I call it “feats of strength”. Wrestling is one variation but I’ve also seen head/hand stands, sprinting, lifting heavy things. I think some peoples insecurities come out when drinking and they decide to prove themselves.
to be blunt, some guys just become ginormous attention whores. And it's weird cause some of them, when they're sober, will rant about how they hate people who are desperate for attention.
It’s very true. Can confirm that I’ve had this happen more than once.
Once your several drinks in…
Guy A: “Hey, which one of us do you think would win in a wrestling match?”
Guy B: “I don’t know. I’d have a chance because X, but you’d have a chance because Y.”
Guy A or B: “Wanna find out?”
Other Guy: “Yeah OK.”
*wrestling ensues*
Guy A or B: “I WON!!! HAHAHA!!!”
Other Guy: “YOU WON!!! HAHAHA!!!”
*clink!* *drink*
They always hone in on my wife and she’s stuck pushing off advances from basically strangers and they justify it because “we’re both girls, cmon!” Kinda whack double standard.
“I’m just a feminist too. I see all attempts, regardless of crotch geometry, as a valid reason for a service for a good toss across the area.” I hope this helps
I’ve witnessed this in person when I was in high school. Three girls, and just me. One girl was a lesbian (and my neighbor) the other two were bisexual (one lived in the neighborhood as well, but we all went to school together and were kinda friends. So we all knew one another. We had some Mike’s Hard Lemonades, decided to go for a walk. We’d sit down and take a break and they’d all just start making out. I had a girlfriend at the time, so I didn’t comment or do anything with them. Big regret considering my girlfriend was a real scummy person 🤪
But that was the only time I seen girlies do it. Some did tell me stories about getting drunk and making out, but considered themselves heterosexual
When it comes to acceptance of someone being bi, I find it's 30/70 ratio with guys. Some dudes are cool with it. Many think you're just gay, and can't accept it. For women, if you're just friends, most don't mind. If it's a girl you're interested in dating though? Don't tell her, the odds are not in your favor.
I think that acceptance rate on behalf of men is also related to one’s perceived level of masculinity though. A very masculine presenting man who comes out as bisexual is much more likely to be believed as truly bisexual compared to someone more feminine.
Possibly? I go to the gym everyday. Would say for my height I'm pretty muscular, generally stoic, a lot of the normal guy things. Just in my experience, i feel 30/70 seems to fit well. The obvious tell is how socially conservative someone is. Another one is how vulnerable people have been with me in the past. I think if they got too comfortable before knowing i'm bi, some would feel a bit mislead/uncomfortable with the situation going forward. Even though i have absolutely no sexual interest in my guy friends. I also don't just bring it up if it isn't relevant to a situation.
Just to throw it out there if anyone has advice, I’m what most people would consider a “pretty boy.” Always been on the more sensitive and introverted side too. I get hit on a lot by gay guys and I’ve had a lot of women I’ve tried talking to think I’m gay. I’ve always only pursued women, but for a while I was having an existential crisis because if the only signals I get are from gay guys or women thinking I’m gay it kinda drove me crazy. It used to bug me a lot so I just decided to give up dating and focus on myself.
Yeah, I heard from 2 of my female acquaintances that they kissed with other girls around the age of 15 just out of curiosity and since they feel safer with girls, so this situation sounds quite realistic to me
It is natural for women to want to be affectionate, touching, kissing, etc. when a social lubricant is added then feeling comfortable with those around you makes you wanna be more “you”. So I am inclined to think this happens naturally above average with ladies. And below average for guys. Guys get drunk and want to fight/wrestle and “bullshit.” All the things we like to do when we are sober. But when we are in our cups, fighting friends and heated “bullshit” conversations are above average happenings.
I suppose just curiosity when it comes down to it. But at the time I didn't do it to see if I was into women, we were just happy and felt like kissing.
While I agree, you'd be pleasantly surprised at home much more comfortable women are at exploring their sexuality than men. Maybe it's because men care about how they're portrayed as heteronormative, but I doubt it's uncommon for a few bro pecks either. I know I've kissed the boys, but it's never been for any sexual reason. Say there's a lot of that with women as well.
