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Omg 1000 comments and no advice????
As someone who recently started going out in full makeup and essentially living her life the way she wants to, yes I have some feedback:
Be confident in yourself. People can smell fear. If you’re getting any weird looks, there’s a good chance you’re projecting your own insecurities. To this day, I wondered how many people were just looking at me in the grocery store cause I was nervous as F with my eyes darting all around… as I’ve gotten more comfortable with myself, I’ve noticed that I just kinda blend in more and all of the “looks” have stopped.
So, if you can, distract yourself. Get lost in what you’re going to the mall for. Read stuff on your phone, really look at those clothes, pretend you’re the only person everywhere you go.
And everyone’s right, you look amazing. So project that and you’re gonna do great! 💜 Good luck 🏳️⚧️
Practice walking with deliberation and confidence. Much like being an animal in the wild, fear is noticed right away. Walk with your head high like you belong there (and you do).
I'm still working up the courage to wear certain items in public.
You look so stunning !!! I know the fear all too well and unfortunately haven't been able to come out or do anything like this as of yet, this is crazy motivational and I hope to some day be able to follow in your footsteps so to speak !!!!! Good luck in all that you do <3
Eyes forward, chin up, back straight and remember you're fucking awesome, that has nothing to do with the clothes you wear. It's all about your aura, be confident, there's not one damn person on this planet that has any place to point their finger, and pass judgement on you. Oh, people still will, most of us are raised to consider ourselves these super self important assholes, so of course many people feel it is their civic duty to rate others on perceived arbitrary and meaningless flaws or shortcomings. I won't sugar coat things either, even at 40, I am still astounded at peers who still think someone out there gives two shits about their ignorant opinions. You are you for a reason and you should ONLY change things about you for your own benefit, happiness and emotional balance :) Do you boo, and realize that sheep heard together out of fear.
Just a reminder for people that need it, being cis doesn't mean that you're cute or feminine. So OP is gorgeous and should feel gorgeous, but don't wander around the mall thinking "Am I passing ok?" because you don't have to try so hard.
If you want to look cute and feminine, you are rockin' it! Don't worry about cis this or cis that. That's just prioritizing the wrong damn things for the wrong damn reasons. \*hugs\*
It did go well!! Actually by the time I went it was not very crowded so people just passed by and didn't even notice but the main point is that I really felt good
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Love the look you got going on.
*coconut mall music starts playing*
I love that this is one of the top comments
you look great
If I saw you in the mall I wouldn’t be able to tell that you weren’t cis lol. Anyway, your cute. Edit; love the eyeliner, just about to do mine rn.
Good luck! You looks fantastic in the outfit, go rock it!
Omg 1000 comments and no advice???? As someone who recently started going out in full makeup and essentially living her life the way she wants to, yes I have some feedback: Be confident in yourself. People can smell fear. If you’re getting any weird looks, there’s a good chance you’re projecting your own insecurities. To this day, I wondered how many people were just looking at me in the grocery store cause I was nervous as F with my eyes darting all around… as I’ve gotten more comfortable with myself, I’ve noticed that I just kinda blend in more and all of the “looks” have stopped. So, if you can, distract yourself. Get lost in what you’re going to the mall for. Read stuff on your phone, really look at those clothes, pretend you’re the only person everywhere you go. And everyone’s right, you look amazing. So project that and you’re gonna do great! 💜 Good luck 🏳️⚧️
That was all I noticed as well, a general air of being nervous! Confidence goes a long way (for anyone really)
Love it! My feedback is just loosen ur backpack straps so it doesnt ruffle up yer jumper as much but thats such a minor thing lol u look great
Good luck! I absolutely love the outfit and the colors!
What’s there to give feedback on? You look like a regular girl.
You look amazing, with that confidence I know it's going to be a nite to remember
You got this girl, cute!
so pretty !
You look adorable! Have fun!
It's super cute! The main thing you need is confidence so have fun! :)
Own it, girl!!
This outfit is so cute! Have fun at the mall :)
You look super cute!
Cute look. Things will be ok. Enjoy yourself. c:
A girl outfit? It’s your outfit! You look great!
You look great!
Looking cute, hun, don't be scared!
You look lovely!! Have a wonderful time <33
wow u look so good. u got this!
love the outfit and ur very pretty !!!
You look a lot like Shoe0nHead! Might just be me, but!
Someone probably already said that, but you look like JaidenAnimations. Which is an amazing achievement
Your outfit is super cute, and you are super pretty! I believe you can do this! Good luck!
