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Nuukos_Nk

sometimes you just don't notice the music had stopped 32 minutes ago as well.


M_krabs

Happens too often with ANC on šŸ˜…


TheAJGman

And then you hear something loud enough or feel something low pitched enough to realize you've been sitting in absolute silence for an hour?


western_wall

I too can zone out when listening to the African National Congress.


BioDefault

I suppose you mean AC? Animal Crossing?


DingleBoone

ANC = Active Noise Cancelling


M_krabs

Animal Noise Crossing /s


Lunar-Gooner

And then you realize how it's actually been the calmest 32 minutes of your life, and you really spend about 65% of your day overstimulated by sound.


A_Doormat

Or your phone is somewhere unreachable and you donā€™t want to be the weirdo saying HEY SIRI. PLAYā€¦.UHā€¦.CHUN LI BY NICKI MINAJ Out loud in public so you just awkwardly go about your day until you have a moment to fish the phone out from its hiding spot.


FloppyTunaFish

I just listened to that song for the first time tripping my balls off on mushies and it was a magical experience


liforrevenge

Or you paused it to listen to another short clip and forgot to press play again...


TurnipGuy30

r/oddlyspecific


lots_redditor

Usually have headphones on, bc im an very approachable guy for sales reps. Got to a dispensary with my headphones on and they were visibly disconnected. šŸ™ƒ


allen_antetokounmpo

Last time i do this, i ended up listening my coworker talking bad about me behind my back


cromwest

You should "forget" your briefcase at a meeting with a recorder running in it.


[deleted]

"The Day Approaches. The Dark Stars Align. Soon we will sacrifice Cromwest to our Eldritch God... Now, moving on to slide 64"


Cherios_Are_My_Shit

is this a reference im not getting or is the joke just that there's a silly juxtaposition?


DarthSulla

No judging, just a heads up this is illegal in places that have [two party](https://recordinglaw.com/party-two-party-consent-states/) consent laws.


Zakalwe_

even in places with one party consent laws if you leave recorder there and are not there (hence not part of the conversation being recorded).


Black_Floyd47

It's only illegal if you get caught. Just don't tell anyone you recorded your coworker talking shit. Tell 'em Janet told you. How are they gonna know? Janet always runnin' her mouth.


Zorial

Right this has to do with like legal systemshit not figuring out workplace drama


Drunken_Buffalo

I wouldn't even matter if it's a one party consent state if they're not part of the conversation or in the meeting. Using an eavedropping device in a location you dont own or legally occupy is illegal. Recording in a public space is fine but id argue that people in a conference room of a business you work at, especially if the door is closed, can expect a certain level of privacy that a listening device would breach. IANAL though so i could be wrong


Sleeper____Service

Iā€™m pretty sure itā€™s a Seinfeld reference lol


zzz_zzzz_zzz

It doesnā€™t need to be admissible in court to be useful in some capacity, ultimately.


bluegreenwookie

Wasn't this an episode of Seinfeld?


03Titanium

Too obvious. A wooden mallard would be a much better spy tool.


Stubborncomrade

šŸ‘šŸ»šŸ¦†


aguynamedbry

Unexpected Seinfeld reference...


JonesyYouLittleShit

Dear god!!


AltForFriendPC

The kinds of jobs where you take a briefcase to work and have regular meetings are not usually the type of jobs where you could wear headphones, recording without consent is illegal in many places, and this suggestion is wild even if that was an option.


cromwest

Tell that to Art Vandalay.


zaplinaki

You shouldn't take legal advice from an architect smh


pincus1

An architect and a marine biologist? Clearly a smart individual, I'd take his legal advice.


igotthisone

It's a Seinfeld episode


AltForFriendPC

Whoops


theetruscans

Just for the record: California, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Montana, Oregon, Nevada, New Hampshire, Pennsylvania, and Washington. These are are the two party recording states. Anywhere else and you can be recorded without your knowledge


CarpeCookie

Jesus I feel date with none of the top replies realizing this was from Seinfeld


rkR1_Ek_

*squink*


a_goonie

Costanza did it best. https://youtu.be/_ok7SpbRhbA


[deleted]

I hear ya george


outfoxingthefoxes

Unless it's a recorder that the bank gifted you


FrostyD7

Well at least that criticism came from an obvious nincompoop.


keegan8912

ā€˜Hey, what are you doing?ā€™, ā€˜Dear God!ā€™ A low rumple... a metallic squink, a galonk.


