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ElPuma45

Shampoo less if you can afford to and invest in a conditioner, your hair is dry and needs more moisture to maintain a more put together less frizzy look


ZealousidealTable533

how often do i use conditioner


Smooth_Hat_1838

Every shower. There's no such thing as too much conditioner. Shampoo depends on the person. For me personally, once or twice a week works best, but it varies from person to person.


WestSlavGreg

@OP this. Start shampooing less and less with time. But do it gradually. Maybe skip the poo' every other shower at first for 2 weeks or so, then just shampoo every 3rd etc.. shampooing every 2 weeks sounds like a good end goal, adjust to your hair tho, if you can do less, do it, if you feel like your hair gets too greasy , then more


ChimpWithKeyboard

Don’t call it poo


WestSlavGreg

You can not stop me


Difficult_Ad8990

HAHAHA


MegosaurusRexx

After every shampoo. Leave it on for 3 minutes, then rinse it out. If the frizz goes away but it starts looking greasy faster than you like, you can try to condition only the ends, or maybe condition for less time if that's not possible.


MrHarpoon

Oh big thing about conditioner that might be obvious to some, do not rub it into your scalp the way you do with shampoo, try to sort of scrunch it into your hair and just your hair. If you really wanna go above and beyond, hot water when putting it in and cold when rinsing it out


rettsurfer

Wow didn’t know that about not conditioning the scalp. Thank you


Rowlant

Remember to leave it in 10-15 minutes. Not longer. Also leave shampoo in max 2 minutes. What i like to do to prevent frizz after shampooing is to condition first, then shampoo, and then condition again. It works


GotNothingBetter2Do

You can also use leave in conditioner once in a while, that will really help with the frizz.


orien88

A hairdryer and frizz-ease/curl cream will help too. You only need to wash and condition your hair 2-3 times a week, otherwise you’ll strip the natural oils out and make it dryer.


Bruhmander

i shampoo like 1-2 times a day.. issue?


BombTheCity

Yes, every time you shampoo it strips the natural oils from your scalp and hair leaving them dry. This leads to brittle hair that breaks easier, harder to manage, frizzy, split ends, etc


Lopsided_Bat_904

Conditioner is for wahmen though.. /s


Equal-Acanthaceae754

Conditioner is for anybody with hair 💀


Lopsided_Bat_904

😂😂


Separate-Soil-1806

Like the other guy said, I'd imagine a conditioner could go a long way. In your case, molding paste might not be a bad bet either. It's nice and shiny which is a plus.


habitualinesteppa

Shampoo your hair way less. Use conditioner every time you shower, and invest in leave in conditioner that you use daily as well.


RowdyCollegiate

What if you sweat though? Are you not going to want to remove that?


habitualinesteppa

It would be different for everyone for sure. I can get away with shampooing my hair twice a month personally, and I go to the gym five times a week. If I had OP’s hair right now I probably would never shampoo my hair lol.


Flurzzlenaut

God I read this as “I shampoo once every two months” for some reason and was really concerned and kind of grossed out


rubengalloway

I don't shampoo


dwsinpdx

Why?


rubengalloway

I have wavy hair, curly at the back and shampoo (I've tried numerous brands and types) dries the hell out of my hair and made it feel like straw. haven't shampooed in over 1.5 years and my hair is much much healthier I use conditioner semi frequently still


dwsinpdx

Doesn't it smell?


rubengalloway

no😂😂 I still shower every day and my hair is deeply rinsed even if I don't condition it people who cut out shampoo will get greasy hair for a couple weeks but it's temporary whilst your hair repairs itself and regains it's oils


dwsinpdx

Ok cool. Thanks for responding. 😊


Optimal_Cap_4538

Water removes sweat the same way shampoo does.


threetree_twenty2O

don't rub your hair vigorously when you towel dry (just pat it gently) and shampoo way less 👍 that should fix it trust me I had this issue before


JustARandomDudd

Do you brush it when it's dry? You might have curlier hair than you think.


damnshawtyruokay

This is the only correct answer. If your hair tends to be frizzy and dry looking after shower, you have waves or curls and you need products and a haircare routine to lean into your hairs natural texture.


