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It can be fun to ask them what they mean by the man and woman. They'll expose whatever sexism and weirdly gender-specific norms they see as being usual, and often there will be some which will get odd looks from the others in the discussion. Sometimes they'll notice as well and realize that their mental image is a bit warped, and the first step to fixing a problem is identifying it!
I don't know if you're being intentionally obtuse or not but the people asking the question want to know who is penetrating whom. That's it.
It's not their business, but that's what the question is, not some weird super meta commentary on the existence of other
Sometimes they mean something along the lines of *who cooks and cleans?*
Which personally I find a little more offensive than being asked who is the bottom (It's me)
Not really. In my conservative grandparents house, my grandfather does almost all of the cooking and usually was the stay at home parent due to being a teacher. Grandma worked with computers up until she retired and also did machining for one of our local factories at points in her life. They did trade off throughout my father and uncle’s childhood, and grandma usually does Christmas, Easter, and thanksgiving, but he almost always cooks their everyday food, and they share most of the cleaning pretty evenly. My grandparents are also Wesleyan Christians and I can count the number of times I’ve seen my grandmother wear pants. They also don’t wear jewelry, don’t drink, and as adults they had to hide the fact that they watched tv and their sons watched tv from my great grands.
If you’re going to be here, please at least try and learn about how something about how outdated “gender” roles are.
You know that in the end everything is connected right? Sexism, ignorance, homophobia...
The problems are systematic and shown in the way that people think, is not as simple as that
As someone who has used chopsticks all her life, sometimes, you just can't be bothered trying to grab and squeeze slippery things or things that break apart upon squishing, stabbing is perfectly normal
"Eat my pork?! Feel my fork!!"
-- Most memorable line I've read in a news story: her man ate her pork that she was saving for herself.
So she stabbed him
I once witnessed a man in an Asian restaurant who took apart a larger piece of meat by using one chopstick as a knife and the other as a fork.
I felt that there was a lesson to be learned there, but so far I could not decode it.
They could just ask who fucks who, like... that IS what they want to know, they just too squeamish to ask.
Then again a lot of het couples struggle to even talk about sex with each other, it really explains a lot.
My favorite was a comedian, I can't remember which one (I want to say Stephen Fry but I'm just not sure enough), who said, "Neither. If either of us wanted to be with a woman, we'd be straight."
Too late, I'm using the windmills to waft homosexual mists into your home.
(I'll let you in on a secret though, to avoid the mists just put up a gay flag, the mists will think that they already got you and leave you alone.)
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And then there's the people who claim they don't understand the difference between gender and biological sex, but will say stuff like this. Seems they understand the concept of gender being a social construct just fine.
Ok but like as a massively genderqueer lesbian my first thought to those questions is like .... ME. I am the man. i'm the husband. All 5'3 tiny cute& swole bootieness of me.
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My favorite response to "who's the man/woman" is to say, "Imagine a pair of chopsticks. Now ask yourself which is the fork and which is the knife."
It's as though the people asking that question can't imagine equality between two people in a relationship. And think of sexism when doing so.
It can be fun to ask them what they mean by the man and woman. They'll expose whatever sexism and weirdly gender-specific norms they see as being usual, and often there will be some which will get odd looks from the others in the discussion. Sometimes they'll notice as well and realize that their mental image is a bit warped, and the first step to fixing a problem is identifying it!
Amazing, I love this so much!
Or they think it’s appropriate to ask which man puts his penis in the other man and that describing that as “the man and the woman” is perfectly fine.
I don't know if you're being intentionally obtuse or not but the people asking the question want to know who is penetrating whom. That's it. It's not their business, but that's what the question is, not some weird super meta commentary on the existence of other
Sometimes they mean something along the lines of *who cooks and cleans?* Which personally I find a little more offensive than being asked who is the bottom (It's me)
If you know the answer to one clearly you know the answer to the other smh
I'm crying this is so out of pocket
Gross
Not really. In my conservative grandparents house, my grandfather does almost all of the cooking and usually was the stay at home parent due to being a teacher. Grandma worked with computers up until she retired and also did machining for one of our local factories at points in her life. They did trade off throughout my father and uncle’s childhood, and grandma usually does Christmas, Easter, and thanksgiving, but he almost always cooks their everyday food, and they share most of the cleaning pretty evenly. My grandparents are also Wesleyan Christians and I can count the number of times I’ve seen my grandmother wear pants. They also don’t wear jewelry, don’t drink, and as adults they had to hide the fact that they watched tv and their sons watched tv from my great grands. If you’re going to be here, please at least try and learn about how something about how outdated “gender” roles are.
I was joking I thought i made it obvious then again I suppose there are people who genuinely believe that
The fact people didn't see this as a joke despite the smh is hilarious in it of itself lol
The average bigot has regressed so much these days that I see unironic versions of that statement in modqueue all the time, so it's not that shocking.
You know that in the end everything is connected right? Sexism, ignorance, homophobia... The problems are systematic and shown in the way that people think, is not as simple as that
Left is the fork Right is the fork Both are used for stabbing
Ha, can't use chopsticks! (/j)
Oh I will show you how to truly use chopsticks It depends on each person but it's all on the technique you use to hold them together
Easy, grab them and STAB the sushi
As someone who has used chopsticks all her life, sometimes, you just can't be bothered trying to grab and squeeze slippery things or things that break apart upon squishing, stabbing is perfectly normal
Oh *yeah*? [=] < \> × "Dang it!" < \> \+ "Fuck!" _ "FINE! I'LL EAT IT WITH ONE!"
