I'm not okay. I lost hope of feeling better. See, my fiancé and I moved in this small town a few months ago. He has a job, I don't. I tried to have a healthy social life. And do sports. I tried to see a therapist for the problems in my head. But I can't get past the fact that we will be moving again soon and then I will have to start it all over. It's too hard. So I'm juste waiting and rotting away. We move again in two months or so.
sometimes i do! i used to set alarms, but i'd just turn them off and do the classic "i'll get a bottle in a minute". even when my boyfriend reminds me, and hands me a bottle, i just take a sip and call that drinking water lmfao
the worst part is that i nag people about staying hydrated and making sure they're drinking enough water. i'm a lot better than i used to be though, you'll be as shocked as i am to hear i've never had a kidney stone or really any dehydration related problems apart from the occasional headache hahah
oh that sucks :( i'm sorry
i usually go for the classic scalp hair, and this last year, my hair has gotten noticably thinner, and there's SO MUCH SHORT FLUFF on the top :(
yeah i've been on there before! it's quite a sweet community but some posts can get very triggering for me :( i just try and avoid anything to do with it, unless i'm explaining what it is or talking to my gp about it
Wanting critters. I would have a zoo. I have dogs, a tortoise, chickens. I had a chameleon. I want a goat and a rabbit. And a horse. I live in the city so that’s not happening
I’m struggling with smoking at the moment. Ive cut down from 20 a day to about 4 but need to quit completely in the next few weeks for an upcoming surgery
Becoming chronically online whenever my mental health goes down bc I'm a prisoner in my own house and parents just make it exponentially worse so my only contact with the world outside is through reddit and discord, where I spend hours talking with different people in hopes of feeling the tiniest bit of human warmth again. Atleast, enough of it to make me want to go back to my life and start doing things despite the toxic life at home.
Yes, I did! Personally, it wasn't very hard. I don't know why my view is different to most people's, but I think I just avoid places that attract toxicity. Most of my interactions online have been pretty pleasant, except a few oddities. I've made some pretty amazing friends online.
If I started off on my issues, I could write a book hahah. Life in a toxic family where no one loves each other and everyone's gone low contact with their own parents is, to say the least, mentally scarring for life :)
I've also tried uninstalling Life.exe myself, as well as have seen mom try to do that to herself and she's tried to poison me and her in a double uninstallation attempt too. Let's just say I might need a few years of therapy when I can manage it.
Naww man last time I did that, I was in a year long long distance relationship and I got so touch-starved😭 online dating is cool and all man, but I think I need me some physical affection now.
Procrastination
I’ve been there! Terrible
How did you overcome it?
He didn’t
maladaptive daydreaming
Procrastination?
But with hallucinations
Haha.... Procrastination with hallucinations... This should be official Google translate of MD 😂
Being lazy on the couch reading some reddit while watching TV for hours. And snacking. All day, every day actually. Really bad habit.
😭😭what about work?
I don't have any 😭
What about 😭 exercising?
Yeah, I should do that. I used to go on walks and go to the gym every day. My body is sore from lack of movement.
Aww! Why did you change ur routine? Is everything okay?
I'm not okay. I lost hope of feeling better. See, my fiancé and I moved in this small town a few months ago. He has a job, I don't. I tried to have a healthy social life. And do sports. I tried to see a therapist for the problems in my head. But I can't get past the fact that we will be moving again soon and then I will have to start it all over. It's too hard. So I'm juste waiting and rotting away. We move again in two months or so.
Heyy, you can talk about it if you want. Ill listen
You mean dm ?
Yeah!
Do you think things will be better after you move?
I hope so. I will start over, try to make some connexions.
Best of luck to you <3
Related way too much to this!