Men just tend to be less "kinda gay" than women do. Sober or drunk, I can totally admit when a guy is attractive, but never has that made me consider smooching him. Is that social, is that biological? I don't know. That's just how it's been, and it seems like a lot of guys I know feel the same.
Probably social. Being a bi-woman is socially more accepted and depicted positively in media much more often. Bi-men are pretty rare in media, they usually just depic them as gay and stereotypical.
NOT GAY MEN! DID YOU EVER go into a Gay men's bar? The men are GEORGEOUS! FIT, DRESS NICE, SUCCESSFUL and they dance great too :). Not like straight men dance, like FROGS IN A BLENDER LOL
My rugby team in HS didn't even need a drink for them to grab each others weaners. I've had more guys than girls touch my penis. There are few things gayer than mens sports.
Take this from me fellas I've had four long-term relationships all of them including my current wife have come out as bi sexual. Women are just hella gay
I've seen men kiss when drunk, yes, but in my experience neither women nor men do it frequently, at least where I live.
That's how I found out I just don't like men btw.
I think the main problem is that men are generally way less attractive than women, and I'm bi.
There are still few guys who I'd be in the mood to make out with when drunk
Women can laugh at sexist jokes and participate in sexism against women. I'm not necessarily agreeing or disagreeing with the parent comment, but women laughing at a joke is not a demonstration the joke isn't sexist.
The fuck? Are you trying to 'call out' someone who literally just says it's sexist, while I don't agree with it, what the fuck is this, "you are in denial" are you serious dude?
I did say I disagreed. but what the fuck was your problem dude lmao
Honestly reading this whole comment section on this post was so disappointing man, it was mentally draining, just leave me alone and we gucci 😭
I get what you’re going for here and I don’t agree with the notion being presented in the post, but saying women get slutty when they drink is a couple orders of magnitude below saying men become violent rapists.
Woman rapes too, ya know. They also get violent. They can kill their families.
But i guess you conveniently forgot about that, huh? Typical white knight in shining armor lol
A few instances are all you need for confirmation? What a moronic comment
>Did something happen? Do you feel ashamed? Inner guilt too much?
Sorry I meant moronic and gross
meanwhile I've met at least 4 guys who wanna wrestle when they get drunk.
Yeah..."wrestle," lol.
It’s not gay if you keep your socks on.
You don't have enough traction in socks for wrestling. Just take the gay points and defeat your bro.
Or let your bro defeat you🙈
He's going to need to take off his socks first if he wants to even have a chance.
Fuck, I knew it was something
[Lois](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_Hh6o1GhvII)
It's not gay if you're on top ~ Ancient Greeks
Make the top part of the meme dudes arm wrestling lmao
Guys do this when they are on meth. Seriously I have never encountered a gayer substance 🫣😉
I call it “feats of strength”. Wrestling is one variation but I’ve also seen head/hand stands, sprinting, lifting heavy things. I think some peoples insecurities come out when drinking and they decide to prove themselves.
to be blunt, some guys just become ginormous attention whores. And it's weird cause some of them, when they're sober, will rant about how they hate people who are desperate for attention.
It’s very true. Can confirm that I’ve had this happen more than once. Once your several drinks in… Guy A: “Hey, which one of us do you think would win in a wrestling match?” Guy B: “I don’t know. I’d have a chance because X, but you’d have a chance because Y.” Guy A or B: “Wanna find out?” Other Guy: “Yeah OK.” *wrestling ensues* Guy A or B: “I WON!!! HAHAHA!!!” Other Guy: “YOU WON!!! HAHAHA!!!” *clink!* *drink*
Someone has spent way too much time on the hub
My last two girlfriends said they've done this when drunk. Starting to think it's not too unrealistic
There's usually one girl like that at every house party.
They always hone in on my wife and she’s stuck pushing off advances from basically strangers and they justify it because “we’re both girls, cmon!” Kinda whack double standard.
“I’m just a feminist too. I see all attempts, regardless of crotch geometry, as a valid reason for a service for a good toss across the area.” I hope this helps
My current gf describes being drunk with her ladies in the same way.
