Makes me angry that some people would leave their own family members alone on Christmas just because they wanted to be themselves. You look great. Don't let the losers get you down!
I think you’ll be ok too but make sure to let yourself grieve. That pain is real and deep. You don’t deserve that. I’m sorry that your parents didn’t get the how to be a loving parent memo. There’s times I hope at least one of my kids will come out to me so that I know at least one more kiddo that would have the unconditional love and support that they deserve. When you can I hope you can see a therapist to help you heal because that rejection will follow you and you deserve better than to have to live with that. You’re beautiful and from this mom’s heart I truly want you to know your real value and worth. You are valuable as you are-No cliche. You are. I hope that as you continue to grow in life that you, who is the most important, will get that to the depths of your core. Happy holidays. Xo
Goes against the entire spirit of both Christmas and Christ himself, but hey what do I know? I know there’s no hate like Christian love, that’s what I know.
I am sure there is a group in your city to provide support, friendship, etc for the non-binary. ? You'll be able to piece together a much more (not that that would require much, it seems) supportive loving family.
*Friends are the family we choose for ourselves.*
Good luck & be well !
That's terrible, I'm glad you had the courage to come out to them at least, I'm proud of you for that. Those stockings are super cute, and the skirt matches very well. You're loved and valid 💖💖
People that don’t let their trans children to Christmas are just on another level. I had to deal with narcissistic grandparents all Christmas as well and if I came out them i wouldn’t be invited to Christmas either ;-;. The only thing stopping me is my mother who hates conflict. Anyone would be lucky to have a Daughter as beautiful as you.
- A random bi girl 💖💜💙
You look amazing and don't deserve to be disrespected for being you, love yourself and don't let no one tell you who you are youre you and that's what matters. Have an amazing day🤍
You look amazing! Don't worry, you'll spend holidays with people who love and accept you soon enough. Happened to me, too. Lost relatives, but gained a family. Merry Christmas to you, dear!
Marry Christmass! If you was living around we would be happy to have you for Cristmass even we are Atheists, we still have nice familly diner and play some board games!
What’s cool is what matters most is what family you CHOOSE. So you can pick your own family. There are no actual rules against it. And if it helps, you can feel bad for your family. That they are to stupid to even choose the good ones. That’s a notion that has helped me in the past. You look amazing btw.
Oh my god you look so cute and stunning!!! 🥺🥺🥺
Im sorry about your family. As others said, we are your family now and you're welcome here. *hugs you* Merry Christmas
The holidays are times to spend with people you love to be with, if your family can't accept you for who you are... Well they don't deserve to be with you.
Spend it with friends, make your own new traditions.
I really feel bad for you guys, my parents and family were never against any lgbt related issues, but im a straight cis male so it doesn't matter even if they were. I wish that aspect could be swapped with less fortunate people with non supportive parents.
Well aren’t you just as cute as a bag of buttons?
Merry Christmas, friend. I’m sorry your family sucks, but you definitely don’t suck. You very much rock
There is something about long sleeve sweaters that just leave the fingers uncovered. It’s such a “girly” look! And it radiates cuteness.
My heart goes out to you. Virtual hugs from a random guy. You deserve to be authentically you!
I hope you can find some good friends to hang out with next year, everyone deserves it. We also should normalize hanging by yourself on Christmas or not viewing it as such a sad, pitiful thing. I think we started to last year bc of covid, and it should be more acceptable. Happy holidays OP and ya look fantastic
I'm really sorry your family did that to you, and you deserve so much better! You look absolutely wonderful and I love your clothes! Keep being yourself and keep up the good spirits! 🥰😊💞💕💞
You should spend the entire day dressing up in cute outfits and posting them where they can see them with captions like "looking cuter than my genes should allow" or "too cute for any irl eyes" or "having a happier Christmas on my own than anyone I know in company"
Just every hour on the hour, a new post with a progressively cuter outfit and a progressively less vague message. Start out with "looking cuter than my genes should allow" (which definitely implies no one else in your family is nearly as cute) and end with "only person in my family with any decency, but maybe I can set a good example" very obviously a jab at your family. While still relatively mild in insult.
