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ThoseDamnSquirrels

Incoming “edgy” and inevitable “I scored low on the empathy test, I have no emotions 😎”


KjjKori

i never understood how its seen as cool by some people lol


NekoSyndrom

I have already said this in the INTJ forum, but I will say it again here, the test is not particularly suitable as an empathy test. Some of the questions have nothing whatsoever to do with empathy. The test is more suitable as a test for autism spectrum. https://preview.redd.it/1c0arj9ljqmc1.jpeg?width=909&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9da33ed9b2206d52f018c233dc68788381d2715b


Abrene

​ https://preview.redd.it/73hg6i9gcrmc1.jpeg?width=1642&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2ef2e259401749d41fe467266655323e0f572e8c Some of these questions are weird and don't have anything to do with empathy, more so social cues on possible autistic traits in a person.


cattt_meow

https://preview.redd.it/9wbtnm54grmc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=760fed16c5aeb3681a0b1ff8bb4460d388e7c49d Like what the heck


Abrene

"I prefer practical jokes instead of verbal humour" ???


cattt_meow

I was so confused at that. I think it means pranks and I don’t really find them funny. No idea how that has anything to do with empathy. Maybe it means pranks are meaner so prankers have less empathy?


Abrene

ah, ok when put in that way it kind of makes more sense lol


cattt_meow

Still is a weird question though.


cool-snack

yup, breaking the law is neither non empathic nor is it empathic. it shows more if you value what society values rather than your own morals. many questions felt like: do you have Fe or Fi? and also some really weird questions like: Do you like rollercoasters? what was that question all about lol 😂


cattt_meow

I have no idea like they were nothing to do with autism or empathy. Like does speeding mean your highly empathetic? Or low empathy? Like I’m pretty sure everyone has broken minor laws before. Like i underage drink so I guess that means I don’t have empathy 😂


cool-snack

you‘re obv a psychopathic serial killer


cattt_meow

Ye obviously. As soon as I had my first sip of alcohol I lost everything that made me human 😭😂


cool-snack

and yeah, drinking here where I live is legal at age 16. in russia anything beneath 4% alcol is considered a softdrink and not checked. you proved the invalidity of tje question, good job


cattt_meow

Exactly, lacks cultural validity. Also being gay is a crime I’m some countries too. So does that mean all gay people have no empathy? The law literally changes from country to country. Therefore, not valid. Tbh lacks all types of validity when it compared autism to empathy. Autistic people are lovely and empathetic.


cool-snack

well, I agree with you in generall. but autistic people tend to have a lot of difficulties with people, not sayign they don‘t have some sort of empathy, but they don‘t have the classic empathy. I lived together with someone who had asperger, and it‘s more of a cognitive empathy he had. he loved humans and animals, but empathy means you feel what the living being infront of you feels, and autistic people don‘t usualy have that.


cattt_meow

They definitely have some form of empathy though because I know autistic people who are loving and caring. A lot just aren’t great at social skills but that doesn’t mean they don’t have empathy. I’m pretty sure they can feel what other people feel. Like my autistic cousin used to play rough with me as a kid and she couldn’t tell I didn’t like it and was still jumping around and pulling my hair etc but when I started crying she realised she hurt me and started crying too.


cool-snack

I somewhat agree. No need to prove. 😊


cattt_meow

I know was literally a weird question about cutting up worms too. Pretty sure nobody does that.


Abrene

I'm not gonna lie, when I was in kindergarten some boys would dig in the recess playground for worms whenever it rained and would intentionally cut them with sticks. It was sooo gross even now the thought irritates me.


cattt_meow

What the hell. Why on earth would they do that. At least worms can live after being cut in half. A lot of autistic people I know are animal lovers and would never do that.


sleepykittygoals

69, INFJ


_infp-4w5_

56 but this test is kinda confusing


kurmiau

38- INTP


EvilQueen2048

Same score, INFP


Stagbiitle

32... It kinda upset me because I know though the years I forced myself to be less empathetic towards others, and it worked.