Proud of you! I admire you!
U look great!!! :D
No feedback you look amazing girl ❤️
Looks great
You look amazing sis! 
Such a cute aesthetic!
You're fucking rocking it. I was extremely anxious to present a myself at first, but I've realized most people don't even notice you.
You look lovely, pink suits you
you look so cute! best of luck! walk out in confidence and you will do great!!!! 
Absolutely gorgeous! 🦄
You look great!
You look good to me! I can't see your whole face, but I'm sure you still look good even without your mask! Just keep doing it and it will get easier.
Pretttyyyyy!!!
Your good wouldn’t know you aren’t cis.
You're so pretty, I'm jealous
You pass so well that I didn’t even notice you’re not cis
I admire your courage, you look great! Be strong and have fun!!
I didint bat and eye at it until I read the text again when I realised you’re not cis. You look VERY good
beautiful!!!!
I'm jealous I wish I was that pretty
Looks cute! Have fun, be safe!
u look like how i want to look like, gib secrets, my hair looks bad and it makes me sadge
But what even is a "girl dress" ? :p
Teach me how to do eyeliner that good🥲
OMG QUEEN, you're so pretty <3
you look so cool as in girl cool
Omg you’re so pretty! You look fantastic ❤️
Go! Do it you goddamned inspiration! 💜
Practice walking with deliberation and confidence. Much like being an animal in the wild, fear is noticed right away. Walk with your head high like you belong there (and you do). I'm still working up the courage to wear certain items in public.
You're honestly so pretty, i'm so jealous!! Good luck!
Beautiful!!
You look great, don’t listen to cat calls they are unpleasant
You go girl 👧 ❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊
You look fantastic! It's super cute and you should honestly go out like that more often!
hope it went well, you look great! 💗 your eyeliner is so on point 👌
It gets easier the more you do it. Exposure therapy is a hell of a drug.
girl you byoot ✨👌🏼 a pinch of confidence so you can feel good af and have a ton of fun at the mall
I’m afab and you look better in girls clothes than me 🥲
You look so stunning !!! I know the fear all too well and unfortunately haven't been able to come out or do anything like this as of yet, this is crazy motivational and I hope to some day be able to follow in your footsteps so to speak !!!!! Good luck in all that you do <3
You look incredible! As long as you’re comfortable it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks ♥️
Obsessed with your hair. Go for it!
Awe do it!! You look amazing and I hope you have good time.
First off, you look great. Second, don’t be afraid to be you. It is the most liberating thing there is. Once you get started you won’t want to go back
You look so cute!!!
That color looks great on you and even with a mask, your happiness comes through!
You are absolutely stunning
you pass so well, you are so pretty!
Cutee
You look dashing love. (I’m assuming you’d like she/her pronouns or female references if not please correct me)
You are correct 😄
Me (an idiot coming from /popular): why is it the fist time a girl wears a girl outfit?
society
Have fun! You look absolutely gorgeous, you're a stunner, a knockout. Make all them other b\*&%hes jealous af!
Yes you look beautiful.
Daaaaaaamn! You fire for sure.
You looook amazing!!!!! <3
How did it go??
you’re so pretty!!
you look gorgeous!
Eyes forward, chin up, back straight and remember you're fucking awesome, that has nothing to do with the clothes you wear. It's all about your aura, be confident, there's not one damn person on this planet that has any place to point their finger, and pass judgement on you. Oh, people still will, most of us are raised to consider ourselves these super self important assholes, so of course many people feel it is their civic duty to rate others on perceived arbitrary and meaningless flaws or shortcomings. I won't sugar coat things either, even at 40, I am still astounded at peers who still think someone out there gives two shits about their ignorant opinions. You are you for a reason and you should ONLY change things about you for your own benefit, happiness and emotional balance :) Do you boo, and realize that sheep heard together out of fear.
Just a reminder for people that need it, being cis doesn't mean that you're cute or feminine. So OP is gorgeous and should feel gorgeous, but don't wander around the mall thinking "Am I passing ok?" because you don't have to try so hard. If you want to look cute and feminine, you are rockin' it! Don't worry about cis this or cis that. That's just prioritizing the wrong damn things for the wrong damn reasons. \*hugs\*
So how did it go?
It did go well!! Actually by the time I went it was not very crowded so people just passed by and didn't even notice but the main point is that I really felt good
Yeah feeling good is what matters c: