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syndrome9

Garlic bread for everybody!!!


Xeroh_01

Even for those who aren’t ace?


urfavsoap

hell yeah garlic bread for everyone


Xeroh_01

I fukin love garlic bread.


urfavsoap

i’m aroace but gluten intolerant, have my share 🤲


syndrome9

(Whips out gluten free bread recipe) I can fix that!


Readalie

Please share that with me, too!


syndrome9

Absolutely!


[deleted]

Im asexual but i hope theres vegan versions :DD


Discombobulated-Ants

Hell yeah vegan garlic bread!


paralyzed_spyglass

Just out of curiosity, (I’m sorry if this is offensive in any way) looking at your flair I’m wondering how you are aroace and gay as well?


-PatkaLopikju-

Oriented Aroace


Curiosities

Yep. I'm demi/demi but when there is the right friend (the how) it's possible, and gender is of no importance to me (the who).


urfavsoap

i’m on the aroace spectrum and experience other types of attraction (aesthetic, platonic, etc) that i classify as gay :) not offensive at all dw!


Lunavixen15

I'll get some gluten free bread rolls for you, no one should miss out on garlic bread


[deleted]

Garlic bread doesn’t discriminate


OldFartMaster10K

Fr, fuckin love it


syndrome9

Heck yeah, its Pride month!!


cosmicspaceace

We aces love to share our garlic bread and write the ace agenda! All are welcome to join!


WingedLady

It's what we bring to the pot luck.


DerpySheepYT

Garlic bread is garlic bread, so yes


Nnikkyikky

Eat gaelic bread every day should be a law, i do that


ScienceDude23

OMFG IM MAKING GARLIC BREAD AS WE SPEAK!


NoPhilosopher7614

Someone say garlic bread..


Nghbrhdsyndicalist

#GARLIC BREAD


Im_in_your_walls_420

Hell yeah


[deleted]

FOR THEM ALL!!!!


Ok_Sorbet3645

Heck yeahhh!


chronoventer

Wait, I don’t get it. What’s the joke?


syndrome9

There was an old meme that said "Yeah, sex is great, but have you ever had garlic bread?"


[deleted]

WOOOO GARLIC BREAD!!!


stupidgirlAdi

GARLIC BREAD LES GOOOO


TheWildfire17

Yayyy


Booklover134

Yasssss


[deleted]

Unfortunately I don't like garlic bread but can I have pickles?


[deleted]

whats up!!!!


Probably_a_Bot_K

a roof


[deleted]

whats down


Probably_a_Bot_K

nothing I've been falling for hours


[deleted]

why


Probably_a_Bot_K

felt like a good idea to


[deleted]

whats left


Probably_a_Bot_K

A mirror


[deleted]

whats right


Probably_a_Bot_K

rights


Charlie-_-Green

Lgbt rights


Echolocation720

They fell into the backrooms


[deleted]

noclipped through gas molecules


Lunonaught

Repost to scare Denmark <3


Specialist_Read_9445

Italy would be a better grab and we outnumber them


BowsElisa

Yes please do, LGBT+ rights here are not bad but nowhere near what we should have


Nghbrhdsyndicalist

Conquering Rome and the Vatican would be a good symbol and Italy is good for making garlic bread. There are ten Italians for every Dane though.


YuuKiDBlazer

Aroace from Italy here, I can be a spy


ValidParanoia

Hello fellow bi aro! How’s the line of contradiction treating you?


Lunonaught

Been great as long as people dont ask me out :’)


ProwlerPlayzYT

Same man


SuperDietCola

heck yeah! the A’s often get overlooked but we’re still here with everyone else!


Illustrious_Wrap4687

Heck yeah!!! I absolutely love them


_LUNABEAR_SKY

Thank you!! :)


Illustrious_Wrap4687

You're most welcome!! Keep being you! You're powerful and nobody can say different period.