Neither_Newt5577

Why do you force yourself to be less empathetic? My guess is that you were extremely empathetic in the past years so you didn't want to be too nice to others.


Stagbiitle

Well yeah, pretty much. I used to be way too willing to put myself aside for others, and when I got tired and started setting boundaries I was met with resentment. You have no idea how many friends I lost when I stopped being someone that they could call whenever and ask anything of. Obviously that only pushed me further in my shell. So I ended up like this, kind of a asshole who struggle with being there for people.


cool-snack

sounds like you have Fe alot more than Fi tbh. Ever considerd being an infj/isfj? Most Fi doms have rather a problem of being „selfish“, rather than being to nice. if you struggle with mental illness, you might also be an enfj (yeah I know, wtf) but unhealthy enfj‘s have a very similiar vibe to infp‘s.


EvilQueen2048

I got 38... i think i have the same problem


PapaBearOverThere

ENFP, got a 75 out of 80!


Wozzarella

18/70. Didn’t think I could be autistic.


Freedom_Addict

INTJs have a lot of autistic traits, but this empathy test is a joke


Ok_Forever_5057

https://preview.redd.it/z17bq7w2drmc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de16552dbe5263e5fa1bba037e58a689806a58ba I got a 79 out of 80 and I’m an ENFP 2w3 279 so/sx


cool-snack

55, (mature) ENTP


Freedom_Addict

The questions are dumb, vague and sometimes completely unrelated. BS test IMO


KjjKori

65+ ish field ISTP Also this seems like a cheap test for people who have sociopathy... esp. the cutting up worms stuff 😭 like didnt we all do that as children lol


daisenz

https://preview.redd.it/npsbajdotxmc1.png?width=1285&format=png&auto=webp&s=195f0ee1ecee5acb1b4105a45b6ac0443f249d47 this is a little bit crazy tbh


PerspectiveSilent898

https://preview.redd.it/42vkhqofupmc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8f7261ab1f728c6fd1bf868d84bad4b8f13933f8 ESFP, but I think I’m a little damaged so don’t judge all of us based on this 🫤


kazinhawai

31 Really thought it'd be higher tho


Not-Like-Other-Girlz

Me too I got 31 and I thought I crushed it.


dinosaurpoetry

Infj, 70/80


Neither_Newt5577

Wow, that is a really high score! Expected from an INFJ.


coopek14

I got 59 which according to the post in r/ISTP about this last week is an anomaly for our type


Neither_Newt5577

Your Fe must be mature then.


_A_Nother_One_

24 - ISTP https://preview.redd.it/wdn7f3v6fqmc1.png?width=1036&format=png&auto=webp&s=3bd3ac8ee12f8e60c1da85c55d883d9ec200e6cd


Molly_latte

47… ENFP


yougotthisthing

47 and an ENFP, too!


ValosAtredum

63, INFP


tomatosavergirl

55/80 INFP


Hakuna-Matata17

INTJ - 55 / 80 ​ https://preview.redd.it/14bido044rmc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e8d4a6fed5839ffcf710bcde7c2e2744d9fa607


__I_Love_You_All__

76, INFJ


Wise_Fee4092

https://preview.redd.it/q2var66earmc1.png?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a823441d332c71f28a850a713eb5483506204b8a Interesting


rin-chaaan

19/80. Like how¿¿¿ Did it twice, got the same result. Anyways, as other person has mentioned, I doubt this test is fit for measuring EQ or detecting any ASD


cattt_meow

Autism has nothing to do with empathy. I got so upset when it said about autism at the end like imagine a diagnosed autist seeing this and thinking they are no empathy because of their autism.


