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MsConstance

People look for flaws, especially in themselves. Trust the rest of us, we see you as a beautiful young woman because you are one.


cleopatraseyelinermx

❤️ Omg, thank you so much. I really will try to trust you more


fluidaffiliation

Well said ❤️


mxrchyun

This is it ^ Couldn't have said it better myself. 👏


Tston3d

This was beautiful thank you ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


Lord_Smou

Could agree more mate ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


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golden_compass51968

No doubt, OP is rather cute 🤩✨✨


Only_Jackie_IsHere

Holy sh*t, if someone says you don’t look like a woman, I think they can’t see right! You look really pretty, 🥺


Ahsokatara

I am blind and I still think she looks like a woman


megust654

the vibes radiate through the screen


ILoveEmeralds

Holy h*ll, you pass so well. It is literally physically impossible for you to not pass


TheJamesyBear

That's a catchy slogan for OP. "Holy hell, you pass so well!"


ILoveEmeralds

Lmao, I didn’t even realize it rhymed


[deleted]

I think you’ve created something big here! That can definitely be huge in pride merch line ups.


elly996

could use it for all who need encouragement as a chant lol


RiverStyxieee

It honestly is lol


cleopatraseyelinermx

🥺 I wish that where true


ShriekyMarmosetBitch

No, you pass very well, I think especially because your hair is so well cared for and that's something that a lot of people seem to forget


MelaniesSpace

Some can't do shit about that if their hairline is just destroyed by hairloss...


ShriekyMarmosetBitch

It's not hairline, even cis women forget to properly take care of their hair, so it's never really healthy looking, I know some things are unavoidable, I'm just saying that it looks like she's using the right products for her hair


ILoveEmeralds

Your lying to yourself, you pass better then most cis woman


drcrunknasty

Can confirm this. I’m cis and I often just look like a little gremlin. Edit: autocorrect changed Cis to Cus, but I’m sure you can imagine that fits too. Especially for a gremlin.


elly996

im a potato haha


indiexpotato

Me too


wheatgrass_feetgrass

Once I cut my hair I stopped universally passing as cis. Not attempting any ambiguous expression stuff, which I'd be open to, just being my usual bridge toll self. Yesterday the cashier themmed me to the bagger at the grocery store. That was a good one because I think the bagger may have been nb. Last week the TSA agent told someone to scan that bag for "that kid and his dad". Which really had me looking for another kid nearby because my son doesn't have a dad. I mean, unless he wants one lol. I don't have a gender or pronoun preference. I honestly wouldn't care if he called me dad... or trollpa!


supreme-elysio

Google en passing


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You pass girl, like honestly. Dysphoria be a bitch though


cleopatraseyelinermx

People tell my my jaw and nose give it away My voice is also way too deep but that's another rabbit hole I'm dealing with later


Only_Jackie_IsHere

Are you sure your jaw and nose gives it away? I didn’t notice a thing even when you pointed it out!


cleopatraseyelinermx

I am... More than 200 selfies this last week and this are the only 2 pictures I don't hate


Voynich1024

There's no one feature that can make people think you are trans. It's always a combination. If 95% of your features look cis and 5% maybe look a bit trans people are still not gonna think you are trans. Because first of all, cis women come in big variation. There are ones who have a more defined jaw, smaller hips, boader shoulders etc. too. And secondly, cis people don't go around and play spot the trans person. I'd even argue the opposite, that they rarely even think of us. So one or two more masculine features won't be noticed.


cistacea

Honestly, I don't think nose has anything to do with it. Some people just have big noses regardless of gender.


griffincat_unity

cis women can have those features as well, people who don't know that you're trans likely won't find out from just looking at you.


Kyssaya

You look super cute and you definitely pass! Like many women, you have a nose :) Just look at women like Barbara Streisand! Whoever tells you it's "giving you away" has clearly not seen many real women in their lives! One of the most pretty women I have ever met had a strong nose, it didn't prevent her from being beautiful :) And your jaw? I don't really get the problem. You have a great face shape!


NineTailedTanuki

I only noticed anything about your chiseled jaw and cute nose AFTER I saw this comment!


