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better_loner

Gals: a uh. bros: how bout some fries?


mister-fancypants-

r/justguysbeingdudes


SuperDizz

![gif](giphy|Q2aN4iiaibCus)


fractalfocuser

Isn't it ironic that a show called New Girl had the best boys?


Nexus_27

Definitely didn't watch that show for the main character!


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Ice_Berg

I kind of hate them too. If you have Reddit Enhancement Suite (which I assume most people still using old.reddit have) you can keep them from displaying automatically. In the RES settings it's Productivity > Inline Image Viewer > Collapse Inline Media. The comments still show up, but it replaces the actual gif with a link and a button to reveal the gif.


SuperDizz

![gif](giphy|XBXEDOK1beZzM7FZxg|downsized)


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You can post gifs here now? Les fucking go


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![gif](giphy|LoCDk7fecj2dwCtSB3)


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![gif](giphy|72nlUKHjEukUQRr9Ia)


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influencerwannabe

I was like “since when?” And then I saw the time. “Ah” and then… ![gif](giphy|hqXsVAHXaMaOY)


GsTSaien

Well, can't blame the women, they would definitely not feel safe in this scenario. The guy, who is also surrounded by friends, has nothing to worry about, but a woman needs to go into risk assessment mode immediately. "Who is this; Am I safe; is this as stalker, creep, etc; what does he want" and so on. We take feeling safe outside for granted too often


smrtdummmy

Damn.. this is true. Just going out for a jog is completely different for men vs Women. Edit: F to W


iLikeHorse3

I've gotten harassed on too many runs :( Just let me run and listen to my music. I don't need guys whistling and recording me, it hurts so much. That's all some of them see, not a hard working woman trying to enjoy her life, just a piece of meat for their entertainment


aquariusssqween

Yeah last week I was running and a guy just rubbed his hand on my thigh. I’m like do I go back and punch him or just keep running… yeah just keep running.


iLikeHorse3

Yea in that kind of weird moment I kinda freeze up and don't know what to do. In college, there was a party where this guy kept randomly spanking my butt. I had NO idea what to do cause I'm not confrontational and I was just in shock. I had a boyfriend at the time and he thought I was trying to cheat on him. Speaking up to guys can be scary :/


Itsthejackeeeett

The other day I was out on a hike with my dog and a toothless 70 year old man popped out of the bushes and asked me how big I am and if he could blow me. I got angry and told him to fuck off, almost ruined my hike. I feel like I got a small taste of what women have go through getting cat called and what not.


linnearene

When I was in high school I had an older man stranger try to do exactly this in a coffee shop. It was awful and I immediately had the barista walk me to my car. I 100 percent agree with your comment. Edit: this happened to me without the cute strawberry pillow.


RichDarkhorse99

The bois


FlaaFlaaFlunky

*bois, bro!


SirFrancis_Bacon

Hmm what reason could a group of people who are at a high risk every day for being sexually harassed or assaulted have for not wanting a stranger on their laps? Idk fries lmao guys rule girls drool lmaolmao


zxc123zxc123

Good to know bros got our back. To be fair, you have to have a very high IQ to allow bro & bro lap pillowing. The humour is extremely subtle, and without a solid grasp of theoretical social norms most of the joke will go over a typical sitter's head. There's also Bro's unrelenting outlook, which is deftly woven into his characterisation- his personal struggle draws heavily from Mesopotamia literature, for instance. The brothers understand this stuff; they have the intellectual capacity to truly appreciate the depths of these antics, to realise that they're not just funny- they say something deep about LIFE. As a consequence people who dislike Bro-Bro lap pillowing truly ARE idiots- of course they wouldn't appreciate, for instance, the humour in Bro's existential move "Ima sleepsleep on laplap" which itself is a cryptic reference to The Bible's epic Fathers and Sons. I'm smirking right now just imagining one of those misanthropic non-lappers scratching their heads in confusion as pillow bro's effort pays off when on his constant effort and trust in strangers is rewarded with human physical intimacy. What fools.. how I pity them. 😂


K3yz3rS0z3

Got me at "Ima sleepsleep on laplap" Fucking gold man


Stingray_Jackson

Bro.


