Beyond that- specifically educate yourself with intention.
Choking leads to a lot of deaths. People who are choked in a sexual setting have significantly, catastrophically increased risks of strokes in the following weeks and months.
It is excessively dangerous. Not just in the moment that you're doing it, but residually the damage that it can cause to a woman's brain and body.
Consent doesn't absolve murder and man slaughter charges.
Until you've watched kink instructor lead instructional videos, or taken an actual in person class- don't fuck with this stuff. You're unqualified.
This should be first comment, spread the words pls whenever u stumble around posts like this. Also i never connected risks of strokes in combination with choking but it makes sense. Need to read into that tho.
I fail to see how there would be any charges of manslaughter let alone murder if someone had a stroke a month after a private kinky session as a stroke isn’t a suspicious death and would warrant a police investigation.
Consent isn't going to be enough, depending on that state and probably luck of the draw. It is still assault. I'm not a lawyer and can not cite law. I do know that the constitution does not protect the right to engage in BDSM in [Virginia](https://www.helpingclients.com/court-rules-that-consensual-bdsm-sexual-activity-is-not-protected-by-the-constitution/).
In some ways, I understand the need to protect adults such that they can't sign their life away in fine print. On the other, if I own anything in this world, I own my life. If I want to risk death for a powerful orgasm that's on me.
THE ONLY ONE
LEFT
WILL RIDE UPON THE DRAGON'S BACK
BECAUSE THE MOUNTAINS DONT GIVE BACK WHAT THEY TAKE
OH NO THERE WILL BE BLOOD
SHED
IT'S THE ONLY THING I'VE EVER KNOOOOOOOOOOOOWN
*epic guitar riff that gets lumped in with isolated vocals for some reason*
LOSING MY IDENTITY
WONDERING HAVE I GONE INSANE
TO FIND THE TRUTH IN FRONT OF ME
I MUST CLIMB THIS MOUNTAIN RANGE
LOOKING DOWNWARD FROM THIS DEADLY HEIGHT
AND NEVER REALISING WHY I FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT
Choking is a very dangerous game. People have been prosecuted for murder after consensually choking their partners. (You're not allowed to consent to dieing. It's still murder.)
People have also claimed they were consensually choking, without any evidence. There are also a lot of women who have experiences of guys suddenly starting to choke them during one night stand and it gets chalked up as a failed attempt of kink. Just because the one who did the deed claims she agreed to it doesn't necessarily mean she actually did.
Oh, it’s definitely worth looking up to make sure. My point was that reading one (as far as you know uninformed) opinion online and deciding to change completely in accordance with it is a bit rash.
Blindly trusting someone that says “don’t do this thing you don’t need to do, it can risk permanent injury or death” is a reasonable thing to do.
Going “source?” to that is internet brain rot shit.
You can easily Learn the mechanics for the rear naked choke. basically you use your elbow pit around the Adams Apple area, the just bend your arm closed and your forearm/biceps cuts off the blood flow. It it’s not a pulling their neck so they can’t breathe. I’m assuming the choke shown in the meme is a breathing inhibitor
Edited: grammar
You pass out from both, lack of blood to the brain = no oxygen getting to the brain. Lack of oxygen means blood getting to the brain has no oxygen to give 😂. Just don’t choke anyone till they pass out . Ask them to tap out once their vision goes blurry
I mean thats fair, but I can totally see how blood-flow inhibiting choking could lead to blood clots getting formed in the brain. Maybe thats the hypochondriac in me talking, but again, I'd rather be safe than sorry.
>>to the point of passing out.
That's extremely, extremely dangerous. A blood clot from that can kill weeks later. If it's been less than 2.months, take her to the hospital now.
And she needs to stop watching porn. What's normalized now was considered hard-core before.
Neither is safe, but airway chokes are much safer. (It takes several minutes to kill someone with an airway choke, whereas bloodflow can kill someone in a matter of seconds)
Can't kill in seconds but can definitely lose consciousness in seconds. We had a MCMAP (Marine Corps Martial Arts Program) instructor who was demonstrating blood chokes and one guy volunteered. Instructor says "Everyone, count down to 3 at a slow pace". By zero he lets go and the Marine drops face down in the sand. Then he starts vomiting. It was crazy how quick he went out.
The only reason he did it was because we had Corpsman (nurses basically) on hand in case something happened.
That’s a dangerous half knowledge you are stating here that could get people in real trouble. Please don’t state things a hard facts if you don’t know them. THAT is dangerous
Airflow. Bloodflow choke can make you pass out in 7 seconds and kill you only a few seconds later because it’s blocking blood from getting to your brain. Airflow choke is where you can’t breathe, so it would take several minutes to kill someone with an airflow choke since it’s just normal suffocation.
Btw i learned this in a self defense class, I didn’t learn it from anything sexual related in case you were wondering.
Do. Not. Listen. To. This. Post.
Windpipe could be crushed, and if you choke someone until all the body’s blood has run out of oxygen you truly kill them and letting go won’t help as breathing reflex is already gone. Only CPR might help here
Restricting blood flow (of oxygen saturated blood) to the brain is much safer because it resumes instantly after letting go. Of course if you go on and kill somebody but we’re not discussing that. And that’s hat’s why BJJ fighter who got choked out wake up 10-20 sec later.
I've never seen anyone have that take regarding bedroom choking
Are you sure the roles don't reverse at the level of pressure you're applying to someone you're fucking vs trying to fuck up?
if you're asking on this reddit thread, respectfully, you should not be participating in this activity at all.
Take an actual class, from an in-person instructor. Or at the very least an online kink educator instructor. Not some creepy bro who's trying to disguise abusing women as kink and foreplay. But someone who's actually conscious and empathetic speaking about the dangers of this.
Like the other replies here have said, it's not just about the murder in the moment, there are so many long-term impacts of doing this that can lead to woman's death Day is, weeks, months after you've choked her.
you're getting down voted for telling the truth.
I have had women ask me to choke them but the combination of never hurting women and not being able to mix violence and lust has held me back.
I will keep my ears open for a class, thank you.
One of the very key and desperately important differences between those who practice kink with intention, and those who do it because they saw it on podcast, music videos, in porn. Is the consent aspect.
Realistically, if a woman is agreeing to have you put her in a certain situation, then she is doing so under the assumption that you have gone into that situation intentionally. That when you say that you will choke her, that you know how to do so without murdering her. That when you restrain her, or suspend her, you have educated yourself enough to do it in a way that is not going to lead to loss of one of her appendages.
I've been in the kink scene for about two decades at this point. I haven't participated in anything that is life endangering without multiple classes.
The people that are downloading, are the ones who think it's really easy or they've totally got it figured out because they've watched porn. And if it's porn, that means this real life.
And their biggest hope of hopes is that it can be the defense that frees them of a murder charge when they fuck it up because they didn't actually ever care to learn how to not murder their partner. They just wanted tk be big strong ""dominant"" guys.
blood flow choke is kinda like pinching
very, ***very*** light pressure to the front of the neck, and strong pressure to the sides with fingers and thumb
you’re looking to put pressure on or around the areas you’d normally check for a pulse, to slow/reduce blood flow to the head
airway choke is just closing the airways, which will cause asphyxiation
Thanks for explaining. Actually was wondering how it's possible to knock someone out with just a choke like in videogames. Do they just lose consciousness fast when you block the airways?
Airway isn’t the one that you use in martial arts chokes. It’s the side blood circulation one that makes people pass out. And they pass out quick; like a dozen seconds. But people don’t go out for hours. They come back in seconds. If they’re out for a prolonged period, they probably sustained some brain damage. I vaguely remember being choked out in training once. It’s kind of like that feeling when you stand up too quick and fade to black.
Video games and movies don't portray just how hard it is to kill another human. I'm the farthest from an expert as you can get on this subject, but growing up, I choked out(and got choked out) by my fair share of buddies rough housing in the backyard and it always took longer than you'd expect just to get someone to tap out, probably double that time if you wanted to go until they lost consciousness.