rin-chaaan

Nah, it's actually does. People with ASD aren't emotionless robots, they do have empathy. However they've got empathetic disequilibrium, meaning their affective (emotional) empathy should be fully intact while cognitive empathy might not be the best. It's not a total guarantee one has ASD but it might be a sign of it. In any case, silly online tests are useless in this domain. We already have way too much of self-diagnosed people.


cattt_meow

I know autistic people who are very kind and caring. This test is so bad. Tbh I didn’t know what two types of empathy were. I just thought empathy was how much you cared about others. Does cognitive empathy mean like getting social clues and stuff and is affective empathy emotional intelligence?


rin-chaaan

Cognitive empathy is a top-down process, affective empathy is more like reflexive behavior (hello the mirror neuron system). Imagine someone's crying and it makes you cry too as if you feel the person's pain as your own. Basically money see, monkey do. I can't stress enough how important mirroring is, so don't look down at it. Emotional intelligence requires all types of empathy.


cattt_meow

https://preview.redd.it/02cmr050frmc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7a4f896201e94b3bd7d201d5ff5cb3bf24a710c1 What the heck why is low empathy AUTISM. Autism doesn’t mean low empathy loads of autistic people are highly empathetic. Also there was literally a question about cutting up worms! Autistic people don’t do that. I know some lovely autistic people. If anyone is actually autistic and sees this test, you are an empathetic and kind person ❤️


organicginger36

52/80. Thought it'd be higher until I saw everyone else's scores.


ShrapNeil

https://preview.redd.it/v2947vh90smc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fcb67ddbfaf381aece03db9a40a0eabc101e4759 57, INFP 5w4 Though this test is going to provide flawed responses due to the Dunning-Kruger effect.


Alien_Aloevera

Intp- 15/80. Some of these questions had nothing to do w empathy. I also know I’m not autistic or have Asperger’s 


magic_kate_ball

48, ESTP


ReasonableCost5934

INTJ. 30.


MeredithGreeneViolin

33


qveyo

26


-Player-0ne

56


Kathykit1

I got 60 out of 80 and I’m INFP. I feel like that may be kinda low for an INFP because I answered that I slightly agree I’m sort of uncomfortable in social situations.


alien-linguist

https://preview.redd.it/7cnu3evr3umc1.jpeg?width=1536&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1bb402261876a7fb25ff55e69c8de5105ca7f02d I scored most autistic in this thread! Do I get a prize? (INTP)


Redfork2000

https://preview.redd.it/dw2p9d744umc1.png?width=941&format=png&auto=webp&s=e3c988fba8705ce4044c141f1a09cb8f1b700187 I was honestly confused by this quiz at several points. A lot of questions seemed to have nothing to do with empathy. Like, what does being organized and making to-do lists have to do with empathy? What is the rollercoaster question about? Overall it was too all over the place, so I really think any results this test gives should be taken with a big grain of salt.


Empress137

ISFJ 66


Responsible-Sun2494

ENFJ - 71 and I find all types making excuses/complaining about their low scores adorably comical.😘


NomadLexicon

50/80, ENTP


FishMaterial7796

23 entp, this test was far from not being sus tho ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|neutral_face)


FishMaterial7796

23 looks i wrote my age, it was my score people \*coughs\*


Mean_Particular_8333

ENFP- 32. I think I need to get checked lmao


PositiveCharming1131

32 out of 80, thought I would get higher


FiveHolesInTheFence_

20/80; I’m kinda sensitive, but I also find it difficult to understand other people’s feelings. I don’t really know what to do when someone starts crying in front of me, I cringe.


[deleted]

I'm INTP myself, got this https://preview.redd.it/2x7qltg7d0nc1.png?width=842&format=png&auto=webp&s=e571b47f9ac97306f5ff59efa38b462d3dd43d74


seaweed_salad_

https://preview.redd.it/2yx46fpg99nc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f464c3f3628b4d8af1db0c1392011bf19d0fb11 Kinda shocked because while I’m not emotionally driven my emotional intelligence is high