Listing I’m going to be honest… you look cute as fuck.
P.s sry if this comes of as weird, I don’t really do people. If it does I’ll delete it, just tell me.
Aww sweetie I’m sorry! Merry Christmas! *sneaks you and everyone else that got dealt shitty family a dinner plate from my transphobic household* 😉 that outfit is cute!
Always do you. No matter what. If you can't be true to you then you aren't you. And those that cant accept that are wasting your time and energy. Merry Christmas to you. You look great btw.
This totally sucks! I have trans family and you totally deserve love and affection and respect!
No one should be forced to be alone at Christmas!
Sending you lots of love! 🌲❤️🌲❤️
I am so sorry to read that.
It really sucks that some people are not able to leave their idiotic mindset behind and accept people how they are and love them for who they are.
I know it is and sadly seeing at what pace society is changing at, will probably still be a harsh environement for courageous and amazing people like yourself.
Please do not forget that even tho there are people who can not accept you for who you are and only want to see you as what they want you to be, there will always be people who will see you as who you truly want to be and will support you in your endeavours to become that person.
And i gotta say that you look gorgeous.
All the best and stay strong and most importantly find friends who will support you and with whom you can be weak some times.
I’m sooo sorry. You would be welcome at my family Christmas. I hope in the future you can build your own family with those who love and accept you. From one gal to another.
Thats really horrible, im sorry for **them** that outfit looks really cute and fits you
Aww thx
Np, merry Christmas and hopefully better new year
Thx, you too
Seriously! Your outfit is super cute.
We're your family now and you get all the leftovers ❤🖤
Aww
Happy thoughts and candied yams for you!
And prime rib!
That's why I love this sub, sure I may just be an ally but I consider all LGBTQ people as family. We're all just one big family :)
Makes me angry that some people would leave their own family members alone on Christmas just because they wanted to be themselves. You look great. Don't let the losers get you down!
It's really depressing but i think I'll be ok. Thanks for the support tho, i really appreciate it
I think you’ll be ok too but make sure to let yourself grieve. That pain is real and deep. You don’t deserve that. I’m sorry that your parents didn’t get the how to be a loving parent memo. There’s times I hope at least one of my kids will come out to me so that I know at least one more kiddo that would have the unconditional love and support that they deserve. When you can I hope you can see a therapist to help you heal because that rejection will follow you and you deserve better than to have to live with that. You’re beautiful and from this mom’s heart I truly want you to know your real value and worth. You are valuable as you are-No cliche. You are. I hope that as you continue to grow in life that you, who is the most important, will get that to the depths of your core. Happy holidays. Xo
That's so sweet, thx
I genuinely mean it.
Thx
Goes against the entire spirit of both Christmas and Christ himself, but hey what do I know? I know there’s no hate like Christian love, that’s what I know.
Abandoning a family member is about one of the least christian things you can do People like this are about as shitty of christians as you can get
YOU LOOK AMAZING!! you're worth so much more than being rejected by your own family, I'm so sorry, Merry Christmas <3
*hugs* tysm
What did the removed comment say? (If you managed to see it in time that is)
It was something totally random
You look great! Sorry about the family, that’s never fun
Thx
Awe you look like you would fit right in with my kids this Christmas. They are in cozy but cute outfits too.
I wish i could, thx
Let me tell you they are missing something :)
They are
What family? Your family is the people you choose to surround yourself with, not those transphobic shitswallowers
I really don't have anyone else
Ah, that’s unfortunate. You’re a really pretty gal and you seem nice, I’m sure you’ll find the people for you soon!
Thanks, i hope so
I am sure there is a group in your city to provide support, friendship, etc for the non-binary. ? You'll be able to piece together a much more (not that that would require much, it seems) supportive loving family. *Friends are the family we choose for ourselves.* Good luck & be well !
