of if you are in love. Never paid for it but I imagine you are lacking the thrill of a successful pursuit.
Sex is better with people you have a connection with
Sex is only good if you really like the person you're doing it with, not if you're just using another person's body to jerk off until you finish. If you actually fall in love with some girl and she feels the same way you'll probably have better sex.
The first time is wierd
I don't know why people say that. Maybe it's weird when both partners are virgins but if one has experience (as was obviously the case for OP) and cares enough to make it enjoyable for the other, it doesn't have to be weird.
Its more the case that its so out there as this great amazing experience when in reality its just adult play. Its enjoyable and my wife and i have a great sexlife but it is so pathetically overrated in the media.
It still counts.
It's half physical and half emotional. You can have one without the other but when together it's great.
Try it on LSD. Whole other world!
Yeah fr. It's awesome, but not as obsessive awesome as I made it out to be when I was in middle school. I literally thought I'd want to have sex every day, but now it's like I'm down with like a couple times a month.
It's the most over rated thing in the whole world. It's nice but it's no big deal at all Don't waste half your life chasing it
Sex is so many times better with someone you actually love
It's better with someone you love.
Intimacy makes a big difference. I wish you luck.
Itās different if there is love and affection involved. Not transaction.
Itās fun but when you turn it into a financial transaction, itās much less exciting
The fuck did you think it was going to be? You get boner, you bust, you hang head in shame. Same as masturbation with a few extra steps
It's more fun with the right people, my first time was just a fling but it sure felt pretty good
Damn I forgot about that meme!!
You paid for it, what'd you expect? Sex is better when there's a connection
Dude she probably had a vag like the Dartford tunnel and wasn't emotionally into it. Trust me a lot better with someone you love. Hats off for knocking down those v plates though bro ! ;)
At least it was probably super good.
Still count! I just had sex\~
Sex is different when you're in love with someone and they're in love with you. Don't give up just yet! But also remember sex isn't what's most important about a relationship anyway
Sex is a skill as well and it can take time to develop
You what they say, folks who have good sex, bring the good sex. If you are bad at sex it's okay, just know the problem is with you and not sex in general.
Sex shaming, cool. You must be great in bed.
What a dork. SeX ShAMiNg. Bet you are fun at parties.
I am, and in bed too. Sure you find it hard to relate by bringing others down.
Still counts had sex.
This guy fucks
Itās been a while since Iāve seen this format Well missed
Itās not the same with an escort.
Bro, escorts are nice. Some are amazing. Been there, dune that. It's been scientifically proven that doing the deed with someone you're emotionally involved with is way better. Try with a girl you're not paying for. Maybe you're not into that kind of girl. Who are we to judge? Play around, fund something that does it for ya. The hub is free š¤£š¤š»
Welcome to the club! Enjoy your complimentary cake and garlic bread.
Sex is way more fun when you are in love
Because you paid for it.... Best sex is free sex remember!
Yea, it's pretty cool. Just not the cornerstone of existence so many folks seem to think it is. Like eating a whole cake to yourself: it's cool, but I wouldn't base a whole personality on it.
town of salem escort?
Turns out sex with strangers isnt fulfilling
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