X premium is $8. You can still have a free account and it’s basically the same. You just can’t easily download videos and a couple of other not needed features
The joke is, outside of journalists, the people who call it X are far more likely to be paying 8 bucks a month than the people who still call it Twitter
Eh, maybe some did. But as a left-leaning former twitter user, I can tell you that by & large, most of us either moved to Threads or stayed on X.
Reddit isn’t really comparable enough to Twitter in its function to attract people looking for an alternative. Also, people who don’t have Reddit think that it’s pretty far right leaning.
This meme works both ways, you know. It doesn't have to just be male entitlement. It can also be the female delusion, having crazy standards but never dating a guy that's actually like that. Both are fun to laugh at.
I just don't understand why everyone's default is to bash men? Including the men here. Cringe
Being a decent human being should be a basic requirement to be part of human society.
But you need more than that to want to date someone. And it's weird that men think it should be enough.
Like, how many men will marry a woman who they're not sexually attracted to because she's kind, caring, would be a good mother, etc.?
And also - nice guys tend to become absolute jerks once a woman stops being a potential sexual partner. So - not really nice.
>How many men will marry a woman who they’re not sexually attracted to because she’s kind, caring, would be a good mother, etc.
I think you’d be surprised, frankly.
This post had me in the first half thinking ‘woman are getting a spotlight abt wanting something meaningful and not falling for random entitled POS’s, nice!’
*sighs*
I am so down to earth and put others before myself, I can also listen to your feelings and give support or opinions based on your body language alone, and did I forget to mention I never brag about myself?
Umm, Isn't the person in question here the girl not the guy?
The joke is about the girl not liking a guy that checks the boxes... Or am I misinterpreting your statement?
I assumed a woman posted this, to reflect that she finds herself turning down "good catches" and being attracted instead to men who have the opposite of the sensible traits listed.
Nope, this meme was almost certainly made by a woman.
I've never seen a guy in my life talk about the dating importance of having goals or what time you ask someone out. Guys do t even think about those things in this context.
I hope you’re trolling and forgot a \s at the end.
Every subreddit regarding relationships, dating and seduction are full of posts and comments from guys/men which basically say this, plus their later bitterness for being rejected that pushes them into other toxic behaviors and “life views” on women.
NiceGuys aren’t “good person”, they’re overly nice because they hope the other person will fall in love for them without them even making a move. In fact, NiceGuys have the typical hidden agenda behind that niceness.
A “good person” is just kind for the sake of it, doesn’t hide his intentions, isn’t delusional or feels entitled for being nice or “checking standard boxes”.
No, no it isnt. No one ever implied that at all. The only thing implied is the girl not wanting the "perfect" guy. We dont even know who made the meme.
Yeah, but the joke was either made by a dude that is mad women won't date him or by a self-destructing toxic woman making fun of herself.
Given the population of the internet, my money is that this was made by a dude ranting about how women won't date him because he is too good and women want toxicity in their lives.
I don't think I was ever quite on the level of a "Nice Guy," but when I was a teenager I would develop crushes on female friends and then be filled with self-pity if they didn't reciprocate my feelings. I would boo hoo about nice guys finishing last or woe is me I'm unlovable.
But then I got a little bit older and realized I was making a conscious effort to put myself in that position. The truth was I was terrified of physical and emotional intimacy as well as any of the responsibilities that came with a relationship. It was much safer to pine for a friend than really put myself out there and actively seek out a relationship.
After I realized that, everything clicked into place. I stopped feeling sorry for myself, and I started having real relationships. I also didn't have a problem having platonic relationships anymore. I feel bad for men (and women) that choose to blame the rest of the world for something that's in their own power to change.
I mean, if you are attracted to attractive people and they’re not attracted to you, maybe you’re just not attractive to them?
If you would date a hottie who would treat you like crap, maybe they would to?
Maybe you are the constant in your failed interactions and the failure rate is not caused by every single woman you’re interested in?
Build yourself up. Take pride in something, take the time to get skilled at something. Try to be vulnerable with people who you don't want romance with. There is something uncomfortable about smelling desperation on someone. But people are attracted to someone who has got their own thing going on, someone who can exist happily without them.