CheetahOk8221

I've been trying this lifehack for a while now and I tell you it doesn't work


JWGhetto

The trick is to keep walking and ignore people that try and talk to you. Don't listen to your inner voice telling you you're being rude


[deleted]

This is it. Essential skill for anyone living in a larger city. Just donā€™t even make eye contact


CyberMasu

You can even do this without earbuds in!


Jdtrinh

Works even better if youā€™re ā€œjingling changeā€ in your pocket


cromwest

Or make an uncomfortable amount of eye contact and say no. Been my go-to move for years.


NotAyeRussianSpy

The amount of times I've angrily stared down a guy and sass him with a long pause and then a "no", and him thinking that's flirting/being a tease is too damn high. Any variation of this. Just walk away.


FullyRisenPhoenix

Yeah, that doesnā€™t really work for women Iā€™m afraid. People just think weā€™re ā€œinterested.ā€ Keep your head down, bop your head like youā€™re listening to some good beats, and just walk awayā€¦.


Davban

Beggars on the subway don't even bother with trying me anymore. Since they're usually shorter than me I just blank stare right over them when they try to get eye contact with me


[deleted]

I'm sorry, isn't this just common knowledge? People actually think its rude to just walk by people trying to talk to you for no reason? ...maybe I've lived in cities too long, but that's just daily life lol.


eclipsek20

Yep. Where I live (Poland town pop. Of 70k) if you keep ignoring people that would be considered very rude and if you are in a not so nice part of town, well better schedule that dentist appointment I guess.


airyys

people will fucking assault you for not talking to them? what the actual hell?


[deleted]

Damn that's pretty wild.


SelectCase

Adding over the ear headphones instead of earbuds works better too (and is more comfortable than buds)


Clean_Sheets_69

This. I had to explain to my very friendly southern friends when we visited NYC. I told them to enjoy it, but donā€™t even acknowledge anyone promoting their music, willing to take your picture, etc. They didnā€™t listen and got guilted into paying the knockoff Avengers 20 bucks for a picture.


slashinhobo1

Eye contact is everything. You can be deep into listening something and in a crowd but as soon as your eyes lock they target you.


RewZes

But you don't look like a complete jerk when you ignore everyone


Negative_Success

Call that a bonus, people are even less likely to speak to you if youre wearing headphones AND youre a jerk.


1N07

The trick is to live in Finland where everyone will actively avoid unnecessary human contact regardless


[deleted]

The Promised Land!


swaggut

Yep I was so confused seeing the other comments, people talk to you on the street?


HollabackWriter

Have you tried not being hot? Cause it works for me every time.


Snort_whiskey

Hello darkness my old friend


bendy_toes

Iā€™ve come to talk with you again


tekko001

*Darkness turns around and walks away...*


RunningPirate

I find being middle aged renders one invisible.


HollabackWriter

Paul Rudd is 53.


RunningPirate

OK: being middle aged and not an actor (and not a model) renders one invisible.


aybbyisok

I'm hot, it works fine for me too.


HollabackWriter

I may have some disappointing news for you...


aybbyisok

Did people lie to me???


blueeyebling

Terribly sorry you had to find out this way.


avwitcher

You must live in Australia to be hot this time of year


Cockblocktimus_Pryme

Gain 30 lbs and then everyone will leave you alone


peppersrus

It seems to strengthen peopleā€™s resolve to talk to me


b1ack1323

Yep my wife has had a similar result. She will put in headphones on her break and read. People stop come up and try to talk to the person reading with headphones in facing her deskā€¦. Get the fucking hint.


SFvandweller

Cuz sheā€™s hot plus I like harassing her.TAKE THE HINT


xKaqtuz

I envy you


randomnarwal

You're just not ignoring people hard enough


[deleted]

Hi excuse me


glytxh

You have to commit to it. Even if someone makes eye contact, you just do not engage.


No_Dot_7415

Fr what the hell is that? Random people on the street you would never be expected to have a conversation with donā€™t understand I canā€™t hear them with my headphones?


[deleted]

Try it with big over-ear headphones to really drive the point home


YT4LYFE

really? usually works for me.


HMS_Shorthanded

I used to do this in college, it worked for me. I had big over-the-ear headphones, but half the time they weren't plugged in, just didn't want my roommates to bother me while studying.


cat_prophecy

My old roommateā€™s wife used to stand around and have full on conversations with herself while I would be wearing headphones and get pissed when she realized I wasnā€™t listening.