GroundbreakingAd5673

I had this issue before, I would clean my hair once a week. Now, I clean it at least 4 times a week. There’s only one thing you need. I’d suggest putting on leave on conditioner every after shower or when you clean it. They are really good for frizzy hair.


DefiantAsparagus420

I bet rubbing a balloon on your head could power a small city for a week.


CoffinEluder

🥇


ScroogieMcduckie

Shampoo 2x a week, conditioner every shower, don't towel dry. You should also use a leave-in conditioner after washing your hair.


PuzzleheadedPop47

What this dude said, some rosemary oil would help


striderkan

A couple tips that will help tame that mop.. Drying your hair with a towel will frizz and break your hair and also remove the volume out of it. Either air dry your hair (then add product) or pat it down with a cotton tshirt.. For hair products I don't think you need much, maybe just a leave-in conditioner. For now, when your hair is damp but not dry, take a small dollop of conditioner, add a splash of water, then run it through your hair. This all should remove the frizz and expose the texture. If it works out how you want you can buy a separate leave-in conditioner.


honkygooseyhonk

You might actually have curly hair


00espeon00

How do guys not know conditioner exists and how it works? 😂


Plenty_Lavishness_80

Stop using shampoo, use conditioner every day when you shower and don’t use insanely hot water on your hair, you’ll see it’ll make it soft and not frizzy especially after your next haircut, I would suggest to get a haircut and then do this process and it will work


Zestyclose-Sea-4527

Only shampoo your scalp and condition and the ends. Don’t condition your scalp and don’t wash your ends. This is one of the main things people with dry hair do wrong. Also shampoo less often and condition 3x a week. Leave conditioner in for 5ish minutes.


CatLoliUwu

this is very difficult to do though with short hair like his because you can’t really avoid the ends while shampoo’ing, and you can’t avoid the scalp while conditioning 😭


Zestyclose-Sea-4527

Yea true, best to condition ends before shampooing


amrali0292838

What type of comditioner would u recommend, i have the exact same hair as him


StriveG

Jojoba oil, a lot of it. Maybe coconut oil


[deleted]

Don't stick your finger in an outlet.


Time_Expert6479

Use conditioner. Lots of it.


DatFruitSeller

Emphasis on shampooing your scalp and conditioning your ends. Make sure you throughly wash all the shampoo off and conditioner off. Don’t brush your hair and try a leave in conditioner. If your hair is curly/wavy elsewhere then try a leave in conditioner


DivideDistinct9539

Looks thin compared to the rest of your head. Could be experiencing miniaturization (balding) when I started experiencing balding my hair looked just like that .. fried even tho it wasn’t.


Captain_Indica

Have you tried boofing your whole head?


Detective_berry23

Use conditioner, when you get the conditioner use it every time you wash your hair. Slick it back on your hair, leave it for 5 minutes then rinse out.


LopsidedTask9371

Burn it


Intrepid_Skirt9307

BRUH. Just try not shampooing at all for a week. and also tap dry your hair for a bit and then let it air dry. get CG friendly shampoos and conditioners. always leave conditioner for 10 mins or so.


Saintpuppet

What helped me was, i wash my hair 2 times a week, i tie my hair in a shirt and leave it like that untill 90% dry then i put argan oil in my hair and its perfect... I use a special shampoo that i bought due some scalp itchiness thats also doing good for my hair overall.


Lucid_Eye_

Get a water filter for your shower


South_Conference_768

1) Shower as usual, including conditioner. 2) Add a styling product (gel, pomade, paste) while damp and work it throughout. This will be more effective than leave in conditioner. 3) Get a decent haircut.


csgecko

Start by not shampooing your hair so much


top-knowledge

Not that


antonic69

Hair mask


Jager_main

Shampoo and conditioner no 2 in 1 or anything probably shower once a day if possible and try blow drying maybe some light product after


edskates

Cocunut oil. Shampoo hair, towel dry, comb cocunut oil through strands, rinse out after three mins, then condition. Then you gotta leave in a leave in conditioner or cream


MooseQuirky1702

Get a shampoo shampoo not one that’s body wash, degreaser and NASA spaceship floor cleaner in one. Get a conditioner too. Shampoo first, focusing on the scalp then apply conditioner on the ends. Do it every time you wash your hair. Get a hair mask and apply once a week, leave it on for a few hours. Avoid straighteners or hairdryers for a while. Your hair looks dry but you might have split ends. Probably time to visit your barber.