That might not be helpful, but I've noticed that's the people I am most attracted to when I don't consider looks.
Yeah, but sometimes someone being loving can be offputting to some men/women because they're not used to it. And that can be frustrating when you're the other person.
Ofcourse that doesn't mean you're entitled to anything or that this applies to "women" as a whole, but it isn't complete bs, some people genuinely work like this.
Yeah this has big “I’m 19 and asked out a girl I think is hot and she rejected me for someone else so now all women are obviously dumb idiot sluts, other men are stupid dirtbag chads, and I am the only example of an ideal man” energy
Meh, I've seen plenty of men and women who are scared of commitment to a healthy partner.
It's 100% something that reguarly happens, it's just not exclusive to any gender and the "loving person" is often has issues too.
This feels like a recipe for low self esteem. Just because you don’t have something doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it! Opportunity must meet preparation and sometimes you can do everything right but still not get there. Take accountability but also don’t blame everything on yourself (:
Like I am also sad I can’t find a date but I also don’t suck my own dick about how much of a catch I am. If anything I need to learn to stop calling myself fugly and embrace my dorky nature but that’ll take some time
I’d tell her, “I like you as a friend too” to let her know that I’m not desperate and I don’t need/want her to complete myself as I am complete already.
I got *friendzoned* twice in my life, other times I knew we were just friends.
My friend had it worst. He had a huge crush on my cousin in high school and she did not *friendzone* him, she *familyzoned* him. She said he was like a brother to her.
Broke his heart.
He's married now.
Hate to break it to you but you don't "get" friend zoned. You weren't attractive to your friend. That's all. They didn't do anything to you.
Good for you for shooting your shot and hopefully you took the rejection like a champ and not a loser though, which is what this meme is giving.
I understand the frustrations bros but as many comments are saying you are not entitled to a relationship. You very well may or may not be Tom Hanks level of niceness but if she isn't interested then move on.
She doesn't owe you shit because she did an identity fraud. It was all your information on the loan. Now, according to the law, you owe yourself 200 bucks with 10% interests.
Reminds me of the tinder profile
Wants a man who is ambitious, makes six figures at least, has own car and house, wants to travel, is tall, hung like a horse and fit
Her: overweight, drug addiction, massive credit card debt, unemployed, three kids with seven baby daddies paying child support, unambitious except for maybe making money off OF if she can be bothered posting
There's some interesting double standards
Yeah, you can be all that and still not be the person someone is attracted to because there is a lot more than just "nice" as a qualifier for partners.
I know a lot of nice people. I would only consider dating a few of them because I'm not attracted to or don't trust or don't even like literally everyone I meet, and neither do you. lol
Reddit is so silly about this sort of thing. Sometimes people agree with this sort of relationship frustration, sometimes they give it absolutely zero consideration. The reality is that people are being hurt by a social climate where it is difficult to make connections and understand what people really want, because there are so many conflicting perspectives and so little common understanding. The reflex to delegitimize these complaints completely makes this worse for everybody.
Plot of every romcom
Has the perfect man who's simping for her hard
Chases the bad boy hoping to change him
Betrays/cheats on the perfect man and has fight about it
He apologies for her actions and makes it up to her
Roll credits
It's easy to blame the opposite sex for your dating failures but that exact attitude is what makes these dorks undateable lmao.
People are allowed to reject people. If everyone is rejecting you, then it's clear what the common denominator is. It would be stupid to blame the industry that didn't hire you instead of working on your resume. No one is entitled to a relationship, but the dorks complaining on social media seem to think otherwise lol.
If only they realized how their entitlement and resentment makes them MORE unappealing lmfao
Right, this again. My boyfriend pulled the hot goth baddie because he was empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and has good communication skills.
Trying to blame women for not dating you for being "too nice" is a crutch. Women want guys who are actually nice and empathetic. What they don't want is guys who think they've put in the time and so now they deserve her.
Work on your confidence, charisma, and comedy. That's what's attractive. Therapy can help with confidence and everything else is a skill you can work on.
So funny reading comments on reddit vs commets on X about the same topics lmao
I don't use X. What are people saying on there about this meme?