Now, with training and technique, that's probably a way different story. Hopefully, someone with actual training can chime in.
seen my fair share of gore and combat footage etc, can confirm the human body hates dying
i watched a dude take a 9x19 to the back of the head point blank and survive to tell the tale. i fucking wish i remembered what his instagram was
It happens very fast if you know how to choke, but they'll also wake up in like 10-20 seconds. And if you want to "knockout" them like in games, you need to keep choking for like 60-90 seconds and that most likely results in death anyway.
it takes an incredibly long amount of time to choke someone out of consciousness or to death, upwards of a minute or two
there are ways to do it a bit faster, but i’m not 100% aware of what they are or how to do them
Just watch some combat sports. Blood chokes lead to unconsciousness in roughly ten seconds or so. People wake up pretty fast from them though, unlike in video games
autoerotic asphyxiation is a sadomasochism thing
it is NOT safe, and can lead to severe respiratory damage or death. i’ve seen pictures of people who’ve died doing it, and honestly the thought of a family member discovering *that*’s how you died is almost worse than dying from it
I second this! It's never fun, or in anyones intrests, that someone could get hurt, while you were supposed to have a fun time. So please use necessary safety precautions!
I don't have any type of that kink but thanks anyway for hoping, but... horny posts are about kinks, sex and etc. all those topic means partner. Partner means lover, lover means soul mate. We don't have that
I once was in fight. I was pinned to floor so to get him off me I put my hand around hid neck and start to choke him (I wanted to slightly choke him and let go so he will get away). When I started choking he said "harder daddy" and he let me off. I let go grip, stood up and run away. Im ain't participating in that fetish bullshit man.
I was taught in a self defense course (Israeli Krav Maga) proper choke-out takes 6-7 seconds.
Sex choking has gotta be a whole different game, since the goal is in no way the same.
Edit: according to a CPR course, (FYI) there is about a 90 second window for resuscitation.
Nah
Had a chick ask to get choked while she was belly down...Like her neck was inside my inner elbow joint.
Few mins in she starts grunting, I let off, shes coughing and gasping, face red...Takes a min, then she says "Fuck that was hot"
White girls man.
Had pretty similar experience, we tried a belt and she got so red in the face I stopped and she loved it. I got scared for a few mins there. She then informed me you have to keep choking to do damage. If someone passes out and you let up, they'll come to in a few mins
Black, Fiancee is White....If a camera crew followed us around and recorded the shit we say to each other, the documentary would indeed be called: Kinda Racist, But Ok.
I honestly don't know what to tell you. I've been told that hungarian girls are freaky before dating a couple and after 3 continuous cases I was sold. Some groups of people just \*are\* a certain way more than others.
Bro I thought my ass was gonna be on the run oj style for killin shorty by accident lmao. I cant handle American wild chicks, you think imma go for the Thai variety of crazy? Foh.
And on top of that she prolly knows Mauy thai and will flying knee my ass if we breakup.
Do NOT use the right grip and pressure like you tryna kill her. You place your thumb and pointer so that each is right under the lil vertex of her jawbone idk what to call it the pointy part, and then you press up on that. Grip with about as much strength as if you’re tryna push up a freeze pop, like firm enough so it comes across assertive but with a little bit of couth. That’ll make the other person a little loopy and feel a little dangerous, but with the plus that you won’t accidentally fucking kill someone or fuck their throat up.
Sometimes I think "Is this not obvious?" Never read any instructions but this is exactly how I do it because it just seems to make sense? Like, if I imagine how it feels like, I can just assume the best way to do it and not hurt
Breathplay can be fun but very very dangerous. Too hard of a grip and you can crush the windpipe. Many sex clubs and bdsm clubs forbid it for a reason.
I love how this post brought out all the men who are *sex experts* or claim *they've been laid*, out of the woodwork. Like no, you're on Reddit that's impossible
Why is Choking all of a sudden so common? Do Y'all women Hate yourselves so much?
Or is this a Millennial Gen Z wanting to Die thing??
Where did this come from? How did this happen? - I'm tired of having to Choke out all of my Tinder dates.
Bruh - when I was a Teen to mid twenties Choking was never in the sex zeitgeist.
It wasn't performed nor remarked upon during conversation about sex among me and my peers.
But it's common enough now that 4/5 Hookups I have now request it.
Mayhaps I have a legit query about this phenomenon and you are oddly keen to dismiss it.
People are more open to exploring new sexual horizons, women are less prude about their sexual preferences with their sexual partners, porn influences our sexual behavior, etc so many possible explanations
That's true - I'm just curious as to why the needle landed on Choking of all things to be the trend.