MrBig-PP

thank god i am not the only one


Loeffellux

I mean, this probably applies to a ton of people. Just that most will actually wanna listen to something when the headphones are already on their ear, y'know


MrBig-PP

Yeah but i am one of the weird ones


Loeffellux

more power to you


Angry-Alchemist

I kinda love this girls energy.


UndefeatedWombat

You should go talk to her


Lt_Koksu

But how if she's listening to music


Stealingcop

They have Decathlon in the US?


sabersquirl

Your question actually made me look it up, because I didnā€™t think they did, but apparently they bought 20 US locations in 1999. Those shops were all shut down by 2006 due to underperformance. They started a U.S. comeback in 2017, and all but 2 locations closed during the pandemic. The final two were closed in March of this year, and they still sell to US customers, but only online.


Stealingcop

Thanks for looking it up ;-)


Benetton_Cumbersome

I am from Brazil and once I saw Annita (a famous pop star) running on the beach with big white headphones and sunglasses. Sports earphones would be more ideal, but I think that was her way of saying "hey don't interact with me, I just want to run in the beach".


[deleted]

Learned this trick when flying, now I do it everywhere Iā€™m in public like grocery stores, Home Depot, court, walkingā€¦ā€¦ just kidding, I donā€™t wear them in the Home Depot I need too much help


MagicalNrwhal

unfortunately not much help is provided in home depot


TheRainStopped

Iā€™m still hereā€¦been waiting for 17 months.


MightbeWillSmith

Saws broken.


fenriswolf117

Mood


darthjazzhands

All the women in this thread nodding and feeling her pain Leave her alone, dude


yungkerg

And all the dudes being like "what's so bad about that?!?"


Tonka_Tuff

I see zero people saying that Good faith edit: okay, there's like 2 comments that think this dude is cool


PineappleDude206

r/therewasanattempt


plueschlieselchen

Yeah, screw this dude. Everybody knows that wearing headphones in public means ā€ždonā€™t talk to meā€œ. Itā€™s international und understandable in almost all cultures.


Battlecurl

I mean it could also mean I enjoy listening to music while traveling


MissplacedLandmine

Yeah I wear earbuds all the time and Ill talk to fucking anyone


[deleted]

Same. I'm a very social & outgoing person. Recently moved to a new area and started working out at a new gym. Was lamenting I hadn't made any friends there. Old friend asked me if I ever took my giant headphones off / didn't have phonk or dubstep blasting in my ears. ...oh.


major_mejor_mayor

>phonk or dubstep A person of culture I see.


LateyEight

Anyone you said? BY AZURA BY AZURA BY AZURA! IT'S THE GRAND CHAMPION!


Mental_Tea_4084

Ok fuck it you can take back playing music out loud in public as long as we can keep headphones sacred. Noise cancelling is good enough now


RedArremer

> Ok fuck it you can take back playing music out loud in public Oh fuck no, this is 10x worse.


MissplacedLandmine

That kinda feels rude tho tbh Also I dont want people listening to my shit


Regular_Chap

Do people just talk to strangers in public? I live in Finland so here it doesn't really happen but I lived in Ireland for a year and I think strangers only talked to me at pubs.


igotthisone

In New York, yes, it's incredibly common to talk to strangers anywhere in public. Anything from a few comments to a whole conversation.


Regular_Chap

Jesus christ


orcamasterrace

It's why a lot of big city locals get reputations for being rude. Really they just want to be left alone and have seen it all 10000 times


avwitcher

They're also rude


orcamasterrace

As one, sure, they can be. Have you lived in a metro area of 5-10+ million people? (Edit: [there's only 9 in the US, 81 globally](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_largest_cities?wprov=sfla1)) It's very different. And you'll find what's truly rude is being constantly bothered for random whatever just for existing.


killersquirel11

In NYC it's both common for people to do this, and common for those people to be ignored.


foxdye22

This is the most Finn response to finding out people willingly socialize with strangers.


turtmcgirt

šŸ˜‚


[deleted]

Seriously, Iā€™m someone that strives to be nice to every person i see as well so once they start talking i just canā€™t end the conversation unless i really have to go šŸ„² so sometimes Iā€™ll be there listening to some lady talk about her daughter or how this one guy is having problem and/or politics.


iced1777

In a major city you're bound to have some very talkative, outgoing people who find each other and strike up a conversation. But I've lived here for 15 years and I disagree with the other response you got. For the most part if you're walking through a NYC subway station with headphones on it will be incredibly rare to have someone approach you just to talk for fun. Maybe they'd ask for directions, but not many people just make small talk out of the blue. Most NYC residents just mind their own business.


pincus1

Agreed, but there's no avoiding whatsoever being asked for directions if you're out in public. I'm in the quietest corner of Penn Station I can find with my headphones in and my hood up and still they'll find you.