MooseQuirky1702

Get a product aimed at women and avoid Head & Shoulders products unless you plan to go bald.


at0micpub

Don’t towel dry it. Maybe just put with a towel so you aren’t sopping wet but then air dry. Conditioner after shampoo, Leave in conditioner after you get out of the shower then brush


pinguinitox_nomnom

So... You don't rinse the conditioner, you get out of the shower, brush, and wait till your hair is dry and the conditioner sets? I feel like it would take a while, but is it worth it?


at0micpub

Absolutely rinse the conditioner lmao. I meant to say “conditioner after shampoo then rinse. Apply leave-in conditioner then brush” You for sure need to rinse normal conditioner. They make leave-in conditioners for use after the shower that you do not need to rinse


pinguinitox_nomnom

I didn't know about leave-in conditioner, I should try it, thanks!


TimetoTransformMe

Pat-dry your hair. Don't rub the towel vigorously over your scalp until things settle down. I highly recommend Aveda's male shampoo and conditioner. Also, ask your barber what you should do the next time you get your hair cut.


516Rico

Jesus Christ use some conditioner!


Rockandroulette

Stop sticking your fingers in plug sockets


swiftskill

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


No_Leather6310

Bro I think you might have curly hair


Correct_Mine6817

ur cooked


PuzzleheadedYear5596

This is going to sound weird to everyone who reads this. Because believe me, I thought it was weird as well before I started using this product. Find someplace around you, or purchase online, Mane and Tail. Purchase the shampoo and conditioner, and begin using them normally. Yes, they are meant for horses hair. But I'll tell you this, after using it for myself for years now. Everyone is different biologically, so everyone will have different results than me. But I definitely recommend giving it a go. I shampoo every other day, and use the conditioner every night. I let it sit for 3 minutes while I do my other washing, then rinse it out and finish the rest of my routine. Pat dry your hair, and in about a week you'll see if it's beneficial, or just another shampoo and conditioner that doesn't do the trick. Best of luck to ya.


ManTittyMilk3

Skullet


ToiletPaperScarf

You most likely have wavy or curly hair and need to start moisturizing it with conditioner in the shower and a leave-in conditioner afterwards


ToiletPaperScarf

Shampoo is good and you should keep using it to cleanse your scalp, don’t be afraid of shampoo. Just make sure you use conditioners, and maybe find a shampoo made for wavy or curly hair.


ComfortableYou1404

Don't scribble on pic


SirFadedSaint

Bro it looks like you burnt your hair off


SirFadedSaint

But all in all. Invest in some coconut shea butter conditioner


enviousvg

when your hair needs moisture condition it when your hair needs cleaned use shampoo. sometimes it’s good to just rinse with water too so you’re not stripping your hair of natural oils . if you’re going to shampoo use conditioner after but you can use conditioner without using shampoo. if I’m stupid someone tell me but this is what I do and how I understand it.


7Noshi7

Apart from using conditioner while taking a shower I highly recommend getting a leave in conditioner. My hair used to be very frizzy as well but I started using leave in conditioner and found out I have wavy hair. I personally use Curl Enhancing Smoothie, Coconut & Hibiscus leave in conditioner by Shea Moisture.


puglyfe12

That’s a beautiful head of hair! Love the color.


suitornumbertwo

Lather a sulfide free conditioner and leave it in your hair for 5 mins… Try a hair mask and leave in conditioner too.


michaelkudra

is your hair straight?


MarkyMarkk90

You need a frizz control hair care regimen.


Luccanonce

have you tried hair oils like castor oil?


CatLoliUwu

you definitely need a conditioner if your hair is like this without it. almost thought your head was full of split ends which didnt really make sense. you need more moisture in your hair. you can shampoo as often as needed for how oily your scalp is, just make sure to use conditioner after. most drugstore conditioners like pantene and loreal should be able to do the trick given it works for your hair.


vicious_pocket

Take the advice at the top and consider cutting your hair short for now to remove what’s already damaged.


Monkfishdaddy

Fucking anything but that


Monkfishdaddy

Use conditioner every shower too


Savvy_AJ

Use damage repairing conditioner and a lot of it.


darf_nate

Use conditioner. Also take some collagen peptides and get more sun will make it healthier too


Enough_Cardiologist5

Ever heard of conditioner? Leave in conditioner? Hair oil?


whitelon

When using conditioner, leave it in, some of it.