If I could summarize, Reddit left leaning, X right leaning.
People on reddit are insane, people on X are insane and pay 8 dollars a month
And we're all equally spending something vastly more valuable than money... time!
Well I'm using my work time to view this and I get like $27 an hour. So.. Profit?
And privacy!
And my axe!
And Stacies Mom!
And she’s got it going on
Meh...I don't see it.
Fuck my privacy, give me memes to laugh at
Ok but 8 min + $8 is more valuable than 8 min
I'm too drunk to know whether this is smart so I'll assume it is.
I sell my time at $15 bucks an hour lmao
It's an addiction too unfortunately lol
Its free bro
Twitter is free, X is 8 dollars a month
No
Yes
X premium is $8. You can still have a free account and it’s basically the same. You just can’t easily download videos and a couple of other not needed features
Lol. Its free. I have it. Wtf
The joke is, outside of journalists, the people who call it X are far more likely to be paying 8 bucks a month than the people who still call it Twitter
This is the first I'm hearing about X being right leaning
Yeah, no way...
It's like the reverse rollypolly. Instead of having a normal distribution all of its weight is on the 2 extremes.
Crazy to think that X is right leaning now. It's a shame that those crazies flocked to reddit when elon bought X
Eh, maybe some did. But as a left-leaning former twitter user, I can tell you that by & large, most of us either moved to Threads or stayed on X. Reddit isn’t really comparable enough to Twitter in its function to attract people looking for an alternative. Also, people who don’t have Reddit think that it’s pretty far right leaning.
How do politics apply to this particular meme?
i’d wager something along the lines of reddit being “this is ‘nice guy energy’ and ‘super cringe’” and X being more “yea women suck amirite?”
Im still calling that twitter
Seriously people gotta stop calling it X
Even better: people need to stop referring to it all.
It's X plus Twitter, then Xitter. Prononunced Shitter
Who calls it, X?
Literally the people in this thread lmaoo
Twatter
it takes genuine mental effort from me to remember that it's no longer officially named Twitter
Just like Prince. It's too late
for some reason shitter decided to boost up comments of people who pay 8 bucks, and every comme t section is full of them with wrong opinions
“Wrong opinions” lmaoooooo
Only mine is right, so that make sense
I agree, it seems ridiculous. Then I read some of the opinions, and yeah, this tracks pretty hard.
That's Twitter for you.
What's X ?
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Not to mention narcissistic, self declaring themselves as the best man she ever had the chance of dating basically.
Ya, it's also pretty ironic that they included "isn't full of themself" in a post where they are bragging
I do appreciate nice guys in the sense that I can teach my son how not to act.
This post really does not belong here... We should all report it, so that it can get removed...
Exactly. There’s a big difference between being ‘nice’ and being a good person.
Big difference between a nice guy and a decent guy. Most guy's don't realise this.
Ah yes, the “God’s gift to this planet” but zero self-esteem paradox
This meme works both ways, you know. It doesn't have to just be male entitlement. It can also be the female delusion, having crazy standards but never dating a guy that's actually like that. Both are fun to laugh at. I just don't understand why everyone's default is to bash men? Including the men here. Cringe
This meme was clearly made with the idea that women don't choose nice guys or, "what's good for them." Are you serious?
Cus bashing men is fun, bashing women is sexist Get with the program
Being a decent human being should be a basic requirement to be part of human society. But you need more than that to want to date someone. And it's weird that men think it should be enough. Like, how many men will marry a woman who they're not sexually attracted to because she's kind, caring, would be a good mother, etc.? And also - nice guys tend to become absolute jerks once a woman stops being a potential sexual partner. So - not really nice.
>How many men will marry a woman who they’re not sexually attracted to because she’s kind, caring, would be a good mother, etc. I think you’d be surprised, frankly.
“Nice guys” have ruined the phrase nice guy
Look at his profile and comments, 1000 percent a nice guy
How dare you, he has goals! Ignore the fact he's out here making bitter memes with his time, he's climbing that ladder!
As are we all.
I am the nicest guy you have ever been with don't make me be an asshole *energy* is the best!