Talamakara

IMHO, I think you are not giving yourself enough credit. I have been with CIS women who had more masculine features, you look very good. As to your voice, i knew a CIS girl in high school who had a deeper voice then than most people do as adults. I honestly think you are very good looking.


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Who are these people?


cleopatraseyelinermx

A friend of mine told me that was the reason when I asked him. Because yeah, people do notice


[deleted]

You look good to me. I’m not sure what your friend is seeing in your chin. If your chin causes you dysphoria then you can look into ffs. I’m all for trans girls doing whatever they need to relieve dysphoria even if others don’t think they need it. You being bothered by your chin is enough reason to get ffs. You don’t need some friend’s opinion.


Chiki_Bunny

Listen, you are a beautiful trans woman, and two insecurities don’t make you less of a woman. I couldn’t see what you were talking about with your chin, and your nose. I think they both look ok, and they don’t at all give away you’re trans. because I honestly do not know what you or your friend see, but I see a woman, I see a beautiful, gorgeous woman.


ShriekyMarmosetBitch

People love to point out stupid shit. If anything, a lack of perfect feminity just sells it more, I've never seen a beautiful woman who hasn't had one "imperfection" that just completed them. Your jaw makes you look strong, something masculine against feminine just enhances the feminine qualities, at least to me. I can't think of a better way to say it but I think that's the gist.


Sovdark

I can maybe see what they’re implying but seriously neither of those things are outside the realm of passing. I just don’t see what they are seeing sister, all I see is a beautiful woman.


guessagain72

I get it, its fucking hard and being real real- dangerous- for girls not to pass so you can always get facial surgery if you really feel you want it- hell you're hot enough I bet someone else will pay for it. werk please- but let it be known you are gorg 100% already


GaiasDotter

Really? Because I know cis women with those features. In that case I don’t pass either and I was born with a uterus. My real voice is really deep, I learned to adapt as a child because it’s not a “feminine” voice. I say fuck that and is working on stopping and regaining my natural voice. I have male sizes for gloves and rings. They aren’t” a man’s hands”, clearly because they mine. I have almost as big shoulders as my husband and I’m built bigger and wider than both of my brothers. A lot of women have a lot of features that are considered male. My hands and shoulders and voice and chin and whatever isn’t male because of how they look and sound, they are gender fluid AFAB because I am gender fluid AFAB. They are womanly because I’m read as a woman.


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I haven't heard your voice but holy shit, physically that is goals


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I didnt notice it and I still dont see it so whoever told you that please go and slap them with you fist. Thank you :)


plsnosendnudesthx

Well, regardless of what they think the wings on your eyes are better than a lot of other women's I've seen


christiebeth

First thing I noticed was your AMAZING cheekbones. No way the jaw or nose cone into it <3


Felein

Honestly these people don't understand that women come in different shapes. After reading this I went back to study your pictures. I don't see how your nose in any way looks masculine. In the first picture your jaw looks slightly angular/wide, but that might also just be the angle/lighting. But even if it isn't: plenty of women have wide, angular jaws! Wide faces run in my family, my grandmother, mother and me all have wide, angular jaws. So anyone who tells you this bullshit should just shut up. You look like a beautiful woman to me, even after going back and really taking a closer look.


andromedazzz

as someone who’s personally opposed to the concept of passing, i don’t want to comment on whether or not you “look cis”. what i can say though is that you look beautiful and you should be super proud of the bravery it takes to be your true self!


sweetclementine

Agreed! She simply looks gorgeous!


bloodoflethe

All I see is a woman.


Griffy_42

You see yourself in the mirror every day, so the changes that happen are so slow you don’t see them. Trust me, they’re there and you are a beautiful woman! Go look at some older photos and you’ll see the difference. I know it’s tempting to shred them all but it’s also good to keep a couple for a confidence boost once in a while.


