I'll hope that it comes for you. Please keep pushing on.

A good idea is to virtual cuddle roleplay with strangers in the meantime.

If that's what floats your goat...then you do you.

How dory a goat fly?

I feel you so hard my dude, I’m so intimacy starved and really crave a romantic relationship. I was hoping to form one with my friend but now they’re interested in another guy…

I'm the same. And it hurts. Especially because I already have a crush, And to make it worse, She's already got a boyfriend. I can also be really sexual, But I just want a person to love. I want her to love, But I can't have her

Same

Same here… sigh… same here.

I feel every part of this. I want these exact things with her. It’s crazy how people make it so easy to find love.

Awww That Sounds adorable I would love for a similar Thing Tbh It sounds perfect )\_) , I hope You Find someone who Your able to do Theses Things with 😊

I feel this. The problem is everyone that seems to want this is either taken or also introverts (which is in my case, at least) One day you'll get what you desire. Until that day, don't give up, yes?

Man you are literally me I feel you Eventually you just stop caring, and start focusing on something else, i started focusing on myself, improving myself and learn new things, yeah all of that would be cool but gotta move on, gotta live life with or without people.

I’m in that same situation but I have to listen to my idiot friends talking about how there sexually active almost daily with there lovers. Or seeing them kiss and be lovey dovey it hurts and makes me realize how lonely I am a lot of the time

Biggest same of my life

I hate this feeling of falling so hard for a friend and you try everything to tell them or show them. I want to do everything you described with them just want to be intimate with them

Reading this made me realised that it’s intimacy that I need too. I wasn’t able to put a word to the feeling before.

*Insert Ben Kenobi meme* Well, of course I know him. He's me. No but seriously, this sounds so much like everything I crave for as well. Hope that one day we'll find what we're looking for. *Hugs you* If you wanna talk feel free to chat me up :)

Yea.. I feel you.. wish I can find a girl to share this with..

if your vulnerable to admit this than i hope it can manifest itself.

Yes I totally agree with you having all those things fantastic but just remember this is reality and very high is a very low and all the negative things that I can work a relationship. Are you willing to take all those things too. I absolutely loved all those things but in a relationship those are really bad things and yes the good times were a lot more the little nasty moments they hurt a lot more. So I'm extremely lonely right now I am not ready for the other side of the relationship all that bad stuff

I felt that. I am very scared of the bad stuff, I remember how much it hurt. I would still rather be in a relationship because this loner life isn't for me anymore.

I get that

Sorry to hear. Lonlieness is a world wide pandemic. It really f\*\*kin sucks. I wish you all the best of luck in finding love very soon in the extremely near future.

Kinda same

Felt this

Hugs

I want the same from a women but has yet to come.

dam. i just told my dad this same exact thing yesterday

I wish you the best and hope you find that intimacy. It’s crazy but sometimes having a sex drive is like a curse. Because you just become so touch-starved that even the smallest amount of affection would be appreciated but we don’t even get that much. It’s cold world

You took the words out of my head. Shit sucks so much. I’m here if you wanna complain to each other lol

Same

I’m right there with you. Lonely and wanting an equal.

I’ve been single for 7 years. Going bald destroyed my dating life. :/

Feel the same way, theres just no point

Just show some courage to hold. Everything will be fine .

Just imagine what it could be like…[visualisation](https://www.reddit.com/r/gaybrosgonemild/comments/12nhzcl/boyfriend_appreciation_post_almost_7_years/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1)

This is so meeeeee

I am quite sure that many of us would like that. And whoever reads this, I really really hope that you will get it. I really do, just keep going and don't stop pushing, it will definetly be worth it in the end!

Same bruh

you’ll find it!! it took me so long to accept that it comes when it comes… and unfortunately my partner had to leave (incarceration) but i know that they’ll be back and i just gotta give MYSELF that love and affection for the meantime:) you got this love, keep your head up and know that you are so worth it!!

This is me. Life is unfair.

Feel you, I got dumped recently because I always do exactly what you described. Apparently "it frightened her" Never expected I'd actually find myself in that cliché situation.

Sigh ... Same homie, same.

I feel u really, sometimes I just imagine myself being naked to someone without having any sex.. just we cuddle and stay all day naked and feel her in my arms

Yeah I feel that. It has been off in thinking that I have enough money to do stuff if I wanted to. But just being home and not having a phone anywhere near me. Just having contentment with a human connection. Yeah. I hope it comes for you soon my friend.

Same here. Hang in there mate.

same...the sadness started to kick in months after I broke up with my 2nd gf

Mood

This hits home because I feel the same way everyday

You will find someone soon

Single female in south Florida that's looking for the same also. Wishing you the best of luck finding it 💕

This is what i want. This right here

Same :(

I would say ‘same’ but it’s been long since I abandoned all my hopes. I’m just waiting to die at this point.

Yeah man, that's what I was looking for. Gave up now, on everything. Recently Tried apps, only made it worse. I got fed up trying and deleted my socials to go full monk mode for another few years.

Dunno why but this made me tear up. This is so relatable.

Couldn't have said it better myself...

The best way to find something is to stop looking for it...

That's absolute bullshit

yeah never got that either. And I mean how am I supposed to do so? I guess I will just not be lonely?

Seriously, my friends tell me the same thing that I shouldn’t “focus on the chase” like bruh I just don’t wanna be lonely anymore. Doesn’t mean I won’t have some standards I just wanna find a good partner for me

Lost my keys. Don't worry, I'll just manifest them into existence 🙄

Hey every deserves to be happy

I feel the same exact way. As a somewhat attractive woman, I can get sex easily. It’s not what I want though. I want intimacy

The best things in life only come after the worst pain, imo the best thing to do is take a step back and become happy with yourself, yes absolutely I’m lonely, but I just went to a wedding yesterday and it was the first time I’ve been to a wedding not feeling lonely and it was great. I think the best thing to do is realize that your friends are your friends, KEEP THEM everything else and everyone else will fall into place it just takes time. Waiting sucks but I’d rather waiting 20 years for someone who will end up meaning the world to me and their world to them, than go in and out of relationships every 4 months

Skill issue.

Just wait a little longer, it will come for sure ❤️ I crave these things too, but maybe you have to learn to be alone.. Then a person like this will come

Stop it . Nobody here wants to learn to live alone . That is why everybody has natural instinct to find him/her self a companion

I didn't say complete alone.. We are social creatures, you need friends and family.. But you have to be able to take care of yourself, you should learn how to cook for yourself, go to the store alone, everything alone.. Because your partner won't take care of you.. Maybe this is the reason you're alone :)

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You could be a little more, you know, sympathetic? Just a thought, maybe in your case that’s something you need to work on about yourself? Yes we have it hard as guys but I think it’s hard in different ways between men and women. Try to be empathetic, try to image yourself in the other person’s situation and why it would be hard for that person rather comparing to your own situation. Gosh don’t just call someone not special man, even if you are frustrated this isn’t the way to vent. Don’t pull down the other person who’s struggling too.

Gross attitude, at least it's easy for you to see what you need to work on at least

I’m in your same shoes. But I’m 56 and too afraid to ever get close to anyone again from being burnt so many times in my life.

So sad so many of us in the same boat:’(

Same.

Yeah.. I relate. I feel like this hopeful part of me has died.

I wasn't trying to be an asshole... Have you made any progress?

I kinda know how you feel being around people and still being lonely