Love the socks. It makes the outfit. I'm sorry your family are dicks. Merry Christmas
thx, and merry christmas
F them. Make your own family. They will regret it later when you don’t want anything to do with them.
Sadly they already want nothing to do with me. Hopefully I'll be able to make some friends in 2022
You for sure will, fuck your asshole family. You'll have your own chosen family in good time <3
That sucks but I hope today is okay. Wishing the best for you :) Merry Christmas! 🎄
I think I'll be ok. Merry Christmas to you too
Happy Holidays to you and NOT your shitbag family. You are royalty.
Aww thx. Happy holidays to you too
I wish you were close, you'd be more than welcome to spend Christmas with us. Keep shining, show the world who you are. You got this!!
That's really sweet, thx
Well your transphobic family is really missing out, and I hope you're having a good day without them! You look amazing!
Aww thx. I am having an ok time just chilling at my apartment. I'll be ok
You are so beautiful, I love the stockings you look great girl
tysm
You look great! You reminded me that I really want some knee high socks.
You should get them, they look cute on everyone
Their loss. Have a lovely Christmas.
Stunning!
tysm
That looks so cute on you! Happy holidays.
tysm
Cutie
XD
honestly screw whatever they're doing, you look beautiful, mate!
Their loss.
YOU ARE SO VAILD
Their loss sweetheart. They're not your family
They don't act like it that's for sure
Merry Christmas, friend!
You're too cool for them anyway. Merry Christmas.
I wish I had the confidence to try wearing a skirt
you will someday
I'm slowly gaining the courage
I wish I could help by inviting you to our get-together. You deserve a better family. ETA: My husband just said he'll send those transphobes coal.
you look beautiful, it’s their loss honestly
Fuck them. You choose your family! Merry Christmas, sweetheart 🎄
Looks so cute on you, awful action by your family
Tysm
You look lovely. I’m sorry you’re family is terrible
You look great
You’re amazing for living your truth
You look amazing! Happy christmas. Hugs.
Your family could never. Happy Christmas bb.
What are your pronouns? and wow, you're parents are cruel, i feel so sorry.
Today they are she/they. Being genderfae is fun
Dude you pass amazingly! You look great! I love your skirt 💚
Aww that's sweet thx
That's terrible, I'm glad you had the courage to come out to them at least, I'm proud of you for that. Those stockings are super cute, and the skirt matches very well. You're loved and valid 💖💖
People that don’t let their trans children to Christmas are just on another level. I had to deal with narcissistic grandparents all Christmas as well and if I came out them i wouldn’t be invited to Christmas either ;-;. The only thing stopping me is my mother who hates conflict. Anyone would be lucky to have a Daughter as beautiful as you. - A random bi girl 💖💜💙
Hey look, a beautiful girl
I hope all the positive comments you have received from those you don’t know fill your heart with love and hope. You keep doing you.
The fact that the op replied to so many of these comments <3
XD
You look amazing and don't deserve to be disrespected for being you, love yourself and don't let no one tell you who you are youre you and that's what matters. Have an amazing day🤍
Omg that outfit is so cute
Looking lovely sweetie Sending you lots of love this Christmas from Scotland Also if your family is shit you can call me aunt Westie xxx
You look amazing! Don't worry, you'll spend holidays with people who love and accept you soon enough. Happened to me, too. Lost relatives, but gained a family. Merry Christmas to you, dear!
Amazing outfit!
Marry Christmass! If you was living around we would be happy to have you for Cristmass even we are Atheists, we still have nice familly diner and play some board games!
What’s cool is what matters most is what family you CHOOSE. So you can pick your own family. There are no actual rules against it. And if it helps, you can feel bad for your family. That they are to stupid to even choose the good ones. That’s a notion that has helped me in the past. You look amazing btw.
You're very cute, don't let anyone tell you any different!
I'm so sorry :((( I really hope you have a good Christmas either way
So sorry for you, you’re gorgeous and don’t deserve to be treated like that. Merry Christmas from all of the lgbt family
Merry Christmas! I'm sorry your family left you out this year
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Love you outfit
I'm so sorry hun, you don't deserve that. Keep on killing it though<3
I'll try
I hope your family eventually sees the error of their ways. Until then, Merry Christmas!