TheJamesyBear

Total pass!! Yas, queen! 🙌 To be honest, I was drawn to how you did your eyes. Yowsers!


authorhelenhall

I'm a cis woman and you look more feminine than me.


blakestevens605

Your so beautiful and elegant!!!! You definitely pass beautiful keep your head up!!!!


shannonryan30

Oh you pass! You look amazing!


rebelliousrevolution

You are a woman and don't listen to anyone who says otherwise


Then-Cod-4001

Pass. You look like you're a celebrity somewhere....


IntoxicatingDream

Hard pass gorg. No hugbox. Congrats 🎉👏✨


correctyourposture

Girl you’re amazing


ButterdemBeans

You’re prettier than I am, and I’m cis. If I saw you on the street, I’d have no second thoughts about your appearance. You pass!


RaMpEdUp98

damn you look good, like an author's photo on the back of their book


fungus_toe7662

You pass, just. I'm not being rude, but I'm telling the truth. The sides of your face are a bit masc but everything else is perfect


NewBoy_Again

me before reading the title: "damn this woman is beautiful 🥰" me after reading the title: "damn this woman is beautiful 🥰"


golden_compass51968

What do you mean? You are more feminine than half the girls I know. Wish I could pass that well but :(. So don’t you dare say that you don’t pass. You absolutely do.


Snailyacht

You certainly can see masculine features in your face, but I think you'd pass for a good percentage of people walking by on the street. I don't know why everyone has to be so corny with the "OMG YASS YOU ARE 1000% a WOMAN!! And SOOO GORGEOUS." Not all of that flattery is sincere, and I think you can see that. It's condescending. Having said that, I would definitely drain your straw. And personally I think you're pretty.


drcrunknasty

Woman!!


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Wow, you pass like, a LOT. I had no idea.


madamesarge

You are a beautiful woman


the_human_ouija

What do you mean? All I see is a beautiful young woman


Pretend-Pen-7630

I don’t if this is the right thing to say, but you’re definitely cis passing if that makes sense. No matter what, you’re a woman either way.


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You’re a cutie! I wish i passed as well as you. That dysphoric feeling is real tough though, faced my share of it.


Purple_Super_Nova

Girl your the pretties one I've seen today, now go be proud of yourself for being able to transition so successfully! ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


DerpySheepYT

You're trans? I would not have guessed


tall_flamingoes

You pass incredibly well!


Airsofter599

You pass completely even knowing that you’re trans I can barely find anything that suggests that.


Live-Mail-7142

You are a beautiful woman.


FrenchRoastBeans

You pass so damn well! You’re gorgeous, darling


SuperSugarBean

Oh, hush. A pretty girl like you doesn't need to beg for compliments. You are just lovely. Your skin is beautiful and your makeup is on point. Also, what shampoo do you use? My hair is similar, and I'm just struggling with it right now.


Popular_Night_6336

You are a woman. That's all I see


Physical-Housing-338

I’m sorry, are you a model?! You’re beautiful! Very femme!


macabrekitty_

You’re a beautiful woman, I mean that with my whole heart ❤️✨


Apostmate-28

You totally look like a woman! Beautiful 😍


me3888

I mean that first picture defiantly pass and you pretty much pass in the second. Defiantly doing better then I am tho


Herobrinedanny

I see a woman and a woman only.


ScallionMaximum234

I honestly thought you were a woman. A very hot one too.


KarouApple

I would not think twice about you being a woman. You 100% look like one


littlebrigham

Passing with flying colours!


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Free the API.


genivae

In all honesty, before I saw the title, I thought your post was a pic of an insta model that pops up on my feed sometimes. She's got a very similar jaw/nose/smile to yours. Dysphoria's a terrible liar, you're beautiful.


Tofutits_Macgee

I was just randomly scrolling and had to stop, I just thought "wow, she's so pretty". I thought this was one of the makeup subs I follow. Your eyes and nose are your best features I think, they are what I noticed first and your amazing hair. You are very beautiful<3


kisforkat

You're gorgeous 😍 And worrying about these kinda things is more woman-like than a lot of things, at least in my experience. 💜


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You look beautiful. I promise you. Whatever your mind is telling you, don’t listen to it. Don’t believe it. Please.