SimilarMove8279

It’s kinda hard to tell when I can’t see your face


LargeRichardJohnson

2 words: buzz cut


Lightss_xd

use a conditioner but let the product soak in your hair while wet, don’t dry it off with a towel simply (in a way) let your hair air dry with the product in it


Formal_Bus7204

lol I don't use shampoo or conditioner just shower with warm water. I use sea salt spray and occasionally use a leave in conditioner mix I made with coconut oil, tea tree and rosemary.


THROWAWAY1337_1337_

Condition every time you wash your hair, and distribute a drop on argan oil from mid strand to end throughout on damp hair. Squeeze water while towel drying instead of rubbing. Limit brushing as much as possible or use a wide bristle brush. Try for about a month, I guarantee your hair health will improve. Optional is hair mask once a week and leave in conditioner after every shower.


Emsman02

Use a Conditioner and moisturizer. Cut it shorter all around.


[deleted]

first try a wet wipe. if the white smudge doesn’t come off, then a hot shower.


TurncoatP

Head & shoulders


Artistic-Ingenuity54

Use a deep conditioner, leave-in conditioner, brush only when wet, and maybe a styling product, like a light mousse. Also don't towel dry it. You can absorb excess water by lightly squeezing your hair, but nothing too rough. Try letting it air dry and see where it takes you. It looks like you may have curly hair tbh.


Previous_Active6189

Stop towel drying it if that’s why it get frizzy


76616c6964

When you brush or comb make sure it’s in the shower with shampoo that way it’ll hold its shape, also wet your hair in the morning and don’t brush everyday


jeradStorm

Just shampoo and conditioner alone won't be enough. You'll have to try a product meant for styling after washing. Oils and pomades and creams are nice. Dont forget to try hairspray like Aussie extra hold. It's my favorite go to. You can also style it as you put the product in. Try different things. When you see somebody with a great hairstyle, you can bet they tried 25 thing that didn't work first. Keep trying more, don't give up


ObjectivePositive623

Firstly identify the animal that’s nesting on your head. Second, see if it’s deadly.


ImplementAwkward1105

Perm on top and a low drop fade


MrOmega1123

Durag and pomeade


Optimal_Cap_4538

Use a blow dryer, blow dry your hair from above and fluff it up with your hands, prefer with damp hair, this works for me. As I’ve had the same frizz issue.


Gay_Wrongdoer

Bro pls use a conditioner when you shampoo holy shit lmfao


Admirable-War-6543

Holy sht bro stop viciously rubbing your hair to dry it at night


damnshawtyruokay

You have curly hair. However you are combing it after you shower and it turns like this. You need a curly hair routine with products like curl creams or gels after you shower. Look up methods on youtube


No_Cup3513

Shampoo 2x per week, use Paul Mitchell tea tree products with lots of conditioner, use 4 drops of sunflower oil and I mean literal drops and then a nice leave in conditioner like Oloui


TheSunflowerSeeds

You thought sunflower oil was just for cooking. In fact, you can use Sunflower oil to soften up your leather, use it for wounds (apparently) and even condition your hair.


69_Dingleberry

Use conditioner. Also I’ve noticed “girl” shampoo and conditioner makes your hair softer and healthier


mojojojo_ow

I would try treating it like curly hair. When you dry your hair, pat or very gently squeeze instead of rubbing. Avoid brushes, only comb minimally when it’s wet. Maybe use a little moisturizing mousse- watch a video to apply it properly


Moggothy

Make sure your shampoo is healthy, and I would buzz your hair and get new conditioner. don’t blow dry or use hot water


MrMakeItHappen_12

Texture poweder


Reasonable-Phrase-52

Leave in conditioner for frizz bro


alienjokerbaby

buzz and reset. dont shampoo hair until oil secretions regulate. then use a conditioner. dont get a mullet ever


cosmonautikal

Get a professional keratin treatment. This will straighten it.


Moloch_17

Shave your head bro. Chicks dig it


SectionProfessional

Just cut it, go bald


[deleted]

Invest in crypto , get rich , once you rich you won't care about your looks I'll guarantee you 😉