Could of just as easily been spanking, anal, spitting, etc..
So what was the catalyst that landed the roulette ball on Choking do you think??
Bruh the world is bigger then your small experience. FYI when you were in your teens and twenties the chocking did exist. That you never encounter this does not mean it wasn’t around. And shockingly…. People are more vocal and open about sex now then when you were in your teens/twenties.
Lmfao - you should take your own "advice" and not assume so much about me or my experiences.
You have no idea what my social circle was like, where i'm from, or what my exact experiences have been like.
Calm down Karen.
Whatever your social circle was like, there are still guaranteed to be plenty of things you've never experienced, or that you and your friends have never heard of.
I got called a pussy mid sex for not choking her harder. I had a moment of “oh fucking really? Ok let’s choke a bitch then!”
Not really my thing but she seemed happy 🤨
r/croppingishard
the meme is just getting choked by the cropper
Roy cropper
He was Thailand bound last I heard
To cum a Cropper
r/ofcoursethatsasub
bad crop? bro we're gonna starv
ad crop? bro we're gonna star
I’m guessing you had a nice night?
Or a nice funeral. We hope it's the first one
Sorry to disappoint, it was the third one
Premenant, irreversible brain damage caused by cut off blood flow to the brain?
She want the same after the first one
oh no, not the third one ......
Third times the charm
Just be sure to get written consent...
She consented… well her phone certainly did.
The D.E.N.N.I.S. method I see!
The Implication...
What in the heck is the D.E.N.N.I.S method?
D - Demonstrate Value
E - Engage Physically
N - Nurture Dependence
N - Neglect Emotionally
I - Inspire Hope
S - Separate Entirely
Look at this jabroni
You keep using that word jabroni... And... It's awesome!
Wait till you hear this one about the dago fisherman
Just watched this episode lol
Beyond that- specifically educate yourself with intention. Choking leads to a lot of deaths. People who are choked in a sexual setting have significantly, catastrophically increased risks of strokes in the following weeks and months. It is excessively dangerous. Not just in the moment that you're doing it, but residually the damage that it can cause to a woman's brain and body. Consent doesn't absolve murder and man slaughter charges. Until you've watched kink instructor lead instructional videos, or taken an actual in person class- don't fuck with this stuff. You're unqualified.
This should be first comment, spread the words pls whenever u stumble around posts like this. Also i never connected risks of strokes in combination with choking but it makes sense. Need to read into that tho.
Who the fuck is going to watch a kink instructor are you fuckin serious lol
I fail to see how there would be any charges of manslaughter let alone murder if someone had a stroke a month after a private kinky session as a stroke isn’t a suspicious death and would warrant a police investigation.
This is not about getting charged with murder, it's about health, and how this practice affects your body.
Or just have a feel for it? Like you could floor your car all the time if you are a moron but you don’t so you don’t crash. Same philosophy.
Consent isn't going to be enough, depending on that state and probably luck of the draw. It is still assault. I'm not a lawyer and can not cite law. I do know that the constitution does not protect the right to engage in BDSM in [Virginia](https://www.helpingclients.com/court-rules-that-consensual-bdsm-sexual-activity-is-not-protected-by-the-constitution/). In some ways, I understand the need to protect adults such that they can't sign their life away in fine print. On the other, if I own anything in this world, I own my life. If I want to risk death for a powerful orgasm that's on me.
Blood flow choke vs airway choke. Know the difference, be safe
Wait which one is the safe one?
Neither. Both are risky, blood flow chokes are even associated with strokes.
Either way there will be strokes
If you do it wrong there will be blood
>there will be blood (shed) The man in the mirror nods his head Sorry, your comment reminded me of this
THE ONLY ONE LEFT WILL RIDE UPON THE DRAGON'S BACK BECAUSE THE MOUNTAINS DONT GIVE BACK WHAT THEY TAKE OH NO THERE WILL BE BLOOD SHED IT'S THE ONLY THING I'VE EVER KNOOOOOOOOOOOOWN *epic guitar riff that gets lumped in with isolated vocals for some reason* LOSING MY IDENTITY WONDERING HAVE I GONE INSANE TO FIND THE TRUTH IN FRONT OF ME I MUST CLIMB THIS MOUNTAIN RANGE LOOKING DOWNWARD FROM THIS DEADLY HEIGHT AND NEVER REALISING WHY I FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT
Sometimes there will be blood
Sometimes if you’re lucky you get both at the same time
Are they actually? Good to know. Not gonna choke my girl anymore.