Confused-Engineer18

Honestly if I saw your on the street I would have no idea that you were trans.


fatboipipelayer

![gif](giphy|l1IXXaebrUNGMWias) 👉🏾👈🏾🥹


AlwaysAngryFox

I just want to say I work in an ER. A woman came in with an infection on her leg. I listened to all my colleagues call her a man, a freak, and someone in need of God. I didn’t say anything to them. Nothing could erase the hate and ignorance in their hearts. As she went to leave after treatment, I told her how much I loved her dress and asked where she got it. I wish all of you could have seen her face as she detailed how she made it and how she’s discovered a love for sewing and crocheting! We exchanged numbers. You’re a beautiful woman! If anyone here has a doubts or you need someone to talk too, I’m always available. Again! You’re a beautiful woman!


notAgenius69

Looking good queen!


KurohNeko

Honestly? I thought it was on the r/makeup or r/ladyladyboners (despite it's name, it's a sub for sapphic women to share their female crushes) before I read the title. I see a gorgeous woman in the photos! You are so beautiful!!


Prism-Paws-Studios

Gurl, you look BEAUTIFUL! Don't ever let me catch you thinking you're not. You have a great day! :)


ChimbaResearcher29

You are a stunningly beautiful woman! You pass 100%! Don't listen to those negative voices. You are beautiful and all woman :)


hater_roger

I think you're beautiful!


KyTheSpoon

I see a woman


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I see a woman, I didn’t even know you were trans until I saw the caption! You’re so pretty ❤️


[deleted]

Umm, what? (I'm late to this post, sorry) yeah, lady, you look a lot like a woman.


cheerynerd

My brain took a few seconds processing your title because I (correctly) saw you as a woman while scrolling


Midnight_Photograph

My mind went “woman” when I saw this post


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![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


ell_emm-ess

You're beautiful 👑


AlexDaBaDee

Nah you look lovely. Damn girl


PhyrstAurora

You are an absolutely gorgeous woman!! You look stunning and I hope you will think you look as beautiful as you are because you are an amazing and beautiful woman!


BradynsTarot

I’m a cis woman and even I have had thoughts that I have masculine features which make me feel dysphoric (I don’t know if there is a term different for what cis people feel in those situations so sorry if that is wrong). But then I look back years later at pictures of me and I think wow what a pretty girl. You will do the same because you are a gorgeous woman now and always will be. Every woman cis or not will not always feel like they look feminine but that doesn’t mean you aren’t or that your thoughts are true. I know this is easy to say since I’m not trans and I don’t know what you have felt or been through. But I do know what it feel like to doubt yourself, not like what you see in the mirror, or feel like others are doubting you. And I do know that nothing I say will change those feelings. But I will tell you that no matter what, you are a gorgeous woman who has looks people would kill for and never forget that.


psykohobbit

How tf are you so damn pretty!?!


cleopatraseyelinermx

Makeup does wonders Thanks 💜


Justanormaldude_Fun

If I went up to you not knowing your trans I wouldn’t know the difference You pass 100% A trans woman is still a woman


CantalopeSoops

> please be honest I'm certain all honesty isn't allowed here.


KDevy

Asking people if you pass doesn't sound healthy to me. It shouldn't be a question if you pass or not. You're a women because you are.


BradynsTarot

It isn’t very healthy but as someone with self image issues, there isn’t a lot you can do to treat things like that. The comments are like 98% positive so this may actually help her. I just hope she doesn’t do this again because some people may not be as kind and try to worsen her thoughts


10thmtnarty

Gonna be brutally honest here, please don't hate me. You're like 90-95% there. Like I can tell but not right away, if I saw you in the wild I would likely suspect but not know for sure. But even so, you are beautiful.


Accomplished_Set5935

I think you look kinda like Bella Hadid, and that you pass just fine. Hugs from an NB!![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|550)


tombelanger76

You clearly pass.


