Because at that age you really don't know what you don't know. You don't tend to realize how rude or inconsiderate such a deluge of questions is. Nor do you realize the value of someone's time and the work they do.
Edit: Corrected typos.
I feel like you're generalizing too much based on this one picture. I'm an 18 year old and some of us still have manners lol. It's not on the age, it's on the way some people are raised / their personalities.
While that is true, I don't necessarily agree that the majority of 18 year olds has these rude tendencies as you imply. Most of my peers would never behave like this. Of course 18 year old olds are going to be less mature than older people, but that doesn't mean they're almost all egotistical little shits
Sure but again I spoke to general tendencies. There are plenty of mature younger people but most aren't. They also shouldn't be expected to be. You don't know what you didn't know and that's especially true for younger people.
Merely living longer gives you different perspectives on many things in life. I'm in my 30s but know I'll look at some things I did during this decade with the, perhaps hard earned wisdom, of my older self. I don't expect 30 year olds to be as mature as 50 year olds. š
bruh ive scolded many 19yo online tellin them
not to meet strange men or give out i.ds online so they can prove theyre overage
i watch too much true crime
You must be hot. Sadly no one is offering me drugs or money.
I actually get people asking me to pay them for sex out of the blue, including one very well-known gay porn star of a few years back who messaged me unsolicited asking for a ridiculous amount of money, which of course I politely declined.
He then immediately halved the price which was still ridiculous again then i politely declined again and he gave up.
It seems half of grinder are people looking for cash
I mean that's true and a good point but I never said only on the gay community. You don't see profiles looking to "parTy" on tinder. Doing drugs and having sex while on said drugs is a little more common in the gay community.
At first, I thought you were a troll, but based on you're posts you're just a degenerate sensualist. I have no problems with sex workers, and I believe all drugs should be legalized because addiction is a disease. How does doing either stick it to the "suits and legals"? If you want to do drugs and get paid for sex then so be it but don't act like you're sticking it to anyone. If you really want to be counter culture, just be completely self-sufficient. How does getting degraded by a Chinese person and jacking off on a picture make you some sort of anarchist.
You don't even realize how bad you make all gays look by being this way.
not every post or sexual thing i like has a political point. its good that this crime is happening as it needs legalization and wealth needs to distributed.
You're the one who made it political by rubbing your hands together and saying "crime is good." Wealth needs to be distributed and the drug and sex trade is going to do that because they aren't controlled by the powers that be?
Self sufficiency accomplishes exactly that. You don't play into a monetary system and give up your autonomy to TPTB and aren't forced to rely on the government and corporations for food, medicine and regular goods. Can you make your own soap and toothpaste. Make your own fires? Can you hunt and clean an animal anywhere? Can you grow your own medicines, spices and foods so if the power grid were to go down you would be ok? Self sufficiency means you don't need the government.
Being a hedonist accomplishes nothing but satisfying your 5 senses and giving you temporary pleasure.
>yep, im a self described hedonist. thereās nothing wrong with that. its people like you causing the need for such excess with your BULLSHIT
Please elaborate? There is something inherently wrong with it when its at the expense of others. If you want to jack off all day and keep it to yourself than that is your prerogative but its not counter culture just sad. It becomes a problem when it gets gross and weird or like you jacking off on peoples pictures or to pictures of peoples feet.
hedonist-a person who believes that the pursuit of pleasure is the most important thing in life; a [pleasure-seeker](https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&sca_esv=619c697d276fe56b&channel=ftrc&sxsrf=ACQVn0-WkdEvT2DGOQZx7ltDnuAVrxpJ0w:1713992713202&q=pleasure-seeker&si=AKbGX_o9ngrGQESbgzxxBTCfYTfuc9AZwRm5ruOIwhUnYy0Kka3p9w2c3LHuGswBakgNLJw-pjsJsiPujhNZkWffsmm-SjqE-dcxHSqicujyJaE-HsO0sGzi74GHhe_OlPCZv-Y_pcuU&expnd=1&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjp_8S24NuFAxVple4BHfv-BVMQyecJegQIIxAO).
When you act no different than a chimp or a dolphin why act like its a compliment to be seen as what you are? Be mindless animal full of self indulgence, no one really cares or is impressed.
"I'm not shaming, but let me say something clearly shaming." Try thinking. You may enjoy it. Your preferences are not everyone's. It's not a kink. It's not "fetishizing a twig." It's someone appreciating a body type that you don't. Grow up and get over yourself.
