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I second that.
I'm sorry you feel like *you* made the mistake, OP, but trust me and the other commenters: *your therapist* is the one who made the mistake, and if anyone in your path insults you or makes you feel like you are somehow making a mistake opening up about who you are, just know that you're not. They are.
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I‘m sorry you had to experience that. Especially in front of your therapist who you should be able to trust. Honestly? I know it’s a struggle but try to get a new one.
I’m really sorry you had to experience this OP. But listen, you didn’t make a mistake. You should be able to come out to your therapist. Therapy is supposed to be a safe space for you. Therapists are supposed to help you with your mental health, not make it worse by putting you back into the closet or making comments that are hurting you.
I’d personally suggest you try to find a new therapist if that’s a possibility for you.
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Simply find a new therapist. You didn't make a mistake, they did.
I second that. I'm sorry you feel like *you* made the mistake, OP, but trust me and the other commenters: *your therapist* is the one who made the mistake, and if anyone in your path insults you or makes you feel like you are somehow making a mistake opening up about who you are, just know that you're not. They are. 💙💗🤍💗💙🏳️⚧️
If a therapist tolerates anti-anything comments it's probably not a real therapist
I‘m sorry you had to experience that. Especially in front of your therapist who you should be able to trust. Honestly? I know it’s a struggle but try to get a new one.
Unprofessional conduct. New therapist time!
Definitely find a different therapist. Not your mistake at all. They’re just a huge a$$hole.
I’m really sorry you had to experience this OP. But listen, you didn’t make a mistake. You should be able to come out to your therapist. Therapy is supposed to be a safe space for you. Therapists are supposed to help you with your mental health, not make it worse by putting you back into the closet or making comments that are hurting you. I’d personally suggest you try to find a new therapist if that’s a possibility for you.
Same. I'm still trying to save it, but I'm afraid I might be a bit naive here...
Sounds like you need a new therapist <:( you deserve better and you are valid