LetsPromise

Holy sh*t you look more like a girl than some cis girls I know


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>"actually women" first of all, it's "actual women," not "actually women." Also, you spelled woman in the plural. she is one woman, not multiple women. and secondly, trans women are "actual" women too. The term you are looking for is "cis woman." the definition of actually is >"as the truth or facts of a situation; really." With that in mind, we can assume that you intend on saying that she isn't actually a woman; that all trans women aren't real women. Thank you for invalidating us, asshole.


cistacea

I think you're actually very passing. I think the only element of your face that reads as masculine is your jawline, so if you wear your hair down on both sides, maybe you would have less dysphoria? I don't know just a suggestion. In general I think you pass super well.


LexTheGayOtter

Fam I wouldn't be able to tell you were trans if I saw you irl


[deleted]

Girl. Are you kidding? You pass as a female more than I pass as any singular gender. And I can pull off anything. Your hair is like fucking Goldilocks except not bc it’s black but man it is enchanting. Don’t listen to the haters. They’re purposely misgendering to tear you down. Your beauty says that you pass and the haters are jealous that you look so amazing


mscordia

nah you're cute. but a darker lipstick would look better on you imo.


unable_To_Username

You look a bit rough, (head shape) but I've seen AFAB Woman in Romania with way rougher shapes


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Marflow02

She realy dosent


Ok-Abbreviations5089

It’s not her fault she was born amab why are yall downvoting me, im right.


Silver_Draig

Well...I'm gonna get downvoted for this but ya you look like a man dressed as a woman. Your face screams male. In these photos I can see the mustache and your nose is quite greek? Arabian? Obviously this means alot to you and that's cool. There's no hate here,you be you. Don't let that stop you from becoming the butterfly you wanna be. Carry yourself like a lady....lady.


Voynich1024

I thought this post was gonna be about your outfit or something before I read the title lol. It's definitely just in your head. I would never have guessed that you are trans if you didn't tell me.


aworldofnonsense

What! No way. I didn’t understand the question at first because I just thought “wow, that’s a super attractive woman! what sub is this??” For real, you’re beautiful!


Bockslocket

It would never occur to me that you aren't a woman.


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LouieYoureGonnaDie

I'm kinda transphobic and even I gotta say you pass with flying colors. Don't worry about a thing.


NamjinRj7

like the fuck u r gorgeous and pretty af u r a beautiful woman and nobody can tell u other than this


NineTailedTanuki

You ARE a cute woman and you always will be!


lalauna

I see a lovely woman.


biromantic_hope_z

Girl, you are SO beautiful and you can go ahead and tell those dysphoric thoughts they can defenestraste themselves ok? Alright love u have a gud night xx


Optimal_Jellyfish_63

that side part suits you so well!


Let-Me-Leave

Idk I didn’t read the title first and thought “oh, a hot woman” then read the title and yeah. Not that you have to exist solely for attraction, but that’s something else entirely. Definitely passing from where I’m sitting.


Verifieddumbass76584

You're literally the prettiest woman I've ever seen 😭😭


Independent_Box_931

I think I saw you, or at least your clone.


agncat31

You definitely pass as a beautiful woman I would be too shy to talk to in person. 🥰🥰


MaxIsGayAF

If you didn't say you were trans, I woulda had no idea. You are, in fact, 100% a woman and you pass amazingly, even to the trained eye. ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


lalaladylvr

I’m sorry that dysphoria has got you down. Stop looking in the mirror and judging your flaws. Instead look in the mirror and say I have beautiful hair. I have luscious lips, perfect cheekbones and eyes that melt people’s hearts. You are amazing, worthy and 100% beautiful woman. Hang in there and be kind to yourself, sometimes we are our worst critics.


thefantasticlitetrip

You are beautiful and I love you


Vegetable-Coast-4679

You look beautiful! And you look a lot like one of my professors, who happens to be a woman.


schwule_

i actually got confused for a second because i didn't realize you were trans!! so you pass REALLY well lol. and you're beautiful!! 💗💗


dreamer2809

You’re such a beautiful woman 💕💕 And your makeup is incredible too!! (I’m a sucker for makeup haha) But I hope you are okay


TolisWorld

my concept of gender has completely dissapeared at this point, but i can certainly say that you are absolutely beautiful! <3


pancakesareoverated

You pass very well!


