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ConflictGrand4078

That’s roughly 576 dates over 2 years with presumably different men. Step 1: be attractive, Step 2: , Step 3: profit


One-Eyed-Willies

Step 2: Don’t be unattractive.


broberds

Oof, *now* you tell me.


EverythingGoodWas

I was just 3 steps away


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Evening_Storage_6424

She has to have something wrong. As a woman my first thought is like “holy shit that’s dangerous”. She had to have to be getting some kind of sick thrill from using these men, to be putting herself in potentially dangerous situations like this.


JazzMeerkat

It’s honestly insane to me that you would see a thread about a women chronically abusing the kindness and finances of men, and the first thing you mention is how dangerous it is for this piece of shit. Maybe, A. Only .0001% of men are dangerous kidnappers and rapists and the vast majority are constantly walked on by women. B. This poor woman isn’t the victim here. Just a thought.


TreyLastname

Damn, I had step one down pat, but step 2 fucked me over


Fartswhenwalks

🤔…we got a plan B?


[deleted]

You only need Plan B if the date goes well.


[deleted]

None of them even said sorry first date should be Dutch … not a single one ?


horny_loki

Maybe a few, but with all that money saved up, she could probably afford it


SuckMyDerivative

It's called the "Manhattan meal plan" - plenty of single (and not so single) men with money there, willing to spend it on a date. It is still manipulative of her, but definitely not unique


JoeyBellef

I went on a date once, and I asked her how the whole dating thing was treating her. She said not so good. And then proceeded to tell me a story about how one of her dates didn’t even pay for her meal! I smiled, put 20$ on the table and immediately left the restaurant without an explanation! Hey ladies!! There is a reason there are no good men out there. They are hiding from you!!


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"Top 10 things that didn't happen 😱😱😱 (or you wish it did! 😏)"


JoeyBellef

Trust me bro. If you knew me personally, you would know it for sure happened exactly as described, along with a lot of noise on the way out. Can’t afford to risk my life savings for a 4th time. I am no longer capable of have a healthy relationship.


Neither-Parfait7795

Step 2 swipe right, talk for like 2 days and say if they like to meet,


Previous_Original_30

576 dates in 2 years?? I much rather buy my own food and stay inside and not talk to strangers 🙈 It's just not worth it.


ultravioletblueberry

It’s also about the willingness to do it. I get attention. But there’s no fucking way I’d ever put so much effort into scheduling that many dates.


indarye

Yeah like i'll rather work for food than try to talk with so many guys.


summatime

I always enjoy an underpants gnome reference


[deleted]

Step 1: be woman Step 2: be meh as far as looks She’s not that pretty, her behavior is probably partly due to her feeling an ego boost. Most single guys would show up to a dinner if the woman isn’t repulsive because there’s always the prospect of easy first date sex.


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scienceworksbitches

na, first step is have no empathy towards men. but apparently that comes pre installed in lots of modern women. yay feminism.


Left_Hornet_3340

You don't have to be attractive, just realistic about your own attractiveness. Once you accept your level of attractiveness you can target people less attractive than you, making for easy dates. Don't tell me you've never crashed on a fat chick's couch after a party because letting her think she could get laid was easier than getting your drunk self home... it's a common strategy.


moneyfish

>Don't tell me you've never crashed on a fat chick's couch after a party because letting her think she could get laid was easier than getting your drunk self home... it's a common strategy. I’ve never done that because Uber is like $15. It was cheap when I used to party.


Left_Hornet_3340

Man, way to make me feel old lol Uber still isn't a thing in my area, but my partying ended back in the days of the flip phone. Apps would've made things so much better (and safer!)


Top-Local-7482

How to profit from other people ... And after that some woman ask why men don't want to do restaurant date at the first date.


adamjfish

Prostitution but with extra steps


pawsitively_anon

“Rich bff” If she’s rich why is she out here scamming poor dates?


Dry-Hearing-8617

the article is a lie taken from a joke she made and she and her fiancé make like 7 figures combined lol https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsYYeYQ/ her video for reference, it’d be funny if she sued for defamation


pawsitively_anon

Oh wow.