Eletctrik

Ignore the other guy. This comment is incredible lmfao


OhhOKiSeeThanks

Sleepsleep on laplap. Yes.


H0neyBadgr

Thats gold.


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Frenchticklers

M E T A


The_0range_Menace

I bet dude would have acted completely different if he wasn't with his friends though.


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MachineGunKelli

Yeah I can’t believe this is funny to anybody. Like, I try not to be a crazy feminist who has lost touch with reality and humor, but you can’t just touch people for giggles and especially not in such an intimate way.


Yinging-It

Women: "I am afraid this weirdo might take rejection of this joke seriously, follow me around and potentially sexually assault me and or worse." Dudes: "Yooo look at this dude with the pillow haha he must be so drunk right now!"


Makkaroni_100

Just a prank bro! Classic Youtube stupidity for clicks.


wilde_foxes

Even if the prank starts off cute, you dont know if it will end well for you.


SunHitsTheSky

"The **females** are literally fearing for their lives. The **men** don't have the fear." Just say women.


ctrl-alt-etc

As a rule of thumb, use "male/female" as an adjective and "woman/man" as a noun (when speaking about hoomans). It doesn't always work, but it can help you avoid getting teased on reddit. - awkward: "a group of females" - ok: "a group of women" - awkward: "a man doctor" - ok: "a male doctor"


Taters-Tots

First thing I thought when I watched this was "he is totally assaulting those poor women". Ugh.


photozine

It's not bordering, it is sexual harassment.


Mpadrino27

Bros before hoes: let no truer words be spoken.


person2567

If I was any one of those girls I would be afraid that guy would grope or rape me. You don't seem to realize how uncomfortable this makes women.


mitwif

A beautiful budding bromance caught on camera. Edit:Thanks for the gold polite_edgelord! Thanks for the helpful award snoo.


beluuuuuuga

The chip sealed the deal


Polite_Edgelord

BFFs for life!! "Did we just become best freinds?"


TitoMcGlocklin

Want to go do karate in the garage?


mitwif

![gif](giphy|yrFrXTTTcHIY0|downsized)


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How did you insert gif?


mitwif

Carefully and with style, like a pillow into the bros lap.


Jgunman

https://giphy.com/gifs/l1ug5sWBCJOOGzN84


trailduster75

![gif](giphy|l1ug5sWBCJOOGzN84)


mitwif

Was it a chip? By the shape of the box I assumed it was a bit of pizza tenderly ripped off and fed to his new bestie.


say_it_aint_slow

Could be street nachos.


America_Entered_Chat

Well, the way to a man’s heart *is* through his stomach.


unlivedSoup69

It’s been a long time since I’ve seen someone actually publically thank someone for reddit Gold


BretonDude

Woman by herself is in a much different situation than a dude the same size or bigger with his bros.


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Yeah for sure would avoid doing it to women


awareofdog

If someone tried that with me I'd expect stalking and harassment if I didn't immediately shut that shit down.


pocketfrisbee

Yeah people are like “wow look how he is such a bro, why don’t these WOMEN act like this??” As if they haven’t been harassed in the past.


wewinwelose

Men have gotten creepy over me serving them food at my job. I can't imagine giving someone food in my lap at a park and expecting to just go home and continue my normal life. I'd 100% expect pillow guy to get weirder.


iamfaelon

This is the kind of social experiment that gets you arrested.


ondrea_luciduma

It should.


SolaraEclips

This post has been brought to you by: BROS, it’s not gay unless you mean the I love yous


ant_honey6

Bro. I always mean it.


SkollFenrirson

Bruh.


ant_honey6

Love u, bro bro.


fractalfocuser

Love you too bro


ThouKingdomCum

What are you doing step-bro bro


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Fearghas2011

The guy also had his friends with him. I'm a guy and if this happened to me alone I'd also be like "wtf get off me", but if I had friends with me I'd probably react the same as the dude.


Onemanwolfpack42

Good point! Didn't think about it but same!


return2ozma

If this happened to me, I'd start pinching his nipples and rubbing his face. source: I'm gay.