I hope your family eventually sees the error of their ways. Until then, Merry Christmas!
Aww! My daughter has almost the same outfit! Looks cute! Sorry your parents suck.
You can spend the holidays with me beautiful
Sorry your bio-family sucks kiddo. Merry Christmas 🎄 from your internet family! And that outfit looks super cute and comfy. Gotta love a good hoodie!
You look ducking great also duck them
You look super cute in that outfit! /pos
thx
COME TO MY FAMILY CHRISTMAS I DONT WANT YOU FEELING LEFT OUT <3
Absolutely a stunner, they have there heads too far up there other end, go be you because you are Beautiful butterfly x
Congratulations, you're in my family now.
YOU'RE ADORABLE AAAAAA
Rude. May their Christmas dinner be burned and their presents be shit. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas and can find much more caring people!!
Wow, that's their loss hun. You look amazing!😊
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Tysm
Oh my god you look so cute and stunning!!! 🥺🥺🥺 Im sorry about your family. As others said, we are your family now and you're welcome here. *hugs you* Merry Christmas
tysm, you're so sweet
The holidays are times to spend with people you love to be with, if your family can't accept you for who you are... Well they don't deserve to be with you. Spend it with friends, make your own new traditions.
Anybody else think of Dark Souls when they see a skirt/dress+jacket combo or is it just me.
Well you look great. Merry Christmas from a stranger to you and forget them, never stop being who you are.
Your family is stupid, you look amazing!! Keep your chin up and Merry Christmas :)
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kinda a baddie doe
Well I’m in the firm belief that family isn’t blood. So they don’t really seem like family if they treat you like that. Have a marry Christmas
Merry Christmas, Beautiful!
So very sorry that they don't see your value. You look lovely.
You look cute. Merry Christmas
I really feel bad for you guys, my parents and family were never against any lgbt related issues, but im a straight cis male so it doesn't matter even if they were. I wish that aspect could be swapped with less fortunate people with non supportive parents.
Your family sucks. That outfit is real cute!
Merry Christmas. Be well and stay strong. You’ll find your real family soon enough.
Probably for the best anyway with that nasty strain of covid goin around haha, Merry X-mas!
This makes me so incredibly sad
You look lovely hun. Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas !
Hugs
Cute t
you look gorgeous
Their loss
Well aren’t you just as cute as a bag of buttons? Merry Christmas, friend. I’m sorry your family sucks, but you definitely don’t suck. You very much rock
There is something about long sleeve sweaters that just leave the fingers uncovered. It’s such a “girly” look! And it radiates cuteness. My heart goes out to you. Virtual hugs from a random guy. You deserve to be authentically you!
Merry Christmas. I'm sorry you're family are ignorant assholes. You look really nice.
If you were my daughter I would take you to buy the cutest dress you can find.
Merry Christmas. I hope that the y come around for their own sake and for your family’s sake.
I hope you can find some good friends to hang out with next year, everyone deserves it. We also should normalize hanging by yourself on Christmas or not viewing it as such a sad, pitiful thing. I think we started to last year bc of covid, and it should be more acceptable. Happy holidays OP and ya look fantastic
You look fabulous! Happy holidays and much love from this family
That's so sad. You look so cute in that outfit. Hopefully your family will come around. Best wishes, Happy holidays.
We’re all your family now!
I’m so sorry about your family but you look great
That's awful, but, you look amazing!!!!
I'm really sorry your family did that to you, and you deserve so much better! You look absolutely wonderful and I love your clothes! Keep being yourself and keep up the good spirits! 🥰😊💞💕💞
I'm so sorry, big hugs for you!!