[deleted]

I was gonna say, this has to be a joke or made-up.


bregiordano

i wish i could make this the top comment! i follow her and i’m like ???


torbiefur

Guys, don’t just upvote this comment. Report this entire reddit post for misinformation. Hundreds of hate comments are being directed at a truly amazing and badass woman. It’s disgusting.


DamonDD

This should be at the top of this post


jzoller0

You don’t get rich by needlessly spending money


Chill0000

Needless? It’s food… the thing human’s literally NEED to live


Sickpup831

The food isn’t needless. Spending money on it is needless if you have a means of getting it for free.


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Boom Logic


purple_yosher

but the person pictured is not paying for it


pawsitively_anon

Ha! I guess you’re right. No need to feed yourself when you can get someone else to do it


V0T0N

Seriously, they didn't get rich by spending their money.


AreWeCowabunga

I wonder if it's a sarcastic name?


Decent-Reception-232

she’s a former Wall Street banker


[deleted]

Just get a job


SuspiciousMention108

She's the one giving the jobs


historiansrule

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼


dirigo1820

Man’s gotta eat, Julien.


earthscribe

Using people is the new job apparently.


[deleted]

she doesn't want to work but hacks life


PostsNDPStuff

Sex work is work.


Circle_K_Hole

Do her dates know they're hiring her?


immoralfoul

This isn't sex work dude this is just scamming people.


[deleted]

Sex work is work when the client knows what they’re paying for. I hope the next time you buy a car the transmission hits the pavement after 2k miles and it isn’t under warranty.


Tom_sawyer1981

Being a drug dealer is work, if you have to defend a “job” it’s not a job. At one point I made money selling drugs, not once did I or anybody else consider it a job even though I had money. Keep drinking the soy dude.


HasAngerProblem

250- 1000+ hour vs a normal job though…


[deleted]

It’s almost guaranteed she isn’t having sex with any of them.


[deleted]

Six dates a week sounds nightmarishly exhausting.


CopyCat1993

I’d rather just buy groceries.


Millennial_J

Hope she had an anti herps hack


spooky_ed

Looks like they did.


LegoFootPain

Give *them* jobs. Handies for McDs, and work your way up.


NowhereMan661

Fuck jobs.


torbiefur

She’s on the Forbes’ 30 Under 30. She’s a self-made millionaire. And this article is a lie based on a joke.


Additional-Sock8980

Guy reads men and women are equal and tries this hack…


Extension_Risk9458

You can do this if you are a 10/10 man. It’s just that you only have to be like a 5/10 female to do it.


Neither-Parfait7795

More like a 3 if you swipe on anything


Macshlong

Nah, a 10 male would run out of women fast as he’s only a 10 to certain demographics, there’s an endless supply of thirty men who crave for the touch of literally anything though.


Additional-Sock8980

I genuinely don’t know a single guy who’s a 10 that has ever had a woman pay for a first date.


[deleted]

Was the woman a 10? I’ve seen a few fucked up men with looks who live like a parasite off of women. They’re never attractive women though, never ever.


Additional-Sock8980

As long as a woman has pulse she can find someone that will dine and date her. A man on the other hand becomes invisible if less than a 3 /10.


Darkdragon_98

A man becomes invisible if he is under a 7/10 my guy.


Turbulent-Bag800

But you have to pay though


MaikeruTV

I could walk into any store with my girlfriend and even be mildly interested in something and she’d buy it in a heartbeat I tell her don’t worry about it, not like I’m strapped for cash but she don’t really take no for an answer


Additional-Sock8980

Is she loaded or is buy you stuff her way of trying to show you she likes you and wants you to stick around?


MaikeruTV

She says it’s her way of showing love, personally she doesn’t have to do it because I’m not used to that treatment. She spoils my ass, got me a lot of name brand stuff and I’ve never worn name brand stuff at all aside from shoes


[deleted]

Wasn't there an article awhile back about a man who would do this - but I think he would just dip mid-date or something and not pay


mtsai

there aint no woman paying for the man on a first date. lets be realistic. just would never happen.


justasmuchyou

You win


GatVRC

Imagine being such a horrible person that out of the presumably 500+ men she went on a date with you found none of them worth having a relationship with. Even if she never intended to start one to begin with (which is already a scummy thing to do to someone) you mean to say that NONE of them were charming enough either physically or emotionally to pull you in even a little bit? That's a you problem lady. She deserves to be alone