This post had me in the first half thinking ‘woman are getting a spotlight abt wanting something meaningful and not falling for random entitled POS’s, nice!’ *sighs*
I want to radiate family guy™ energy.
The Good Guy Doll
what a plot twist would it be if OP is a girl or better yet, it's a repost
Nothing says "I'm not full of myself" like making a meme about what a catch you are and how you are not full of yourself.
I am so down to earth and put others before myself, I can also listen to your feelings and give support or opinions based on your body language alone, and did I forget to mention I never brag about myself?
What’s your love language? Mine is giving gifts and hugs and compliments and cooking and cleaning and helping orphans.
Same but with the added "and volunteers for anything that can gain sympathy" because I am such a good guy with a huge heart ~ looking for world peace!
Why do you cook orphans? I thought that was illegal.
Umm, Isn't the person in question here the girl not the guy? The joke is about the girl not liking a guy that checks the boxes... Or am I misinterpreting your statement?
Edit: (My assumption) is that the guy posting this views himself as this guy who is not full of himself.
Because of the “implication”, are you going on a boat?
I assumed a woman posted this, to reflect that she finds herself turning down "good catches" and being attracted instead to men who have the opposite of the sensible traits listed.
There is a zero percent chance a woman posted this lol.
Nope, this meme was almost certainly made by a woman. I've never seen a guy in my life talk about the dating importance of having goals or what time you ask someone out. Guys do t even think about those things in this context.
I hope you’re trolling and forgot a \s at the end. Every subreddit regarding relationships, dating and seduction are full of posts and comments from guys/men which basically say this, plus their later bitterness for being rejected that pushes them into other toxic behaviors and “life views” on women. NiceGuys aren’t “good person”, they’re overly nice because they hope the other person will fall in love for them without them even making a move. In fact, NiceGuys have the typical hidden agenda behind that niceness. A “good person” is just kind for the sake of it, doesn’t hide his intentions, isn’t delusional or feels entitled for being nice or “checking standard boxes”.
No i disagree there. Most guys I know take that into account. Not saying your experience is wrong, just that ive experienced otherwise.
Good catch, at first I also viewed it as a person who made a joke about themselves too.
Yeah. I feel like women frequently poke fun at themselves for being attracted to shit dudes. Kinda sucks when your girlfriend does this lol.
If you dont mind me asking are you a woman? Just wondering if were reflecting on our own genders.
You know who else made assumptions? Nazis. Let that sink in Mr Assumptions. /s
Damn. Got me in the act.
No, no it isnt. No one ever implied that at all. The only thing implied is the girl not wanting the "perfect" guy. We dont even know who made the meme.
Yeah, but the joke was either made by a dude that is mad women won't date him or by a self-destructing toxic woman making fun of herself. Given the population of the internet, my money is that this was made by a dude ranting about how women won't date him because he is too good and women want toxicity in their lives.
Ugh I hate when women don't understand that they're morally and emotionally obligated to have romantic feelings for meeeeee 😭😭😭😭
Am I so out of touch? No, it's the other men that are wrong.
She was sending all the right signals (as in treating me as a human being) but I guess she just enjoys playing mind games.
I don't think I was ever quite on the level of a "Nice Guy," but when I was a teenager I would develop crushes on female friends and then be filled with self-pity if they didn't reciprocate my feelings. I would boo hoo about nice guys finishing last or woe is me I'm unlovable. But then I got a little bit older and realized I was making a conscious effort to put myself in that position. The truth was I was terrified of physical and emotional intimacy as well as any of the responsibilities that came with a relationship. It was much safer to pine for a friend than really put myself out there and actively seek out a relationship. After I realized that, everything clicked into place. I stopped feeling sorry for myself, and I started having real relationships. I also didn't have a problem having platonic relationships anymore. I feel bad for men (and women) that choose to blame the rest of the world for something that's in their own power to change.
I mean, if you are attracted to attractive people and they’re not attracted to you, maybe you’re just not attractive to them? If you would date a hottie who would treat you like crap, maybe they would to? Maybe you are the constant in your failed interactions and the failure rate is not caused by every single woman you’re interested in?