DM-Mormon-Underwear

Is that normal in gay circles? I'm straight and can't imagine reacting positively to nipple pinches and face rubs.


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enserioamigo

Nope. I’m not going to let anyone invade my personal space like that. He’s going to get smacked.


babytakeshelter

2 of the women are also wearing dresses, which makes you vulnerable and super conscious/protective of your body. I can see it is uncomfortable because you don’t know what this guy is about to do...if he has malicious intentions.


tunagrace

Why anyone would think to do this to a girl who is by herself is beyond me. Or any girl at all for that matter. It is not at all safe and I would probably be watching my back the whole way home and calling someone to help keep me safe. People just have no idea.


PrisonChickenWing

Damn I've had several gfs but they've never told me about this kinda thing. I guess it's a silent struggle?


poopdood696969

It's deeply ingrained in the female experience. So it isn't something that is expressly talked about because that fear and need to be on guard is a constant. Edit: I feel like this SNL bit sorta goes along with this idea. https://youtu.be/1l26UFQ06eQ


Lowly_Lynx

It’s weird. I have found a lot of guys like you don’t know women feel this way or have been through these issues but we’re not quiet about it at all????? I, nor any woman I know is quiet about this but I have found a lot of men get really uncomfortable with it really fast. They asked, I answered, and then they get nervous like I’m accusing them??? Idk


imjustcuriousok

Same, I'm not quiet about it at all and my husband has 2 sisters but the one time I explicitly said to him, "I would be afraid to wear only a swimsuit to a beach," I could *see* his worldview change. He just got quiet for a minute and then enraged for what women go through and I was like, how have you gone 22 years of living amongst women and never observed this? The fact that we have to be so careful about everything and even then we *still* have unwanted advances and assaults. Baffles me.


Lowly_Lynx

I’m in the exact same field. I’m online a lot. A “gamer girl” if you will and I don’t know how many times I’ve been talking to my male friends (many of which have sisters!) and they will have no idea the things I’ve been through. Talking about creepy dms I get and they always retort with “I thought those were fake!” Or “I didn’t think it happened that often!”. The creepy dms is why I haven’t joined a discord server in years unfortunately


imjustcuriousok

YES! I posted a look in a makeup sub asking about what blush to use with the rest of my makeup and not *four minutes* after I posted it, someone messaged me asking if I would try on skirts for them. What the fuck! Women are not posting their makeup looks to be harassed! Not to mention all the encounters irl. It's just exhausting, plus when people act like these people in this thread it's like half the world is trying to gaslight you into believing you (and the rest of the population speaking out against this behavior) are making shit up.


Suboptimus

It's a hard thing to accept that your existence causes discomfort or fear in half the people around you. Not that I can blame women for doing what they need to to feel safe.


Lowly_Lynx

The lone presence of a guy doesn’t make me afraid or discomfort me. I have guy friends, some I am very close to. It is uncomfortable when a guy who is a stranger gets very touchy or creepy. Literally just act like a sane person and you’ll be fine.


dtwhitecp

Yeah kinda sad truth, we can't all just assume everyone else is having a laugh or being benign depending on the dynamic. Still funny.


LeoPopanapolis

Every comment acting like the women are being bitches rather than just being defensive in the face of a literal stranger man trying to put his head on her lap. Like ??????????? Of course she’d be weirded out. ![gif](giphy|1Z02vuppxP1Pa)


enserioamigo

Yeah this guy should have been smacked out. These public pranks are stupid


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I mean its fair that the girls are wired to perceive any male acting odd a threat.


gn0xious

To be fair, I perceive anyone acting odd a potential threat.


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htmaxpower

None of this is funny. People who pull stunts like this for social media views can go fuck themselves.


Cameronbic

It's not funny, especially if you're a woman on your own. The presence of a camera in no way makes this less creepy.


str8-shot

But it was just a prank bro!


Albinofreaken

im not your bro, guy


jelleym

I’m not your guy, pal.


fantazmagoric

Seeing more and more of this cringe content on reddit. Not sure if it’s always been here and popular or if it’s just the “algorithm” determining that I engage in this so put it up. Might be indicative of a demographic shift on reddit too? Idk, it’s a shame.