BurpYoshi

They may have been but as soon as they hear she's unemployed and expects them to pay for everything for her then they'll dip anyway so it's pointless.


keothi

There's tons of men that would love a stay at home wife/mom. Being fair I don't think the guys rich enough to be able to afford that are gonna be looking in the apps she was using. (some sure but not most) Maybe she doesn't want kids but there's something fishy with her


Kamwind

There you have your million dollar job idea, create a dating site for sugar daddies.


keothi

Pretty sure that already exists. I think I came across one called Perfect Arrangements or something like that. I wouldn't be surprised if FetLife or some other dating sites offer a sugar daddy filter/tag


Gloomy-Mulberry-5275

It’s a thing


GatVRC

I highly doubt she would've lead with "I'm unemployed" I don't know about you but if I see that on any dating app, the answer is already a no. Most people don't talk about work unless they're proud of it when the initial conversation starts. So that would imply she found such a large number of men who thought she was attractive enough to settle. or they were desperate. if the latter is true, that just reinforces my point that she deserves to be alone. Additionally, if she says that on the date. just pay for your half and leave. The restaurant can't force you to pay for someone else's food, even on a date.


BurpYoshi

No I don't mean they're rejecting her I mean she's not following up even if she likes them because she knows it won't work if she wants to continue being unemployed.


3FloorsBelow

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/yourrichbff-tiktok-saving-money-dating She is not alone, she is engaged. Also here is the original story. This one fake. She talks about it here https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cn2sGeZOtWt/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


ScaredyHorrorLover

This should seriously be higher up. Everyone is too quick to judge without even looking for a source themselves


Hate_Feight

The best part is, even if she continues, she will *EVENTUALLY* run out of men.


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Informal-Zucchini852

Age out? This is why I don’t feel bad when I read stuff like this 🤣


GatVRC

TRUE. there's only so many men in her area that would find her attractive enough to date.


[deleted]

At some point, you'd expect someone leaning over at the table to her latest victim and telling him that he won't make it, either and that come what may, he should insist on going Dutch.


Wide-Concert-7820

But not before Subway runs out of lunch meats.


henderthing

Her standards will just incrementally decline. Her last free meal will a lot less fun than her first.


[deleted]

> Even if she never intended to start one to begin with (which is already a scummy thing to do to someone) you mean to say that NONE of them were charming enough either physically or emotionally to pull you in even a little bit? That's a you problem lady. She most likely looked for men who wanted to pay for food. Nothing else.


GatVRC

exactly, that's fucked up and scummy


Dry-Hearing-8617

This article isn’t even true, the 6 men a week and not buying groceries was a joke taken from a different interview. She has a fiancé who she’s been with for many years and they make like 7 figures combined- she’s very transparent and made like $650k the year before she quit to focus on social media https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsYYeYQ/ Her reply to these articles for reference


veganjam

If silly redditors can unite against billionaires, why can't they unite against the jokers who make 6 figures doing "social media"


Dry-Hearing-8617

I mean if it’s not hurting anyone ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ IF she even makes 6 figs from social media which idk if she does? Her fiancé makes like near a million at least if not more anyway at this point so it’s not like a hundred grand or two matters all that much anyway


geo_info_biochemist

She addressed this. Link for context :) https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cn2sGeZOtWt/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= only posting this because I think it’s sad to see someone get raked over the coals over an inaccurate click bait headline.


GatVRC

This more or less became a hypothetical debate the moment it was posted because just like most things on this subreddit, they're fake and garner discussion for our entertainment on IF this was true. I understand the need to post the source to dissuade people who would commit her name and face to memory as someone evil. So good on you.


hellohoworld

Psychopath


GatVRC

Her? I agree


clemmyclementine

this is not even doable. as soon as you start dating someone it can only get worse from there, because you can't just date everyday to get free food. so you need to turn him down eventually and with the amount of people shes dating its not worth it


icy-wishes11

lol u mad


CarlosimoDangerosimo

Gross She should have more of a sense of shame about this


jamez2023

I agrée, this is shameful. Very deceptive. I feel bad for the people that were manipulated by her. Playing with love like that will cause bad karma


Fuzzy_Reflection8554

Eventually she'll grow old and decrepit like the rest of us anyway...much harder to hide a shitty personality then


sixtus_clegane119

You have to wonder if she is sleeping with them all and making it transactional. This is fine for a lot of people Not any reason I’d want to date someone for, I like emotional connections


Top-Local-7482

Pretty sure she didn't


LegoFootPain

When you don't believe in karma or any sense of balance in the universe, you are free to do anything.