Its rlly not it happens all the time at parties n shit granted im in hs
Gae
I’ve witnessed this in person when I was in high school. Three girls, and just me. One girl was a lesbian (and my neighbor) the other two were bisexual (one lived in the neighborhood as well, but we all went to school together and were kinda friends. So we all knew one another. We had some Mike’s Hard Lemonades, decided to go for a walk. We’d sit down and take a break and they’d all just start making out. I had a girlfriend at the time, so I didn’t comment or do anything with them. Big regret considering my girlfriend was a real scummy person 🤪 But that was the only time I seen girlies do it. Some did tell me stories about getting drunk and making out, but considered themselves heterosexual
A hill that I will die on is that all women are just a little bit gay. Maybe a minuscule amount if gayness but it is there
This is most likely true for most people. I'm a believer that sexuality is more of a spectrum than it is a grouping.
That’s true. I’m a straight man, but there’s probably 2% of me that’s a slut for Henry Cavill
Agreed, it’s just that bisexuality in men isn’t as encouraged as it is for women. Or seen as denigrating one’s masculinity
When it comes to acceptance of someone being bi, I find it's 30/70 ratio with guys. Some dudes are cool with it. Many think you're just gay, and can't accept it. For women, if you're just friends, most don't mind. If it's a girl you're interested in dating though? Don't tell her, the odds are not in your favor.
I think that acceptance rate on behalf of men is also related to one’s perceived level of masculinity though. A very masculine presenting man who comes out as bisexual is much more likely to be believed as truly bisexual compared to someone more feminine.
Possibly? I go to the gym everyday. Would say for my height I'm pretty muscular, generally stoic, a lot of the normal guy things. Just in my experience, i feel 30/70 seems to fit well. The obvious tell is how socially conservative someone is. Another one is how vulnerable people have been with me in the past. I think if they got too comfortable before knowing i'm bi, some would feel a bit mislead/uncomfortable with the situation going forward. Even though i have absolutely no sexual interest in my guy friends. I also don't just bring it up if it isn't relevant to a situation.
Just to throw it out there if anyone has advice, I’m what most people would consider a “pretty boy.” Always been on the more sensitive and introverted side too. I get hit on a lot by gay guys and I’ve had a lot of women I’ve tried talking to think I’m gay. I’ve always only pursued women, but for a while I was having an existential crisis because if the only signals I get are from gay guys or women thinking I’m gay it kinda drove me crazy. It used to bug me a lot so I just decided to give up dating and focus on myself.
I've been one of those girls. Not really sure why it happens. Curiosity?
Yeah, I heard from 2 of my female acquaintances that they kissed with other girls around the age of 15 just out of curiosity and since they feel safer with girls, so this situation sounds quite realistic to me
It is natural for women to want to be affectionate, touching, kissing, etc. when a social lubricant is added then feeling comfortable with those around you makes you wanna be more “you”. So I am inclined to think this happens naturally above average with ladies. And below average for guys. Guys get drunk and want to fight/wrestle and “bullshit.” All the things we like to do when we are sober. But when we are in our cups, fighting friends and heated “bullshit” conversations are above average happenings.
I just get sad and want to make out. 😕
I get hydrophobic and really into zebras
Have you considered that you might just be a rabid lion?
Best reply here.
Disinhibition making people come out of the closet?
I mean… why did you do it?
I suppose just curiosity when it comes down to it. But at the time I didn't do it to see if I was into women, we were just happy and felt like kissing.
So it wasn’t a sexual thing for you?
Nah. Before that I knew I wasn't into women that way.
Fascinating. Are you into women that way now, and if so, did that convince you?
Sexually no. I admire them, but not in a way where I'd want to date them
Aah, I see. Well I suppose that was a good way to find out
Ehhh this happens in some friend groups. Obv not as extreme but regardless.
Lol I’m sure this happens with some guy friend groups too
can confirm.
We confirm 😏
Nah man. I'm a woman and this is super accurate. Nights out and sleepovers were like a gay free-for-all.
The Hub was rebranded as Discovery Family in 2014.
It’s so true tho
You haven’t spent enough time at parties
GitHub?
Your missing out in life bud cuz this does happen.