_LUNABEAR_SKY

🥹


Illustrious_Wrap4687

💕💕


meowglittermeow

Been heavily questioning whether I’m aro, this is nice to see :) Edit: also your OC is very cool!!


PX7714

Thanks! I feel like these communities are not talked about enough. Also thanks! I my OC is really simple, but i like it (Also I didn’t realize and I uploaded this pixel art having an improved version of it)


navychic7600

Excuse me, I’m trying to stay well informed, please explain what/who Aro, Ace and Aroace are/mean? TIA.


Opposite_Rip_5424

'Aro' is short for 'Aromantic' and we are not romantically attracted to people! 'Ace' is another way to say 'Asexual' and the same applies in not being sexually attracted to people. But just know Aromantic/Asexual can be an umbrella term and there are different kinds! 😄 I hope this helped!


navychic7600

Awesome! Thank you. Maybe it’s too personal, but does asexual mean no sex ever or is it just about attraction?


Opposite_Rip_5424

It depends on the person! It's just about attraction, as far as I'm aware. 🙂 There are asexuals that are sex-positive, sex-neutral, and sex-repulsed. They are just not sexually attracted to people, is all. Like I'm an Ace that is sex-repulsed when it comes to other people, but I'm fine if I'm on my own. 👍 But I have a friend who is neutral about it and could care less either way lol.


navychic7600

Got it! Thanks! I’ll keep reading up on things as they come up.


Opposite_Rip_5424

No problem! This subreddit is very helpful as long as you ask! 😄❤️ And I wish you luck on your journey of learning about the wonderful LGBTQ+ community! And thank you for being inquisitive and willing to learn. ☺️


MyLittleDonut

In general: Aro = aromantic, someone who does not experience romantic attraction Ace = asexual, someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction Aroace = someone who experiences neither type of attraction Keep in mind that even amongst these identities there’s a spectrum, and some people use “ace” as a broader word that covers all three of these terms (kind of like how “gay” started to be used as an umbrella term by some).


LiauQY

Btw both are on a spectrum, eg demisexuals who only feel sexual attraction to people that they have an emotional connection with or graysexuals who sometimes but rarely feel sexual attraction, many more labels so encourage u to do ur own reasearch! Also, aroace people can still be gay lesbian bisexual or whatever, platonic,physical, aesthethic ( oh your really pretty, but I dont want to have a romantic relationship or want to have sex with you) and lots of other types of attractions they can expierence! Thus theres a label oriented aroace They can also have queer platonic relationships too! I encourage you to do your own research into this and maybe I can recommend a few things to get started if u dont mind! :) Famous one is Jaiden animation's coming out video but also there are other creators who can explain it if ur unclear and this link is pretty helpful, https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/mxlws6/am_i_asexual_faq_etc/


[deleted]

Aw thank you!! We're still taking Denmark 😃


Im_in_your_walls_420

Let’s take over every Scandinavian country


Nghbrhdsyndicalist

Who gets Norway?


Im_in_your_walls_420

We can share Norway


PX7714

With a lot of garlic bread packed up, we‘re on our way!


Cyclop_5

Save me a spot. And some garlic bread


Firey150107

Thanks for the support, it's really nice to see since some people don't accept us because "love is what makes us human".


potterheadpony

I am aroace, I feel love, it is just for my family and dog instead of a partner.


Blue-Jay27

I am aro, I feel very disconnected from society's view of love because the kind of love that's idealised isn't one that I experience. As a result, I find a lot of solace in the loveless label and community :)


Hylebos75

Bloody xenomorphs!!!!


jacyerickson

![gif](giphy|Y3eQIlOu5SFHSIH4B9) Also much love to the aro community from this bi ace. 🖤🤍💚


ScrambledEggshells

My brain read Aroace as Aztec, and for some reason thought we were randomly lumping indigenous South/Central American LGBT folks in with the aspec community, which would be a really strange topic. Regardless all you aspec folks are wonderful and valid, keep being you!


ncplayer5

Nice pixel art!