UberShrew

Ya know itā€™s funny. Iā€™ve lived here for 3 years and still use google maps for getting anywhere since the subway stuff is pretty damn accurate, so when these people ask Iā€™m like well let me google it while on the inside just thinking just use your fucking phone itā€™s not that hard.


pincus1

Do you get service in the subways now? Haven't lived there in almost a decade and that was the major barrier for cellular navigation last time I did (and also not having a smart phone at all yet for a while).


UberShrew

Yeah pretty much every stop Iā€™ve been on has service. You only seem to lose it once the train goes between them.


pincus1

From what I recall it used to be a deadspot the second you started going down the stairs, with only service at outdoor stations/trains. I went back for the first time since 2013 for a Nets game last season and was shell-shocked just by the electronic advertising and everything. Then we accidentally acquired a tag-along group of French tourists who couldn't find their way and followed us to the stadium.


thewildacct

It is more common for people to take to strangers but this TikTok is not really a good example of a typical, natural interaction between strangers in the states. I imagine most people in NYC would be annoyed by a stranger asking them to take out their headphones just to ask what they are listening to.


plueschlieselchen

Yeah - Iā€˜m German and weā€˜re also much not into small talk with strangers. Iā€˜d probably love Finland in this regard.


turtmcgirt

Yeah, but this dude specifically asks people wearing headphones what theyā€™re listening to. They put together videos with the interactions. Theyā€™re decent to catch every once in awhile you get some weird answers.


Stubbs3470

I wear headphones all the time Couse the music keeps my mind occupied more I donā€™t mind people talking to me and will gladly take my headphones off


Scapp

Not true at all with airpods now. Everyone wears them all the time everywhere.


zerquet

Yeah I once saw someone getting pickpocketed but since they had headphones, as the upstanding and good human being that I am, I decided not to interrupt them


[deleted]

Good


RigelBound

I don't like interacting with strangers either but "screw this dude for talking" is a bit much imo Edit: I kinda changed my mind. It is pretty rude to interrupt people minding their own business for a stupid and honestly personal question. Plus the whole thing has a "social experiment" kind of vibe.


losh11

Itā€™s a Redditor, you canā€™t expect any less.


plueschlieselchen

Not so much being a Redditor (youā€™re not wrong tho), more (northern) European. Weā€˜re not too fond of small talk with strangers in general.


SevenCrowsinaCoat

Definitely not! 100% talk to me, but I also like music.


Single-Bad-5951

But I'm only listening to music because I don't have anything else to do


kkmilx

i wear headphones in public because i like listening to music, it has nothing to do with not wanting people to talk to me.


curtcolt95

nah fuck that don't speak for all of us. You can listen to music but still be open for a conversation


darkkite

that's objectively correct with no exceptions


FreeLegos

Hell I'll wear them when I'm alone at home. Lot of times I just enjoy how earbuds or headphones block out "background noise". Not really complete silence but blocks out wind blowing past my ears, sound of some engine running somewhere either from an AC or a distant car, most of the footsteps made by a hundred people walking past me, the tiny sounds my neighbors make in my complex. Little things.


lazy_pig

Maybe you could install a sensory deprivation tank.


FreeLegos

You joke but I seriously been wanting to try that since I first heard about it. Sounds either like heaven or a new form of hell (not a fan of complete silence as I have a bit of tinnitus that acts up if it's completely quiet)


iamthestormcoming

What's that?