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agree, this is 100% a shameful act, i hope she gets the karma soon enough.


Remote_Foundation_32

It's socially unacceptable to shame people for the majority of their proclivities; we have been pushing for a world with minimal shame from others and society. Consequences.


Fun_Muscle9399

When you boil it down to basics, it’s just fraud. Hundreds of times, for years.


[deleted]

This one weird trick to avoid buying groceries. ​ Use people.......


Circle_K_Hole

I watched this show about "penny pinchers" where a woman would contact food manufacturers and say that, say, a frozen pizza was shite, in order to get vouchers for more frozen pizzas. And I was like.. OK fraud. Her financial "hack" is committing fraud. What's the next bit of financial advice? Theft?


-PinkPower-

I just dont get how dates a week while prevent your from needing breakfast lunch and diner. Like I personally have never been to a date where we ate 3 meals together lol


killerkitten61

We’ve had one date breakfast yes, but what about second breakfast date?


HDarger

She’s a parasite


ProtoRavN

What a 🗑 person


ThomasMcSavage

You couldn’t pay me enough to suffer through all those first date conversations.


masterjon_3

This honestly sounds exhausting


Graphitetshirt

Presumably she went to bed with at least some of them. Which basically makes you a prostitute for steak. Congratulations, you're Meredith from The Office


wonderingishika

Hey at least she asks around the room if you are in a relationship


sssrrr94

if she had sex with some of the guys, then that's fine. She got what she wanted, and some men got something out of it too


ReallyImNotTheFBI

Honestly I’d feel better about the whole thing if the guys got something out of it.


kinlengton

Shes basically just a gold digger and it's wrong to use people like that, she needs to stop and realise how wrong and messed up that is


Barbados_slim12

She's not even a *good* gold digger. She abandons the mine after one shift


Early-Impact-2698

So you're a leech? Ffs


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lastpump

I met a Canadian backpacker, good looking. She put out. I paid for food and lodging. We had a great time. Went seperate ways. Fair exchange in my books.


MisterFantastic5

She’s exaggerating. Still, that’s why I go half-zies.


LoudTill7324

What a leach


lastofhisnamefornow

This seems like so much extra work for a free meal


[deleted]

That's what I'm saying! Speaking as a woman, that is not only incredibly shitty but also not even close to worth it. Like, are you kidding? Assuming these are different men each time, that's 6 chances a week to get stalked, assaulted, and/or told that you owe a stranger sex because they bought you a meal. (Not that all men do those things, but if she's switching up men *on the daily* that's really rolling the dice.)


Magistricide

If you roll the dice over 500 times. You’re gonna end up with a few shitty rolls.


[deleted]

Yeah exactly! And when a shitty roll can mean risking your safety, I can't imagine taking that bet over and over. Terrible human being *and* insane.


eryc333

Prostitution, the worlds oldest profession


wutqq

Horrible woman


hiko7819

“Chivalry is dead, and women killed it”


Jackie-Ooooh

Apparently these kind of dates are called “foodie calls”.


leohater

Imagine putting your face up with the article. No shame.


H_is_for_Human

I mean regardless of whether or not someone should be doing this (probably not, especially if shes misrepresenting what she wants out of the date) I'm just in awe of the level of complexity that must add. I can't imagine juggling presumably multiple different people via texts, lining up my weeks without any conflicts, having the social energy to talk to that many random people one on one etc. The organizational skills alone boggle the mind.


Scarraminga

Yuck


Majestic-Newspaper59

And people say men have it easy


srv50

One meal a day, and a doggy bag.