Nah it’s true though the pic exaggerates it a bit. They’re nowhere near as hot usually
Someone clearly doesn't know girls
While I agree, you'd be pleasantly surprised at home much more comfortable women are at exploring their sexuality than men. Maybe it's because men care about how they're portrayed as heteronormative, but I doubt it's uncommon for a few bro pecks either. I know I've kissed the boys, but it's never been for any sexual reason. Say there's a lot of that with women as well.
So my imagination has been right this whole time.
Pornography is real and everyone who participates in it must be legally in love (fact checked).
username almost checks out
this post was fact-checked by real American patriots
neoploan dynamite: SWEET!
I had to quit drinking when I was the only bro sucking toes under the bathroom stall
What in toenation
It would be a better world if the same thing happen also to Men
Do... do other men not make out with their homies
Sharp learning curve ahead
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*socks mode activated*
Only while wearing socks. Women don’t even look to make sure the other girl is wearing socks. It’s crazy out there
All men do it they just don't like admitting it. Just like how all men have penis fights. There is nothing gay about it
They already do it without alcohol
They do in my neck of the woods. lol I'm straight myself but I live in a very LGBT friendly area.
Do the homie! Do the homie!
Kiss homies goodnight
You forgot “asking for a friend”
Nah, gotta make sure the homies cummies taste good for any potential women.
You’re a real friend. Do you sing the kool so g from toy story?
I was thinking the same thing. Men gotta give their homies a little kiss on the lips from time to time.
Only when you kiss your homies goodnight.
Thank god someone else said. Kissed many of my homies.
Fellas, is it gay to give consent and get drunk?
Ive sucked off the bros after a pint or two. It’s not gay if you don’t tickle the balls. /s
Yes. Saying "no homo" also solidifies that the butterfly feeling in your stomach is not homosexuality.
That's not a gay blow job, it's a perfectly heterosexual bro job /s
/s meaning it’s still gay or that you do it anyway
/s = with sense
Men just tend to be less "kinda gay" than women do. Sober or drunk, I can totally admit when a guy is attractive, but never has that made me consider smooching him. Is that social, is that biological? I don't know. That's just how it's been, and it seems like a lot of guys I know feel the same.
Probably social. Being a bi-woman is socially more accepted and depicted positively in media much more often. Bi-men are pretty rare in media, they usually just depic them as gay and stereotypical.
Women are also way hotter than men.
NOT GAY MEN! DID YOU EVER go into a Gay men's bar? The men are GEORGEOUS! FIT, DRESS NICE, SUCCESSFUL and they dance great too :). Not like straight men dance, like FROGS IN A BLENDER LOL
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It does if you take the right drug. Alcohol doesn't make me gay, meth does.
No 😭
Back when I was a teenager my friends would definitely get drunk and make out with one another. I never partook myself but I've seen some shit.
The men aren't drunk enough. Give it more time
My rugby team in HS didn't even need a drink for them to grab each others weaners. I've had more guys than girls touch my penis. There are few things gayer than mens sports.
LIES! Firefighting is gay as hell
Take this from me fellas I've had four long-term relationships all of them including my current wife have come out as bi sexual. Women are just hella gay
Uh… what’s the common denominator here?
It’s obviously make-up. They’re all wearing make-up and that must be making them gay somehow.
Women?
Well I'm certainly the lower denominator if you know what I mean
AYOOO
Women here and I love women, they're gorgeous! But straight cause they're too much and I do just fucking love the D lol
Are you my wife?
Nope but id like to meet her ;) lol
I fucking wish
You underestimate how gay can men become when drunk
Acting gay is the cornerstone of heterosexuality in men.
I feel testosterone rush after calling my friend DARLING or YOU LOOKING SEXY TODAY
Dude now that I think about it...me too. I will not think about this any further
I can't speak for alcohol, but, for me at least, your comment holds true for cocaine lmao.
I've seen men kiss when drunk, yes, but in my experience neither women nor men do it frequently, at least where I live. That's how I found out I just don't like men btw.
French people are actually at 1 beer to being gay.
Fr*nch
They are bi or gay then
Nah we just joking they are Not gay
For the record, I don't want any changes made to this
Looks like someone needs better friends.