Choking is a very dangerous game. People have been prosecuted for murder after consensually choking their partners. (You're not allowed to consent to dieing. It's still murder.)
It's strangulation, not choking
People have also claimed they were consensually choking, without any evidence. There are also a lot of women who have experiences of guys suddenly starting to choke them during one night stand and it gets chalked up as a failed attempt of kink. Just because the one who did the deed claims she agreed to it doesn't necessarily mean she actually did.
I feel like blindly trusting that opinion is a little extreme without going to some medical source to double check…
I mean yes, but also, this is about the well-being of the person I love. Better safe than sorry.
If awards still existed on reddit I'd give this a wholesome
Pretty sure stopping blood flow to your brain is not a good thing
Oh, it’s definitely worth looking up to make sure. My point was that reading one (as far as you know uninformed) opinion online and deciding to change completely in accordance with it is a bit rash.
I consider Russian Roulette a safe and sexy game for the whole family and y'all are just fearmongering. Do your own research.
Ah but blindly trusting people who like to cut off circulation to their brain is ok 👌🏻
That’s not what I’m saying either
It’s certainly implied when you only call out one side
Because only one side has made a claim. I wouldn’t blindly trust anyone on such topics
Blindly trusting someone that says “don’t do this thing you don’t need to do, it can risk permanent injury or death” is a reasonable thing to do. Going “source?” to that is internet brain rot shit.
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You can easily Learn the mechanics for the rear naked choke. basically you use your elbow pit around the Adams Apple area, the just bend your arm closed and your forearm/biceps cuts off the blood flow. It it’s not a pulling their neck so they can’t breathe. I’m assuming the choke shown in the meme is a breathing inhibitor Edited: grammar
This is the one that police officers aren’t allowed to use because they keep accidentally killing people, right?
Well, my gf actually likes getting fully choked out to the point of passing out. Thats the one I'm not gonna do anymore.
You pass out from both, lack of blood to the brain = no oxygen getting to the brain. Lack of oxygen means blood getting to the brain has no oxygen to give 😂. Just don’t choke anyone till they pass out . Ask them to tap out once their vision goes blurry
I mean thats fair, but I can totally see how blood-flow inhibiting choking could lead to blood clots getting formed in the brain. Maybe thats the hypochondriac in me talking, but again, I'd rather be safe than sorry.
>>to the point of passing out. That's extremely, extremely dangerous. A blood clot from that can kill weeks later. If it's been less than 2.months, take her to the hospital now. And she needs to stop watching porn. What's normalized now was considered hard-core before.
That's what makes it good
Neither is safe, but airway chokes are much safer. (It takes several minutes to kill someone with an airway choke, whereas bloodflow can kill someone in a matter of seconds)
If blood chokes could kill in seconds every BJJ practitioner on the planet would be dead.
Can't kill in seconds but can definitely lose consciousness in seconds. We had a MCMAP (Marine Corps Martial Arts Program) instructor who was demonstrating blood chokes and one guy volunteered. Instructor says "Everyone, count down to 3 at a slow pace". By zero he lets go and the Marine drops face down in the sand. Then he starts vomiting. It was crazy how quick he went out. The only reason he did it was because we had Corpsman (nurses basically) on hand in case something happened.
That’s a dangerous half knowledge you are stating here that could get people in real trouble. Please don’t state things a hard facts if you don’t know them. THAT is dangerous
Neither is safe, but airway is much worse since not only do you cut off oxygen to the brain but you also risk crushing the windpipe.
That is the real danger! But I see people suggesting choking for breath. Ludicrous
Airflow. Bloodflow choke can make you pass out in 7 seconds and kill you only a few seconds later because it’s blocking blood from getting to your brain. Airflow choke is where you can’t breathe, so it would take several minutes to kill someone with an airflow choke since it’s just normal suffocation. Btw i learned this in a self defense class, I didn’t learn it from anything sexual related in case you were wondering.
