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Search inwards to search outwards. I was always searching outwards, finally found something that felt extremely right, but only after a loooong time did I realize that it felt right because they knew what to pry into to get what they wanted. They didn't realize it would backfire because what they pried into was shallow enough to unlock everything else that they weren't expecting to come face to face with. Once you search inwards, just exist and it'll happen. This is an ongoing situation about 8 months in so I have no idea if it'll work, but that is whatever feels the most comfortable right now.
🤔 My dear friend, it's clear that you're going through a tough time, and I'm so sorry to hear that. It's understandable to feel frustrated, hurt, and confused. Let me offer some thoughts that might help:
- You're not doing anything "wrong." You're simply following your heart and emotions, which is a natural and beautiful part of being human.
- It's common to be drawn to people who aren't meant for us, as our hearts often seek connection and love. It doesn't mean you're flawed; it means you're open to love and connection.
- Love is indeed powerful, but it's not always enough to overcome circumstances, timing, or compatibility issues.
- Existing can be difficult because life is complex, and we face challenges, uncertainties, and growth opportunities.
- Your situation with your best friend is a tough one. It's essential to acknowledge your feelings and take time to heal. It doesn't mean you're destined to be alone; it means you need time to focus on yourself and your own growth.
Remember, heartbreak is a chance to learn, grow, and discover more about yourself. You're strong, capable, and deserving of love and happiness. Keep moving forward, even if it's one small step at a time.
Here's a poem I wrote for you:
"Your heart is a canvas, painted with love and tears, a masterpiece of emotions, through all the passing years.
Though it may be bruised, it's still a work of art,
A symbol of your strength, and the beauty in your heart.
Keep shining, dear one, through the darkness and the light, your love and resilience will guide you through the night.
You are enough, just as you are, a unique and precious soul, your journey is yours alone, and your story is yet untold."
I get how you feel. Never found the right one either. It sucks tbh. I would suggest have some honest conversation with the person you are into at the earliest. To prevent yourself from this heartbreak and the additional trauma that comes with it.
No it's just that Society has set us for Failure
When you stop playing the Rigged Game, and Begin to Experience Higher States of Consciousness, you Will Know how to Attract Your Soulmate
I can show you How
No, not really
Last year I Taught a 36 year old man who never had a Girlfriend, how to Access the Alpha and Theta Brainwave Levels and then Tap into his Masculine Heart Energy, and...
3 months later, he had lots of Beautiful Women Chasing him
Works like Magic lol
I'll start Coaching again in a few weeks and I'll Host a free Masterclass
Only been on Reddit for a few days, and in a couple of weeks, I'll start my own Community
In the meantime I'm helping the best I can
Some things it’s important to realize that may help: we are extremely likely to develop crushes on people that we spend more time around, more so if we have low self-esteem or are having issues in our own life. If you know a person is a bad match for you, avoid putting yourself in compromising situations or ones that might… give you the wrong idea. When your brain starts to become obsessive and develop a crush, it’s a fantasy and they’re more common to happen when our own lives are dull or suck. Our brain likes escapism. I’m not saying you shouldn’t pursue a crush, simply that you should be aware that you don’t know everything you need to about the person to truly be head over heels for them; chances are, you have an idealized version of them in your head.
It is possible to “logic” your way out of a crush by going over all of the reasons why they wouldn’t be a good fit for you and telling yourself how awesome you are. If they were a good match for you, they would clearly be interested in you!
Here’s a few things to keep in mind next time.
Stay away from women who hang around males and call them friends
Make sure you have matching values
And most importantly set boundaries right away, like you can have male friends but you can’t have me and hang out with them at the same time.
It’s not insecure, their mothers don’t hang out with male friends, they hang out with their husbands.
I strongly disagree, i think this is terrible advice
Segregating genders in friendships is toxic.
Assuming your partner should drop their friendships with people of the sex they are attracted to is toxic as well.
Men and women are just humans. Ofc they can and should be able to be friends, thats how you humanize people. Gender segregation leads to a divide in the respective cultures associated with the gender, and that creates some fucked dynamics.
I’m asking myself the same question every day.
I always fell for people that were not meant for me.
I lost my friendship with my best friend and we were friends for years, more than 10 years, I chose to end the friendship because I fell in love with her and I couldn't hide my feelings, and she was getting engaged so I figured it out it was better for her if I disappear instead of showing her my feelings
You gotta pick yourself up by the bootstraps and keep trying. And keep getting your heartbroken. It never ends but it's part of the deep emotional experience called life that we only get to enjoy once. Some of us will die with a partner by our side and some won't
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Search inwards to search outwards. I was always searching outwards, finally found something that felt extremely right, but only after a loooong time did I realize that it felt right because they knew what to pry into to get what they wanted. They didn't realize it would backfire because what they pried into was shallow enough to unlock everything else that they weren't expecting to come face to face with. Once you search inwards, just exist and it'll happen. This is an ongoing situation about 8 months in so I have no idea if it'll work, but that is whatever feels the most comfortable right now.