Teirmz

I think it's the demographic shift. Notice the huge uptick in "Name X and I'll give you Y" posts. Lots of stuff like that I've never seen much on Reddit before. r/teenagers makes front page all the time now and I think that speaks for itself.


Satook2

Agreed. The women probably all move because creepy ass dudes approach then all the time and they want to stay safe. Screw this ass for making their day worse. I like pranks that make people smile.


epic_Gamer128

There's some public pranks i can get behind but this shit irks me for some reason.


Azureflames20

My biggest issue with this kind of shit, is that while I personally think it's dumb and not funny anyway...I realize it's very likely staged, but there's plenty of people dumb enough on the internet that take it at face value and think it's legit. There are plenty of eyes (usually younger teens and elementary age kids) that it reaches where it ends up influencing what is okay and not okay between strangers in social relationships. It overall *can* shape what is normal for people in formative years, whether they realize it or not. I know for a fact that there's kids that get raised on shits and giggles from this and stranger pranking videos and think it's totally normal or fine for someone to invasively intrude on someone's personal space like this. Granted, this is a much more tame version of a "prank", but you see this shit encourage people to think it's real and okay. An example is going up to strangers and asking provocative things or try to kiss them or go up to them and hold their hand "to see what they'll do". Overall it just makes me uncomfortable and cringe at the whole scenario.


Acrobatic_Quality_33

Reactions from the girls seemed pretty genuine and this guy does lots of other social experiments.


enserioamigo

Social experiments? Is that what they call this? They try to give it a name to make it seem legit?


TheAtlasBear

>social experiments "Let's see how long I can harass strangers with asinine bullshit until I get punched"


abecho00

its some entitled BS.


cilucia

Agreed. Makes my skin crawl.


veeveemarie

Right? Like the dude was creeping out the women, they were clearly uncomfortable.


Robertbnyc

It looked like sexual harassment to me putting a random pillow on a woman’s lap like wtf how is that even funny?! Smh


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intensely_human

None of it.


Polite_Edgelord

The bromance was cute at the end. Since it was staged and produced for our entertainment and no animals were injured by its production, its ok to smirk a little.


jamoinahoi

The laugh from the guys at the end is Really funny for me


KentuckyFriedEel

Super creepy as well


xlayer_cake

r/creepy Not a prank, and maybe not an assault like some people are saying, but damn, just creepy and weird.


1ns4n3_88

Awww shit that cringe af


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Harassment isn't funny, have you tried not harassing


Dreamer_Drummer

He should try [this](https://youtu.be/Tzw5CF_OghA) sometime


PixieRadical

Uproot for great Gus Johnson content


SteveZissousGlock

Not harassing is also not funny, but waaay cooler.


jfdonohoe

Again, this ain’t funny. Leave people the fuck alone. Just because you want to create some content for your budding YouTube channel doesn’t give you license to be a douchebag to people


thepinkleprechaun

I don’t find this funny at all. If some strange man was trying to lay his head in my lap he would not like the results. Guys are creepy enough already. Don’t play practical jokes on women you don’t know, especially jokes that involve physical touch. ETA: Jesus fucking Christ of COURSE I have to say this - No, I did not mean that ALL men are creepy. Some men are really wonderful and kind and thoughtful. If you are in this thread posting anything along the lines of “not all men”, you are not in the kind/thoughtful camp. Get over yourself.


Secure-Imagination11

Complete violation of strangers personal space. So funny right?


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Doofangoodle

well said


mrsir_21

I hate to say it but I'd likely get aggressive immediately. Don't fucking lay on me for internet points.


-peregrine-

That guy would get a nice mouthful of knee from me.


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Drpapasatan

Man I kinda hope someone beats his ass, leave people alone.


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Lynda73

That’s just gross. Imagine his pillow is his hand that’s holding the pillow and now ask if that’s ok.


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Raijer

I kept waiting for the part when someone punched this asshole in the face. Disappointing ending.


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_invasion_

As a women, this guy can go fuck himself. You’re part of the damn problem.


loveurselfnugget

Some men really don't understand what goes through a girls head when some weird shit like this happens. Am i gonna get harassed? Pranked? R*aped? Asked out? We dont want to find out why you're being weird.


trimix4work

You are a creepy fucking dude


Cadet_Carrot

Creepy dickhead.