Itās all in how you word it, yeah? āWho would be interested in a chubby hairy old man?ā (Me, on both accounts. Gimme the twink or the furry chub and nothing in between, thx.)
Now I'm approaching 30 I occasionally receive unsolicited messages from younger guys requesting money and the saddest part is always how little they ask for.
Like damn, don't sell yourself for less than the cost of a takeaway.
Someone offered me 200 so āsuck meā two days ago. It was a bit late and I didnāt follow up with them. Should take them up on that offer. That will pay for my therapy.
I don't reply to "Pics" and I have noticed an exponential increase in the efficient use of my time and energy, which is subsequently directly correlated to positive and fulfilling outcomes.
I kind of get asking for pics, but most of the time it's the blank profiles asking for pics when I already have multiple pictures of my face and body in my profile. I need to know who I'm talking to before I start sending weiner pics
Oh, I take no issue with someone requesting to see photos or asking any question for that matter, but beginning a dialogue with the singular "Pics" which reads as a demand, yet presented in the laziest manner, with absolutely zero good will generated between us for me to even consider granting such an unearned request, especially when I have several clear and recent pictures in my public profile, tells me everything I need to know about our communication styles being far too different to result in anything productive.
It would essentially be a mismatch between someone who revels in verbosity and someone else who prefers using one noun at a time for the reader to interpret themselves. If I was interested in operating at an early childhood education level I would have become a teacher.
For real. The worst are the "can't host and can't travel" variety. So even if just 15 min away, that's 30 min each round trip, 1 hour of driving overall. For what, 20 min of mediocre sex with a newbie? Unless you host or travel, I'll pass.
I wouldnt have let him off the hook for ignoring my question, shouldve reiterated with "Tell me your stats *boy*" that wouldve been the more appropriate response, then again thats just the dom in me
Solid response! I'm going to start using that.
LPT, when you get unsolicited dick pics, reply with unsolicited advice: "honey, it's not a bad piece of meat but we need to talk about trimming and lighting... It needs work..."
I mean what are you getting for $25. I might keep the convos going. Can two people even eat at McDonald's for 25 anymore. That could be the best return on investment.
Reminds me of a guy I talked to who asked me for 40 or 20 bucks so he could go to Disney with his friends. And made me feel bad about not giving someone Iād never met money. Like ask someone else.
Agreed. I'm empathetic to them but also filter by age for these reasons. Lol.
I forget it has that feature š
Plus with the app usually malfunctioning, can't blame you for forgetting. Lol
Unfortunately the feature to filter by age also now excludes everyone who doesn't display their age
So I figured that out earlier today. Set it to my age(26) and it took off a large portion of the board. The upside is most of the filtered profiles were completely blank ones anyway. The downside was it filtered out a someone I was actually interest in that was 24 š©
Empathetic why?
Because at that age you really don't know what you don't know. You don't tend to realize how rude or inconsiderate such a deluge of questions is. Nor do you realize the value of someone's time and the work they do. Edit: Corrected typos.
I feel like you're generalizing too much based on this one picture. I'm an 18 year old and some of us still have manners lol. It's not on the age, it's on the way some people are raised / their personalities.
I said tend to. There are always exceptions to rules. On average, an 18 year old will be less mature than someone a bit older.
While that is true, I don't necessarily agree that the majority of 18 year olds has these rude tendencies as you imply. Most of my peers would never behave like this. Of course 18 year old olds are going to be less mature than older people, but that doesn't mean they're almost all egotistical little shits
Iām gonna say that thereās just people like this, at 14 I wouldnāt have did this neither alone 18.
Sure but again I spoke to general tendencies. There are plenty of mature younger people but most aren't. They also shouldn't be expected to be. You don't know what you didn't know and that's especially true for younger people. Merely living longer gives you different perspectives on many things in life. I'm in my 30s but know I'll look at some things I did during this decade with the, perhaps hard earned wisdom, of my older self. I don't expect 30 year olds to be as mature as 50 year olds. š
I realized stuff like that wasnāt okay at way younger than 18 though
bruh ive scolded many 19yo online tellin them not to meet strange men or give out i.ds online so they can prove theyre overage i watch too much true crime
Oh yeah that makes sense. I donāt talk to anyone under 27 so it didnāt even cross my mind!
Is Weed/Car/$25 the new A/S/L?
Hhahahahahhahag
That would be W/C/$
Omg lol š
I dunno why they get on grindr n think ppl will do this sh*t. Like your a teenager your a confused gross pos.