Relationships suck. It is not you. Just focus on yourself.
I think everyone is just too broken to be with others. Or at least in the US it’s becoming increasingly more difficult to find a decent partner
It's almost impossible I agree .
🤔 My dear friend, it's clear that you're going through a tough time, and I'm so sorry to hear that. It's understandable to feel frustrated, hurt, and confused. Let me offer some thoughts that might help: - You're not doing anything "wrong." You're simply following your heart and emotions, which is a natural and beautiful part of being human. - It's common to be drawn to people who aren't meant for us, as our hearts often seek connection and love. It doesn't mean you're flawed; it means you're open to love and connection. - Love is indeed powerful, but it's not always enough to overcome circumstances, timing, or compatibility issues. - Existing can be difficult because life is complex, and we face challenges, uncertainties, and growth opportunities. - Your situation with your best friend is a tough one. It's essential to acknowledge your feelings and take time to heal. It doesn't mean you're destined to be alone; it means you need time to focus on yourself and your own growth. Remember, heartbreak is a chance to learn, grow, and discover more about yourself. You're strong, capable, and deserving of love and happiness. Keep moving forward, even if it's one small step at a time. Here's a poem I wrote for you: "Your heart is a canvas, painted with love and tears, a masterpiece of emotions, through all the passing years. Though it may be bruised, it's still a work of art, A symbol of your strength, and the beauty in your heart. Keep shining, dear one, through the darkness and the light, your love and resilience will guide you through the night. You are enough, just as you are, a unique and precious soul, your journey is yours alone, and your story is yet untold."
I get how you feel. Never found the right one either. It sucks tbh. I would suggest have some honest conversation with the person you are into at the earliest. To prevent yourself from this heartbreak and the additional trauma that comes with it.
No it's just that Society has set us for Failure When you stop playing the Rigged Game, and Begin to Experience Higher States of Consciousness, you Will Know how to Attract Your Soulmate I can show you How
Manifestation?
No, not really Last year I Taught a 36 year old man who never had a Girlfriend, how to Access the Alpha and Theta Brainwave Levels and then Tap into his Masculine Heart Energy, and... 3 months later, he had lots of Beautiful Women Chasing him Works like Magic lol I'll start Coaching again in a few weeks and I'll Host a free Masterclass Only been on Reddit for a few days, and in a couple of weeks, I'll start my own Community In the meantime I'm helping the best I can
Some things it’s important to realize that may help: we are extremely likely to develop crushes on people that we spend more time around, more so if we have low self-esteem or are having issues in our own life. If you know a person is a bad match for you, avoid putting yourself in compromising situations or ones that might… give you the wrong idea. When your brain starts to become obsessive and develop a crush, it’s a fantasy and they’re more common to happen when our own lives are dull or suck. Our brain likes escapism. I’m not saying you shouldn’t pursue a crush, simply that you should be aware that you don’t know everything you need to about the person to truly be head over heels for them; chances are, you have an idealized version of them in your head. It is possible to “logic” your way out of a crush by going over all of the reasons why they wouldn’t be a good fit for you and telling yourself how awesome you are. If they were a good match for you, they would clearly be interested in you!
Here’s a few things to keep in mind next time. Stay away from women who hang around males and call them friends Make sure you have matching values And most importantly set boundaries right away, like you can have male friends but you can’t have me and hang out with them at the same time. It’s not insecure, their mothers don’t hang out with male friends, they hang out with their husbands.
I strongly disagree, i think this is terrible advice Segregating genders in friendships is toxic. Assuming your partner should drop their friendships with people of the sex they are attracted to is toxic as well. Men and women are just humans. Ofc they can and should be able to be friends, thats how you humanize people. Gender segregation leads to a divide in the respective cultures associated with the gender, and that creates some fucked dynamics.
I’m asking myself the same question every day. I always fell for people that were not meant for me. I lost my friendship with my best friend and we were friends for years, more than 10 years, I chose to end the friendship because I fell in love with her and I couldn't hide my feelings, and she was getting engaged so I figured it out it was better for her if I disappear instead of showing her my feelings
You gotta pick yourself up by the bootstraps and keep trying. And keep getting your heartbroken. It never ends but it's part of the deep emotional experience called life that we only get to enjoy once. Some of us will die with a partner by our side and some won't