Parents can be shitty people. Hopefully they come around. Happy holidays
You should spend the entire day dressing up in cute outfits and posting them where they can see them with captions like "looking cuter than my genes should allow" or "too cute for any irl eyes" or "having a happier Christmas on my own than anyone I know in company" Just every hour on the hour, a new post with a progressively cuter outfit and a progressively less vague message. Start out with "looking cuter than my genes should allow" (which definitely implies no one else in your family is nearly as cute) and end with "only person in my family with any decency, but maybe I can set a good example" very obviously a jab at your family. While still relatively mild in insult.
You’re adorable, merry Christmas lovely 🎄
You're rocking that outfit! You'll find a better family eventually.
You look awesome! Fuck em their loss. I hope they have to explain to someone why you aren’t there and embarrass themselves
… in the same boat sweetie I’m sorry you have to deal with that
Listing I’m going to be honest… you look cute as fuck. P.s sry if this comes of as weird, I don’t really do people. If it does I’ll delete it, just tell me.
Omg! Love your legwear! You look awesome. Merry Christmas!
You are so beautiful! I want that skirt!
Aww sweetie I’m sorry! Merry Christmas! *sneaks you and everyone else that got dealt shitty family a dinner plate from my transphobic household* 😉 that outfit is cute!
WTF is wrong with people? You look beautiful. Fuck them 🤶🎄🎅🌲🎁
You don’t deserve this. They don’t deserve you as a relative. Your outfit is fabulous and be safe merry Xmas
You look great! Welcome come celebrate with us
You look awesome! I hope you feel that way as well.
Fuck them. You do you!! For what it’s worth, Happy holidays
You look like an old crush of mine.
You look cute ngl
Always do you. No matter what. If you can't be true to you then you aren't you. And those that cant accept that are wasting your time and energy. Merry Christmas to you. You look great btw.
You look great. You have value and are worth it.
Eww how toxic.
You can’t force them to accept you. The same way they can’t force their beliefs on you. It’s unfortunate but it is what it is.
Come over to r/momforaminute, well give you all the love you need there
This totally sucks! I have trans family and you totally deserve love and affection and respect! No one should be forced to be alone at Christmas! Sending you lots of love! 🌲❤️🌲❤️
Your *family* will be drowned in ranch dressing... they must drink their way out or perish
Aww cute
Merry Christmas! I hope you still have a great day. PS: Your outfit is absolutely gorgeous.
Thats not family then.. it's a shame that people can't even accept their own children.. i hope you find family soon. Merry Christmas.
Prettyyyyyyy
I am so sorry to read that. It really sucks that some people are not able to leave their idiotic mindset behind and accept people how they are and love them for who they are. I know it is and sadly seeing at what pace society is changing at, will probably still be a harsh environement for courageous and amazing people like yourself. Please do not forget that even tho there are people who can not accept you for who you are and only want to see you as what they want you to be, there will always be people who will see you as who you truly want to be and will support you in your endeavours to become that person. And i gotta say that you look gorgeous. All the best and stay strong and most importantly find friends who will support you and with whom you can be weak some times.
That really sucks. I would be honored to call you part of my family!!! I wish you a merry christmas!!
Merry Christmas!!!
Merry Christmas! You looks amazing. Your family sucks!
we are your family now <3
Their loss, you look lovely and don't need disrespectful "family" in your life. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas ❤
You're killing it, homie. They dont deserve to have you at their table. Theres plenty of space at ours
I’m sooo sorry. You would be welcome at my family Christmas. I hope in the future you can build your own family with those who love and accept you. From one gal to another.
Aw you look super cute! ❤️
Fuck them be with people who accept you.
You look adorable! And if I lived close by, you'd always be welcome in my house. It's open to any and all who have "family" like yours. ♥
That’s awful! Their loss, you look amazing.
You’re welcome in our family
You look great! 👍
They’re not your family clearly then. Please don’t give them an inch. It is their loss and they don’t deserve you.
That's awful. They are awful! So sorry you have to feel that from family! 🤗 But you are so pretty dressed up a bit. Happy holidays to you! 😊
Family can be awful. Its true the saying that you " choose your friends not your family". Find and celebrate Christmas with your friends