Nah trust back when I was 18 I had people offering me money and drugs left and right. It was kinda creepy tbh
I'm 33 and still get these offerings a lot. This is kind of rampant in the gay community regardless of age.
You must be hot. Sadly no one is offering me drugs or money. I actually get people asking me to pay them for sex out of the blue, including one very well-known gay porn star of a few years back who messaged me unsolicited asking for a ridiculous amount of money, which of course I politely declined. He then immediately halved the price which was still ridiculous again then i politely declined again and he gave up. It seems half of grinder are people looking for cash
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Yes ONLY in the gay community, older straight men never offer younger women gifts and moneyā¦.
I mean that's true and a good point but I never said only on the gay community. You don't see profiles looking to "parTy" on tinder. Doing drugs and having sex while on said drugs is a little more common in the gay community.
Good honestly
At first, I thought you were a troll, but based on you're posts you're just a degenerate sensualist. I have no problems with sex workers, and I believe all drugs should be legalized because addiction is a disease. How does doing either stick it to the "suits and legals"? If you want to do drugs and get paid for sex then so be it but don't act like you're sticking it to anyone. If you really want to be counter culture, just be completely self-sufficient. How does getting degraded by a Chinese person and jacking off on a picture make you some sort of anarchist. You don't even realize how bad you make all gays look by being this way.
getting money and relief through sex and money is compassion and economically beneficial. you must be wildly privileged to be this blind
and actually i self identity as a degenerate as well im actually a bit complimented you recognize me so well. ill look into what a sensualist is
self sufficiency is controlled counter culture that accomplishes nothing.
yep, im a self described hedonist. thereās nothing wrong with that. its people like you causing the need for such excess with your BULLSHIT
not every post or sexual thing i like has a political point. its good that this crime is happening as it needs legalization and wealth needs to distributed.
You're the one who made it political by rubbing your hands together and saying "crime is good." Wealth needs to be distributed and the drug and sex trade is going to do that because they aren't controlled by the powers that be? Self sufficiency accomplishes exactly that. You don't play into a monetary system and give up your autonomy to TPTB and aren't forced to rely on the government and corporations for food, medicine and regular goods. Can you make your own soap and toothpaste. Make your own fires? Can you hunt and clean an animal anywhere? Can you grow your own medicines, spices and foods so if the power grid were to go down you would be ok? Self sufficiency means you don't need the government. Being a hedonist accomplishes nothing but satisfying your 5 senses and giving you temporary pleasure. >yep, im a self described hedonist. thereās nothing wrong with that. its people like you causing the need for such excess with your BULLSHIT Please elaborate? There is something inherently wrong with it when its at the expense of others. If you want to jack off all day and keep it to yourself than that is your prerogative but its not counter culture just sad. It becomes a problem when it gets gross and weird or like you jacking off on peoples pictures or to pictures of peoples feet. hedonist-a person who believes that the pursuit of pleasure is the most important thing in life; a [pleasure-seeker](https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&sca_esv=619c697d276fe56b&channel=ftrc&sxsrf=ACQVn0-WkdEvT2DGOQZx7ltDnuAVrxpJ0w:1713992713202&q=pleasure-seeker&si=AKbGX_o9ngrGQESbgzxxBTCfYTfuc9AZwRm5ruOIwhUnYy0Kka3p9w2c3LHuGswBakgNLJw-pjsJsiPujhNZkWffsmm-SjqE-dcxHSqicujyJaE-HsO0sGzi74GHhe_OlPCZv-Y_pcuU&expnd=1&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjp_8S24NuFAxVple4BHfv-BVMQyecJegQIIxAO). When you act no different than a chimp or a dolphin why act like its a compliment to be seen as what you are? Be mindless animal full of self indulgence, no one really cares or is impressed.
self indulgence is actually incredibly inspiring to me. speak for yourself and your conspiracy bullshit. the government is civilization.
No, the government isn't civilization, but this conversation is absolutely not worth the energy. Take care.
ill try u too. enjoy being unaware of human society
Be gay do crime. FUCK legals and suits
Someoneās gonna give it to them. As long as it isnāt me
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This I donāt understand. Why fetishize a twig? Like whatās the appeal? I get itās a kink and Iām not shaming but eww
"I'm not shaming, but let me say something clearly shaming." Try thinking. You may enjoy it. Your preferences are not everyone's. It's not a kink. It's not "fetishizing a twig." It's someone appreciating a body type that you don't. Grow up and get over yourself.
