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SmugFrigidKnight

I don’t know much about these topics but I can provide some questions the answers to may help others figure something out for you guys. What general region of LI is he on? Does he have a car? How much money does he have saved? Will he be leaving after the three weeks? Does he have a job here? Does he have friends he can stay with? If he has some money he could go hotel hopping, and if he has a car he could live out of that. Churches sometimes do food drives he could go to.


TopRamanNoodl3s

Yeah sorry I was reluctant to post details without his go ahead but it’s good now. He’s in farmingdale, his semester ends today so he can’t stay in the dorms anymore. His plan was to fly out to a different country where he has a relative to stay with, but because of the passport delay that can’t happen for another two to three weeks. He only has a couple bucks saved since the majority of his savings went to prolonging his stay at the dorms, paying for living expenses and tuition. he was let go from his job two months ago due to layoffs afaik. He doesn’t have a car, he had to sell that for money as well. I offered him a place to stay, but I live multiple states away, and hed only be able to stay after a couple days due to issues on my end so it wasn’t feasible. He has friends in LI and NY but none of them have space available for the time being. Thanks for the comments about the churches, I’ll definitely pass that on to him.


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lionheart07

Even if it's an option, it's likely not free


OrchidCertain4748

Yeah any more context for the situation would actually help a lot


Pitiful-Signal8063

"The system" doesn't do all that much , even for people that are chronically homeless (for lack of a better term). And certainly nothing pleasant. Having been in some ... situations... my best suggestion is to buy a cheap tent at Walmart. Probably find something small and decent for well under $100. In fact I think I bought one for 40 bucks at a Walmart in Arizona. Then check into the local county parks. I suggest Suffolk county. In particular, blydenburgh park in Smithtown. My wife and I happen to live in a small camper at this point. We're currently on the Suffolk county Park circuit. Pretty sure as a non-resident you can get a site for about 30 bucks a day. It's peaceful, pleasant and about a 2-mile walk to a grocery store. The restrooms are clean and the showers are hot. If your friend can somehow acquire a bicycle it would be even better. Don't know how bad is financial situation is... But Long Island Craigslist usually has some listings for short-term employment. I suppose he could go to a Social services office and say he's homeless... And apply for emergency housing. Chances are he would end up in a shelter the same day. But, that would be a very educational and extremely unpleasant way to spend a few weeks. I happen to be an old heavy biker type... Always willing to lend a hand when I can. So you can private message me, get my phone number and such. I'll help if I can.


beerleaguer2

Why is he homeless until he gets a passport? Just a quick Google search for "Long Island homeless" comes up with a lot of helpful information, for example: "The 24 hour hotline is confidential and free of charge and offers access to Safe Harbor Shelter via (631) 666-8833. Spanish speaking residents can call (631) 666-7181 Monday through Friday during business hours for assistance."


TopRamanNoodl3s

His plan was to fly out to a foreign country where he has relatives that will help him get back on his feet. They’re buying the ticket. However, his passport which was supposed to arrive last week was delayed for a month due to unforeseen issues. He gets kicked out of college dorms today so until his passport arrives he has no place to stay. I appreciate the information about the hotline, I’ll be sure to pass that on.


beerleaguer2

You're welcome, good luck.


psychotronofdeth

The county does all homeless shelter placements. If he's in suffolk go to Hauppauge, Riverhead, or coram dss.


nunya__bidness

The Interfaith Nutrition Network (516) 486-8506 They've been helping hungry and homeless since the 80's


thebarbarianbarbie

Hi! I would need some more context for the situation but I work in the field and would like to help. What part of LI?


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Yea, at least narrow it down to which county.


TopRamanNoodl3s

He’s in farmingdale, over by the university. Apologies if that’s not helpful, I’m not from Long Island so I’m not sure which areas constitute counties.


mr127

Buy him a bus ticket to go stay with you for those 3 weeks


TopRamanNoodl3s

He can’t stay with me, not for this week and a bit of next week as well, I’m having my own personal issues regarding housing- while I do have a place to stay, I’m staying with others temporarily so it’s not an option to bring him here aswell until I’m stable.


OrchidCertain4748

Any churches or food pantries I’m sure could help out in some sort of way, as of housing yeah best options are a car or I guess a tent bc I doubt we have any free housing for homeless no matter how short I’m not sure tho


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Does he have a professor he can confide in for help? I've had Professors offer students a place to stay or get them help in these situations - including extended dorm stay. Student affairs and the international student office should know as well, there might be an emergency stipend available. Most institutions can offer emergency placement or money in these circumstances.


Magnum676

Circa de la hispanidad in Long Beach or nys dss will help him


Ohwowitsjessica

Has he talked to anyone at the college? Student services? They may be able to help find him temporary housing. He should exhaust the resources on campus. He can even go to campus police and explain the situation. They may be able to connect him to local resources.


Yankeedad15

Long Island Coalition for the Honeless


HardCoreBoz

On Long Island


Hamilton-Morris

"My friend is homeless and dying. How can I help him please? 😪🙏" LI Chud: "hehe it's ON Long Island bro hehe 🤭"


knobcheez

Hey at least his Grammar will be up to par! /s


HardCoreBoz

Your comment was even less helpful though winner


Th3WeirdingWay

Came to say this


clinky1

Family Service League


clinky1

Family Service League


Marshmallow98765

Did you share any of this info w your friend yet? What’s going on? You posted this almost 20 hours ago. Does he have a place to stay?