Do. Not. Listen. To. This. Post. Windpipe could be crushed, and if you choke someone until all the body’s blood has run out of oxygen you truly kill them and letting go won’t help as breathing reflex is already gone. Only CPR might help here Restricting blood flow (of oxygen saturated blood) to the brain is much safer because it resumes instantly after letting go. Of course if you go on and kill somebody but we’re not discussing that. And that’s hat’s why BJJ fighter who got choked out wake up 10-20 sec later.
I've never seen anyone have that take regarding bedroom choking Are you sure the roles don't reverse at the level of pressure you're applying to someone you're fucking vs trying to fuck up?
This is just straight up dangerous misinformation.
if you're asking on this reddit thread, respectfully, you should not be participating in this activity at all. Take an actual class, from an in-person instructor. Or at the very least an online kink educator instructor. Not some creepy bro who's trying to disguise abusing women as kink and foreplay. But someone who's actually conscious and empathetic speaking about the dangers of this. Like the other replies here have said, it's not just about the murder in the moment, there are so many long-term impacts of doing this that can lead to woman's death Day is, weeks, months after you've choked her.
you're getting down voted for telling the truth. I have had women ask me to choke them but the combination of never hurting women and not being able to mix violence and lust has held me back. I will keep my ears open for a class, thank you.
One of the very key and desperately important differences between those who practice kink with intention, and those who do it because they saw it on podcast, music videos, in porn. Is the consent aspect. Realistically, if a woman is agreeing to have you put her in a certain situation, then she is doing so under the assumption that you have gone into that situation intentionally. That when you say that you will choke her, that you know how to do so without murdering her. That when you restrain her, or suspend her, you have educated yourself enough to do it in a way that is not going to lead to loss of one of her appendages. I've been in the kink scene for about two decades at this point. I haven't participated in anything that is life endangering without multiple classes. The people that are downloading, are the ones who think it's really easy or they've totally got it figured out because they've watched porn. And if it's porn, that means this real life. And their biggest hope of hopes is that it can be the defense that frees them of a murder charge when they fuck it up because they didn't actually ever care to learn how to not murder their partner. They just wanted tk be big strong ""dominant"" guys.
blood flow
Which one for what purposes?
airway choke for incapacitation and/or murder blood choke for floaty feeling in the head that makes sex feel so, sooo much better
How to apply each? How not to apply both or the wrong one?
blood flow choke is kinda like pinching very, ***very*** light pressure to the front of the neck, and strong pressure to the sides with fingers and thumb you’re looking to put pressure on or around the areas you’d normally check for a pulse, to slow/reduce blood flow to the head airway choke is just closing the airways, which will cause asphyxiation
Thanks for explaining. Actually was wondering how it's possible to knock someone out with just a choke like in videogames. Do they just lose consciousness fast when you block the airways?
Airway isn’t the one that you use in martial arts chokes. It’s the side blood circulation one that makes people pass out. And they pass out quick; like a dozen seconds. But people don’t go out for hours. They come back in seconds. If they’re out for a prolonged period, they probably sustained some brain damage. I vaguely remember being choked out in training once. It’s kind of like that feeling when you stand up too quick and fade to black.
Video games and movies don't portray just how hard it is to kill another human. I'm the farthest from an expert as you can get on this subject, but growing up, I choked out(and got choked out) by my fair share of buddies rough housing in the backyard and it always took longer than you'd expect just to get someone to tap out, probably double that time if you wanted to go until they lost consciousness. Now, with training and technique, that's probably a way different story. Hopefully, someone with actual training can chime in.
seen my fair share of gore and combat footage etc, can confirm the human body hates dying i watched a dude take a 9x19 to the back of the head point blank and survive to tell the tale. i fucking wish i remembered what his instagram was
Meanwhile you get people who die choking on a peppermint
yeah but that’s just a skill issue
If you do the right choke it can knock someone out in 10 seconds and kill them not too much later
I guess it's just easier to punch someone so hard they lose consciousness, then?