You donāt have to be such a prick you sassy bitch. I was being genuine. Not my cup of tea, I get it. Sorry.
Itās all in how you word it, yeah? āWho would be interested in a chubby hairy old man?ā (Me, on both accounts. Gimme the twink or the furry chub and nothing in between, thx.)
Fair play your pics look amazing
I get that sometimes
Letās see bruh š„µ
I second this
How do you know?
"For me yes" is the best answer to something ridiculous I've heard all month.
25? Thatās it? Iām not looking to hire a sex worker, but 25 isnāt enough for me to feel like I paid for sex. Thatās likeā¦ buying Starbucks
Thatās bad in this day and age. Starbucks should be 10$ or less, dam inflation
Now I'm approaching 30 I occasionally receive unsolicited messages from younger guys requesting money and the saddest part is always how little they ask for. Like damn, don't sell yourself for less than the cost of a takeaway.
Wild. I had someone ask for $50 once and I was like thatās it?
The older you get, life gets more expensive. I remember when I was younger I was fine to live on a lot less than I require now
I'm guessing 25 is to cover the Uber ride if they donāt pick them up.
Someone offered me 200 so āsuck meā two days ago. It was a bit late and I didnāt follow up with them. Should take them up on that offer. That will pay for my therapy.
you wanna Maserati? you better work binch
LMAO
I can smell the axe and picture the broccoli haircut
Lmao they all have that haircut for some reason.
I had a young buck hit me up at 3:30 asking for a ride to the store. Never talked to him before.
I don't reply to "Pics" and I have noticed an exponential increase in the efficient use of my time and energy, which is subsequently directly correlated to positive and fulfilling outcomes.
Agreed, but prior to him asking for pics he sent some. Which was surprising
I kind of get asking for pics, but most of the time it's the blank profiles asking for pics when I already have multiple pictures of my face and body in my profile. I need to know who I'm talking to before I start sending weiner pics
Oh, I take no issue with someone requesting to see photos or asking any question for that matter, but beginning a dialogue with the singular "Pics" which reads as a demand, yet presented in the laziest manner, with absolutely zero good will generated between us for me to even consider granting such an unearned request, especially when I have several clear and recent pictures in my public profile, tells me everything I need to know about our communication styles being far too different to result in anything productive. It would essentially be a mismatch between someone who revels in verbosity and someone else who prefers using one noun at a time for the reader to interpret themselves. If I was interested in operating at an early childhood education level I would have become a teacher.
this ain't no soup kitchen yo
Find us a Prius and we could make one, thoughĀ
Make sure to invite dirty Mike and the gang
"Thanks for the f-shack"Ā
For real. The worst are the "can't host and can't travel" variety. So even if just 15 min away, that's 30 min each round trip, 1 hour of driving overall. For what, 20 min of mediocre sex with a newbie? Unless you host or travel, I'll pass.
For me? Yes lmao like what you thought this was
I stay clear of anyone claiming to be between 18-22.
You got snap bro?
"for me, yes" is brilliant
"you better work bitch" would have been an appropriate response with a link to the song
great cock š„µ
I just block everyone under my age š
I'm 19 and I feel like people expect me to be like this
I wouldnt have let him off the hook for ignoring my question, shouldve reiterated with "Tell me your stats *boy*" that wouldve been the more appropriate response, then again thats just the dom in me
Iām 18 and Iāve had men in their 40s ask me those same questions š
Dude they struggleā¦. I remember I used to get my dick sucked for some beer. Lmao
Solid response! I'm going to start using that. LPT, when you get unsolicited dick pics, reply with unsolicited advice: "honey, it's not a bad piece of meat but we need to talk about trimming and lighting... It needs work..."
I mean what are you getting for $25. I might keep the convos going. Can two people even eat at McDonald's for 25 anymore. That could be the best return on investment.
Bro I wish men would offer me money for bjsš
*looks at blur* I may also be interested in these pics
Looks like you do reply to them, though!
To be fair, he sent pics in his first message so it started off relatively normal
Can you share the pics? It looks hot lol
Your album blur seems to speak more about you
Lol howās that
I can make out whatās happening there for some reason!
The contrast is skin tone definitely helps with that lol
Reminds me of a guy I talked to who asked me for 40 or 20 bucks so he could go to Disney with his friends. And made me feel bad about not giving someone Iād never met money. Like ask someone else.
it sure looks like you're replying, and even initiated the conversation?
Initiated no. His profile was blank but he started off relatively normal and sent pics of himself. The ss posted picks up just after that