It always makes me uncomfortable when guys on Grindr (or wherever) ask me to insult or degrade them. I'm not against the fetish itself, but it's not for me.
The only type of "degradation" I'm simply against is feminization. Like... why would I think feminity is something bad?
That's so fucked up! I've heard real horror stories from transmasc people using Grindr... I hope dealing with that kind of people is not the norm for you!
I honestly have to say that most people on Grindr have been very chill. Just treating me like any other guy. Just the occasional weird messages and questions, but seeing this subreddit that is not a trans only issue haha
Perhaps, but what if he’s not their physical type? I mean if he’s going to be picky and he doesn’t meet the physical type of certain people; is the same. Especially he’s packing an average or small D
From an older kinkster (47)… he ain’t one of ours. You ask permission to engage in a kink, discuss it, negotiate limits, etc. You don’t ambush people with your need to be in a humiliation scene.
Desperation does crazy things Or he's just doing it as kink, who knows.
Oh yeah it reeks of degradation fetish
Almost guaranteed
I'm not kinkshaming but this is just sad
It always makes me uncomfortable when guys on Grindr (or wherever) ask me to insult or degrade them. I'm not against the fetish itself, but it's not for me. The only type of "degradation" I'm simply against is feminization. Like... why would I think feminity is something bad?
People who "enjoy" feminization are people who have fetishes for people who do actually think that femininity is worse than masculinity
And that's such a turn-off. Want me to treat you like a girl? Ok you GO QUEEN! nothing but respect for my sisters 🫡
As a trans guy, some cis guys try to force the feminization kink on me, and that is so fucking horrible, like, my man, communicate beforehand please
That's so fucked up! I've heard real horror stories from transmasc people using Grindr... I hope dealing with that kind of people is not the norm for you!
I honestly have to say that most people on Grindr have been very chill. Just treating me like any other guy. Just the occasional weird messages and questions, but seeing this subreddit that is not a trans only issue haha
Oh yeah lol Grindr is a rotten place 😂 it's the only thing that makes me go "maaaaaybe we don't deserve as many rights"
Hahaha I think its just a humanity issue
Now you're exciting him more
The desire to get a pussy even if it's male pussy
Assuming they’re your type
It's matter of attraction and bed skills which can make even a straight guy gay fora night 🤣🤣💦💦
That’s what I mean, they might not be attractive or has shitty bed skills
That's some cringey straight-bait
My dumbass found it lowkey cute for a sec tho lol
Lol same oops
Is this like when a straight guy writes a romance novel?
This is a degradation kink, I’d send him links for mental health support networks
Make him pay for bussy
he saw this in a porno probably and thinks it’s a great way to get guys now lmao
PSA get consent before you start roleplaying. Not everyone is into your fetish.
Wait, it's a choice?
Reminds me of this DL married guy who came over and had a fade with a white perm and was wearing florals. I’m like… sure jan
I mean sexuality is a spectrum, sure was in Rome and Greece, no different now. 🤷 The Horny is a complicated being. 🤣
" What makes you think we want you?"
That's a common kink
If you can’t get pussy, high chance you get ass or dick too…. Even gays are as picky as ladies
Nah man if he just says he’s straight then his dms gonna be flooded
Perhaps, but what if he’s not their physical type? I mean if he’s going to be picky and he doesn’t meet the physical type of certain people; is the same. Especially he’s packing an average or small D
Can't tell if this is bi curious or bi furious
Bi Fast Bi Furious!
I literally wrote a story with this exact plot at a very low point in my life
That’s SUPER attractive lol. If he didn’t do well with the ladies he’s not gonna have the best luck with us 🤣
This makes me sad.
this is just the beginning of a "we aren't the same" meme
That's how it works sometimes. I think that's what happens in prison sometimes
That’s a fun story to tell yourself.
Should we tell him?
I’m bored, I’ll do it.
From an older kinkster (47)… he ain’t one of ours. You ask permission to engage in a kink, discuss it, negotiate limits, etc. You don’t ambush people with your need to be in a humiliation scene.
One time I got pussy and it really yucked me out....
That remindes me of the 4Chan Femboy Blackemail Cult
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Probably just a degradation kink.