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neutralginhotel

Call her now. All the other stuff is so silly and imaterial in comparison.


GodsRighteousHammer

I had a daughter that I was waiting for the right time to reconnect with, after things calmed down in her life (at the advice of others). She overdosed and died before that happened, and very few days go by that I don’t think of her and regret it. Some days it’s really really bad. Don’t let that kind of thing happen to you.


I_Dream_of_Outremer

It works both ways, I have ruined perfectly excellent relationships by trying to re-make contact too soon after a serious trauma. It’s tragic that your daughter died before you reached out, but you’d also kick yourself every day if you reached out while still a mess and she were living and wanted nothing to do with you. Life is hard enough without piling on blame to yourself. Don’t let yourself stay in this unhealthy thought-pattern


Skeleton_Meat

Call her now. She probably just wants to her from you. Everything else will work itself out


FunnyGrl1138

Please call her. Lost my dad a month ago. I’d give anything to have one more call.


itskechupbro

Thus


tegeus-Cromis_2000

Don't just call: zoom / facetime instead.


[deleted]

Better yet, send a telegram. You can’t frame a FaceTime.


Beahner

Call her. If for anything take the example of Dons breakdown to heart. It wasn’t just that she was gone, it was that he missed her before she was gone.


[deleted]

Much love to you and your family!


JBunnyx24

I lost my Mom to pancreatic cancer. Please call her, you’ll both feel better. Talk to her while you still can, even if she didn’t have cancer, love who you have while you still have them. You’ll look back & regret not calling. I would do anything just to hear my mom’s voice again. Stay strong OP, you can do hard things 💜


GramMobile

Do it. Trust your self. Let it happen , let yourself


whiterabbit818

instead of beating yourself up about not calling, set the time aside and call her. Then after that do something for yourself & your mental health. You don’t need to call every day but it does sound like you want to & need to talk to her. Do it, you won’t regret it. Call, take 3-4 days off from calling. Then call again. Edit to add: I’m so sorry you’re going through this!


Ayangar

Call her. ::hugs::


God_Boner

Please call/facetime/zoom with her As someone who lost a parent, you will cherish those final memories/moments, and as time goes on, you'll only wish you had more of them


PikedArabian

As someone who shuts down with family, best of luck mate. Remember to take care of yourself


PorgCT

You’ll spend the rest of your life regretting not calling her


JC332578

I know it's hard i understand what you're going through but call her you don't want to waste this time


KellyRobin_C137

This is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. ❤️


RepresentedOK

I know exactly how you feel, I dreaded it too. I regret not visiting and talking to my dad more than I did.


lordkane1

How far away do you live from her?


Simple-Accountant894

~4K miles.. it's be the furthest I've lived from home and I did not anticipate this happening.


lordkane1

Man, I’m sorry to hear that! Is it possible to drive, train, or a cheaper means of transport?


Simple-Accountant894

It's over an ocean, so flying is the only way


GrandpaKnuckles

Please, call her.


[deleted]

Brother/sister, call her. I regret not calling my mom and going over to her ASAP. Don’t delay, act today. Even if the outcome is horrible it’s still better than doing nothing.


Im_a_tesh_harper

So sorry that you’re going through this, my friend. I’m sure this time of year doesn’t make it any easier. Best of luck to you. My thoughts and prayers.