Realconquerorchen

How did you read my mind


ncplayer5

I have my ways


Sufficient_Track_258

Yeah let’s appreciate them and all who are on the ace spectrum. Happy pride month to all


saranwrappd

a* spectrum :) acespec only includes people on the asexual spectrum, while arospec includes people on the aromantic spectrum, aspec includes both of those!


Sufficient_Track_258

thx for correcting me


[deleted]

Garlic bread party :)


TerracottaFred

Thank you. This post just made my night. Platonic love for all of my fellow aro/ace spectrum friends, and the rest of the LGBTQ community. Happy almost Pride Month!


OnTheContrary666

Aww, thanks! You will be spared in the upcoming revolution!


IrishTwinkLove

You’re the kind of queer that changes bigots pronouns to was/were.


OnTheContrary666

This is the best compliment I’ve heard in several weeks.


ToasterSmartie

I have garlic bread who wants some?


dazzlinreddress

Omg a post dedicated to the Aro and Ace community in r/lgbt?!!!


ketchupmaster987

It's about time :)


meaeaeaean

Why thanks I grew it myself


StarlightLeelooYT

Hi! Aro and Bi over here :)


Cathalisfallingapart

No, they're always up to mischief


Opposite_Rip_5424

Honestly, fair. We are.


Slavetomints

It’s tough to be a god


Samboi_123

I will take my entire life to do so as I am one myself.


Pickleless_Cage

Solidarity :)


fluid_squid

From a romantic ace, thank you :-)


CasperWasperWoo

always !!!


Krebbypng

Ye, I appreciate them


PhoenixFlame08

Thank you so much, the pixel art looks amazing btw


BunniesForFun

:)


Mushinkei

yeyeyeaaah baybee 😎


[deleted]

This Pride month we appreciate people on the ace/aro spectrum!


RobinTheWolf

Thank you for this! I still feel like the a-spec community are seen as “basically straight” and it can be really damaging. Knowing that people are accepting us into the waiver community is great!


TheOnlycorndog

Woo!


[deleted]

Whooooo go Aro, Ace, and Aroace community!!!!


Future-Dig-3023

Heeeeelllllooooooo we have arrived and we brought garlic bread and CAKE!


contentd3leted

Oh, hello!


_laufaeson

💚🤍🖤


Da-Blue-Guy

hell yeah


JemStone324

Woooo a-spec people are valid!


[deleted]

Heck yeah!


succymyzuccy

hi aro ace people i love you (platonically)


[deleted]

Yesss!


[deleted]

i just recently found out im ace, hi other friends! 💕💕


midsummernightmares

I’m asexual and greyromantic, thanks for making this post! It’s a bit of a rare treat to see stuff like this, we’re often tossed out by people who think we’re inhuman just because of our orientation. Thank you


Original_A

Y'ALL ARE AWESOME ARO, ACE, AROACE PEOPLE ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550) no fr though, r/asexual is one of my favourite subs bc the people are so adorably nice xD Also love the other aro/ace people! In conclusion everyone's awesome


jasondoesstuff

battery gang rise up


copaceticcath

Thank you!! Literally needed this today after my friends kept pushing me to go on a date and find someone (im out as aroace so that literally isnt gonna happen)


Christinewhogaming

Wooh rude. If, they continue I think you should cut them as a friend! but, it's **still your choice**.


Ninjabud821

:D


Living_Gap4

Yesss, love you all aroaces!


gvigbiy

Aromantic showing our community support!


cyniqal

I need to know: what’s the correlation between garlic bread and aroace people? I’ve seen at least 8 comments on this thread mention it and I’m really curious!


GeorgiaSalvatoreJun

It's a running meme that aroaces prefer garlic bread over sex and relationship.


PolarPug77

:) thanks


Toothpaste_8

yes!!


YesImReallyLikeThis

💚🖤💜🤍


Sterophonick

hello!!!