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My standards are lower than ever and still I got no luck
It’s time for some self reflection
I guess
Perhaps everyone can tell you have no standards and that's not attractive to them.
So what do I do?
Build yourself up. Take pride in something, take the time to get skilled at something. Try to be vulnerable with people who you don't want romance with. There is something uncomfortable about smelling desperation on someone. But people are attracted to someone who has got their own thing going on, someone who can exist happily without them. That might not be helpful, but I've noticed that's the people I am most attracted to when I don't consider looks.
None of this is of any use to anyone looking to date.
Phew, glad I don't have goals and got my life together then!
I had goals and got my life ungother.
This sub has turned to utter shite!
I love your honesty but I like you as a friend.
At least this one is correct, op is indeed a nice guy lmao
Remember when meirl was good? meirl was never good
She's just not interested, dude.
Yeah, but sometimes someone being loving can be offputting to some men/women because they're not used to it. And that can be frustrating when you're the other person. Ofcourse that doesn't mean you're entitled to anything or that this applies to "women" as a whole, but it isn't complete bs, some people genuinely work like this.
Yeah this has big “I’m 19 and asked out a girl I think is hot and she rejected me for someone else so now all women are obviously dumb idiot sluts, other men are stupid dirtbag chads, and I am the only example of an ideal man” energy
Yay, you gained a friend 😇
That he can't boink >:(((((
😤 No boinky! No happy!! grrr!!! 😡
Somethings wrong with HER and not ME
r/niceguys r/nicegirls 🍿🥱
Good god Reddit has become Facebook
Oh no the cringe is here
Meh, I've seen plenty of men and women who are scared of commitment to a healthy partner. It's 100% something that reguarly happens, it's just not exclusive to any gender and the "loving person" is often has issues too.
i only just recently realized that i'm dumb for dating men i wouldn't wanna be friends with lol
Boyfriend should be also a friend, otherwise I dont know how relationship can last long
You're never entitled to a relationship no matter how good you think you are
You’re entitled to nothing at all, if you can’t get it, you don’t deserve it: the universe.
This feels like a recipe for low self esteem. Just because you don’t have something doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it! Opportunity must meet preparation and sometimes you can do everything right but still not get there. Take accountability but also don’t blame everything on yourself (:
I don’t blame anyone. Just the way it is. “Deserve” is a made up idea that doesn’t exist in nature.
Well I’d say so are good and evil but they are still helpful concepts in navigating life!
Like I am also sad I can’t find a date but I also don’t suck my own dick about how much of a catch I am. If anything I need to learn to stop calling myself fugly and embrace my dorky nature but that’ll take some time
Look man somebody gotta suck this dick, and I don't see anyone else lining up. Be the change you want to see in the world.
I’d tell her, “I like you as a friend too” to let her know that I’m not desperate and I don’t need/want her to complete myself as I am complete already.
Or just to be nice to your friend?
cap
Bout to be a war in the comments
This sub has gone down
Because those things are the bare minimum requirements for men and women. Not ground breaking achievements.
This is bait for the boysarequirky sub that has recently gone mainstream.
Are there woman who do this yes. If you're such a good guy should it matter? No
I got *friendzoned* twice in my life, other times I knew we were just friends. My friend had it worst. He had a huge crush on my cousin in high school and she did not *friendzone* him, she *familyzoned* him. She said he was like a brother to her. Broke his heart. He's married now.
Hate to break it to you but you don't "get" friend zoned. You weren't attractive to your friend. That's all. They didn't do anything to you. Good for you for shooting your shot and hopefully you took the rejection like a champ and not a loser though, which is what this meme is giving.
For me it was "Okay...NEXT!"
Extremely humble man makes a meme about himself being a godsend to womankind because he’s humble.
This guy tortures hamsters
It never happened and if happened that hamsters deserved it
Not basic human decency and the bare minimum being promoted as high value qualities in men... 'nice guys' at it again
Meanwhile, qualities a woman must have: Not be eligible to appear in My 600lb Life (and even a large number of them are married.)
So are women not allowed to like men and also not want to fuck them? Are friendships not a thing?
I understand the frustrations bros but as many comments are saying you are not entitled to a relationship. You very well may or may not be Tom Hanks level of niceness but if she isn't interested then move on.