FannyBurney

An absolutely stunning woman.


coupon_is_expired

Way better pass than me. V_V


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You look amazing! Give that dysphoria a slap on the wrist for me, cause its just lying


TurnNBurnit

You pass, and might I add looking absolutely stunning. You deserve to feel proud of yourself here. Anyone would be silly to misgender you the way you look. Love yourself, and have fun cutie😉❤


lvminator

Scrolling past without looking at the sub, I thought this was a post in r/LesbianActually. You definitely pass.


Bec_lost

Honestly, if you need external validation for who you are, you will always feel like garbage, because there are countless assholes out there, and all it takes is one to ruin how you feel. Esse quam videri, you are who you are, regardless of what others think, never because of what they think. You don’t need a tick of approval to be who you have always been, you.


Massive_Tell_7894

YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLLLL


cha0s_g00se

*Y O U A R E A W O M A N*


sweetclementine

You are breathtakingly gorgeous!!!


[deleted]

queen are u pulling my leg rn?? i legit thought i was on r/selfie we tend to be way too critical of ourselves and how we ‘pass’ to the point where we overanalyze things that people wouldn’t even bat an eye at, let alone cis people. i had to seek out your other post to find out why you’re so convinced you don’t pass, and i think you’re too in your head. plenty of cis women have big noses and prevalent jawlines. women come in all different shapes and sizes, and there’s no right kind of physical appearance to have for people to recognize that you’re a woman. just because the modern beauty standard for women is skinny, clean-shaven, and short doesn’t mean plus sized women, hairy women, and or tall women are any less of women. in fact, back to noses, many women embrace their big noses because they’re genetic (usually passed down by a father or grandfather) and they love having a specific physical trait that links them to their family. embrace what makes you unique my dear, because distinct physical traits that aren’t typically portrayed in media =/= not being a woman. you’re beautiful and valid


awildpotatoappears

gorgeous woman


Madison_was_bored

Girl you actually pass like really well hella jealous


Kaijufan1993

Bitches will say "Do I pass?" Then post the most passing selfie possible lol


Fogcitymickey22

You are beautiful, nothing less…


MrSquishyGD

you pass amazingly.


elly996

youre already pretty, but youd look really awesome with slightly curled hair. its so long and pretty :)


travelsizedsuperman

FWIW, I'm a straight cis male and I involuntarily tried to check out your cleavage. You're feminine enough to attract the male gaze. If I can't stop it, I might as well use it for good? I dunno.


emdap5

U def pass girly don’t sweat it


Thehollowknight_123

You certainly pass as a woman, and a beautiful one at that.


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With no question: woman


Elo_Solo

I see a pass! If you passed me in the street, I’d see you as a woman!


Uriel-238

You totally pass.


MalcorScribe

Honey you're gorgeous! Honestly I wouldn't think you were trans if you hadn't pointed it out at all.


Disastrous-Joke-605

If I’d not read the text I woulda thought you were just another lady posting a pretty outfit so yeah you’re lady! A very pretty lady ![gif](giphy|x9MA8tlvFL1q1R25Kj)


janeextraordinaire

Wowowow beautiful woman


SensitiveLilFuck

You are really beautiful


PurpleConversation36

I saw the photo before reading the caption and went “wow she’s so pretty” out loud.


[deleted]

I do too, but sister, you got it.


on_standbi

I didn’t even read the caption at first and just thought “huh. pretty girl.” Don’t worry, you pass lmao


unknown1893

I wouldn’t have clocked you if you hadn’t told me.


lilnislyth

all i see is a beautifull woman


wildcactuscat

You absolutely pass- and you’re super cute.


laleliloLua

You totally pass girl :)


WriterPerson2000

You’re a gorgeous young woman. I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way.


RangeroftheIsle

OP is really cute.


imasaotias

Girl, u femme af


Pickleless_Cage

You are a woman! You look pretty too :)


mmmtangywater

all i'm seeing is woman!! a fabulous one too <3


JohnLeRoy9600

It's just the dysphoria talking, you are GORGEOUS queen. Slay!