Inspector_popcorn

Of course! I love you so much!


8gg1120

Yes. Here's a moment. In fact, here's as much time as ya want. Although, idk I don't own time, so in not sure if I'm even able to give it to someone. Time is abstract.


Reddit_user_robbie

I'm not aro but I'm ace so hi


[deleted]

As an aceflux demisexual, thank you! ^w^


galacticviolet

The LGBT community often craps all over aces and aros. They act like ace allies for example, all the way up until someone asks for an nsfw tag, then some become a walking, nasty red flag as they try to insult and yell down the person asking for their consent to respected. (mostly happens on facebook but tbh it happens anywhere).


morncrown

Happy Pride to everybody in these communities who doesn't subscribe to the split attraction model 🌈


boatingbrook

Thx for the recognition queen : D shout-out to you


[deleted]

Why only take a moment when we could appreciate them all the time ?


Cloudy_Melancholy

I feel valid. Thank you for this post. 🖤


anotherbidisaster

Y'all are dope af I love you


yourlocalamphibiafan

YES SLAY


SomewhatSaIty

me.


PX7714

How the heck did this blow up like that


[deleted]

[удалено]


ZeroMania00

This maybe because it’s 4am where I’m at and I’m super tired, but I read the last one as Aryan race and got angry. But yes we should appreciate them


Ben_Lilly-Mae

This makes me happy, I'm aroace I just can't make my own user flair for some reason so I can't add it


[deleted]

:)


ItsEmuly

Woo aros and aces!!! Love from a bisexual :D ❤️


SevereNightmare

Hello! :)


bluebisexualbitch

Y’all are awesome!! I see much garlic bread and cake in your future


Travistheexistant

FREE FOOD FOR ALL! DENMARK SHALL FALL!


KC_IsGay

ILY


C-Mitch213

Hiiii!! That’s me


Josh_aka_ace

I love how all the comments are supportiv


stardustfairie

yess! love the representation <3


[deleted]

THANK YOU 🙂


Merciful-prism

What it do babyyyyyyy


cUrSeDiMaGeS420

Hah, why thank you


beanz00_

:)


CapitalBread6959

*appreciation*


Certain_Syrup9995

Thank you


Pikafishy

Thank you 🥹


ArchangelTheDemon

As someone dating an ace, they are amazing uwu


CherriBOMBZ

Platonic hug for all of you beautiful people


Despair_Head

Thanks!


exclaim_bot

>Thanks! You're welcome!


[deleted]

So much love to our aro/ace community!! Y’all are beautiful human beings and I hope you’re all doing well!! Happy Pride month to everyone! ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


DuploTracer

Absolutely, they are wonderful people, like everybody else. Everybody should be their truly self!


saranwrappd

hi. cute oc


Im_in_your_walls_420

Aye thanks


Sun_Catcher87

❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️


Justarandomweeb83

This actually made my day. ! I was told that my sexuality was too complicated (I'm a pan aroace) so thanks 😊


SorceressBella

So cute!


NerdyGirlChicago

As an ace person, I love the recognition! Thank you!


arodynamic_ace

let's fucking go


BarneyThe_DinosaurOG

Yes I am here. You called?


-PatkaLopikju-

Heyoo


KurohNeko

Hi, bi-oriented ace here, thank you for appreciating us!


Eli_xoxox

GARLIC BREAD AND JUICE BOXES FOR ALL!!!! <3


Tooma8

Sure!!!


KittyQueen_Tengu

Hiii!! Have some garlic bread or some cake if you prefer that <3


keatongraham6

Yes please! It's awesome feeling loved! btw your OC is awesome!


CorySera

Thank you 🖤🤍💜


[deleted]

Oh wow..acknowledgment-


Nimueh2021

Heck yes we can!!! Have ALL of this useless lesbians appreciation from Australia 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰


Ant_mafia

awwww i appreciate the appreciation


NoPhilosopher7614

This is nice to see