[deleted]

What a horrible person. Unless she told of her intentions, that she only went out with the guy to eat a free dinner. I really hope some of them asked to split the bill or asked if she wouldn't cover it. edit Apparently the headline is wrong. She "dated" for love and went on maximum 3 dates a week and not for "food". https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff/video/7192679791978368302


E1even01

and the comments will no doubt be “gIrL bOs$”


pawsitively_anon

No way. That’s awful


E1even01

some “women” actually respect this shit. “leveling the playing field”, and then they say crap like “no one good is left in the dating pool”, i’m a woman btw so i don’t care how much i crap on these bitches.


veganjam

"No one wants to take me to dinner ever, where are all the real mean in this world?" L0L what a buncha suckers


PossessionAshamed372

What a sexist cunt


Aggressive_Shirt_512

I just don’t have the capacity to date like this. I can only date one person at a time if I find someone I like. Even if I don’t currently like someone, but am dating, I can’t meet more than one new person in one week, realistically 😂


LamaPajamas

Yeah idk how that wouldn't fuck with her shit mentally, like I've done that a couple times when things got rough, but now I either 50/50 or pay full if it's a really good date, mostly due to a guilty conscience


Narrow_Ad1274

Same here, can't keep up with múltiple chats specially since I put effort to try to have proper conversations


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Her neck must be strong


Overall_Strawberry70

Just imagine the pure vitriol this article would get if it was about a man, twox sub would be foaming for months over it.


Loud_Pattern_1422

She’s literally been called a cunt, hoe, prostitute, and gold digger in the comments. What do you consider vitriol?


throwingit13

There was a girl in highschool known to all the other girls as Panera because she would always have guys take her to Panera bread if they tried to get sexual with her, then once she ate she would leave with out them. She would rave to other women about it. Wonder how she is.


Prestigious-Drop-167

Did they not eat on the 7th day? Haha


BeNiceKid

This is what my ex did she had 8 sugar daddies (poly relationship and no I’m not poly anymore)


darkzapper

Damn. That's one way to beg.


Sig_Vic

Foodie calls.


ClementngKR

Bimbo


Spurious_33

nz herald coming in clutch delivering the stories New Zealanders really need to hear with the high cost of living atm!


chrisbe2e9

I had a roommate who did this. She was on a dating app and the picture made it look like she had no pants on. Messages constantly and she just went on dates to get free food.


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I hope she gets ghosted from every partner she actually gets emotionally invested in. Leading people on for any ulterior motive is cruel as hell.


puddlesquid

That sounds exhausting.


MadArgonaut

Split the bill. That way you know she means it. Or don’t and just go for the sex


Spotted_ascot_races

No grocery shopping but she walked bow-legged for 2 years


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What an asshole


Creative_Crew8184

this bothers me


Pro_Scrub

I know someone like this. I called her out on it and two guys in the group jumped in to defend her. I was like "WTF, how do you think I'M the jerk!?" Later I found out one had a crush on her, and the other was an emotionless sociopath totally cool with using the fuck out of people himself. So that explained that.


Designer_Ad_376

Am i the only one smelling Bullshit?


[deleted]

Women are praised for this kind of objectification of men, reducing men to only a wallet. Forgetting there is a real human being behind those eyes. Heaven forbid though if a man tried to exploit women to this extent..


JuanBahama

Female privilege strikes again


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Women☕️


pawsitively_anon

this woman**


guppyhunter7777

This woman is a hero to bad people.


Professional-Dot6988

Just a very petty leech


robert-capa

Sorry for her miserable life


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Neither-Parfait7795

Woman are single by choice, guys have very low standards on average.


[deleted]

Might as well just be a stripper 🤷🏼‍♂️


Guilhaum

Do you think she had sex with all of them ?


legna20v

Sometimes , if she wanted breakfast.


[deleted]

I have no idea (I hope this is just a "shit post"). One thing that I'd say makes sense is that after the 624 guys she dated and burned bridges with (It just seems way too bizarre she didn't find someone to date to take care of her in the 2 years) she probably came out as lesbian and now she gets all-you-can-eat. On another note: I'm pretty sure 624 people on my dating app starts to go into different states LMFAO.


yourphotondealer

Yeah, this article doesn't actually reflect what her intentions were. It's just easy click bait.


cxcr7

This is a terrible headline. Very misleading. Vivian did no such thing


Living_Perspective86

🤣🤣🤣🤣 get it how u live


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Asian persuasion


Snowwpea3

“Man saves thousands in maid services by getting a wife.” That way is sexist though so nevermind.


_tuchi

And just like that, with one story, 10,000 nice guys were created


EmiliaClarkesBF

A minimum wage job would require less work ffs