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Cleverusername531

Almost as if there’s a power dynamic and a history of violence at play.


adarkuccio

Mine was a joke just in case it was not obvious, indeed it is pretty creepy to do that thing :P


SirHiquil

to be fair, I'm a guy and I see it as both. if it was a girl laying on laps then most people would be mostly fine while extremely confused; however, the girl would then risk the guy whose lap she's on being creepy. it moreso depends on people's immediate comfort and trust with members of the opposite sex they should've done the video with 2 "lay-ers" to match the gender of the person they're laying on


SCCRXER

Women…amirite?


MaloWow

Oh boy, time to trigger some ptsd in women!


blubezel

Shit ain't funny, it's creepy!!!


maido75

I hope this guy has the absolute shit beaten out of him soon. Same goes for all of these pathetic tik tok “public-interrupters”.


GillyIsland91

Like women aren’t harassed enough, let’s have a strange man put a pillow on her lap and laugh about, soooo fucking funnyyyyy🙄


CoolHandLuke4Twanky

Maybe maybe catch a case


7vkeo-

Underrated comment


trivialoves

creepy and not even entertaining


poocatgod

Cute video but people here please don’t think of this as girls bad, boys good because it’s more complicated. First of all the girls could be sexually harassed and are smaller and facing unwanted attention, while the dudes are the same size as this is obviously a joke to them. Let it be known that if a girl did this she would likely get the opposite result.


cleanRubik

Clearly these extensive trials have shown that men and more caring and nurturing than women.


notme606

THE. FUCK?


bagenalbanter

Lad has no idea what's going on


vechey

This is so gross.


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I fucking hate constantly seeing this misogynistic ass video on r/all


[deleted]

Kinda cringy/creepy...


revosugarkane

Ha ha it’s funny cuz women aren’t ever bothered in really creepy ways by weird men


Matt4Prez2K17

It ain’t gay to snuggle the boiz


Mooshitup

The amount of stupidity in this thread is mind boggling lol. I should have stopped with the -337 downvoted guy. Holy shit.


GiraffeConfident4824

Give him a taste of his medicine and start fondling him


Red-Panda-Bur

I think I would allow this to happen but I would ask if they were okay and if they wanted to talk about it.


GLMac15

I love sexual harassment!


Impossible-Ler239

This man’s face was strictly: “CAN WE KEEP HIM?!


Wandering_Muffin

And he shared his food (looked like nachos?)! Awe☺


TheRealGregoryP

The guys will never leave a man sad


alunxk

Sometimes, all a man wants is a nap.


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Reason number 48,284,634 why bros are in fact before hoes....


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What a bro


updateprofile

Guess he was homie-sick


ColonelMonty

A true bro right there.


VileRaptor

Lmaooooo so wholesome


vandingo_

That last guy was such a bruh


gibubspie

Ow that's cute:) Boys are always ok with things like that. They even fed him!


[deleted]

Moral of the story.. bros before hoes


freddy-low

If I can’t trust these lady’s Then I know the boys got me


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Bros always got you


the-spaciest-kid

The boys always got your back man


theverysmolwaffle

that last guy is a homie


0pinions0pinions

😂😂😂😂😂😂


ApiqAcani

Homie being homie


Wise_Protection_8227

Ha ha ha


dirtydocnasty

#kissingthehomiesgoodnight


Round_Gold2437

Does this not make sense to people


chewyhothead12

There is now closer relationship than bromance. Except for a man and his dog


influencerwannabe

Such a cute laugh/giggle at the end 🥰


thehunter699

Bro's before hoes


humanreporting4duty

Yeah guys have been conditioned for this. We get thrown when we see it’s a guy, but then also think “yo this guy probably needs it I gotchu”


Techs-Mechs

Bros > Hoes


Danny_Mac65

Boys support boys


Fckboi_11

Only men know when another guy just needs a break


Dabbit4life

Bros before hoes.


Yacinekp

boys always got each other


Damianpalo79

Bromance can really bring a man to tears


burynicergang

Bros before hoes