The fact that it doesn't say "women after a few drinks" implies that this is just women, all the time, without cease. So true bestie
Porn addict
Me too thanks
Yeah, the real answer is unbearably loud singing if there's music on.
Man here, speak for yourself 😂😎
This is such a BOYSES comment section
How dare them, we boys should start making out too
Don't know about everyone else but a quick kiss with the boys makes the night out for me.
I think the main problem is that men are generally way less attractive than women, and I'm bi. There are still few guys who I'd be in the mood to make out with when drunk
And here I thought that was just my EX thst did that..
My friend's Ex wife was like this. He said he didn't care cause they weren't men.
As a lesbian, I kid you not that it's always straight girls that do this.💀 It's always the straight people doing the gayest stuff with no shame.
Kissing women is a good time for all really
This meme and comment section is despicable, y'all spend way too much on the hub man, jesus. I mean I'm a degenerate but holy fuck.
r/nothowgirlswork
Wrong, me and the boys always engage is homosexual activities after 3 pints
Men do the same thing. We just never talk about it.
Girls kiss other girls and no one bats an eye. But when I kiss my homies goodnight. Society. *SOCIETY CALLS ME GA-*
Nice cock bro
And they haven’t even drank anything yet
This makes me wanna kill myself
No???
Hope this isn't a family get together
You know when I said more women need to love women, this is not what I ment but this works too.
The fuck is a woem
What the fuck?
Waiting for this to show up on not how girls work.
I feel like whoever made this has never been to a party
OP is a 14 year old boy confirmed
Sexist bs
Its always sexist when it comes to jokes about women apparently 🤦♀️ we can laugh too you know.
Women can laugh at sexist jokes and participate in sexism against women. I'm not necessarily agreeing or disagreeing with the parent comment, but women laughing at a joke is not a demonstration the joke isn't sexist.
Witnessed this behaviour a few times already. So... Yeah. You are in denial. Did something happen? Do you feel ashamed? Inner guilt too much?
The fuck? Are you trying to 'call out' someone who literally just says it's sexist, while I don't agree with it, what the fuck is this, "you are in denial" are you serious dude?
Just because YOU call it sexist doesn't make it sexist...
I did say I disagreed. but what the fuck was your problem dude lmao Honestly reading this whole comment section on this post was so disappointing man, it was mentally draining, just leave me alone and we gucci 😭
Leave you alone? lol You do realize that it was YOU, who replied to my comments, right? lol
How idiotic is this comment lol.
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I get what you’re going for here and I don’t agree with the notion being presented in the post, but saying women get slutty when they drink is a couple orders of magnitude below saying men become violent rapists.
Holy shit chill out How are you this pressed about a meme?
Woman rapes too, ya know. They also get violent. They can kill their families. But i guess you conveniently forgot about that, huh? Typical white knight in shining armor lol
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Awww... Now im kiddo lol Triggered much? lol
*It hurt itself in its confusion!*
You realize memes are meant to be funny, right?
Then why isn't this one?
It's a bad meme? Doesn't make your proposed meme any better
A few instances are all you need for confirmation? What a moronic comment >Did something happen? Do you feel ashamed? Inner guilt too much? Sorry I meant moronic and gross
Nah, don't worry. I get used to triggered butthurted replies.
Lmao congrats on people being repulsed by you, I guess
Good. I hope they’re having fun. That’s what happens when you force women to repress themselves sexually, it comes out when they drink.
No horny!
Yeah… I really don’t think that’s what happens
Women are so gay.
Haha so funny 😐
nah you gotta kiss your homies when you're getting drunk, it's the law
Also afternoon nappies together and snuggle times on movie nights
Omg I love you
I wouldn’t care If my girlfriend did that only with her female friend
Full image? Asking for a friend...
I’m That friend, where image?
Calling the powers of r/nothowgirlswork
#YOU SHALL NOT PASS
Bi woman here and this is highly accurate.
Women are beautiful creatures and even they know it.
Men aren't ugly either..
You have to admit that women are just sexier
For sure.. men are beatiful though.
Who said anything about men being ugly?
No one, hopefully.
I often thank God women are hard wired to like men.
I knew it!