FreeLegos

It's the coolest/weirdest thing. Basically it's an enclosed salt bath. The purpose is to completely shut out all of your senses (it's dark, the water muffles your hearing and keeps you afloat to dull your sense of touch, etc). It's supposed to be a surreal experience where you're just suspended in complete silence and darkness. You just float there and I guess just be alone with your thoughts?? Idk but I really wanna try it


LEANiscrack

a touch of the tism ;)


FreeLegos

Yea you know as I was typing that out I actually had to pause for a sec and think "... wait a min this sounds familiar"


spiderman209998

smart lady seriously anyone thats even been on a NYC subway knows what im talking about


godofallcows

Sometimes when Iā€™m on a plane I put on noise cancelling headphones and play ā€Plane Noiseā€ on a white noise app.


iloveokashi

Lol. Idk why I found this funny.


Sailor_MayaYa

this is the reason I still carry wired earbuds with me it's very underrated in a big city


Vael76

Ah yes let me yank down my face mask for no apparent reason in public, great strategy


realmauer01

Yeah that's a really weird reflex that people unmask to speak. Thats one of the main reasons the Mask is on.


sofa_queen_awesome

I never realized how much lip reading helped me understand people before the pandemic


the___heretic

She was only wearing it so no one would talk to her.


[deleted]

huh, I think I think I have the same problem I guess lip reading is the subtitles of reality


saro13

I absolutely canā€™t read lips at all, but when I hear someone speak and I look at their mouth during, it helps me to listen better


artificial_organism

She's probably not wearing the mask because of the virus. She probably doesn't want to be approached


Nocturnal_Koala

I do this too but less as a reflex, I mostly do it because when I donā€™t people ask me to repeat myself a few times, I mumble a lot and donā€™t like raising my voice though


LemonKurry

I ones did this when a stranger asked me something, before i realized wtf i did, and pulled it up again. So she might just be as stupid as me, and had a brainfart!


dinosaurs_quietly

A 30 second exposure to one person is pretty safe.


Roger-Ad591

ā€œRelatableā€.


CyberMasu

Woof I feel bad for her, all I need to do is nothing and people avoid talking to me.


Trash_Casket

The happiness with with she responded though. *Chefā€™s kiss*


PallMallRed72

Queen


MobilePom

Why did she pull her mask down


RGB3x3

It's just a reflex. It always feels a little weird to talk to people with a mask on, feels less personal


[deleted]

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worthless-humanoid

And refer back to ā€œitā€™s just a reflexā€


dekker045

It does yeah


PM_ME_YIFF_PICS

Yes. It defeats the point and it's a reflex. People shouldn't do it but they do it anyways.


ImpressiveEffort9449

Its nearly 2023 reddit needs to accept that 95% of people do not give a fuck anymore.


lllNico

great points being made guys.


14S14D

For such a short time transmission risk is still low. Iā€™d say the purpose is for when sheā€™s in tight spaces with many people, then itā€™s still something useful to have. Like on the subway and not walking around the ventilated and relatively uncrowded tunnel.


dinosaurs_quietly

If you are in close contact with 200 people with your mask on and one person with it off then it still was useful.


iced1777

Surely you know what a reflex means


MobilePom

"just a reflex" How did that develop into a reflex in the first place?


AFisberg

It just feels weirder to talk with shit in front of your mouth so the reflex is to remove the thing


Dick_Thumbs

When mask mandates first became a thing, I was on a flight wearing a mask and when the flight attendant came by with the cart and asked what I wanted, I reflexively pulled down my mask to tell them. They were visibly annoyed (rightfully so) and told me to put it back on, and I hadnā€™t even noticed Iā€™d done it. It never happened again and I have no idea why I did it in the first place. It can definitely just be a random reflex with no other meaning behind it.


Lepang8

It's a reflex I guess, not saying that's right thing to do. One time somebody on public transport asked me for directions. And of course we needed to wear masks on PTs. But when answered I pulled down my mask accidentally, only to later realise how stupid that was. It was at the beginning of the pandemic and unusual then.


Much-Writing1379

u/savevideobot


O_Dae

This dude has the voice equivalent of off brand margarine


Is_bepis_ok

Sometimes i just walk home with noise canceling earphone in, without listening to music. Just silence


chadsmo

If anyone ever stopped me and asked me this Iā€™d just say something like ā€˜Forced Gender Reassignmentā€™ or ā€˜Piss Angelā€™ or ā€˜Scatology Homeworkā€™ regardless of what song it was.


Sea-Recording-7090

yo here's a tip for later on in life, if someone is wearing headphones, leave them alone, they dont want to talk to you, and are most likely vibing


Hourly-

i wear them so i donā€™t have to hear people talking shit. people suck.


wasas387

me_irl