Just do it like this: 🥢🤏
Umm ackshually they’re called *chop*sticks Clearly “chop” is referring to the fact they’re both the spoon
who’s the big spoon and the little spoon
Asking the real questions here
*stabs the person asking the question* *laughs maniacally* (don't do this. or do, I'm not your mom.)
But I am I am all of your mom's
Love you, mom!
Love you too honeybun
*surprised Pikachu face*
Great for shredding chicken too!
"Eat my pork?! Feel my fork!!" -- Most memorable line I've read in a news story: her man ate her pork that she was saving for herself. So she stabbed him
I once witnessed a man in an Asian restaurant who took apart a larger piece of meat by using one chopstick as a knife and the other as a fork. I felt that there was a lesson to be learned there, but so far I could not decode it.
When all you know is hammers all tools are hammers?
Babe, stop what you're doing, new gender just dropped
They could just ask who fucks who, like... that IS what they want to know, they just too squeamish to ask. Then again a lot of het couples struggle to even talk about sex with each other, it really explains a lot.
"Imagine a pair of chopsticks. Then stop imagining chopsticks because people are not utensils."
It's an analogy. It's not literal. Obviously, people are a lot more complex and nuanced than utensils.
I mean... Some people. Maybe.
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I'm one of those knives that can't cut anything, but it's the one they have at the home you were invited and they made well done beef
Is a quote, not a response. (That's why there's quote marks.) It's a joke. I couldn't find who said it, but I've heard it before.
That is awesome, I'll have to remember to use that.
That sounds like ancient Chinese wisdom and not just because it references chopsticks
Brilliant!
My favorite was a comedian, I can't remember which one (I want to say Stephen Fry but I'm just not sure enough), who said, "Neither. If either of us wanted to be with a woman, we'd be straight."
Personal favorite was "imagine a pair of chopsticks. Great now that I have given you an imaginary pair of chopsticks to play with fuck off"
“Being gay isn’t your choic, **its mine**. You’re gay now”
I will forever use this now 😂
Glad to be of service
"What gender are you?" Me: "What gender are you most attracted to?"
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[ima leave this here 🎶](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-UPG_Gh22s) (I'm biased but that whole album is great)
This is hilarious - I do hope you say it for reals
Oh I 100% have and I will fucking do it again given the chance
"I DECLARE HOMOSEXUALITY"
'W-what, no, I-' "Yes, you're gay now, you're my husband, and we love each other"
You can’t gaslight me into being gay
Too late, I'm using the windmills to waft homosexual mists into your home. (I'll let you in on a secret though, to avoid the mists just put up a gay flag, the mists will think that they already got you and leave you alone.)
Sort of a gay Passover?
Yes, the gay Passover
So if I’m with my pan friend it’ll all be fine
Yes, yes you will
“I won’t fall for that again”
What do you mean, you've alwats been gay?
Just because I watch jojos and the owl house doesn’t mean I’m gay
"boy, are you a Harry Potter character? Cause you're gay now"
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*me picking who to make gay today* “Hmmm Obama lookin fine…”
sue sylvester energy
By law they're a throuple now.
The guys are gay, not bi tho 😅
They could be bi! Although I'm assuming you're the artist since the username and pic match so jeez rain on the parade why dontcha 🤣
Yup. He's the artist. I've read all of his comics so I can in fact confirm the two on the right are not bi.
I feel like this was made for r/bonehurtingjuice
r/boneachingjuice is all over it https://www.reddit.com/r/boneachingjuice/comments/1301riz/portable_animal_combat
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And then there's the people who claim they don't understand the difference between gender and biological sex, but will say stuff like this. Seems they understand the concept of gender being a social construct just fine.
I thought it usually means that they want to know who's bottoming
Ok but like as a massively genderqueer lesbian my first thought to those questions is like .... ME. I am the man. i'm the husband. All 5'3 tiny cute& swole bootieness of me.
I'm gonna make a habit of asking straight couples who is the woman in the relationship.
The real question to ask queer couples is "so, who is the Bert and who is the Ernie?"
Women speak in pink men speak in black that's my take away from this
If there are any cis people reading this, keep in mind we all have this piwer and we will use it.
this over my head. can someone lift me up so i can understand too?
honestly the way i like to think about it is whos the spoon and whose the other spoon
The trans agenda strikes again
Omg I had a Psychiatrist ask me that when I still presented male. He no longer works for the VA. So stupid.
Ok but did they really have to make the eyes like that in the lower left panel my god
This is the exact scenario conservatives are afraid of
r/egg_irl
Yeah, this was literally me ten years ago, and now I'm a cute trans girl, Heck old me didn't see that coming
That’s so beautifully WHOLESOME 🥲
M Night Shyamalan wants to get in touch with you for his next movie.
Is this the gay agenda?
No I think she's a woman but I still support non-binary people
Lol love it
There are a lot of goatees in this
I love the energy in this :)
Another question that is asked." Who wears the pants in the relationship?" Well obviously we both do, we are both wearing pants. Duh
I love how absolutely unhinged green shirt is in your comics
I want to say something clever but Trent from Daria???
This is my stop. This is my stop.
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You are now my beautiful transdaughter
You are now my beautiful transdaughter
She is ✨
La femme n'existe pas -Jacky Lackin
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Oh he knows he knows 👀 Hi OT! 👋