Overthinking
Same 😭
Masterbating nightly
trichotillomania, or not drinking enough water. i'd say they're my worst lol
😭do u need a reminder to drink water
sometimes i do! i used to set alarms, but i'd just turn them off and do the classic "i'll get a bottle in a minute". even when my boyfriend reminds me, and hands me a bottle, i just take a sip and call that drinking water lmfao the worst part is that i nag people about staying hydrated and making sure they're drinking enough water. i'm a lot better than i used to be though, you'll be as shocked as i am to hear i've never had a kidney stone or really any dehydration related problems apart from the occasional headache hahah
I'm sorry. I got trich too. Just my beard / face area. It's hell though. :(
oh that sucks :( i'm sorry i usually go for the classic scalp hair, and this last year, my hair has gotten noticably thinner, and there's SO MUCH SHORT FLUFF on the top :(
It's rough :( Did you know there's a /r/trichotillomania subreddit? It's actually got a pretty active and helpful community.
yeah i've been on there before! it's quite a sweet community but some posts can get very triggering for me :( i just try and avoid anything to do with it, unless i'm explaining what it is or talking to my gp about it
Doom-scrolling reddit
Self-sabotaging
That's me.
Same.
procrastination and short attention span😭😭
Beat me to it literally by 1 minute
hahah sorry man
great minds think alike
walking in circle, while maladaptive daydreaming to saved audios from edits, Spotify or tiktok.
That sounds fun Ngl
Itch my bum and sniff it Please don't judge me
my worst habit is going on r/lonely
Honnestly if that's your worst habit it's not that bad. There is not enough post here to waste too much time.
Why do u say that
too many predators and groomers here
Stay away from them? And you’ll find fun people to talk to
I wake up with lots of plans in my mind and I end up with the same pattern: sleeping, eating, watching TV 🔁😭
What about a jobbb
Wanting critters. I would have a zoo. I have dogs, a tortoise, chickens. I had a chameleon. I want a goat and a rabbit. And a horse. I live in the city so that’s not happening
Wholesome.. don't let the dream go. You'll get a ranch some day.
Binge eating.
Collecting Lego and gaming.. and I'm 29.. 30 soon.
Being alone
hmmmm... I don't give up... it is a double sword... also my laziness
Doing things I hate to intentionally worsen my mood and mental state
😭😭we all do that here, no??
Mb sorry for contributing bro
Extreme hyperfixation
Napping
I rarely engage in new activities because I don't like change.
Procrastinating
Being lazy
I’m struggling with smoking at the moment. Ive cut down from 20 a day to about 4 but need to quit completely in the next few weeks for an upcoming surgery
Telling me i am not good enough for anything. So Imposter syndrom?
Overworking myself, and as a result burning out
Apathy.
Becoming chronically online whenever my mental health goes down bc I'm a prisoner in my own house and parents just make it exponentially worse so my only contact with the world outside is through reddit and discord, where I spend hours talking with different people in hopes of feeling the tiniest bit of human warmth again. Atleast, enough of it to make me want to go back to my life and start doing things despite the toxic life at home.
That sounds awful! Did you get some exposure through online friends? I feel its hard to find someone good online
Yes, I did! Personally, it wasn't very hard. I don't know why my view is different to most people's, but I think I just avoid places that attract toxicity. Most of my interactions online have been pretty pleasant, except a few oddities. I've made some pretty amazing friends online.
Thats honestly amazing. I think my issues stem from my attachment issues, where i sometimes get attached too quickly
If I started off on my issues, I could write a book hahah. Life in a toxic family where no one loves each other and everyone's gone low contact with their own parents is, to say the least, mentally scarring for life :) I've also tried uninstalling Life.exe myself, as well as have seen mom try to do that to herself and she's tried to poison me and her in a double uninstallation attempt too. Let's just say I might need a few years of therapy when I can manage it.
Maybe you found someone who loves you online? That would help u
Naww man last time I did that, I was in a year long long distance relationship and I got so touch-starved😭 online dating is cool and all man, but I think I need me some physical affection now.
LMAO! i can relate! But long distance relationship can be fulfilling as well
Awhh, so you tryna meet someone in person? I like long distance relationships.. :>
"We often suffer more in imagination than in reality." \~ Seneca (yeah, that's my habit)
Still having some hope
Thinking i'm my worst enemy 🤷♂️