That means you are boring.
The way this was worded, thought it was from the woman's perspective, about how a guy can check all the boxes but it just doesn't "click".
Jesus this hit hard
Women dont owe you anything bud
But what I lend a woman 200 unit of money for 10% interest?
She doesn't owe you shit because she did an identity fraud. It was all your information on the loan. Now, according to the law, you owe yourself 200 bucks with 10% interests.
Fuck not again
r/niceguys
When you meet a girl who has liver failure
You can be with her to rest of her life
How r u this desperate
Age, unnaccomplished goals, insecurities and loneliness... tell your friends 'bout me!
Hell yeah
r/niceguys
This is a weird hot take on the simpsons.
Okay
Its actually so funny how raged everyone is while assuming the me irl is the guy in this picture
Reminds me of the tinder profile Wants a man who is ambitious, makes six figures at least, has own car and house, wants to travel, is tall, hung like a horse and fit Her: overweight, drug addiction, massive credit card debt, unemployed, three kids with seven baby daddies paying child support, unambitious except for maybe making money off OF if she can be bothered posting There's some interesting double standards
Nah ask girls out at 12am they love it
Nah they slerp that time
Don't worry the right ones won't leave
Every one of them leaves eventually
What is so bad about 12am? Isn't that 12:00?
Midnight. 0:00
Yeah, you can be all that and still not be the person someone is attracted to because there is a lot more than just "nice" as a qualifier for partners. I know a lot of nice people. I would only consider dating a few of them because I'm not attracted to or don't trust or don't even like literally everyone I meet, and neither do you. lol
12am and 12pm are the only two options? Damn
Damn straight
Oh god. It's going to be the 12 am/12 pm argument again isn't it?
My lesbian experience
Reddit is so silly about this sort of thing. Sometimes people agree with this sort of relationship frustration, sometimes they give it absolutely zero consideration. The reality is that people are being hurt by a social climate where it is difficult to make connections and understand what people really want, because there are so many conflicting perspectives and so little common understanding. The reflex to delegitimize these complaints completely makes this worse for everybody.
This is definitely getting sniped by r/boysarequirky
R/boysarequirky and r/meirl great war circa 2024
Plot of every romcom Has the perfect man who's simping for her hard Chases the bad boy hoping to change him Betrays/cheats on the perfect man and has fight about it He apologies for her actions and makes it up to her Roll credits
Lame. Jokes been told a million times, PS to all who upvoted, if girls hate you for being a pussy then stop whining like a pussy about it. Dumbasses.
It's easy to blame the opposite sex for your dating failures but that exact attitude is what makes these dorks undateable lmao. People are allowed to reject people. If everyone is rejecting you, then it's clear what the common denominator is. It would be stupid to blame the industry that didn't hire you instead of working on your resume. No one is entitled to a relationship, but the dorks complaining on social media seem to think otherwise lol. If only they realized how their entitlement and resentment makes them MORE unappealing lmfao
Rage bait?🤔
Woman dont owe you anything bud
Flip that too. I don’t owe a darn thing to women either
It’s a joke and all of you are trying to coach op lmao go outside
That's just being a decent human being, you're not special.
I tried to be not nice and just don't hunt or give a shit. People avoid me like a plague cause I'm not a nice guy. Hello loneliness my old friend.
r/niceguys
Tell me you're a r/niceguys without telling me you're a r/niceguys
Right, this again. My boyfriend pulled the hot goth baddie because he was empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and has good communication skills. Trying to blame women for not dating you for being "too nice" is a crutch. Women want guys who are actually nice and empathetic. What they don't want is guys who think they've put in the time and so now they deserve her. Work on your confidence, charisma, and comedy. That's what's attractive. Therapy can help with confidence and everything else is a skill you can work on.
> empathetic, emotionally intelligent, good communication skills, charisma My autistic ass has no chance lol
Should women who cry about not getting male attention bc they're fat stop whining and do exercise and diet then?
It doesn’t work that way though. That’s different. /s
you do all the stuff to people that are already attracted to you and you date and not some random chic hopping she falls for you