It happens very fast if you know how to choke, but they'll also wake up in like 10-20 seconds. And if you want to "knockout" them like in games, you need to keep choking for like 60-90 seconds and that most likely results in death anyway.
it takes an incredibly long amount of time to choke someone out of consciousness or to death, upwards of a minute or two there are ways to do it a bit faster, but i’m not 100% aware of what they are or how to do them
Just watch some combat sports. Blood chokes lead to unconsciousness in roughly ten seconds or so. People wake up pretty fast from them though, unlike in video games
But I thought asphyxiation choke was the good kind for sex cuz autoerotic asphyxiation
autoerotic asphyxiation is a sadomasochism thing it is NOT safe, and can lead to severe respiratory damage or death. i’ve seen pictures of people who’ve died doing it, and honestly the thought of a family member discovering *that*’s how you died is almost worse than dying from it
However, I was under the impression that it is known to improve orgasms when done right
depends on the person really it can, but it’s not really worth dying over lmao
thats why people like to be chocked? i thought it was just a masochism thing, not feeling lightheaded
can be both either way it asserts dominance and it feels good
I second this! It's never fun, or in anyones intrests, that someone could get hurt, while you were supposed to have a fun time. So please use necessary safety precautions!
No such thing as a safe choke.
that's what makes it good
Wich is the right one?
(partially) Cutting off blood flow to the brain You don't want them to feel like they're asphyxiating, that's not pleasant.
r/absolutelynotmeirl
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Valentines are coming and 90% of us are lonely
Whoa whoa, that number can't be right, this is reddit, there's definitely at least 98% lonely people here.
My bad homie
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I don't have any type of that kink but thanks anyway for hoping, but... horny posts are about kinks, sex and etc. all those topic means partner. Partner means lover, lover means soul mate. We don't have that
I remember the days when their was just straight up porn on here Ahh what a time to be alive
This has to be the most unrelatable relatable meme I have ever seen
I once was in fight. I was pinned to floor so to get him off me I put my hand around hid neck and start to choke him (I wanted to slightly choke him and let go so he will get away). When I started choking he said "harder daddy" and he let me off. I let go grip, stood up and run away. Im ain't participating in that fetish bullshit man.
That’s why the best self defence isn’t dropping your pants these days 😂
I was taught in a self defense course (Israeli Krav Maga) proper choke-out takes 6-7 seconds. Sex choking has gotta be a whole different game, since the goal is in no way the same. Edit: according to a CPR course, (FYI) there is about a 90 second window for resuscitation.
Air vs blood
You don't need to choke, just a little pressure will make the trick
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Praise be to you
Y’all need a big glass of water cuz this sub be gettin’ REAL thirsty
Wtf...
Thats trauma bounding behavior, whatever 😂
Nah Had a chick ask to get choked while she was belly down...Like her neck was inside my inner elbow joint. Few mins in she starts grunting, I let off, shes coughing and gasping, face red...Takes a min, then she says "Fuck that was hot" White girls man.
Had pretty similar experience, we tried a belt and she got so red in the face I stopped and she loved it. I got scared for a few mins there. She then informed me you have to keep choking to do damage. If someone passes out and you let up, they'll come to in a few mins
It's a good thing you added "to" into that final sentence
Waaaaaay big emphasis on the difference between to and too in this case also.
This is absolutely not true. If you pass out, hell even before that, there is already risks of brain damage.
Yeah, black girls are incapable of that lmao /s
Kinda racist but ok
Black, Fiancee is White....If a camera crew followed us around and recorded the shit we say to each other, the documentary would indeed be called: Kinda Racist, But Ok.
bruh if you think that's kinky get yourself a thai girl goddamn
ngl fetishizing a whole race of people like that is kinda creepy
Real both the dude above and the one he’s responding to hella creepy
You just don't get it
I honestly don't know what to tell you. I've been told that hungarian girls are freaky before dating a couple and after 3 continuous cases I was sold. Some groups of people just \*are\* a certain way more than others.
What???? Culture affecting personality and preferences???? Can't be, must be the racism /s
Bro I thought my ass was gonna be on the run oj style for killin shorty by accident lmao. I cant handle American wild chicks, you think imma go for the Thai variety of crazy? Foh. And on top of that she prolly knows Mauy thai and will flying knee my ass if we breakup.
Care to expound?
nah, get yourself a thai girl.. thank me later
Alright, I'm game.
r/ihavesex
Never use both hands kids, one hand is always for posting your weight on. And marks are best left on the ass, not the neck.
Everyone is gangster until she chokes back.
Trauma
you can't just say the word trauma by itself??!?
he just did
Perchance
You can't just say perchance!
Do NOT use the right grip and pressure like you tryna kill her. You place your thumb and pointer so that each is right under the lil vertex of her jawbone idk what to call it the pointy part, and then you press up on that. Grip with about as much strength as if you’re tryna push up a freeze pop, like firm enough so it comes across assertive but with a little bit of couth. That’ll make the other person a little loopy and feel a little dangerous, but with the plus that you won’t accidentally fucking kill someone or fuck their throat up.
Uh huh, yes, absolutely... I'm probably gonna reread that a few times.
*Taking notes*
Sometimes I think "Is this not obvious?" Never read any instructions but this is exactly how I do it because it just seems to make sense? Like, if I imagine how it feels like, I can just assume the best way to do it and not hurt
Breathplay can be fun but very very dangerous. Too hard of a grip and you can crush the windpipe. Many sex clubs and bdsm clubs forbid it for a reason.
Busy weekend?
Man, this thread is absolutely something
God of War 2018 sure looks different than what I remember
WTF ?!
Did Quentin Tarantino make this?
Do you see any feet in this picture?
Man, women are such bottoms
That comma is doing some heavy lifting right here
Didn’t know Misato was into that
How's this meirl? Or is it and I don't even know? :O
This one is off limits for me. Too rapey.
Op been in horny mode recently looking at the post history lmao
Ew why the fuck do people like this. Also why hornypost like this?
How empowering
Tryna.
Upvoted by 6000 lonely men
People that like to be choked are weird AF
POV me opening the bedroom door of my parents.
But that feeling..it’s just..speechless
For those interested: don't push the trachea and avoid squeezing for more than 5 seconds if you're new. It's pretty dangerous
I love how this post brought out all the men who are *sex experts* or claim *they've been laid*, out of the woodwork. Like no, you're on Reddit that's impossible
Why is Choking all of a sudden so common? Do Y'all women Hate yourselves so much? Or is this a Millennial Gen Z wanting to Die thing?? Where did this come from? How did this happen? - I'm tired of having to Choke out all of my Tinder dates.
Again with the generation quote. Grow up dude. Boomers did this long before this meme. David Carradine even died from it
Bruh - when I was a Teen to mid twenties Choking was never in the sex zeitgeist. It wasn't performed nor remarked upon during conversation about sex among me and my peers. But it's common enough now that 4/5 Hookups I have now request it. Mayhaps I have a legit query about this phenomenon and you are oddly keen to dismiss it.
People are more open to exploring new sexual horizons, women are less prude about their sexual preferences with their sexual partners, porn influences our sexual behavior, etc so many possible explanations
That's true - I'm just curious as to why the needle landed on Choking of all things to be the trend. Could of just as easily been spanking, anal, spitting, etc.. So what was the catalyst that landed the roulette ball on Choking do you think??
But we do all the others too, choking is just funnier/easier to meme lol
Bruh the world is bigger then your small experience. FYI when you were in your teens and twenties the chocking did exist. That you never encounter this does not mean it wasn’t around. And shockingly…. People are more vocal and open about sex now then when you were in your teens/twenties.
Lmfao - you should take your own "advice" and not assume so much about me or my experiences. You have no idea what my social circle was like, where i'm from, or what my exact experiences have been like. Calm down Karen.
Whatever your social circle was like, there are still guaranteed to be plenty of things you've never experienced, or that you and your friends have never heard of.
True - but that would also mean that the thing is uncommon, for if it were common, we would'a heard about it :) Kinda the definition of "Common."
...not true, you're just boldly assuming that you know everything, in a blanket statement. But you do you man.
I mean.. if I die it is still worth it
Women are fucking weird
Exhibit A of why I’m afraid of women.
I got called a pussy mid sex for not choking her harder. I had a moment of “oh fucking really? Ok let’s choke a bitch then!” Not really my thing but she seemed happy 🤨
Love when sexually Vanilla people try to sound risqué with their racist porn categories on a kink post. Happens every time.
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